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Men Are Dumb When It Comes To Dating,Sex & Seduction
Men are dumb!!
Yea I said it.Want me to repeat it- in bold for that matter?
We men suck at everything women:be it the ability to discern whether she likes us or hates the very ground we walk on…we just don’t have a clue if our lives depended on it.
And honestly,this shit isn’t news-flash.The average guy knows that he sucks rediculously at seduction,reading women and getting his dick wet.
As much as it pains me to say[let me take a swig of this truth-juice]…Women are WAY more smarter than men,and more savvy when it comes to the sexes and courtship.They make us look like a go-cart in a formula 1 race SMH.This is widely accepted in the seduction community.
[Pay great attention to the contrasts]
*Little Jimmy hit puberty between 10-15.
*Little Jill hit puberty between ages 8 to 13[girls generally hit puberty before boys of the same age].
*Thus Jill has a head start of being aware of the biological changes taking place with her body[breasts,pubic hair,sexual awareness & sexual maturity].
*Jill,even before puberty,has experienced what it is to be hit on by fellow-male pupils in class.
*Jimmy on the other hand,as a boy,he’s never experienced being hit on by fellow-female pupils in class[since girls are NOT programmed to court boys,but to be the courted].
*Thus Jill knows how it feels and looks like to be the center of attraction and liking from boys at an early age.While Jimmy is left in the dark as to the process of “LIKING”(puppy-love).
*Also,Jill has naturally developed and adopted techniques in order to combat the onslaught of attention from little boys her age.She essentially learned how to screen,accept and reject boys.
*Jimmy on the other hand,never had to deal with such circumstances,thus his ability & skills to screen,reject and accept girls is NON-EXISTANT.
*Jill,most likely has come in contact with either a perverted-old man with a pedophilia urge:be it her weird-drunk uncle,perverted grandpa who might’ve felt her up at some point,a dad who touched her inappropriately,an elementary-school teacher(male)who gets a hard on from flirting with little girls,etc…
*The key point: Jill knows what guys are all about(even at the yound-innocent age of 11 or 13).She knows what flirting looks like.She knows what it looks like when a boy likes her.She knows boys want girls[although she doesn't know how to voice this nor make sense of it].
*Jimmy on the other hand,most likely never came in contact with a drunk aunt who felt him up,nor a grandmother who groped him inappropriately,nor a mother who had a weird-sexual fetish for her son,neither did he have a hot teacher in the 2nd.grade who flirted with him…[Little boys are attracted to their female teachers,while male teachers are known for seducing female pupils].
*So Jimmy’s pre-teen years were totally different to Jill’s.
*Little Jimmy hasn’t gotten the chance to develope his social savviness,nor his awareness of the sexes.
*Little Jill has been through it all.She’s seen it all.She knows how to read the body language of boys,equipping her with the know-how to discern if he likes or dislikes her.Opposed to Jimmy who’s essentially a lost soul,unaware of how to attract a girl,how to go about liking a girl,and how to read a girl’s body language.
*Jimmy & Jill are essentially prototypes of what every little boy and girl on the face of the Earth goes through.
Let’s for a second observe what we see everyday with little boys and little girls.
Little boys are into:
*Mp3 players(music)
*Playing tag for tag sake
*Playing sports with other boys
*play fighting
*Watching Superman cartoons
Little girls are into:
*Boys,boy and more boys
*Makeup
*Fashion(dressing up)
*kiddie Pageants
*Watching Cinderella(cartoons based on courtship)
Those activities are stalk contrasts between what little boys do,and what little girls do.
*A girl can spot from a mile away when a guy is into her,virtually drooling over her,when he wants to fuck her,befriend her,marry her,hates her…
*An AFC(average guy) CANNOT spot when a girl likes him,even if he had infared vision which were able to penetrate her thoughts from blocs away.He doesn’t know the difference between a flirting-girl and a girl who’s just being social.
