“20 Things You’ll hate About Having A Girlfriend”

Hey guys,not claiming to be the grand-wizard of LTR management,but I’ve had enough experience over the past 3 years to say this: Think before you fucking leap!!

Too many guys get suckered into relationships that they weren’t ready for.

They managed to bang that HB8 with Minimal Game,then become ‘caught-up’ in the hype(and the new experience of pussy-banging).

Well,Kenny’s here to drop the proverbial hammer and rain on this white-washed parade.

“20 Things You’ll hate About Having A Girlfriend”

1.)She’s gonna suggest tagging along with you to the club(even on boys-night out).

2.)She’s gonna suggest going to the club together(which would be such a drag on a social guy who just wanna have some free time).

3.)Having to meet her miserable-ass parents on occasions.Rather worst; if they don’t like the thought of you(the scumbag) fucking with their precious daughter(I’ve experienced this LOL).

4.)You’ll be cajoled or pestered into doing shit which otherwise you would’ve seen as gay and effeminate.

•Going to the movies to watch Glee,or some Disney-oriented film.

•Wearing an article of clothing that she’d suggested:for instance- that gay-ass turtle-neck which is either too small or 2 sizes too big.

5.)She’ll demand some sort of exclusive rights to enter you crib at will and at random.

•In layman’s term:she’ll want a fucking key.

6.)Forced to have to memorize every BS feministical holiday and anniversary on the Gregorian calendar:

•Valentine’s,

•Christmas,

•Mother’s Day,

•Anniversaries,

•Birthdays(hers),

•Her kids’ birthdays…

7.)You’ll essentially be muzzled from talking about other girls in her presence[unless you're looking to kick start World War III...which would be a bad idea BTW].

8.)Her hotter friend with the bigger boobs whom you’ve been scheming on all those years:will effectively become off fucking limits!

9.)Pressured to move in together.

•AFC’s(men who rarely get laid) love the idea of living with their significant other.

But imagine having to turn off your cellphone every night from her prying curiosity SMFH?

Then having to fabricate (on the spot) a plausible reason for turning your phone off in the first place!!

10.)The unexpected text or call which startles the heck out of you @ 4 AM saying,“Where are you?I bet you’re still @ that party”?

•She has exclusive rights to do this kind of shit:so live with it LOL!

11.)Sex will have become mundane,lack-luster and down right goddamn BORING!

•You’ll be asking yourself:“Where’s the girl who’d given me that stunning blowjob 6 months ago that had my toes curling like onion rings”?

12.)She will periodically do shit to intentionally push your jealous-ometer to the max:

•Flirting with some random guy(s).

•Wearing that way-too tight skirt which shows the imprints of her panty outline…enough to leave a player wallowing in jealousy-ville questioning his “Inner-Game”.

13.)Hanging with the guys would be a reason for contention(on her part).

14.)She will(rightfully so)neglect to dress sexy or appealing to your taste.

•So be prepared to seeing her more often in hair-rollers,stocking caps/doorags,granny panties[my dick just got limped typing that LMAO],and anything else which may have turned you off if she wasn’t your GF.

15.)She won’t hesitate to stack on 50 extra pounds- ontop of the already 20 lbs.she’d gained over the past 3 months.

•Afterall:you’re her boyfriend,right?You should love and accept her anyway she is,right?

16.)She’ll transform into a Sarcasm Junkie over night[run for the fucking hills]!!

•When girl meets boy: girl conceals all of her ill-mannered behavioral liabilities which will turn off boy in a heartbeat.

•Once girl has boy(trapped in a relationship- sprung off pussy),girl begins to reveal her true self:Sarcastic,Bratty,Disagreeable…

17.)Running a rat-race with other couples.

•Your GF will undoubtedly bitch and nag(however subtly) about the new sun-dress that Jimmy bought for Sandy.

•Or that her girlfriends all received brand-new earrings from Tiffany’s from their boyfriends…as random gifts for being treasured beings.

•You’ll be left to feel guilty,or like a tight,cheap bastard,therefore joining the virtual rat-race to outdo her friends’ boyfriends.

18.)Be prepared to be monitored,controlled and babied!!!

•Monitored:“Hey babes,where are you?It’s been 2 hours since you messaged me”.

•Controlled:“I don’t like seeing you with a Mohawk.Why don’t you get it cut”?

•Babied:“You shouldn’t drink tonight.One beer is enough”[your beer will be seized away in public,and you'll be looking like a fucking chode who just got disciplined by his guardian].

19.)There will come a time where she uses the “Power of the Pussy” against you.

•In order to punish you(over a fight),she will withhold sex.

•If y’all cohabit(live together):your ass will be relegated to sleeping on the broken-down sofa.

20.)[Too controversial and politically incorrect to mention].

Wait!!There ‘IS’ a silver lining to this monstrosity!!

And that is to reign her in EARLY,sit her ass down,and lay out your cards of relationship expectations.

Essentially your boundaries,what you will and will not stand for.

The earlier you do this(in the relationship):the more you come off as assertive.

The longer you wait:she’ll be inclined to not take you seriously.

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This BBM-broadcast message should make any guy cringe[women suck at courtship advice].

I hate these broadcast messages that ppl send via BB messenger.Anyone sends them my way:DELETE!

Chics suck major-donkey balls when it comes to advising men on how to seduce and keep women.

If you never heard this before,let me say it loud and fucking clear to the guys/AFC’s who are unfortunately not in the ‘know’:Never listen to girls when it comes to advice on picking them up!They will lead you down the path of perpetual masturbation!

For the record:I hate BBM- broadcast messages,or whatever the hell they’re called.Any b***h who sends me those are instantly deleted.

