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“From flirt to up her skirt[Alpha-Male Style]”
The hot- Kim Kardash’ letting it all hang out covertly for the Alpha-male to take flirt- advantage
Hey guys this time round,I’m going to get into the subject of Flirting and transferring that to actual intercourse.
So from talking the talk, to actually walking the walk!
It’s not as hard as some may think, but not as easy as some brag.
Just takes mastering, and most situations are the same and require similar techniques.
Women love a flirt!!
It makes them feel great but we want to take it that step further; getting down and dirty!
First you’ve got to be in the right situation.
If the woman you want to shag is in a good mood,your chances are already high especially if she’s into you.
Women also get very jealous; very easily,and often try to win us men over(especially if she thinks there is competition for you).
Many times we don’t see things like that.
Another piece of key information I found out was:
If a girl’s stressed, it can significantly increase libido levels: resulting in her wanting to open those legs for you.
There is no stress relief better than sex[one of the perfect actions of life that makes one forget everything in that moment].
Also,many guys favourite scenario:
They’re gaming at night,having a few drinks…getting tipsy can create that extra confidence and creativeness from inside.
Women love a guy that oozes confidence.
Someone who shows that they have a strong pair of balls without intercourse.
Again, alcohol can do this for some who may be shy or non confident.
Get the girl her favourite drinks or a special cocktail, have a little grind and watch the sexual tension sky rocket!
A general route to a woman’s heart is to humour her.
We all know this!But sometimes let it slip.
Humouring her with knowing how to approach different scenarios will get you where you want to be.
In every given situation,you want to use KINO(touching):
Touch her hair,
Play a few tricks,
Neg her(make her qualify).
Just show her you’re an Alpha Male- not another AFC (Average Frustrated Chump).
Get her thinking along the lines of, “Am I good enough?Can I get him?”
This is all a form of reverse psychology.They do it to men.
I’ve seen it minute by minute when out and about; play them at their own game.
I’m going to list some rules that most guys will know but never hurt reading up on time after time:
Learn the secret language of manhood!(Become independent, strong and on your own path, don’t try and imitate others).
Become a ‘certain’ person (people like certainty, if you can communicate it and provide it, you’ll be more attractive. If you can’t,it’s game over. If women think secretly you’re a wuss ,that you’re only acting cool but underneath you’re a clingy, in-secure guy waiting to smother them- they will bail:and bail fast!)
The more personal you are, the more universal you’re seen (Don’t be hung up on your hang ups).
Stop reliving your emotional past (Becoming Alpha is about living for now and breaking old connections. Live for the moment and future whilst taking each situation for what it’s worth).
An Alpha man has plans ahead ( An Alpha male has the ability to think for the future and the ability to work through various situations with discipline, instead of guessing or wishing for luck).
Those are some of my personal rules,and were what I strove to achieve on a personal level.
Most important thing you can do right now to attract women fast is to commit to doing whatever it takes to become the kind of guy who naturally attracts women.
Take the time to learn from guys who are great with women.
Iron out the “quirks” in your personality, and continue moving forward until you reach that goal.
Success breeds more success!!
When we achieve something;we want more.The best thing about wanting to become an Alpha male is that you don’t have to wait until you’ve perfected yourself to get rewarded.
Until next time, enjoy!
Chelios…
Test Your Observational Skills:Can you spot the guy who has attractive body language…and why?
#1
Guy with fingers clasped and legs tightly together.
#2
Hands in pockets,gazing downwards.
#3
Leaning back on the counter,arms wide apart.
#4
Guy minding his own business.
The “Occupy Valentine’s Day” Movement.
Fellow-Manosphere blogger, The Private Man,had actually gotten the ball rolling first with his post[Occupy Valentines Day].So it’s only right that I perpetuate the message.
So-we’ve had “Occupy Wall Street,Occupy Seattle,Occupy Oakland,Occupy Main,Occupy SOPA(those MOFOs who’re trying to censor the net)…we’ve had all kinds of “occupy movements” as of late.But the Manosphere & The Pick-Up Community are revving this shit up a notch LMAO!!