Unless he gets exposed to the PUA community,the manosphere or hangs out with a natural player who has ‘Game’,he will forever be a dummy when it comes to understanding women,love,sex and relationship.
Apology to my readers
Hey what’s up valued readers-I’m back!!!
Some of y’all probably were wondering “WTF happened to Socialkenny”?
Well,thanks to my shitty-ass Internet service provider(also my mobile-net provider,I was inadvertently booted off the net(disconnected) because of some mix up.
For about a week now,I was unable to have any Internet connectional at all.Wasn’t able to check e-mail,my blog nor others’ blogs SMFH.I was literally stressed the fuck out!!Still am actually!
I’m no longer able to blog from my iPhone(despite being a shitty phone,blogging from it was actually a breeze for me).So from today,I’ll be using a Blackberry to post my articles and blog.I’ve never used a BB in my life,so I can imagine it being a difficult process for me to compose posts.
Anyway,I’ll try my best to catch up on y’all posts over the past week.Ciao!
My 2012 Pledge & Manifesto
If this ugly world of ours doesn’t blow,or life as we know it isn’t drastically altered to where we’ll be dwelling in a fucking post-WWII-type sphere,this will be my pledge for 2012 on into 2013[fingers crossed LOL].
*I pledge to become a better boyfriend to my on & off MILF GF[although she does shit to intentionally drive me off the cliff...but she's a woman,so it's understandable].
*I will do my DAMN best to refrain from flirting with every chick in the club.Also to put an end to my sleazy-bar tactics:like smacking girls on their asses just because I know they secretly love an audacious bastard like I am[sure beats the hell out of Joe Blow approaching her talking about the weather or which school she attended] SMH!
*And I pledge from the deepest depths of my dirty heart, that if another half- inebriated/drunk hot chic throws herself all over me like a Jersey Shore slopapatamous[thanks for that one Sitch],I will activate every once of my moral fiber to not take her home and bang her like a caveman with no regards for her sanity at the moment.
*As much as it pains me to say:I know I’ve been extra critical of grossly over-weight females,giving them all sorts of degrading titles like Fat,Big,Chubby,BBW’s…I need to realize that a 300lb.girl was perhaps born that way,opposed to eating herself into obesity and an early grave[lthough I honestly know that's bullshit].But I promise to lighten up on the fat-girl jihad.
*I pledge that I will NOT become a hypocrite, like the former-Republican House-Speaker, Newt Gingrich:banging women on the side while castigating Bill Clinton for doing the same thing SMH.
*Last but damn-sure not least:If my GF does dump me for being a slacker,jerkoff and a bar-hopping prick,I promise to not take vengeance by doing something real flubbed up and immoral[to some]- like sleeping with 1 of her hotter friends[not that I have LMAO].
All in all:I’m just tryna strive to be a better man in 2012.Push comes to shove-I may go out with a f-ing bang if the Mayan’s artifacts prove to be factual lol.If that be the case:this manifesto will be tossed out the window[fingers crossed].
Ever got caught blogging about a girl?
Did a little brainstorming
And came up with this interesting topic.
I know my boy Reema got busted few times(I believe), for blogging about a girl he had gamed or banged.
In fact,I think he said it actually ruined the situation,where the girl felt a bit leery then started back peddling.
Sorry if I read it wrong Reema lol.
Anyway,so far I’ve blogged indirectly about 3 girls[if my mind serves me right]:using pseudonyms/nicknames to avoid any backlash lol.
I frankly don’t have shit against posting any chic’s name in my blog.As far as I see it,I would’ve been giving her some publicity,so she shouldn’t harbor any malice with that ultimately.
Getting ready to write an interesting post on an OYD(object of my desire)who’s been playing some serious cat & mouse with me.
Curious to know if any other guy in the bloggersphere has had any negative backlash.Or some chic threatening to sue them or something lmao.
FIAT 500;the ugliest car ever made!
Hands down-I’ve never seen a car more worthy of being driven off a cliff at 100 MPH:with the driver strapped down in it for making such a purchase!
