Last Night’s LMR(last-minute resistance)

LMR(last-minute resistance)is a PUA community coined term,where a girl resists before point of sex.

Had a girl(HB5) at her friend’s place last night(alone)…on the bed,but expected LMR(last-minute resistance)surfaced and fucked things up.

Ok,I had her on the bed,went KINO(touching her fingers),stroking her fingers and hands while saying to her,“Your skin is so soft.Tell me the secret to your soft skin”.

Stroked her bare shoulders and neck with my fingers,but she brushed my hand away,so I re-calibrated and went back to stroking her hands while talking and breathing heavily into her ears.

I visibly notice her quivering as I talked with my lips virtually touching her ear.

Things she said during LMR

•“We shouldn’t be doing this”

•“We’re going too far.I just met you”.

•“I can’t believe this is happening.I just met you days ago”.

•“If my friend finds out I have a guy in his place:he’s gonna kill me”!

•“It’s time to go”.

Calling her bluff,I said to her,“Ok,you’re right:I’m gonna leave now”.I put my sandals on and said,“Are you sure you want me to go”.Her reply,“You don’t have to”.

•“I’m not ready for this”

•“How I know you’re not gonna fuck me and forget me”?

•“I never done one-night stands before[SHH]”.

•“I feel like I’m disrespecting myself”.

•“I have a boyfriend.And I’d feel guilty.My conscience”.

While all this verbal LMR was taking place,I was pretty much using a combination of backing off,re-engaging touching(KINO),massaging her shoulders,stroking hands,rubbing her tits(in bra)…

Last-Minute Resistance(LMR) is a bitch!

SocialK’s “Fantasy-Raffle” Sex Game:To Keep Your Sex Life Spicy!

photo by www.the12planet.blogspot.com/

Woa!!I’ve been on a major spree when it comes to LTR advice.Must be reading too much of Jesse Charger’s PUA blog(which is great BTW for relationship tips).

Ok,it doesn’t take a rocket-scientist nor an Einstein-like brain to conclude that most relationships are friggin’ BORING!!More monotonous and bland than a carton of plain-white rice from Shing-Wang’s Chinese restaurant in Lower Manhattan.

Likewise,my current ‘on & off’ relationship has sucked 75% of the time(decent percentage; considering others don’t even try to liven it up).Tired of the bullshit,weeks ago,I pondered some cool stuff I can try to re-animate my sex life.My GF,although she’s a pain in the groin most times,she’s given me 10 thumbs up for my creativity[tooting my big horn huh lol?].She’s even bragged to her all female co-workers about this shit[NICE]!!

“Fantasy-Raffle Sex Game”

[Both parties must contribute and participate to keep it interesting for both]:

You’ll need:
*Sheet of paper
*Pen/pencil
*hat,box,bag or plastic
*Willingness

1.)On 10 small pieces of paper[5 for the guy,5 for the gal],jot down 5 sexual actions or fantasies you’d want the other to perform on you. It makes it more spicy if the person doesn’t normally perform such acts.

Example:facials,eating out,swallowing,blowjob,public sex,elevator sex,blowjob with ice cream…

2.)Feel free to inform the other person of the acts that you’d written down(so it doesn’t push the comfort limit too far).But it’s even 10 times more exhilarating to keep it a secret.

3.)Ok,crumble(individually)all 10 pieces of paper and toss those shit in a bag,hat,frying pan,whatever LOL!Shake it up,then 1 person picks out a paper.[Who gets to dip and pick first doesn't matter].

4.)Whichever of the 10 acts gets picked,the other person has to perform it or partake in it[eat it until she orgasms twice,sneaky sex at grandma's house...]

*And to keep it spontaneous as it should be,only do the withdrawal(picking) when it’s about that time for sex,and both parties are horny.

*It kills the spontaneity if yall were to know 2 days prior,that “Jim has to go down on Sandy with the cheese cake”.So only do the raffle picking when yall are actually in the mood for sex.

[Either toss away the acts which were fulfilled,or keep them(papers) if wish to resume after the 10 acts were eventually completed a few weeks down the line].

Hot Girls Suck In Bed!!

By demotivationalposters.org

It’s funny where one receives inspiration for blogging.I was watching an episode of MTV’s Jersey Shore,and my man Vinny said something that I’d held true for years:”Hot girls suck in bed“.