Some chic had the cojones to defy my rules and send me the following Blackberry-Messenger broadcast message,which resulted in me unleashing a verbal tirade on her ass!

Anyway,check the misleading,generic advice she issued out to every guy in her BBM-contact list.Please Manosphere;try not to be offended:

How to keep a girlfriend:
1. Text her first
2. Ring her once and a while
3. Talk to her ALL the time
4. Don’t go shy around her
5. Don’t be a boring texter
6. Flirt with her
7. Don’t like other girls photos on facebook
8. Always say goodnight
9. Call her beautiful or babe
10. Don’t make her jealous
11. Don’t flirt or chat up other girls.
12. Post up a pic of your girl on your display once inna while. It Makes her feel special.
13. Dont compare her too other women.
14. Do something special for her out of the blue. 15. Compliment your woman. Even thou she is not always dress up .
Ladies- forward this if you want a man like this!Or you have one;;)
fellas- forward this too help the brothers keep their girl. (y)
SHARE THE TIPS.

Wow!!That was friggin’ painful to swallow LMBAO!!!

The only points which were reasonable advice were points:2,4,5,6,14,15.

But how about,“Talk to her all the time,Always say goodnight,Call her babes,Don’t make her jealous,Don’t chat up other girls”…

If you wanna remain single and remain a doormat to the OYD(object of your desires),feel free to religiously follow every advice above.

What the “Average Guy” would do,and what a “Pick-Up Artist” would do.

Difference between Average & PUA

With the influx of AFC’s(average guys) to my blog over the past weeks,I figured it’d be a great idea to compose this post,where I illustrate the contrasts between the Average Joe – and the Pick-Up Artist,in any given situation regarding women,love,dating,sex & LTR(relationship).This article serves as a guideline,for men to step their shit up by paying keen attention to what a Pick-Up Artist does.

*Scenario 1:Girlfriend dumps the guy:

Average Guy would:Throw a fit,plead with her to take him back and work it out,promising that he would change,and that he’s sorry(although he wasn’t at fault for anything).

PUA would:Remain non-reactive,calm and cool,tell here it’s ok,he understands,then walk away,and go fuck some other girl in order to forget about being dumped.

*Scenario 2:Girl doesn’t answer her phone after 2 days of attempts:

Average Guy would:Keep calling constantly,20 times in a row if he has to.He would send few texts and leave voice mails[which would creep her out].

PUA would elete her # immediately from his phone and go pick up 5 other chics(which equals 5 more #’s).

*Scenario 3:Hot girl at a bar/club is looking at him:

Average Guy would:Avoid eye contact with her,or he’d just watch her all night then go home alone.

PUA would:Look right at her(direct eye contact)until she looks away first,then he would approach her right away like a real Alpha male should[women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men with balls].

*Scenario 4:While on a first date,girl says to him,”I don’t have sex on the first date-neither the 4th”.

Average Guy would:Believe her totally,then feels bad that he doesn’t have a shot until 5th.date.

PUA would:Recognize it’s bullshit,and that every girl says that she doesn’t fuck on the first date(even if she does),then he would end up fucking her after the date[a PUA knows what a girl says holds no weight 80% of times].

*Scenario 5:Attempting to get her phone # after chatting:

Average Guy would say:”Soooo,do you have a #?I’d like to call you sometime.Can I have it please so I could call you”?[He turns the girl off by asking,so he'd then get a fake # or some lie].

PUA would say:”I’m so tempted to take your #,but I’m such a busy guy,I doubt I’d have time to call you.We’ll see what happens:give me your #”.[A PUA doesn't ask-he commands because he knows that women are NOT attracted to men who ask permission].

*Scenario 6:Group of hot girls in the club standing next to a guy:

Average Guy would:Walk off,keep it moving,stands there silently,mind his business[typical weak,pussy anti-social behavior].

PUA would:Chat up the whole group of girls instantly[social-circle game]as any social guy should.He’d even go so far as to try organizing an orgy later on.

*Scenario 7:Chic with bitchy attitude tells guy to “get lost:leave me alone,I don’t wanna talk to you”!

Average Guy would:Lap his tail and run(dejectedly),or throws a fit and curse the b***h out(eventhough some girls deserve a cursing-out,this isn’t the case for it).

PUA would:Laugh,look her straight in the face,remain un-phased,and say something like this,”How does your boyfriend manage you?You’re like a chihuahua off the leash”.

*Scenario 8:Girlfriend chats and flirts with other guy:

Average Guy would:Throw a fit,chastise her,stand there awkwardly,leave and go home very upset.

PUA would ut a stop to the interaction by butting in,chat with the guy friendly,then say,”Hey,nice to meet you dude,me and Sharon are gonna browse the venue”[compliments to Savoy,the master PUA for this routine].

OR

He would more often than not,go flirt with another girl his damn self.

*Scenario 9:Girl at the bar wants guy to buy her a drink:

Average Guy would ull out a wad of cash,buy her the most expensive cocktail(in hopes of impressing her),then buy a round of drinks for her friends also SMDH(hoping to impress them also as a big-spender).

PUA would say:”I don’t buy girls drinks on the fist night:it’s against my policy”.

Or

“I don’t buy drinks for strangers.I’d have to get to know you first to ensure that you’re not a gold-digger”.

*Scenario 10:Girl asks guy(while on date or out),”So,what do you do”?

Average Guy would say:”I’m a lawyer,doctor,accountant,student,food-vendor,clerk,bus-driver”[something typically boring and lack luster].

PUA would say:”I’m a bit ashamed to tell you.Usually,when I tell girls what I do,they either go crazy and shit or run for the hills.I’ll tell you,but I guarantee you’ll be offended.I’m a male prostitute”.