After doing some Google research,I fount out it was Italian made[go figure-SMH].They seem pretty damn popular in Italy though.The last season of MTV’s Jersey Shore(shot in Italy),I seen a shit load of FIAT’s sound the place.
I don’t know what it is,but western Europe loves manufacturing shitty-looking cars.
The FIAT is like a cross-bred hybrid between Steve Urkel’s buggy and a Dodge Neon.
Picture a dude tryna pick up chiccs in that LMAO!
I don’t know:maybe it’s possible in Italy to pull some ass via FIAT.But I cant see a guy in the western world getting any play by tryna impress women with it[though having game eliminates this].
It’s probably a chicc-car anyway since it’s so compact.
I seen J-Lo promoting it hard in a few commercials lately.Doesn’t hurt the eye that much once its’ pimped-out.
But plain Janing it would be a fucking eye-sore!
How does a girl earn drinks from me
Ok guys,if y’all haven’t read part 1 to this topic:click the link Here to check it out
When is it OK to buy her a drink?
As the title suggests;the girl whom you’re chatting up at the bar or club HAS to EARN it.
This is a classic concept in the pick-up community dubbed Rewarding her.
Listen clearly!The only time you should buy her a drink is if she’s worked for it,and you’re essentially REWARDING her.
Do not reward bad behavior!
How many times have we seen a guy chatting up a girl,and she’s clearly not interested(via body language),nor engaged in the chat[i.e.Bad Behavior],yet the he still initiates buying her a drink!
That is essentially rewarding her for bad behavior.Or for anti-social behavior.
Why would you reward someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve it!!?
Women are so used to being rewarded by Beta males when they don’t deserve it,that they virtually expect every guy to do the same.
We can all thank the Betas/nice guys for setting this awful trend(smfh).
Grounds for rewarding her
Ok,the reason guys chat up girls is to get laid(eventually).No secret in that.
Accordingly,whatever the girl does to facilitate the possible lay,or if she’s just enjoying the time y’all are spending.Feel free to reward her with a drink.
The fact that she’s been so receptive and reciprocative to you and the chat(opposed to being a first-class bitch),somewhere during the chat(15 minutes after),I may say to her:
“Hey Marcy,I’m gonna get ‘MYSELF’ a drink.Since you’ve been such a fucking rockstar,I’m gonna get you one too.Let’s go to the bar”!
The subtle beauty in what I said is this:
*I made it clear that ‘I’ was gonna buy ‘MYSELF’ a drink.And I’m in such a good mood that I’m considering getting you on.But I come first.
That is very fucking powerful guys!
It subcommunicates to the girl that “you’re more important than she is”[who's just a stranger].
As we already know,that mindset and frame is a crucial part of the alpha lifestyle.
And women LOVE alphas and men who are dominant and confident with a touch of asshole mixed in there lol.
What I stated to her is what separates real men from boys.
An alpha always puts himself before any random woman.
While betas/wussies put the woman first:aka pedestalling[which is a grave sin in the seduction community].
Women are attracted to dominance and high-valued men!Their panties get super friggin’ drenched by guys who display such behavior!
A guy CANNOT be high value, if he’s going around the club rewarding girls who haven’t invested anything into an interaction.
Women see such actions as weak,supplicative and sly!
So once the girl has invested in the conversation by actually talking for more than 15 minutes,she has essentially earned any good acts you’re willing to perform.
On the contrary,if you’re trying to social and converse with her,but she’s not responding,not talking much,being a bitch,being indifferent,not smiling,obviously not enjoying the time…Why the fuck would you even contemplate rewarding such bitchy behavior!?
And the sickening thing is:Most men would STILL reward her(or attempt to)by buying her a drink[LMFAO]!!!
It’s as if the guy say to himself,”you know what,she’s acting a bit frosty right now,so I’m gonna buy her a drink”.
Hoping that will activate her conversational motors.
Once a woman sees you’re rewarding her shitty behavior,she will take advantage(if she’s that kinda girl).