Why that may be?

I mean,generally the hotter the girl,the lazier the girl.I’ve also noticed that during my journey in pussy-land. Plus,spending 2 hours in the mirror doing your hair and make up doesn’t qualify as “Activity”.

Hot girls tend to wake up later than girls who aren’t that hot.Hot girls generally cannot- and do not cook,clean nor wash[I'm noticing this in retrospect].

The hotter the girl:greater the propensity for being spoiled and pampered by parents and AFC’s(men who put them on pedestals and worship the shit out of them).

A ‘not-so hot girl’,generally has to fend more for herself,since she has less chances of meeting men who will worship her daily,take her on shopping sprees and other weak-Beta male shit.

The Sexual Linkage

Just as the extremely hot girl(HB8-10) is lazy and lackadaisical in every other area of life[work,home,relationships,ect.]:same goes for the sack.

I’ve met massive amounts of hot girls who say that they don’t give blowjobs.

Despite the seduction-community’s mantra of “don’t believe anything women says“(which I’m in agreeance with BTW),I really do believe it when very hot girls say that they don’t give blowjobs.

Why should they?

The average guy usually dreams of the opportunity to shag a 10, and to show her that he can sexually gratify her:which entails she lying on her back like a lazy-entitlement whore and he’s eating her out.So she’s hardly ever pressured or cajoled to participate in sex.

When that hot girl does eventually come across an Alpha like I am,I’m left disappointed by the lazy-fucking performance on her part[SMH]!And her reluctance to give me a half-ass blowjob at least, and to vary the positions.

Less hotter girls(HB1′s upto 7.5′s)have greater propensity to perform their ass off and participate.

Any guy who doesn’t agree with this,he’s either a fucking virgin or hasn’t gotten laid since the 80′s LMAO.

So to test this theory,go bang a 10,then bang a 7,then be the judge of who’s the better fuck.You might begin to second guess the logics behind seducing 10′s opposed to 7′s.

Women are against using condoms!!

I can already foresee myself receiving ton loads of e-mail death threats from feminists,womens’ rights organizations and other anti-men groups because of this article.Nevertheless,an Alpha male is inclined to speak the truth.

The title is a bit misleading.What I really mean,is that it’s easy to fuck any woman without a condom.

RooshV,an Iranian-American pick-up artist/dating guru out of DC[the same guy who’s led the fight against feminism and nice-guys),wrote an eye-opening article a while ago about women not using condoms.I totally agree with Roosh on this one.Below is an excerpt from his article entitled “American girls don’t use condoms anymore“.

I’m shocked at the behavior of American women when it comes to condom use. Middle class white girls are, hands down, the dirtiest, filthiest type of girl I’ve been with. Most of them only care about using condoms for the first instance of sex, and a sizable percentage don’t even care if you use one at all for that first time, whether or not it’s a one-night stand where she has only known you for a couple hours.

If I was as dirty as them, I could probably have raw dog sex with 95% of all white girls, regardless of socioeconomic background. I only have met one girl that was super serious about using condoms, but I eventually fucked her without a condom too, so actually I change that to 100%. I could bang every white girl who lives in the United States without a condom if I desired, within three dates. I’m not kidding. I could do most of them raw dog on the same night.

At one point in time-actually throughout my lifetime,I was a dirty muthafucka.I banged anything raw dog(without a rubber).

Prior to meeting my current on & off girlfriend(end of 2009),armed with massive amounts of pick-up knowledge I’d accumulated over the years,95% of the girls I laid was done without protection,i.e.no condom.In fact,between 2004-2009,I only banged 1 girl with a condom.Every other girl I’d laid(which is enumerable),was raw-fucking dog.

Her background didn’t matter,her upbringing didn’t matter,her race didn’t matter.Among the women with whom I had un-protected sex,they were:Latinas,Black,Islanders,Americans,British,Canadians,etc.Fat,borderline obese to slimmies.All were bangable without a condom.

And that is why the last article I wrote(about women being irrational-check it out Here) makes major sense.Condoms/protection is a Rational/Material thing.Women do NOT process Rationality,Logics & Safety as men do.Women process and understand Emotions.