Or

“I’m a zoo-keeper[indicates risky guy and adventurous].My job entails guarding vicious animals and keeping male tigers apart from the tigresses,so they don’t try banging them.Next thing you know,they’d be a lot of cubs going wild,which makes my job harder”.

Bonus Round(a little extras)

*Scenario 11:Girl says she likes romantic walks on the beach:

Average Guy would:Although he hates walks of the beach,in hopes of wanting the girl to like her,i.e.to please her,he would then lie and say,”yea,I LOVE romantic walks on the beach”!!

PUA would isagree with her and say,”What!!!I hate romantic walks on the beach!That is so boring!You have no sense of excitement girl[he isn't afraid to offend nor disagree,'cause he knows that girls are attracted to me who stand firm]!

*Scenario 12:Girl says she likes Italian food and wants to eat at Luigi’s.

Average Guy would:Agree and say,”Ok,Luigi’s it is”[essentially handing over all powers and choices to the girl because she's so precious LOL].

PUA would say:”Nah,we’re going to the Mexican joint.We’ll do Italian another time”[essentially taking the lead role and the decision-making role as a dominant guy should in this case.He understands that it's the woman's biological role to follow-not lead].

*Scenario 13:Girl asks guy,”Do you like me?I really wanna know”.

Average Guy would say:”Hell yea I do!I like you a lot!It’s obvious I do.You’re very beautiful.Most beautiful girl I seen in a long time.And I like you”[virtually kissing her ass and putting her on a pedestal as all weak men do].

PUA would say:”I like EVERYBODY.You’re very likeable too.I seen no reason to dislike you at this point.Keep it up![PUA understands that the best answer in such case is to be VAGUE about his feelings].Make the girl unsure and in doubt,which would in turn intrigue her more.This is what girls do to men all the time(being vague).

*Scenario 14:Girl asks,”Do you have a girlfriend”?

Average Guy would say:Nah!!I’m single!!Totally single!!I don’t have anyone.It’s hard to find a good girlfriend nowadays”.

PUA would say:”Yes,of course I have a girlfriend.I dread being single!Any guy that doesn’t have a GF is either an outcast or has AIDS”[PUA knows that women are NOT attracted to single men and that single men do NOT get laid.It's equivalent to the saying that,"The easiest way to get a job is to already have a job".Unemployed ppl have an EXTREMELY hard time finding a job.Same as a man who's truly single would have an EXTREMELY hard time getting laid].

*Scenario 15:Girl is visibly turned on and excited(during the chat):

Average Guy would:Continue chatting away about his boring job,his BMW or how hot she is.

PUA would:Seize the opportunity to take advantage of her arousal by making out with her.He would tell her to “Shut Up,and kiss me already”[essentially increasing the sexual tension]!

*Scenario 16:Girl says to guy she’s chatting with,”Why’s your pants all hanging down off your butt”?

Average guy would ull them all the way up immediately and apologize or come up with some plausible excuse for sagging his pants[essentially kissing the girl's ass in order to be liked and accepted by her SMDH].

PUA would:Laugh,and pull his pants down some more(in defiance),then say something like,”Do you check out random guys’ asses all the time?Your eyes have no business down there.You are such a little pervert”.

The grand take-away lesson for guys reading this is article,is to realize that women are NOT attracted to men who kiss ass,supplicate(ask and beg),apologizes and put them on pedestals.

Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who are firm,dominant,non-conformatist and asshole-like.

So adopt the above qualities of the Alpha Male/Pick-Up Artist,and you’d beging to see drastic changes and get laid like a Rockstar.Trust me!

Field report:”KINO lesson-the Arab way”.

It’s been 3 straight nights of hard-bar game at the same bar I gamed at 2 nights ago[Christmas Eve Field Report(at the bar)].I’m going and going like a damn energizer-bunny!!!

Last night,I entered the bar and spotted a 2 set chubby girls sitting alone at a table waiting on drinks.I wasn’t gonna wait around like an anti-social dude,so I said WTH,I might as well entertain the fatties until some hotter girls rolled in[social proof].So I rolled over to their table[an empty seat was there],time constraint,sat down by saying,”I’m not asking anyone’s permission to sit here.It’s a free world so let’s enjoy the freedom while it lasts”.Cheeky/cocky-funny lines like those are my favorite.They never fail me.I threw it with a sly smile and the girls giggled away at how ballsy I was.

A while later,some Arab dude rolled up to the table,introduced himself,started chatting up the other fatty,grabbed a seat and started gaming lol.Talk about balls.This MOFO had game and exuded an alpha confidence that made me look like a fucking looser!The thing that was surprising about his verbal game(which I over heard via his poor English)was that he used negs and he never held back on saying shit that the average guy would see as ‘forward,disrespectful and inappropriate’.This MOFO natural had game lol!

Most of all:he KINO’d the fuck out of that girl LMAO!!!Right off the bat!!!

It wasn’t loud at all in the venue,but the Syrian-Rico Suave understood KINO and getting close,so he was all up in her ear and on her shoulders.

The girl was totally into him after a while:getting all up into his space.

Doesn’t he look like Fatush from the movie Zohan with the bandana on his head LMAO?

I wasn’t doing much of anything besides waiting for some HB’s to come through.I mean-I was definitely active(verbally)and keeping the vibe up,but I wasn’t engaging my fatty despite talking to me.One more beer and those chubbies probably would be looking like models I would lay,but I just drank a Coors and relaxed.

Funny thing about it though,these girls were fucking buying out their asses!!I never had to spend a dime.Neither did the Syrian dude lol.This guy was awesome in that he didn’t go AFC and buy drinks.These girls were literally slinging drinks at us as if to get us drunk or something!!!They ordered some tacos and pizza for all of us[go figure-they really should not have been eating that shit lol].