She will drink your ass out while pretending to be enjoying the chat,just to have your ass running back and forth to the bar like a damn waiter!
Then she’s gonna introduce you to her social group,and you’re gonna find yourself feeling compelled to buy drinks for her girlfriends too LMFAO!!!
Guys,we’ve all seen this shit play out every weekend at venues.
We’ve all probably been there and been that looser guy.
That guy rushing to the bar then returning to the set with 4 cocktails in hands:praying not to spill them.
That sought of behavior is WEAK and a turnoff to women.
And how ironic that 95% of men in clubs and bars act this way:committing such ridiculous social faux-pas.
So you never want to put yourself in a situation where the girl has you buying drinks for her girlfriends:which is quite common nowadays(smh).
That is why I appreciate the pick-up community and our insights so much.
The guru/head coach for RSD (Real Social Dynamics),Tyler Durden,once wrote an article years ago entitled “Secret Society”.
He went on as to say that,”Only 5% of men in the world get laid regularly.And in the club:only 5% of the men in the venue will actually get laid”.
The reality that guys are in the bars and clubs doing dumb shit ,like buying girls drinks when they haven’t earned it.I can picture now what TD meant by that.
Hard Truth In Closing:
Women are 100 times more socially savvy that us.
Women are 100 times more socially aware than us.
Women are 100 times more perceptive than us.
So if you’re scheming, plotting and contemplating buying drinks:Know that the girl knows the only reason you’re doing it is to buy your way into her pants.
Thus,she will either reject you now by turning down your drink proposal.
Or she will accept your drinks, use you all night as her drink-provider,then reject you later.
So we cannot blame women for being gold-diggers.We can only blame the men who readily offer them gold.
Once again,checc out this interesting article about buying drinks from a female’s perspective:imma buy you a drank
Cheesiest thing I ever did to pick up women(lol)!!
Ok guys;confession time.
But first,let me say that we’ve all been there.
Not specifically in my shoes,but we’ve all done weird-DLV shit in attempts to pick up.
Surprisingly though,what I did actually seemed to charm the girl opposed to weirding her out(lol)!
Now I dont know how many guys do this or maybe Im just the only one to think out the box.
Ok enough with the suspense-here it goes:
Reading a local newspaper one day[the Antigua Observer http://www.antiguaobserver.com/],ran across an article about “employee of the month”.
It featured an HB9 who actually won the national award(kudoos).
Ok cool so far.
But this chicc was smoking like a house on fire!Nice ass,decent tits,good smile…
So what a ladies’ man/PUA to do?
You guessed it!
Contact her(lmao)!
Ok,maybe that was a desperado-beta move-so kill me!
Anyways,took out my smartphone then immediately looked her ass up on Facebook(lmbao).
Fount her,poked her,she replied,I replied with some lame-ass reason as to how I knew her.
Surprisingly,it actually went well.
We # exchanged and it was ON from then!
Wow,what the F*** was I thinking!!!?
I must’ve really been bored(lol).
That was borderline stalkerish when I retrospect.
Thought she would’ve rejected me once I told her how I got her info(name).
Maybe it’s the way transitioned playfully and kept the mood light;which in turn allayed any possiblility of fear.
If I’d online approached her with,”wow Im so in love with you”,she’d probably run for the hills[rightfully so].
I’ll have a part 2 breakdown to this.
Back-stabbing ass wingman!!!
Ever had a wingman who virtually F’s up your sarge attempts?
Seems like I always get stuck with the rotten ones.
A best friend of mine(a natural)once screwed up 3 of my pick up attempts 3 weeks in a row(lol)!
HIS 1st.VIOLATION:
We were at a crowded grocery store together,and I was eyeing this HB like a hawk swooping down on his prey.
My wing happened to notice me checcing her out.
So what does a bad wing do?
Wing:”Hey sweetheart,my friend here says he likes you a lot”!
No no no!!!!I wanted to fucking punch his lights out but I was too paralyzed with embarrassement.
Talk about DLV’ing!