Betas; move the fuck over to the side!!
Men with “Game”,and pick-up artists,are quite friggin’ disgusted that it’s 2012,and there are still men out there(or wannabe-men)looking forward to Valentine’s Day with hearts,chocolates and roses on their agendas[SMDH].
Please do us real men a favor and Kill ya’llselves!!Ok,that might’ve been a tad drastic:well-slap ya’llselves then!!
Beta-Males have been fucking it up for Alpha-Males way too long.I’ll be damned if my GF approaches me expecting new lingeries,matching bra-panties,an expensive box of chocolates,roses…and to top it off:a romantic night on the town[NOOOO!!!!]!
*Let me make this clear:There’s nothing wrong with treating your woman/GF/wife to nice things(if she’s deserving).
The problem comes in where you have PUSSIES,BETAS,SIMPS,TRICKS,and NICE-GUYS buying girls shit for Valentine’s,when they haven’t even sampled the “ pink flesh” as yet LMAO!
We real men(Alpha’s),have to get serious, to start setting a new policy when it comes to what we SHOULD and should NOT do for Valentine’s.
If the Betas and wussy-nice guys won’t get on board:let’s throw them all in the fucking river to drown!!!
Any guy who spends a red centavo[this Valentine's] on a chic whom he hasn’t banged yet:he should be castrated and burned at the stake for committing treason against the United Manosphere.
Viva el Alpha male!!
Death to St.Valentine and his money-making day!
Fuck Cupid up the ass with the bow and arrow!
Have the gall and balls to occupy Valentine’s Day guys!Get the hell off the couch,put down that bag of potato chips,call your buddies and inform them of the lock-out!Grab your banners and placards,head to your nearest town square,mall or Victoria Secret,and let’s chant:”We Won’t Spend!!We Won’t Spend!!We Won’t Spend!!!
Notice:For those who wanna grow some balls and sign up,feel free to contact one of the following Alphas:RooshV,The Private Man,Soloist ,Alpha Persona,Donlak,Jordan,Krauser PUA,Bronan,Alpha Wolf,Blaze,Justin PUA,Roissy,Reema,Danny from 504…
Or dial 1-800 Alphamen.
BTW,my fellow pick-up artist from Seaside Heights(Jersey Shore), Jersey Boy PUA ,writes a lot about romance with an alpha touch[doesn't know if he still updates his blog though].
Jersey Boy PUA making it happen.  |
Jersey Boy PUA at PUA Summit.  |
“Don’t Be A Pussy”;book by Chris Miller.
A nice kick-ass paperback book from Hollywood,California’s own dating coach Chris Miller.
My order of the book is currently in process so I’m anxious as hell to get my copy.
Chris and I have been Facebook friends for a while now,so it’s a must that I plug his renown book for my readers.
Overview
The book is basically a “Player’s Guide” to relationship management, instilling in guys the mindset that “you shouldn’t be afraid to approach hot women”:hence the title,“Don’t be a pussy”.
Also 69 of the Most basic questions and answers about the process of meeting women, dating women, serious relationships and becoming an Alpha Male. If there’s one thing all men have in common; it’s the desire to meet, date, and start relationships with women.
You can purchase the paperback book from one of the following links:Amazon.com,Powell’s Books ,Angus Robertson.com,and Barnes & Noble.
Get her to do anything you want sexually
Fore-Note:if you’re planning on doing this with a girl with a girl you’ve already been banging-then this post is not for you!
*If you laid her more than twice,this is not for you.
*If the flames went out(between y’all)-read no further.
*If you’re planning on doing this with your GF:read no further ’cause it will not work.Get it brodie?
I’ll explain why later.
Ok,for those of us who’ve been studying social dynamics and game,it should be common knowledge already,that when seducing a girl,there’s a window of opportunity/chance,where the guy must act before that windows is slammed shut!Which means:no booty for you lol.
I’m taking it a step further to say,there’s a window of opportunity to make ALL your wildest/dirtiest fantasies with a girl materialize.I mean every!No matter how pristine or stuck-up the chic.She will defy all moral standards she held prior to meeting you!From classy to trashy!