About 2 hours in,some HB9′s rolled in so I approached and open at the counter,“Hey,you’re that girl who stood me up the other night[with a smile of course].That was messed up.The 2 set smiled and giggled and denied it was her.The fatter one gravitated to me as if she planned on picking me up.What the fuck is with me and big girls!?They seem to always try re-open me and select me as their targets.

Hot chic in white was my target who I’d hit with the ‘stood me up’ line.

My target was the trim one but the bigger one basically brushed her aside and started engaging me!Fuck!!!So the slimmer one was being chatted up by some AFC dude.I was literally in set for like 45 minutes with this hefty girl(who was mighty cute in the face BTW lol) but she kept pushing comfort/rapport stuff looking for a deep connection by talking to me about having a miscarriage years ago…So I snuck back off to the original fatty-set.The Arab dude was hugged up with his,2 other black dudes were at the table tag teaming the other one.The girls was busting on me for bouncing on them…

The key lesson for all of us(from the Syrian-Rico Suave)is this:

KINO,KINO,KINO!!!And you don’t have to buy girls drinks in order to get some play.Have the girls buy you drinks instead.That’s a more powerful tactic to make her invest.

This dude pecked her on the cheeks,hugged her,touched her waist(after talking about some body tattoos),massaged her arms,tugged on her chubby cheeks like a mom would do to her chubby baby lol.This fucking dude was the quintessential example of an Alpha.His calibration and timing was so ‘ON’ that whenever he’d KINO’d,the girl never recoiled since it wasn’t awkward.

I learned a lot last night from the Arab stallion lol.Who knows what the hell happened.They all left together(while I was engaging some other girls).Maybe they had a fatty 3-some.

I wanna believe KINO is huge in the Middle-East,or at least customary.because the way this guy came off from the gate seems as if it’s something he was born with.

And check out Christmas Eve Field Report.

Christmas-Eve Field Report & Sarge

It’s 2 AM,I’m just strolling in,tipsy as a MOFO,barely made it up my flight of stairs.Hoping I’m sober enough to write this field report without slurring on paper in other words.So forgive me if I get sloppy.

Ok guys,for those who follow me on Twitter,you would’ve known that I was out all night at a new bar.I was supposed to meet up with a Canadian girl(HB9)but she never showed[I showed up too late I believe].But I quickly settled into a rhythm.There were lots of chics strolling the streets outside the bar,so I decided to put my iPhone to whatever good use it has to snap some pics while my buddies game.

*[I fell asleep,just woke up Sunday morning feeling sober].

So before I went in the bar,I was chillin with few friends in a rental car tryna get at some HB’s at the Square[a popular-hussle & bussle area on the island].

A crew of fatties congregating.I guess they all roll in packs or herds[that was a low-blow I know].

My boy Box calls over the slimmest one out the crew to start gaming her.She has a pouch on the tummy.Apart from that:she’s a solid 9.3 in the face and figure.She’s tall as hell though!This chic is like 6’1!!!

HB-Tall’s chubby friend tries pulling the external interrupt by calling her over.Like a good friend-she obliges lol.As I was analyzing,there were major girl coding going on here.But my boy Box stays persistent and bust on her for having her friend control her lol.So he games on.

10 minutes later,my boy Box is still in set-not giving up easily as most guys would.Persistence is key here guys.The girl slowly walks off but Box stays at it LMAO.He was getting good vibes BTW.Just that her 1 fucking fat friend kept sabotaging the set.Most likely cause she wasn’t getting any play.I could’ve occupied the obstacle[to use heavy PUA term] but I was more concerned with breaking down the in-field dynamics.

Ok,Box continued gaming the tall HB all the way down the bloc so we pulled up on 2 chics standing in the fucking street[they do that a lot here-congregate in mid road].1 was super-slim,the other OK.Nothing much happened.

The fellaz stayed outside doing street pick up while I went solo to the bar straight ahead.

My first time in this new bar that just opened last week.No grenades here.The 2 bartenders were hot as furnaces.1 white,the other black.Wow,these girls were drinking on the job.That’s progressive LMAO.

I don’t usually game hired guns(waiters,bartenders,strippers,etc)but I chatted them up a bit.The black one(on the left)is from NY and the snowbunny is from Toronto[Soloist got me using that word hard].

My boys shortly came in,we grabbed a table,few bottles(red wine and Smirnoff) …IDK what the hell I was thinking but I went to the counter and said to the black bartender,”Do you still model”?Lmao must’ve been the alcohol talking to re-open with such a lame/AFC’ish question.She gave me a WTF grimace so I said,”When we chatted earlier,you told me you modeled”.The shit stalled,I C&B(crash and burn)…

Right next to our table was a 4 set.1 fat,other 3 model-figure[no footage though].I opened the set by saying to the chubby one(since she was the leader of the group/alpha female),”Hey,why dont you be a nice girl and take my pic”.You’re taking everyone else’s pic in the damn bar.What happened to me lol”!!?That was good banter line to break the ice[banter is the biggest part to my game].

As expected,she LOLs grabs her cam out her bag and took few photos of me and the boys.Before I got to chat up her friends via introduction[I didn't have a target in mind yet],some orbiter tries AMOG’ing me to lower my value and get me out of the set.But I did the best AMOG destroyer- ignored him[Nice lmao].

Fount out that they were from the NY Tri-State area(Waterbury,Connecticut),down here for the holiday.Before they bounced,they told us to meet up with them at some party or club.The details were vague(probably since they weren’t familiar with the island),so I didn’t even know where the hell to meet them with the boys.