Using a condom is a Rational decision that the man(aka the rational being out of the sexes),would have to often make.So if the male decides to wear a rubber,the girl he’s about to fuck,will likely agree with it.But if that male decides to NOT wear a rubber,the girl will most likely put up some token/fake resistance,but she would move right along to banging raw dog.

It’s easy as taking a dump to convince a girl to let you bang her RAW.It doesn’t take much convincing at all LMAO.Most times,all the guy has to do is simply STOP,and become SILENT.I know because I’ve done it with almost every girl I laid prior to 2009.

The Reptilian Brain:

When a woman is in heat/at ‘buying temperature’(as we in the PUA community would say),she is essentially in an Emotional State.Sex =’s Emotions for women.Her reptilian brain is now activated.That portion of the brain is responsible for sex,desires,emotions,etc.Therefore,the girl has a hard time processing Safety,Security & Protection,which are Rational/Physical components.So while she is horny and turned on,the reptilian brain dominates the rational brain.

She knows sex without a condom could mean AIDS,STD’s,etc.,but the reptilian brain(emotions and desires)is powerful,so she proceeds with unprotected sex.This is the classic cause & effect case for women getting impregnated without intent,having one-night stands,sex in public places,etc.When the reptilian brain is activated and the woman is horny,protection/condom has little to no value to her.She will process that later and regret it later on after sex when she’s now in a rational state of mind.

And please,women need to refrain from bashing other women as crazies and sluts.All women are susceptible to banging Raw Dog.It has shit to do with her socio-economics,her upbringing,neither what her mother has taught her.

I had banged nurses raw dog,suburban chics,ghetto sluts,high-society ones,prostitutes(go figure),teachers,students,social workers(go figure),counselors(go figure),church-goers,religious ones,etc.So background has nothing-NADA to do with which chics bang raw or not.It all comes down to the guy and what he wants to do sexually.If he wants to bang her with a condom:it will happen.If he wants to bang her without one:it will happen.

I’m not advocating un-protected sex.In fact,It’s not my business what anyone does.Who wanna bang raw,it’s their prorogative(as Bobby Brown said).This post was basically mean to shed some light on how irrational and careless women can be and are on a whole.

Since 2009,I’ve take maybe 3 AIDS tests(which is a whole lot,considering that no one generally takes AIDS tests).I’ve been negative all 3 times(still have the receipts mothafukas LOL).And I haven’t been banging anyone raw besides my on & off GF of almost 3 years.So I’ve improved my sexual standards.

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The “G-Spot” Myth

I don’t typically blog about sex and its amenities.In fact,this is my first “Sex” post.Thanks to a good humor-filled cunnilingus post I read from Black-Men Uncensored ,I got inspired to write about The G-Spot.

Those who never heard of the G-Spot-go do a fucking Google search and get up to speed PLZ!!it’s 2012,and to not hear about the G-Spot is like a Guido who never heard of The Jersey Shore.

This post isn’t asking,”does the G-Spot exists“?It does exist!It’s a spongy area the size of a penny situated on the top wall of the coochie(assuming the chic is lying on her back).I’ve played with many of G-Spots:so I know it’s real LOL.

My question is,”does it actually stimulates the woman and brings her to an out-of the world orgasmic experience?Hell fucking No!!

Many sexologists say that the G-Spot,when stimulated(by fingers or dick),actually makes a woman cum and orgasm more powerfully than clitoral stimulation.

Bullshit again!!!

I’ve been stimulating G-Spots over the past 9 years,from slim girls,fatties,400 pounders,black girls,Latinas,Albinos…and I’m yet to get a fucking reaction out of the girl that says stimulating her G-Spot works.

In fact-I’ve had girls tell me to stop rubbing the G-Spot(which 99% of girls don’t even know exists nor where in the vagina it is).Not because it feels so GREAT,but because it’s uncomfortable and feels weird and hurts(according to chics I’ve banged).

I’ve never yet to this day had a girl react positively to me rubbing her G-Spot-let alone cum from it SMDH.

For the muthafuckers who may say,”Socialkenny,you’re rubbing it too hard”.

Bullshit!!

I vary the pace,pressure and all.I rub it very light,light,hard,very hard,slowly,gently,fast…Nothing works LMAO.