This the type of shit that could possibly land me behind bars LMAO!
If you don’t notice this opportunity,you will lose out,and most likely have to settle for normal sex!If normal,boring sex is your thing-then read no further!
So,the best time to introduce your fantasies and get her to do anything you want sexually, is before you have sex with her(for the first time).
You MUST do this on a high note.Meaning:when the girl is totally into you and DTF.
The girl MUST be feeling you in order to pull this off.
Introducing fantasies:
We all have fantasies.Some already fulfilled,some not,some we may wish to relive.
Let’s say you meet the girl in any standard way:street pick up,online,club,bar,wherever!Y’all hit it off,exchange #’s,transition to phone game in order to set up a date or meet-up.
We can assume this girl is obviously into you if she’s willing to meet up.
At some point(before actually setting up a meet or lay),yall should’ve already had some sexual chat about your fantasies,etc.So you’re letting her know what you’re into sexually.So it won’t startle her later.
It’s not a perquisite nor must that she even knows your fantasies and sexual desires with her.
This is where guys go wrong.They end up banging the chic more than once,then weeks or months down the line(while dealing with her),he wants to introduce fantasies and all types of wild shit!
That will not work!It wouldve been too late.That window of opportunity has closed!
Intense feelings would’ve developed whereas she sees you as a possible boyfriend.
You wanna introduce wild things BEFORE she starts to see you as a possible boyfriend.Which is prior to sex or perhaps after laying her once.
Telling her about a 3-some, 3 months down the line after laying her 10 times already would get you no where but an uphill battle.She would be offended at that point.
Story of an HB9 Fuck-Buddy
Few years ago,I met this hot chic on Tagged(the top social network before Facebook was created).At that point,I was oblivious to this concept of mines.It all occured to me by chance(which just winging it).
We hit it off,I set a sexual frame[opposed to a GF-BF frame which most guys do and fuck up their chances.As my fellow blogger Reema would say,"cock block himself"].She knew I was only tryna bang her:not wife it up!
Before we actually met up,during our chats,I let he know that I’m into 3-somes(which I wasn’t.But just testing the waters).
As predicted,she said she never done it and isn’t into that lol!
However,I had the fucking keys to getting her to do anything!
Remember:I didn’t have prior knowledge of this.I was totally winging the shit off GP!Looking back,it’s as if I was possessed by a fucking sage or mind-reader LMAO!!!
*That key which I had to enable me to do anything sexually with her was her own interest in me.She was into me!
Another powerful subconscious note here is that:She wanted to please me.She wanted to be accepted by me.She seen me as having value/an alpha!
If I’d came off as a weak-beta male,this would not be possible.She would not have even given me the time of day to begin with!
Women are hardwired to please alphas!They cannot help it!
So I was the alpha she had to win over by entertaining my every desire.Whatever it may be!
This shit is so powerful that if I’d asked her to rob a bank for me,she would’ve been down as fuck lol!Skies the limit when you have a girl in such a state and this point.
*So the 2 keys to making this happen is:1)She must be into you.
2)She must see you as alpha(allowing her to want to accept her).
Anyway,the groundwork was set.Hardest part completed(which was just to attract her as any PUA would).
So,this girl didn’t wanna do a thing that would possibly turn me off or cause me to lose interest.
It wasn’t the promise of sex that had her in such state.She’s a fucking woman!She can get sex any day of the week!
It was the fact that I attracted her via alpha routines which she probably never felt in her life before.
So,armed with this knowledge(which I didn’t know at that time lol),a devious side of me kicked in where I had all types of wild fantasies I wanted to try with this chic.And I’m not talking about voyeur and outdoor sex neither[boring]!
I said to her, “I wanna have a 3-some,but not the traditional 2 girl 1 guy.I have a buddy who I’d showed a pic’ of you and he said you’re very sexy.I was imagining both of us fucking the shit out of you taking turns on you.