*Key note here:It’s a must that you first open the leader of any set.You cannot open a set by going straight for the target and ignoring the leader of the group.You’ll get blown the fuck out via girl-code.So that’s why I’d opened the fat one since she was the loudest one:in other words leader of the set.So once you win her over,the other girls in her social circle MUST conform.

Conclusion
My boys bounced to the club,I was too tired and had a bit too much red wine so I took my ass home instead.No telling what would’ve transpired with the CT girls(had I went to the club)but fuck it.

Dammit!!I can’t crack this chic!!!

I think that’s her sister on the right.

Fuck fuck fuck!!!

Sorry for the vulgarity but that’s how critical this is.

Every met that one chic whom you just can’t escalate on, take advantage and seal the deal?The type of chic who could be lying butt-ass naked in your bed but you just cannot act!?

Typically,I would’ve already NEXT’d this heffa for indirectly fucking up my game.But it’s not her fault LOL.She’s not the problem.She’s playing her part as far as being available and receptive to being seduced.

Background

She’s a pre-school teacher in her early 20′s.Sexy-ass Island girl.

I don’t usually rate girls as 10′s but she’s a solid HB10 on her worst days!

Anyway,I chatted her up few times,got her # on a separate occasion.

All this was about 9 months ago[let's say a year to be fair].

Sticking Point

I just can’t tap into my reservoir of game and charms to fucking seduce this chic!

Whenever I call her on the phone(mainly to set up a meet),I always flub it up by coming off as weird I guess LMAO.

It’s sought of a nervous energy around us whenever we chat or I happen to run into her(since she lives nearby).

As much as I want to and try to be seductive,charming and sexual-It just doesnt translate!It won’t come out!IDK WTF it is.

It’s rare that I run into a chic who does this to me:essentially throwing off my skills.

Make no mistake about it guys:it isn’t fear,AA(approach anxiety),nor any other inner game flaw.This dilemma is some puzzling Jedi-mind shit!

I think every guy has met a chic like this before or few times over the past years.

She just fucking saps the Alpha/bravery out of you,thus bringing out the AFC’ish side of you.

So far,I’ve charged her to the game by deleting her contact info from my phone(after realizing this won’t be going anywhere:due to my self-blocking).

Then out of the blue,I’d get a text from her 2 weeks down the line asking why haven’t she heard from me?What!!!

Of course I can’t say something cheesy and Beta as,”Well I deleted you since you have me feeling like a pussy”.Nah!That would be a virtual nail in the coffin.

So,I would end up reconnecting with her via phone and text.Whenever she’s in my area(coming from work-school),she’d give me a shout or text.I’d meet her but then get all pussy and wussy by not escalating and trying to lay this girl!

Make no mistakes about it:she is NOT rejecting my advances.Nor is she hard to bang.I can sense it that she’s ripe for the picking.But all I have to do is step it the fuck up.Hit the gas peddle!Easier said than done with this girl.

It beats the shit out of me trying to analyze whats’ really going on that’s freezing my game and preventing me from escalating.

It’s no secret that this chic likes me.She digging me hard!And it’s mutual!!

We chatted about 2 hours ago on a street corner.Flirted,giggly-bubbly vibe as usual.She gives off every IOI in the book which signifies that a girl is attracted to a guy.

With about 100 green lights in my favor to just ravishing this chic like a caveman;I just CANNOT escalate!Fuck!!!

This chic just fucks my game up:by no fault of hers LMAO!

Curious to know if any other guy in the manosphere has had this happen to them before.Where the chic is just totally into you but you cannot pull the trigger.

TV Match-Makers Give Shitty-Dating Advice

Commercial match-makers

It’s no secret that women give the worst dating advice in the world.Well actually-it is an anomaly,since everyone would assume that a woman would be most qualified to give dating tips on how to seduce a woman.But that’s a story for another time[women being shitty at seduction tips].

Don’t ask me why,but I’m addicted to watching those bullshit-ass “Match Maker” shows on cable,like Patti Stanger’s Millionaire Match Maker(on Bravo),and Steve Ward’s Tough Love(on VH1).

How many of these AFC’ish reality shows do they have on TV anyway!!!?

Just last week,I found out about another one called “Why am I still single”?The match-maker in this one is named Siggy Flicker- another female.

I like their no-nonsense approach to critiquing their clients on style,fashion and such.But in general,their advice to men is fucking horrible!Advocating pedestaling the women!What!!!

I watched an episode where Siggy scold 1 of her male clients for flirting on the date!In this regard,I love Patti,’cause she’s always encouraging the guys to k-close the girl and actually KINO lol.

But in most case,they advocate playing it safe,pedestaling and chivalry to the max[SMDH].Better off taking advice from watching Sitch & them on Jersey Shore bang hotties.’Cause it’s not in the guy’s interest to wine and dine some random chic on the first date,then play it safe and hope that she’d want to see you again:only for you to do the same pedestaling shit AGAIN!

Rather than advising guys to keep it light and crawl first,they’re prodding them to act all LTR on day 2′s(smh).Taking advice from commercial match-makers would have guys turn into true wussbags & doormats.

“She’s my WHORE-not yours”!!!

Before anyone try crucify me for labeling women as whores…-I can explain lol[BTW,hope I don't lose any valued- female readers].

Plus I didn’t call her a whore-the other guy did!

Ok let’s dive right in!

Hold on!Before I do,I just wanna say that I learned a valuable lesson from this incident.And I see other guys making this same elusive mistake on the regular.

Anyway,few years ago,I went through a massive sexual drought for about 2 months.I mean,I couldn’t lay anything if my life depended on it!I was better off going celibate opposed to virtually killing myself from not getting any coochie[SMDH]!

So what a man to do…?