Im already an advocate of in-direct gaming,so there’s no way in hell I would’ve opened this chicc(nor any other)with a cheesy-ass direct opener to swell the girl’s head up the size of a watermelon.
Yes I could’ve regrouped and opened her,despite the deliberate attempt by my wing to see me fail before I even had a chance.
But you never want to start off an interraction where the target’s already assuming that you’re sold on her.Or that you like her from the get-go.
Proponents of direct-game may say otherwise.
HIS 2nd.VIOLATION:
When I thought it could’nt get any worse and grimier with my wingman,he topped his 1st.violation with yet-another low blow(smh)!
Ok this time,I reluctantly met up with his ass at a local-basketball game.
Seen this hot-ass British chick in the perifery with her girl group[a 3-set],so I immediately said to myself,”I gotta get away from this fuker ’cause if he notices me eyeing that set-it’s game the hell over”!
So I schemed and plotted ways to duck and dodge the wing:
Me:”Hey ******,let’s hit up the other side of the court to see if any hotter girls there”.
Wing:”Nah,it’s cool here bro’”.
[Plan fucking B]:
Me:”Yo ******,I see this dark-skinned girl checking you out by the entrance.Let’s see what’s up”.
Wing:”Nah[un-enthusiastically]“.
Shit shit shit!!!!!!
WTF,what’s the worst that could happen?
So during our boy-chat,I said to him,”Im checcing out that British girl in the 3 set;the one with the…”.
So OYD(object of my desire)was made known to my wing to avoid any conflict of us gaming the same girl(which never happened).
Abiding by the 3 second rule(after stating by intent),my wingman opted to go by a split-second rule and approached the 3 set!!!
Deja-friggin’ vu;I cant believe it!!!
He go out the friggin’ bloccs faster than a drugged-up race horse…
Unlike last time,he didnt yell out to the girl that I like her-he actually approached and started to game my F’ing target!!!!!
I stood there like a pussy on the side lines,heated vexed that this muthfucker would dare AMOG me or try to show me up by going after my target!?
As usual,he rarely gets the girl.
His objective seemed to be to sabotage my chances-not to actually pick up.
So now if I were to try seduce this girl,I’d look like the ultimate scumbag who’s trying to go after the buddy’s girl.
To this day,I never told him nor checked him about his seemingly-back stabbing ways.
I just dont sarge with him anymore.
He made me abandonned the 3 sec.rule to now having a split-sec.rule to approaching.
Since then,I’ve sarged alone and loved it as I was getting better results in field.
When a girl isnt attracted-she just isnt attracted
Ok,I may get some hate mail for this but I’ll gladly accept if it means writing a no-BS post.
There are shit loads of seduction material out there claiming their product can pull any girl.
I dont mine that mindset;one should be that cocky & confident.
Any chicc I approach,I believe I can pull her off to the mini mansion.
But what I disagree with,is the notion that you can “changer her mind”,i.e.make her like you.
Newsflash:
If a girl doesnt initially like you-she never will.
If she isn’t attracted to you within the first few minutes(even seconds);then she will never like you.
No routine can convince her to want you if she already has pre-conceived notions that you’re unattractive.
Whether physically,poor body language,incongruencies,whatever.
For Whatever reason she doesnt like you,it will remain[this' a link between 1st.impression also].
Now here’s the jedi-mind twist:
We all know that when a woman likes a guy,she may act indifferent as if she doesnt like him.
The fool who doesnt get this would leave set,believing that the girl really didnt like him.
So because a girl’s acting shitty towards you after approaching,doesnt mean she DISLIKES you.
Quite the opposit:I’d be more wary of the polite girl than the semi-rude/cold one.
Women tend to conceal their attraction during the early phase of courtship(ASD at play here).
So never assume she isnt attracted if she’s being a bit frosty-she may still like you but she’s playing it safe.
But knowing that a woman dont like you[you'd gamed her prior without results],yet you still waste time trying to win her over is pointless.
Chelios PUA