So from those experiences,I’m going out on a limb to say that “the G-Spot is a myth!!

Not its existence.But the claims by sexologists that a girl can cum from G-Spot stimulation.Or that the G-Spot has some sort of divine power which sends women to the moon via intense orgasm.

Until I hear it from various women out there that they have orgasmed from G-Spot stimulation:I’ll be sticking to my guns on this one,That the G-Spot is a crock of shit Myth!!

We need to get this on an episode of Showtime’s Penn & Teller Bullshit,or Myth Busters.

Most Bangable Pop-Culture Chic of 2011.

Hey guys,I’m just gonna post my top 3 most bang-worthy TV personalities of 2011.Be it actresses,singers,fitness gurus,…doesn’t matter!As long as their asses been on TV[pop-culture]more than twice for the year.

Call this my “going out with a bang” list for the year’s end [Woa!!].

Jillian Michaels

I’m usually disgusted by chics with abs and more toned biceps than I got.But JM sexy as hell!All those fitness informercials at 4 A.M. got me sprung LMAO!

Lauren London

This chic is said to be on Entourage and 90210.I hate those 2 shows so I never actually seen her on there.She did play in the movie ATL(which I hated),which landed her on my bang-list for 2011.She does modeling also.

Paula Abdul

My bang-list would not be complete without a hot MILF on it.
For those who know me(or been following my blog),y’all would’ve known that I’m a relentless MILF-Hunter to say the least LOL!Can’t think of a hotter Cougar than Paula.

Well that was it guys.I don’t care how Jimmy’s list looks.I don’t care who’s on Joe Blow’s list.This is Kenny’s list!!!

But I do wanna know who’s on y’all lists.Holla back bloggers!

I wouldn’t bang her with a 10 ft.pole!!!

It made me cringe just to look at the above photo of that MILF from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills[I do watch it when I'm bored now and then lol].

As much as I’m now against banging fatties and girls who blatantly neglects to take care of themselves(physically)…On the opposite side of the coin,I even as REPULSED to banging Stick-Figured Chics[eew,nasty].

As I browse my memory bank,I don’t believe I ever banged a scrawny girl in my 29 years of physical existence.

Seems counter-intuitive since the pick-up community usually lauds and drools over soon-to-be-anarexic chics SMDH.

But if you’re 1 pound shy of seeming bulimic ,or towing the line of anorexia:I wouldn’t touch you with another dude’s dick.

It’s fucking repulsing and nasty!!!

The key to the girls I’m attracted to are the ones who strike a nice balance in physique.Not scrawny-not obese.

And any guy that’d bang an Anna[my term for anorexic chics.I'm gonna get it copywritten to MOFOS,so don't steal it!]],would be a sick puppy.Might as well bang a crack-head from down the bloc.

So when I’m at a party or function,I screen out the too skinny and too fat,then proceed to seduce the ones who strike a decent accord and balance.

Get her to do anything you want sexually

Fore-Note:if you’re planning on doing this with a girl with a girl you’ve already been banging-then this post is not for you!
*If you laid her more than twice,this is not for you.
*If the flames went out(between y’all)-read no further.
*If you’re planning on doing this with your GF:read no further ’cause it will not work.Get it brodie?

I’ll explain why later.

Ok,for those of us who’ve been studying social dynamics and game,it should be common knowledge already,that when seducing a girl,there’s a window of opportunity/chance,where the guy must act before that windows is slammed shut!Which means:no booty for you lol.

I’m taking it a step further to say,there’s a window of opportunity to make ALL your wildest/dirtiest fantasies with a girl materialize.I mean every!No matter how pristine or stuck-up the chic.She will defy all moral standards she held prior to meeting you!From classy to trashy!

This the type of shit that could possibly land me behind bars LMAO!

If you don’t notice this opportunity,you will lose out,and most likely have to settle for normal sex!If normal,boring sex is your thing-then read no further!

So,the best time to introduce your fantasies and get her to do anything you want sexually, is before you have sex with her(for the first time).

You MUST do this on a high note.Meaning:when the girl is totally into you and DTF.

The girl MUST be feeling you in order to pull this off.

Introducing fantasies:

We all have fantasies.Some already fulfilled,some not,some we may wish to relive.