Start banging Hookers like there’s no tomorrow!!?Naaaaah!BTW, I’m not against purchasing some cheap ass at a whore house-but I opted for a more challenging experience:Search for some quick ass[go fucking figure]!

In search of a Hood Rat

Few of my buddies[Unit & M***a]were banging a neighborhood rat,so they gave me the plug and the scoop on her.We all met up at a bar and my wingman Unit phoned the chicc to meet us there.

The plan was for me to get some quick ass later on after spitting some mediocre game at her.

The PYT came through,we all chatted,flirted hard,exchanged #’s and all.She told me to call her later that night[YES!!!!].

Finally!I’m gonna satiate this nagging-sexual urge that’s been killing me for 2 months now!

So I thought.

Later that night after the bar:

Called the PYT(Pretty Young Thing)hoodrat.No answer!Phone rang out and went straight to voice mail.

Called again about 10 minutes later.Same shit!

Fuck!!!!!

Called up my wingman Unit:

Me:”Yo,I thought you told me this chicc’s supposed to be free right now”!!

Unit:”That’s what she said at the bar.Don’t sweat it.Ima scoop her up in my ride and meet up with you later”.

That never materialized.

Following night,I’m in beast-mode to the fullest.Pissed off that this b**** would play me like this by not answering ,nor replying.

Called her up Saturday night.Finally:there is a God lol!!!

She hit with me the classic BS,“Oh I fell asleep”.Whateva!

We set up a meet for 8 pm.Trying to not come off as needy and desperate like an AFC-I called a little after 8[wink wink].

Guess what…?

Yep!The b**** screened my called straight to voice mail LMAO!

At that point,I went Charlie Sheen!I couldn’t believe this witch had the proverbial balls to flake on me!

“Doesn’t she know who I am!!?I’m a fucking pick-up artist.I lay hot b****es for a living”!

Note:It’s funny how we guys rationalize things to ourselves when we’re flaked on(smh).

Called her back,no answer.Few hours elapsed,no return call from her.

Called up my wing Unit:”Unit,meet me at Burton’s bar”!

At the bar:

Me:”Man,I can’t believe she played me again.This witch is a known slut in the town but she chooses me to bullshit”!

Unit:”I don’t know what she’s up to but I fucked her again earlier today at the beach”.

Some random dude next to us over heard the convo and chimed in:

“She’s my whore:not yours”!

I thought he had 1 too many fucking Red Stripes[a Jamaican beer]for butting in my shit.

So he went on to say this:“What I mean is…just because a girl is a whore and she sleeps around doesnt mean she’s gonna sleep with you and every guy”.

Wow!How powerful those words I thought!

Long story short:I gladly took that as a loss.

The Lesson:

Just as the random half- inebriated guy at the bar said:Not every girl who sleeps around is gonna sleep with any guy.For whatever reason that girl flaked on me:she had her reasons!

Eventhough that was a few years ago,the lessons from that situation has been hardwired into my brains ever since.

I no longer prejudge certain girls based on their social status[be it low or high].You still may have to work hard to attract and seduce her just as if she were a girl of high social status.

Lesson friggin’ learned.

My field report from the club

She couldn’t dance really…but whateva!

Hey guys,this post has been revised with some more details and added tags and stuff which I didn’t include prior.

I’m gonna be rambling a lot in this post about my observations at the club the other night.

Everything from how cut-throat club gaming can be for some guys.And successful for others.

It was a wicked night for me(in a good sense)as far as fun goes.

Ok lets’ get started:

Arrived early as usual to get comfortable in the venue while there’s less people.

Holy shit!!!The joint was already packed at 12 a.m.!!!

Out the damn window goes my plan of trying to beat the crowd to gain a foot-hold of comfort.

Good thing my state was already pumped since I’d gamed 3 girls 10 minutes earlier.

All bars were over crowded from every friggin’ angle.

I literally waited 45 minutes trying to get drinks shouting at the bartenders(lol).

Got fed up of standing around like an AFC so I yelled to a guy infront of me,”Hey order me a water and Redbull and I’ll buy you a drink too”.

He was way ahead of me dealing with the bartender so I saved another 45 minutes by doing that.

Met up with the boys/wingmen;we hi-fived.

The water & Redbull in hand made me stand out frrom 99% of the guys getting wasted.

Oh,but this’ a major part of my club game;girls would open me with slick comments,”why are you drinking soda in a club”?

As usual,it happened last night but I ignored the 2-set of undesirables by walking off.

Spotted my biological sister Pepper[her pseudonym].

She asked me to buy her a juice(OJ).

Damn!!!

Definitely dont want HB’s in the peripherary seeing me buying drinks like an AFC.

But I said to myself,”my sister’s super hot(a 10).Why not borrow her for some social proof”?

I know that sounds devilish but(lol)…

Anyway,we paraded to the bar hugged up looking like a couple.

Little do they know this’ my big sister.

Noticed an HB10 & 9.5 two set eyeing me subtly as I rolled off from my sis’.

Approached the 2 set with an opener on the fly,”which 1 of yall is the best dancer”?

Music so damn loud,I had to break a community rule by leaning in(pecking).

Stepped on the target’s foot inadvertently(lol).

Dance with both of them.

They’re sisters actually from Jersey vacationing here since the Summer.

Some guy had enough balls or alcohol to approach the set.He managed to get the other sister’s attention.

Could’ve been a guy they knew.

I rolled out after dancing for 3 minutes in order to not look too needy.Plus I wanted to work the room.

Im at a in my life where Im more focused on social-circle gaming opposed to snagging a lone wolf for the lay.

Plus I’ve been in an LTR of 2 years so f-closing isnt my primary goal.

strolling pass the bar,Im well peacocked as usual with beeded necklace and a colorful-type feathered necklace.