That’s it!.No elaboration,no explanation,no long story.Plant the seed and idea and let it fester.Later on,she would actually believe that this was her idea.This is classic NLP shit(neuro-linguistic programming)which we learn in the pick-up community.So I was actually using NLP on her before I even read about NLP in pick-up[wow-that's Jedi-stuff there].
This is what separates the pick-up artist from the average guy or player, who doesnt have a system or pattern which he can analyze.
Key Note:Do not heg her about it!That would only make her feel slutty which would activate her ASD,which would make her regret such thoughts thus despise you.So just let it be known briefly,then drop it!She will remember and will be opened to it when the time comes.
As I stated before,you really don’t have to tell her anything.But The innate nice-guy in me compelled me to telling her my intentions beforehand.
Long story short[to spare the details],we end up having a mini-orgy with 3 of us guys banging her.As we’d say back in the 1990′s in NY:”we ran a train on her”.
And to the man-hating feminists:please save the drama.This was not rape of any sort.Purely consensual.Yes,she did it in order to be accepted to my proverbial alphadom.Nevertheless,she wanted it too.
But that was just the tip of the iceberg with her.The type of shit I did with her sexually,I don’t think I have the balls to write it!I went all the F out!Nothing detrimental to her health.
To this day we still keep in touch and that was like 3 years ago.I hope she doesn’t peep this since she’s a Facebook friend of mine!!
CONCLUSION
I honestly felt manipulative.Not then.But when I look back in retrospect,I feel somewhat as though I was doing a wrong.No bullshit guys:I truly feel that way.
To this day,I’ve only truly done that routine to 2 chics.Same results with the other girl.I exploited her high interest in me by having her do things(sexually)that she most likely was against or never done.
Oh before I end,this is why this routine CANNOT be done with a girlfriend nor a girl you’ve been seeing or fucking.
Same way you cannot say to your GF,”Hey babes I wanna have a menage-tois and blaze you and your bestie Angie at the same time” lol.You would’ve gotten smacked,kicked out then dumped!
Once a girl has strong feelings for you.Not sexual feeling but romantic feelings where she’s envisioning y’all as a couple going steady.Once she has that idea of a boyfriend-GF thing in her head,it’s a wrap!Chances of fantasies such as 3-somes are done!
The only how those things could be done realistically is if she’s the one with those fantasies-or mutually.
So this is why it’s KEY to do this framing and routine before you sleep with her.Before she gets attached bodily.Sex most times always leads to a relationship,or at least gives the girl the impression that if you sleep with her,that means you would be with her.Once she thinks you wanna be her BF,it’s a wrap in getting her to do anything for you[be it monetary,sexually or whatever].
And this isn’t something that only happens to LSE chic(low self-esteemers). Any and every woman is liable of being manipulated,swindled and led astray[not that this' what this is].
This is almost relative to the Jedi-mind stuff that pimps use on their hoes.He doesn’t hook the potential-sex worker via sex.But with some heavy NLP.
I’m curious to know if any other guy or gal out there is familiar with this concept and method I shared.
Managing A Relationship Like An Alpha Male
Hey guys, I go by the name of Chelios (23 years old from London, UK), a former PUA(Pick-Up Artist) of around 4/5 years.
I was introduced to the world of PUA’s from one of my uncles, a legend in my eyes, (whom I cannot name at this time) I have witnessed great game from him. I was put forward into “gaming” when one of my ex girlfriends dumped me who I was “In love with” and was sopping for weeks and even months.One day my uncle had enough!He gave me a copy of “The Game” and said “Read this and you’ll see”’(At this point I was shocked, I’m not a big reader).A few weeks down the line, I was bored and upset, still thinking about “what if I did this, what if I did that?” (regarding my ex) so I decided then picked up my copy of ‘The Game‘ by Mr. Strauss, I never thought that was the beginning of the end for my whining and moaning like a little 5 year old girl.
I look back now and laugh. I wasn’t in Love. I just loved and enjoyed certain things, which I then learnt I could have so much more and achieve something that I want- and now I have that.