Let’s say you meet the girl in any standard way:street pick up,online,club,bar,wherever!Y’all hit it off,exchange #’s,transition to phone game in order to set up a date or meet-up.

We can assume this girl is obviously into you if she’s willing to meet up.

At some point(before actually setting up a meet or lay),yall should’ve already had some sexual chat about your fantasies,etc.So you’re letting her know what you’re into sexually.So it won’t startle her later.

It’s not a perquisite nor must that she even knows your fantasies and sexual desires with her.

This is where guys go wrong.They end up banging the chic more than once,then weeks or months down the line(while dealing with her),he wants to introduce fantasies and all types of wild shit!

That will not work!It wouldve been too late.That window of opportunity has closed!

Intense feelings would’ve developed whereas she sees you as a possible boyfriend.

You wanna introduce wild things BEFORE she starts to see you as a possible boyfriend.Which is prior to sex or perhaps after laying her once.

Telling her about a 3-some, 3 months down the line after laying her 10 times already would get you no where but an uphill battle.She would be offended at that point.

Story of an HB9 Fuck-Buddy

Few years ago,I met this hot chic on Tagged(the top social network before Facebook was created).At that point,I was oblivious to this concept of mines.It all occured to me by chance(which just winging it).

We hit it off,I set a sexual frame[opposed to a GF-BF frame which most guys do and fuck up their chances.As my fellow blogger Reema would say,"cock block himself"].She knew I was only tryna bang her:not wife it up!

Before we actually met up,during our chats,I let he know that I’m into 3-somes(which I wasn’t.But just testing the waters).

As predicted,she said she never done it and isn’t into that lol!

However,I had the fucking keys to getting her to do anything!

Remember:I didn’t have prior knowledge of this.I was totally winging the shit off GP!Looking back,it’s as if I was possessed by a fucking sage or mind-reader LMAO!!!

*That key which I had to enable me to do anything sexually with her was her own interest in me.She was into me!

Another powerful subconscious note here is that:She wanted to please me.She wanted to be accepted by me.She seen me as having value/an alpha!

If I’d came off as a weak-beta male,this would not be possible.She would not have even given me the time of day to begin with!

Women are hardwired to please alphas!They cannot help it!

So I was the alpha she had to win over by entertaining my every desire.Whatever it may be!

This shit is so powerful that if I’d asked her to rob a bank for me,she would’ve been down as fuck lol!Skies the limit when you have a girl in such a state and this point.

*So the 2 keys to making this happen is:1)She must be into you.

2)She must see you as alpha(allowing her to want to accept her).

Anyway,the groundwork was set.Hardest part completed(which was just to attract her as any PUA would).

So,this girl didn’t wanna do a thing that would possibly turn me off or cause me to lose interest.

It wasn’t the promise of sex that had her in such state.She’s a fucking woman!She can get sex any day of the week!

It was the fact that I attracted her via alpha routines which she probably never felt in her life before.

So,armed with this knowledge(which I didn’t know at that time lol),a devious side of me kicked in where I had all types of wild fantasies I wanted to try with this chic.And I’m not talking about voyeur and outdoor sex neither[boring]!

I said to her, “I wanna have a 3-some,but not the traditional 2 girl 1 guy.I have a buddy who I’d showed a pic’ of you and he said you’re very sexy.I was imagining both of us fucking the shit out of you taking turns on you.

That’s it!.No elaboration,no explanation,no long story.Plant the seed and idea and let it fester.Later on,she would actually believe that this was her idea.This is classic NLP shit(neuro-linguistic programming)which we learn in the pick-up community.So I was actually using NLP on her before I even read about NLP in pick-up[wow-that's Jedi-stuff there].

This is what separates the pick-up artist from the average guy or player, who doesnt have a system or pattern which he can analyze.

Key Note:Do not heg her about it!That would only make her feel slutty which would activate her ASD,which would make her regret such thoughts thus despise you.So just let it be known briefly,then drop it!She will remember and will be opened to it when the time comes.

As I stated before,you really don’t have to tell her anything.But The innate nice-guy in me compelled me to telling her my intentions beforehand.

Long story short[to spare the details],we end up having a mini-orgy with 3 of us guys banging her.As we’d say back in the 1990′s in NY:”we ran a train on her”.

