Letter to a girl[from the heart]

I was just rummaging through some junk I had thrown under my bed[old cassettes,sneakers,documents...].Through the midst of cobwebs and dirty socks which probably have been there for years now lmao,lo and friggin’ behold:a letter to a girl.

Disclaimer:This letter is bound to make every guy in the ‘Manosphere’ cring!The most cheesiest of men/Beta Males will undoubtedly feel a rush of anger towards me.I might be deposed and banned from the pick-up community(despite this letter being some years old,before I fully learned ‘Game’).I was still pretty much a newbie to seducing women.So please forgive me dear Gods of Pick-Up,for I have sinned gravely by way of the following scribe.

Female readers, on the other hand ,may feel their warm hearts flutter as they read the letter.

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Background:

In 2006,I was pretty much still under the poisonous- false notion that the only way to a woman’s heart or vagina is via:sweet words,flattery,romance and heart-felt letters.

I was always great with words and diction(since I loved poetry as a kid coming up).I’d make Shakespeare’s ass look like a fucking amateur-hour poet at the Apollo LMAO!

Anywho,my buddy Unit had hooked me up with a mutual friend of his:her name is Kim.We met up,got acquainted,hung out for a day,she went back to her town…So I decided it was time to let it all hang out the only way I knew how:through a heart-felt letter.

This was about a week after meeting[One-tis is a MOFO lmao].I mailed her the letter and kept a rough draft for myself.Ok-here it goes verbatim,word for word(no edits,no cuts).

“What’s up Kim?I’m writing this letter from the heart,and I want you to study it and think about what I was saying on the phone.Words alone can’t express how I feel about you,but for starters,I want to let you know that I love you,and I’ve fallen in love with you from the first time I laid eyes on you Kim.I fell in love with your beauty,and I was surprised that ****** actually hooked me up with a young girl as pretty as you.I felt below your standards.I couldn’t see us together because your beauty and good looks were too much for me to handle at the time.Baby,I love you everything about you;especially that bright smile you had that seems to melt my heart.Most of all is your inner beauty that attracts me to death.You are sweet and have the charms of a little baby(total innocence),and when I’m with you,you make me feel special to know that I have a special girl in you Kim.I love you and mean it.Don’t let hating-ass niggaz ruin what we had,should have and will have”.

Wow!That was fucking painful!I can’t believe I wrote that as I retrospect SMDH.I barely knew the girl but for a week and change and only met her once.But that was my MO.That was vintage Kenny with every girl I met prior to 2006 lmao!I thought that was the way to go in order to build a relationship with a girl-or frankly just to get some coochie.I felt that I had to go R&B and Poetry.

95% of women reading this may say to themselves:”That was lovely!I wish I fount a man like that who was so expressive and genuine”.But let’s see how it plays out with Kim and I.

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Story Continues:

She got the letter,exclaimed how much she loved it and showed her friends…

A month later(following more mushy/Beta stuff from me),we officially went ‘Exclusive’.We were dating.She became my GF.We were in a relationship[talk about rush].

My friend Unit and I rented a house for the 4 of us to stay as roomies[my GF and I,and Unit and his GF].So we were 2 best-friends couples.Unit and I were besfriends.Kim and Unit’s GF were besties.Couldn’t get any better than that lol.

Within a week of lodging together:guess what happened?She ran out on me lmao.Nah just kidding.Read on!

I walked in from work one day(at 5 pm) and caught her fucking another guy in OUR bed!Yep-she cheated in the worst way!Red fucking handed before sunset.This chic was brazen and bare-faced since she knew that I usually come home at 5 SMH!So she showed that she didn’t care nor value our relationship in the worst way.

But Ultimately-I’m the one to be blamed.I rushed things.I fell for a stranger.I was playing the romance card when she was just out for a fuck and good time.

Irony is:Kim and I are cool as hell to this day lmao.She hated the old me(in 2006)who was romancing her and simping(as Reema would say).Ever since learning pick up and becoming a real man/badass who frowns upon seducing women via romance,Kim has been chasing me down for the past few years lmao.Trying to seduce me,buy me,lure me…I mean-we’re mad cool though lol!I had hung out with her 3 times since,but I wasn’t into her at all.