I’ve got to be honest, I have had many highs and just as many lows in the last 5 years:a whole heap of rejections as well as success stories. Most people know but I wish to reiterate the ART and road to succeed in Pickup is trial and error. There really is no perfect PUA. We all have our own ways, our own rules. Make your own rules, abide by whatever works for you. I’ve been speaking to my good friend Kenny for a while about a write up.So now I thought I’d share some of my insight on LTR’s(Long-Term Relationships),seen as I’ve been in one now for sometime and starting a family in the near future.
My first post for Kenny’s blog is just a bit about me and a small chunk of my opinions of how to maintain an LTR, how to increase the chances of an LTR occurring with someone your fond of and into.
What makes us want an LTR? Is it boredom? Isit the thought of regular sex or maybe the comfort and maybe the fear of being alone? I think it’s a mix in most case’s’ and there is nothing wrong with that.
First the key to a relationship becoming serious and long term is to take things slowly, live your life as normal and not be clingy.Nobody wants to feel like they have vermin around them or a stalker 24/7 or thereabouts. Absence makes the heart grow fonder[ that old saying is so true].When we are away from something we enjoy/like/love…the longer that goes by, the more we will enjoy and cherish it next time. It may seem a small thing, but it’s often a school boy error in pua to always want to be around a girl non stop of whom we are feeling, enjoy now but think of the tomorrow and the day after too.
Assess what is OK and what is not OK in your eyes for a relationship. I.e, what you wont accept, what you will, what you want from your woman, the direction you see your future heading in. Your desires will then either bring you together or push you apart, which will be for the best under either circumstance.
Maintain your own life :
Remember when you attract someone, and when they’re attracted to you, you are your own person.So it’s fundamentally important you maintain that, and keep in mind the qualities and actions that brought you together.
Remember the do’s and dont’s .What you can do, what she can do, what is fair, remember compromise, don’t give in to everything. A woman will seriously push and test you (Shit test), especially early on and as the relationship progresses. Just keep a cool and well balanced head.Don’t lose it!Patience is a virtue. If women see themselves getting to you, they will keep pushing your buttons.
For example:
“I’m going out with my friends tonight!” – without asking me to go with her.
She’s receiving SMS messages and doesn’t tell me who text her and stuff.
Remain like a ghost – act like you don’t really care, but maybe in some people’s eyes this isn’t the right decision, but It does work, you’ll then see if she carries on.
I know it’s not too in depth, but I hope some of you have enjoyed this post. I will be posting more in the future.
Feel free to ask any questions and follow me on twitter if you wish @crazy_gooner
Thanks for reading. Much appreciated!
Chelios
Be a risk taker you pussies!!
I know the title is like BAM!All in your face!!That was my intention:to spark some life into the pussies and nice guys out there who keep failing with women because of 1 crucial handicap:the fear of taking risks.
Every guy wants the girl[at least he convinces himself that he does].But not every guy is willing to take action into getting the girl.
Classic example of a non-risk taker:
*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.
*Joe Blow aka Mr.Non-Risk Taker hasn’t even approached a single girl the entire night.
*He sees an HB and decides to approach her[with the assistance of some alcohol courage of course].
*The vibes and chat go reasonably well.
*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.
Note:This is the moment which separates men from boys,wussies from alphas…
*However,Joe Blow aka non-risk taker,doesn’t seize the moment and opportunity to get the girl,so he lets her leave without trying to further the interaction or venue changing.
Classic example of the Risk-Taker
Let’s take a look at the same situation and how a risk-taker handles it:
*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.
*Mr.Risk-Taker hasn’t approached a single girl the entire night.
*He sees an HB and decides to approach her.
*The vibes an chat go reasonably well.
*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.
The key difference:
The risk-taker knows she’s up for something more,so he continues chatting,not giving a shit about social norms,he pushes forth,essentially taking risks by employing KINO(appropriate touches).
He takes more risks and chances by suggesting that he and the girl go to a more intimate niche in the venue.So he takes her by the hand and lead her to a more secluded spot in club X.
He takes more risks by going for the make out.