And to the man-hating feminists:please save the drama.This was not rape of any sort.Purely consensual.Yes,she did it in order to be accepted to my proverbial alphadom.Nevertheless,she wanted it too.

But that was just the tip of the iceberg with her.The type of shit I did with her sexually,I don’t think I have the balls to write it!I went all the F out!Nothing detrimental to her health.

To this day we still keep in touch and that was like 3 years ago.I hope she doesn’t peep this since she’s a Facebook friend of mine!!

CONCLUSION

I honestly felt manipulative.Not then.But when I look back in retrospect,I feel somewhat as though I was doing a wrong.No bullshit guys:I truly feel that way.

To this day,I’ve only truly done that routine to 2 chics.Same results with the other girl.I exploited her high interest in me by having her do things(sexually)that she most likely was against or never done.

Oh before I end,this is why this routine CANNOT be done with a girlfriend nor a girl you’ve been seeing or fucking.

Same way you cannot say to your GF,”Hey babes I wanna have a menage-tois and blaze you and your bestie Angie at the same time” lol.You would’ve gotten smacked,kicked out then dumped!

Once a girl has strong feelings for you.Not sexual feeling but romantic feelings where she’s envisioning y’all as a couple going steady.Once she has that idea of a boyfriend-GF thing in her head,it’s a wrap!Chances of fantasies such as 3-somes are done!

The only how those things could be done realistically is if she’s the one with those fantasies-or mutually.

So this is why it’s KEY to do this framing and routine before you sleep with her.Before she gets attached bodily.Sex most times always leads to a relationship,or at least gives the girl the impression that if you sleep with her,that means you would be with her.Once she thinks you wanna be her BF,it’s a wrap in getting her to do anything for you[be it monetary,sexually or whatever].

And this isn’t something that only happens to LSE chic(low self-esteemers). Any and every woman is liable of being manipulated,swindled and led astray[not that this' what this is].

This is almost relative to the Jedi-mind stuff that pimps use on their hoes.He doesn’t hook the potential-sex worker via sex.But with some heavy NLP.

I’m curious to know if any other guy or gal out there is familiar with this concept and method I shared.

Top 3 things girls lie about:and why.

I got the idea for writing this short post after seeing a tweet from GMacwith a link to a blog post by Don called:Top 5 lies guys and girls tell.

Don’s list was spot on from my experience.

Ok let’s get to it!

“I never cheated”:

LMAO,this one is a classic fib we’ve all heard before.

Now I’m not saying that all women cheat,but for the ones who do,under most circumstances,They’d deny,deny,deny!!!

The Reason:

Let’s face it:society is unforgiven towards women who get their freak on on the side.

We men get praises and badges on honor for infidelity:players,pimps,dons,gyalist[a Caribbean term for players],etc.

With that in mind,every woman knows she has to be extremely cautious in guarding her infidelity against the social backlash of being labeled a slut or hoe.

So it’s much easier for her to lie and say she never cheated.

“I don’t give head”

Another classic fib I usually get from girls I’d just met.

This one is so friggin’ common…I expect to hear it from every new girl I meet!

The Reason:

It’s pretty much the same as the first reason:not wanting to be judged as slutty.

A girl is willing to do ANYTHING sexually,as long as she’s certain she won’t be judged for those actions.

So let’s say she just met a hot guy,they hit it off,the sex topic comes up,she isn’t sure about this new guy(as to if he’s a critic or not),so her natural inclination would be to deny doing sexual acts which may be seen as taboo,nasty or slutty.

So it’s much easier and safer to lie about going down town.

“I don’t have one-nighters”

Classic lol!!!

Which guy on the face of the Earth never heard this lie before!!!?

If you’re used to getting laid,well you SHOULD be familiar with this fib.

I don’t have enough fingers and toes to behind to count the amount of times I’d picked up a chicc in a nightclub,who tells me she doesn’t have SNL(same-night lays),but later that night I’m banging the shit out of her!

The Reason she lies about not having one-nighters or Same Night Lays:

Just as the above the 2 reasons I’d outlined:this one comes down to not wanting to be judged and deemed a whore.

Every guy would love to brag about having one-nighters.

But for a girl!!!!She avoids admitting to this like it’s a fucking plague!