Do I blame Kim?Then-yes.Now?Hell NO!!Any girl would have cheated eventually after being with a doormat,a wuss/nice guy!

For all I know,she’s probably reading this since we’re Facebook friends and she sees all my blog posts.We talk on the phone every other week so there’s no ill feelings on my part.

So,for every guy checking out this post,learn this lesson at least:Women do NOT like nice guys!Women do NOT appreciate nice guys nor nice gestures when done PREMATURELY!

How I learned that being a ‘Nice Guy’ doesn’t get you anywhere in life nor with ‘women’.

Yep!I learned that being nice doesn’t pay:be it with women,your boss or relatives.

Growing up,and even into my adulthood,I was your stereotypical ‘Nice Guy’.I made hearts flutter from my genuine generosity and niceness.Did it get me far?Oh course not!And I was doing nice things in order to reap benefits like a shady character.Nah!I was genuinely nice.

I’m gonna share 2 personal stories about my trials with ‘NICENESS’.

1st.My grandma showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.

For the past 8 years,I’ve been around my grandma:keeping company,doing stuff around the house,chores,cleaning,etc.I live alone,but I stop by to help out damn near everyday.Cool!

However, 1 nagging theme has been playing out during those 8 years:no matter what I did(good),it didn’t prevent her wrath from coming my way.Everything wrong that occurred around the home,I was getting full blame.I was catching the verbal hell,nasty stares and BS arguments.Bear in mind-I didn’t friggin’ live there lmao!The house had 2 other able-bodied occupants who didn’t do shit!But they NEVER caught the wrath LMAO!!!They ate,slept,shitted,slobbed out,untidied,violated,disrespected….But they never got chastised.

So I took care of everything in the home:
*Dishes
*Cleaning
*Errands
*Company

But the moment a button goes missing:I was the only one catching the blame SMH.The genuine ‘Nice Guy’ getting screwed over while the not-so nice guys(who lived there)were NEVER blamed.

2nd.My boss showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.

A previous job I held years ago,I was employed for 6 years[prior to the global-economic recession which caused mass layoff].

Once again,I was the stalwart employee.Nice to the core,got along great with the boss.I did every chore possible although outside of my work description.I never handed the boss any shit about not doing something which was out of my jurisdiction.

How was the other employees?Rude,pricks,whiners,always late,snuck off the job,took more sick days than legally allowed lol,called in sick every week…Totally unreliable basically.I was the polar opposite.And I was being a good employee to gain praise nor raise.I was genuinely that nice of a dude.

Out of the 6 years there,I only got 1 pay raise.The boss totally went contrary to the labor laws of the land!My co-workers?They got raises lol.Some came after me and got raises!!WTF!!!Recession happened,guess whom was sent home first LOL?Yep-your boy Kenny.I was severed,and the scumbag employees who didn’t give a rat’s ass were kept!

Now,what does this have to do with picking up chics?Eveything.

The same reason my boss treated me like shit and I caught the wrath from my grandmother,is the same reason you should never play this Nice-Guy Shit with women.They won’t respect it!They won’t appreciate it!They won’t respond favorably to it!

*That is the #1 rule of the pick-up community:Nice guys finish last!

And the 2 examples I gave above only shows how this concept spills over into life in general:be it at your job,school,with relatives,etc.The nicer you are with people and women,the less they will appreciate it.Point this out to people and they won’t agree.But observe how they treat genuine nice people on a day to day basis,and you’d see that actions speak louder than words.

So are you saying not to be nice anymore?

What I am saying is:don’t believe for a minute that you’re doing yourself a favor by being stand-up and nice.9-10 times,it’d come back to bite your fucking ass off.So,be that nice guy at your own risk.I learned my lessons over the years that being an asshole gets you further in life in every area you can imagine.

Ever since I’d adopted the “don’t give a shit” persona years ago,my success with women skyrocketed!!!My lays went up by 80%!I had a pay raise early as fuck at another job I’d acquired.My grandma since loosen the proverbial nose from my neck where she now blames the real culprits for BS that happens in the home.

My new- fount badboy persona changed my whole life and how people treated me.