The girl pushes back as if she isn’t ready.But it doesn’t matter that she’s pushing and pulling.He’s shown willingness and balls to plow forward and take chances.
If all goes accordingly,they would’ve wrapped up the night(or morning) in each others’ arms at his spot.
Note:
The above 2 Scenarios were common examples which highlight the abstract differences between a guy who’s unwilling to take chances,And the guy who DOES take chances.
It’s common sense and sheer numbers that the guy who takes more chances gets more girls,thus more lays.
Sometimes you have to trod the road of seeming insane:
Let me further explain what I mean by the above.
When trying to pick up girls,guys get the false notion that it MUST and SHOULD be a smooth process which makes you look safe,cool and unphased.
Couldn’t be further from the truth!
There come situations where you have to almost sell out in order to get the girl.
Waiting for the perfect moment,perfect line,perfect opener and perfect time would be a regressive move on the guy’s part.
Perfect logistics are rare!
I’ll give an example of this below:
Guy sees girl in a coffee shop sitting next to some guy who could be her boyfriend(although it doesn’t look that way).
Instead of approaching the girl’s table and striking up a convo,he waits for better logistics by saying to himself,”My table is too far from hers.If I make my move now,it’d look crazy or needy.Plus that big guy could be her BF who may beat the shit out of me”.
With that mindset,he convinces himself to wait for the perfect moment(which won’t come):perhaps when the guy leaves.
The big guy sitting next to the girl,although not her BF,nor is he even talking to her,he never leaves.
Thus the perfect safest moment never came for this guy,so he looses the girl by not taking chances and risks.
If he had taken the risk of possible confrontation by approaching,he would have been surprised to find out that she doesn’t even know the Hulk guy next to her table.
Ok,I’ll give a personal example where I had to virtually sell out and look a bit crazy.
Archaeologists from CUNY Brooklyn:
Back in the Summer of this year,there was a group of archaeologists here on the island from The City University of New York/Brooklyn College in NYC doing research work.
I chatted up the mixed 4 set at a local restaurant and fount out about their work and stuff.
We hit it off pretty friggin’ well but since they weren’t here for an extended period,they never bothered to activate a local mobile phone plan.So basically,they were phone-less,except for the # at the hotel they were staying.
So we never got to # exchange in the fray of it all(bustling-noisy restaurant).
Me being a loony risk-taker at times,I’d contacted every fucking hotel on the island to find out if they had the archaeologists at their hotel.
With a little luck,I fount out where they were staying and the room numbers lol.
Knowing that these girls were bored to death from just research work,I knew I would’ve been a breath of fresh air for them.
So I showed up at the hotel and swindled my way around the hostess and security by convincing them that I was a friend of the group,and we all knew each other from NYC lol.
Talk about security lapse lol!
Anyway,I showed up to everyone’s surprise.I left such a good impression on them days earlier at the restaurant that they immediately knew who I was.
I was invite in and we had major fun to the point that I was able to isolate the OYD(object of my desire).
During our flirtatiously-charged chat on the balcony,she was telling me how she never had a guy go to this extent just to get her.That I was a bit crazy and try-hard.
But obviously,the risks and chances I took were highly attractive to her.And it turned her on.
How many guys are willing to go there when it comes to getting ass?
Not many!
How many guys are too fucking worried about looking good?
Too many!
Guys who get girls aren’t looking and waiting for the perfect moment.They’re doing shit which would otherwise come off as “needy,crazy,insecure and try-hard”.
The guy who gets laid constantly is willing to approach the girl even when she’s apparently busy,she’s talking to some guy,or she just came from a funeral,lamenting the death of a relative…
Those guys aren’t waiting until she gets off her Blackberry.
He takes risks and chances by taking away her phone and say to her like an Alpha:”It’s pretty rude to be blackberrying while on a date”.
He doesn’t give a shit about being slapped(which never happens),nor getting a drink thrown in his face(which is even rare).Nor does he worry about being perceived as crazy and out-there.
He does what he does,and does it without looking smooth and perfect.
He innately knows that the only thing that prohibits him from getting laid is Not taking risks.
Chelios PUA