HB 9 with huge tits taps me on the arm from about 5 yards away and smiled.

I figured she was probably a gold-digger fishing for drinks so I just shrugged her off with a forced smile.

Hi-fived some random guys passing.

1 of them engaged me,telling me about how wasted he is.

Back to the center of the dance floor.

2 chubby girls dancing erratically as if at a parade high off something.

My policy is,”chat up everyone”.

So I grabbed their hands and said something neggish(can’t remember what).

1 of them felt offended and pulled away with a sour face.

The hotter one was all into me.She had an English/UK accent which I find annoying and sexy at the same time.

Rolled off!

Bumped into the 2 set of HB10′s again from Jersey.

Me:”Hey let’s dance[I never ask nor verbalize it,but I did this time].

HB10(the target):”What!?Cant hear you”!!

Ok cool,so I just started grinding her thighs from the side.

So fucking semi-drunk guy approaches us and fucks up the set & the vibe.

Chicc chats to the drunk guy while I grind her.

I could’ve pulled her away to isolation but…

Drunk guy tries AMOG me and saying that the chicc doesnt want to dance with me.

She gets annoyed by him and starts a mini-argument so I rolled off.

Spots a chubby girl from New York who I knew from back-in-the day.

Chatted and danced.She couldn’t dance so I rolled off.

HB10 almost knocks the drink out my hand trying to get away from some player-type guy.

She aplogized,we chatted and danced.fount out she’s from St.Thomas U.S.Virgin Islands.

Some guy external interrupts.She Told me it’s her brother(lol).

I roll off.

For the guys saying,”why the fuck are you rolling off from all those sets”!?

Remember guys,I was not looking to f-close nor # close anyone.So no point in building a connection,etc.

My game over he past 2 years has been foused on being “more social”.

If the lay comes-I’d take it!

Chat up a 2 set:1 chubby,the other slim.

Me:”You look pretty shy.Im tempted to loosen you up”.

Made mistake of ignoring the friend so the HB8 gave me a subtle fuck-off via body language and facial expression.

HB8:”Im always shy.Cant be loosen”.

I stalled so rolled off.

Bumped into HB again I knew from New York:

Me:”Whats up”?

HB NYC:”Tryna buy a drink but I must be invisible;cant get through”.

I went AFC’ish and tried getting bartender’s attention by damn near crawling over the counter(lmao).

Why did I do this?Dont know but it was very fucking try-hard and DLV’d me.

Random guy from across the bar motions to her with his hand as if to say to her,”do you want a drink”?

She nods head in affirmative.

He buys her drink then bring it over.

HB NYC @ me:”I got my drink so thanks for trying to get the bartender’s attention”.

I tried play it off,”Nah I was getting a drink for myself mainly”.

Bullshit!!!!

A buddy comes to me:

Wingman:”Hey Yata(my local nickname),Im looking for this bad-ass chicc wearing…….but I cant find her”.

He was actually gaming the same HB10 from New Jersey I danced with earlier.But she got pulled by some Don Juan-type natural.

Damn,my wingman getting schooled by the natural;eventhough my wing’s a natural gamer also like the Don Juan guy.

5 minutes later,spotted Jersey 2 set with the smooth natural.

Informed my wingman so he rolls over but the other natural guy seemed to have her hooked already.So he isolated her.

Damn he got isolation game for not being a community guy.

Wing is pissed off.

Ran into HB9 St.Thomas again who told me the guy who interrupted was her brother.

We danced,I complimented her(direct game which I never do).

Took a sip of her cocctail.

Some random-fucking guy again interrupts.

They hugged so they obviously knew each other.

I rolled out instead of standing there like a clown while she chats with the acquaintant.

Approached a lone wolf HB10 in the face but 8 in the body.

Danced for a minute without saying a word to her.

HB10:”Who said I wanted to dance”?

Ignored her comment and kept grinding her while holding her around the waiste.

Her comment was flirty opposed to bitchy so it was all good.

Fount out she was from Dominica.Not Dominican Republic,but another Caribbean island with the same name but English speaking.

Rolled off.

Entered a dancing-mixed set.

Grabbed onto a model-figure chicc who was about 6’3.

She looked back as if to see who the hell was grinding her:ugly or cute.

I guess she thought I was ugly so she moved away.

How embarrassing but I kept cool as a cucumber.

It’s near 5 a.m.Heading for the exit.

My cousin Tawana from NYC grabs me and introduced me to her friend;and HB10.

We took group pics’.

I said to the HB10,”Make sure you post them on Facebook”.

I had the perfect logistics to seduce her since my cousin introd’ us but I was mentally drained at that moment to game anyone.

Headed for the exit.

Opened an HB7 with huge tits in a 2 set with a silly opener on the fly.

Me:”Hey I spotted your boyfriend dancing with some girl.You should get revenge by us dancing”.

I never expected this could-be fallacious opener to hook.

I just did it to be an asshole while leaving the venue.

But the HB7 grabs me and starts grinding me.

Wow-openers really dont matter in clubs.All about body language projection.

My cousin took some pics of me grinding the 7.

She shies away from the cam so I bounced.

HB Dominica outside the club being chat up by some smooth-looking guy.

Me:”Hey partner,she’s a good girl.Take care of her”.

Taps him on the shoulder then bounced.

The HB10 from Jersey I was dancing with earlier whom my wingman was gaming,was standing arm in arm kissing with the alpha-natural dude who out gamed my wing.

Wow,this is really battle of the fittest.

Strongest survives.Strongest gets laid.

I learned a lot from the other night at the Lyme nightclub.