Never had I met a chicc who admitted having one-night stands.

When she does end up sleeping with me the same night,it’s always the same story,”I can’t believe I just did that.I never slept with a guy on the same night.You’re the first”.

What a fucking ego-stroker for me lol.

I would have loved to believe that I was her first-but bullshit!

Note:

What do the 3 lies have in common?

Plausible Deniability

It’s much safer(socially and emotionally)to just deny ever doing those things.

No woman wants to be judged,defamed nor characterized by the men she’s hoping to court her.

To say to a guy with which she’s hoping to have a relationship,that she sucks cock,or that she’s cheated before-that would be a turnoff to most men.

Women being privy to this,know that it’s much easier to just lie in order to NOT turn off a would-be boyfriend/good man.

Dick sizes and guys’ insecurities

Hey what’s up guys?

I got the concept for this post after reading an article on TSBmag by Natasha Abrams:What she thinks of your penis size.

However,my article delves a bit deeper into the male psyche when it comes to size.

Now,Im not gonna get into the whole argument of ‘what women prefer’.

Frankly,I believe it varies.

Some chiccs may prefer Mandingo:while others are content with a weiner.

Im looking at it from the guy’s viewpoint.Im a guy,so I know better when it comes to how we feel on a personal level.

Irony is,most guys probably never even pondered this concept as I have[Im such an analytical bastard].

Ok,what am I getting at?

*Every guy is insecure of his dick size!!!

Im gonna explain in a second,but let me give y’all a little back-story supporting my theory.

Ok,it’s no secret that guys can be real juvenile whenever we congregate to talk shit.

Few years ago,I was working for a sand-mining company here on the island[Barbuda]:an all-male firm BTW(talk about a sausage-fest environment).

On our lunch break,we gathered to chit chat about women,getting laid…so the subject of DICKS would naturally popped up occasionally.

At that time,I was a first-class homophobe,so guys talking about dicks was not a topic I wanted to entertain.

Anywho,I played moderator from the sidelines while listening to my co-workers trash it out about who has the bigger phallus and shit.

The argument led no where.None of us knew which one had the bigger dick.

The only way for us,or any guy for that matter,to know who’s bigger,is to have a dick-off;literally show each dick!

That wasn’t gonna go down among 6 heterosexual guys.Plus,that’d be fucking gay!

So the only means to determine who’s bigger(a dick-showing contest)-none of the guys would be willing to go that route(they never even proposed it).

So the argument went nowhere.Nothing resolved.

Fast forward to this moment as Im blogging this,I realized something about men:a deep deep insecurity about our members.

What makes us insecure is this:

*We do NOT know what the other guy’s packing.

If that phrase seemed like a paradox,let me break it down some more.

I don’t know what Jim’s packing,and I frankly wouldn’t care!

Jim doesn’t know what Im packing neither,so it’s a futile argument to argue who’s bigger.

We just won’t know.

Since both of us don’t know.Nor do any other guy knows,you would think as braggadocious men we are,we would instinctively assume that the other guy is smaller.

Wrong!!

Men are so insecure about their sizes,we would assume the other guy is bigger.

I don’t give a shit if you have a King Kong dick.Since you don’t know what the guy next to you has,out of insecurity,You’d assume he has a bigger King Kong dick than yours.

Case in point,1 of the same former co-worker of mines was known for having a Mandingo[among our social circle,we happened to lay the same girls,and most of them concluded that M***a had a baseball bat lol].

And he knew this because we were all part of the same social circle!

But even the fact that chiccs in our social circle told us he was much bigger,the fact that he didn’t know what every guy had,made him feel inadequate still(lol).

But I can see why.

If Im standing in a room with 20 guys and I happened to have a 15 incher(which would be huge).For all I know,those other 20 guys have 20 inchers!

The reality of not being in “the know”,would make any guy humble himself.

Just like a pro-boxer:

No matter how confident he is,if he’s presented with an un-known challenger, who he’s never seen(nor had any tapes to study of him),doubt,fear and questions will arise.Simply because he doesn’t know what the other guy has.

So the question of,”Does dick size matter”,is irrelevant to this post.

I just wanted to point out “dick size” from a guy’s point of view.And how insecurity plays a dominant role when you think about it.