1)Other guys are waiting in the cut for you to open a girl(s)to seize the opportunity to capitalize off you gaming her.

2)Girls are fucking friendly and social.

Every girl I chatted up communicated with me.

3)Girls like audacity & balls.Just dance with her-dont ask!

4)Longer you chat or dance with her on the spot,greater chance of some random guy interrupting.

So it’s advantageous to venue change,or isolate instantly!!!

My wing,who usually does great,got fucked over by opting to chat up the girl at the bar instead of pulling her to isolation at the lounge or outside.

All in all,I had massive fun eventhough it didn’t result in a lay;mainly ’cause I didnt push for it.

Check out this related post which deals with dance-floor gaming,etc.bySoloist 2.0 http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/a-simple-tip-that-will-help-your-game-by-9000/

Peace out!

How I picked up the hottest girl at the club-who’s usually bitchy.

Hot girls are usually bitchy!Whether that stems from their insecurities or from the many guys they’ve rejected over the years:bitchiness & beauty usually goes hand in hand.

Ok,with that out the way,lets get to the action!!

Few years ago,after reading an online-seduction article on gaming hotter girls[cant remember by which dating coach],I was pumped as hell to try out some new stuff!I was flying solo that night(no wingman to fuck up my game).

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Ordered a cocktail,then headed to the dancefloor to survey some ass while tryna look as normal as possible(and not like an AFC/weird guy).

I usually dont go for the hottest chic in a venue[too much competition].But this time-instead of settling for an 8 or 9,a hot ass HB10 caught my eyes from the get-go!!!Not only my eyes;this chick had every guy’s attention at the Coast night club!

I mean it was mesmerizing the way she twirled and whined like an Indian- belly dancer.

All the average guys,naturals & players were hovering around this chick like fucking helicopters.Some tryna talk to her,others tryna dance with her,others asking her to let them buy her drinks(lmao).

Of course she shut them down like a true b***h would.

I’d typically be one of those rejectees[thanks to the underground-seduction community].

So I threw on my James Bond cool demeanor while I gave her “the eye”.

Not a gawking,deer in the headlights stare.But a dominant look with a sly stare & smile which exude,”Im not like those other chumps”.

I mean,we spoke to each other via body language & eye contact.Not a word said,but our bodies were in tuned.It’s divine;cant put it in words but I just felt it.

At this point,I body rock out(turn my back towards her).We were about 15 yards apart;a technique I’d learned from reading materials by Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik[the God of pick-up].

While all the guys were facing her,I was the only one slightly turned away.That shit must’ve made her insecurity alarms go off(questioning her beauty),”why isnt he paying me any attention,am I not pretty enough,is he not attracted-why not”?

That’s what usually runs through the minds of high-maintenance types, when they’re not given the attention they think they deserved,they then question themselves.

Sure,she had all the attention a girl could ask for(from about 20 men in her circumfrence),but those men weren’t challenging.They indicated their interests way too soon,thus disqualifying themselves before the game began.

I was “the only” challenge she had.

She eventually got jaded and tired of all the attention,so she exited the dancefloor and went to look over the railings into the bay[the club overlooks a bay since it was on the island's coast line].

So I made my way over to her(from the side,so I didn’t startle her by coming up directly behind her like a creep)…

And I said these magical words to her “I can dance way better than you“,then walked off right away[slowly,confidently and cocky].

Now you may ask,”what was so magical about that line”?But the magic wasnt in the line(words),but the audacity to go up to the hottest girl in the club and say something bold with a cool-sly smile.

She expected me to throw some cheesy-ass pick up line,compliment or offer to buy her a drink like 95% of guys would.But I flipped the script with a C&F line[pick up slang for something ballsy and challenging],which totally fucked up her mental circuitry.

And to top it off-I walked off instead of staying there like a needy-guy(subcommunicating that I was lonely and wanted to chat).So I walked away slowly to the nearest bar in the venue where she would be able to see where I went.

Now remember,Im following a script here:according to the pick-up article I’d read a week prior to this,if done right(the take aways,body language,etc.),she would track me down to continue the chat.

All I had to do from then on was to not get lost in the crowd where she couldn’t see me.

Still skeptical of this working(she following me and tracking me down),I ordered another Malibu & pj and got sidetracked by 1 of the TV’s in a lounge area.Then I felt a tap on my shoulder-which scared the shit out of me(lol)!Turned around,and it was the HB10-Hot Girl.

At this point,Im paralyzed with anxiety not knowing what to say since I didnt expect she’d actually come over to me lol!

So she leaned in animatedly and yelled,”why do you think you can dance better than me”?

I cant remember what I said aftrewards but 10 minutes later,we were making out heavy in a secluded area of the club.I end up taking her back to my expensive hotel,but had no fuckin condom so didnt get to lay her[fuck]!!!

All that heavy making out for shit!

Had to settle for some oral play(lol).This girl was actually my first squirter BTW.That shit was crazy lmao.

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BREAKDOWN:

Ok guys,that approach may not work for everyone nor on any girl,but it’s a very powerful technique for seducing in clubs or bars or any night venues.

Frankly,it’d work better in bars where the music isnt that loud and it isnt over crowded.

And it’s not the words,it’s the balls to not supplicate and suck up to a 10 just because she’s hot.

Having the balls to walk away,knowing and believing that she’ll pursue you(eventhough I didnt believe it at first).

And she didnt have to re-open me;I had the solid option to go back up to her later on,knowing she was already attracted and open since our dancefloor flirting.

For a great article on ‘Club Game’,check out my man Fade PUA’s ,”How to get a girl from the club”.It breaks down 3 crucial elements to a better time at gaming and pulling girls in night clubs.

Yours truely:socialKenny signing off till later.