Men Are Dumb When It Comes To Dating,Sex & Seduction

Men are dumb!!

Yea I said it.Want me to repeat it- in bold for that matter?

We men suck at everything women:be it the ability to discern whether she likes us or hates the very ground we walk on…we just don’t have a clue if our lives depended on it.

And honestly,this shit isn’t news-flash.The average guy knows that he sucks rediculously at seduction,reading women and getting his dick wet.

As much as it pains me to say[let me take a swig of this truth-juice]…Women are WAY more smarter than men,and more savvy when it comes to the sexes and courtship.They make us look like a go-cart in a formula 1 race SMH.This is widely accepted in the seduction community.

Story of a little boy named Jimmy,and a little girl named Jill

[Pay great attention to the contrasts]

*Little Jimmy hit puberty between 10-15.

*Little Jill hit puberty between ages 8 to 13[girls generally hit puberty before boys of the same age].

*Thus Jill has a head start of being aware of the biological changes taking place with her body[breasts,pubic hair,sexual awareness & sexual maturity].

*Jill,even before puberty,has experienced what it is to be hit on by fellow-male pupils in class.

*Jimmy on the other hand,as a boy,he’s never experienced being hit on by fellow-female pupils in class[since girls are NOT programmed to court boys,but to be the courted].

*Thus Jill knows how it feels and looks like to be the center of attraction and liking from boys at an early age.While Jimmy is left in the dark as to the process of “LIKING”(puppy-love).

*Also,Jill has naturally developed and adopted techniques in order to combat the onslaught of attention from little boys her age.She essentially learned how to screen,accept and reject boys.

*Jimmy on the other hand,never had to deal with such circumstances,thus his ability & skills to screen,reject and accept girls is NON-EXISTANT.

*Jill,most likely has come in contact with either a perverted-old man with a pedophilia urge:be it her weird-drunk uncle,perverted grandpa who might’ve felt her up at some point,a dad who touched her inappropriately,an elementary-school teacher(male)who gets a hard on from flirting with little girls,etc…

*The key point: Jill knows what guys are all about(even at the yound-innocent age of 11 or 13).She knows what flirting looks like.She knows what it looks like when a boy likes her.She knows boys want girls[although she doesn't know how to voice this nor make sense of it].

*Jimmy on the other hand,most likely never came in contact with a drunk aunt who felt him up,nor a grandmother who groped him inappropriately,nor a mother who had a weird-sexual fetish for her son,neither did he have a hot teacher in the 2nd.grade who flirted with him…[Little boys are attracted to their female teachers,while male teachers are known for seducing female pupils].

*So Jimmy’s pre-teen years were totally different to Jill’s.

*Little Jimmy hasn’t gotten the chance to develope his social savviness,nor his awareness of the sexes.

*Little Jill has been through it all.She’s seen it all.She knows how to read the body language of boys,equipping her with the know-how to discern if he likes or dislikes her.Opposed to Jimmy who’s essentially a lost soul,unaware of how to attract a girl,how to go about liking a girl,and how to read a girl’s body language.

*Jimmy & Jill are essentially prototypes of what every little boy and girl on the face of the Earth goes through.

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Let’s for a second observe what we see everyday with little boys and little girls.

Little boys are into:
*Mp3 players(music)
*Playing tag for tag sake
*Playing sports with other boys
*play fighting
*Watching Superman cartoons

Little girls are into:
*Boys,boy and more boys
*Makeup
*Fashion(dressing up)
*kiddie Pageants
*Watching Cinderella(cartoons based on courtship)

Those activities are stalk contrasts between what little boys do,and what little girls do.

Correlations with adult men & women:

*A girl can spot from a mile away when a guy is into her,virtually drooling over her,when he wants to fuck her,befriend her,marry her,hates her…

*An AFC(average guy) CANNOT spot when a girl likes him,even if he had infared vision which were able to penetrate her thoughts from blocs away.He doesn’t know the difference between a flirting-girl and a girl who’s just being social.

Unless he gets exposed to the PUA community,the manosphere or hangs out with a natural player who has ‘Game’,he will forever be a dummy when it comes to understanding women,love,sex and relationship.

Women are against using condoms!!

I can already foresee myself receiving ton loads of e-mail death threats from feminists,womens’ rights organizations and other anti-men groups because of this article.Nevertheless,an Alpha male is inclined to speak the truth.

The title is a bit misleading.What I really mean,is that it’s easy to fuck any woman without a condom.

RooshV,an Iranian-American pick-up artist/dating guru out of DC[the same guy who’s led the fight against feminism and nice-guys),wrote an eye-opening article a while ago about women not using condoms.I totally agree with Roosh on this one.Below is an excerpt from his article entitled “American girls don’t use condoms anymore“.

I’m shocked at the behavior of American women when it comes to condom use. Middle class white girls are, hands down, the dirtiest, filthiest type of girl I’ve been with. Most of them only care about using condoms for the first instance of sex, and a sizable percentage don’t even care if you use one at all for that first time, whether or not it’s a one-night stand where she has only known you for a couple hours.

If I was as dirty as them, I could probably have raw dog sex with 95% of all white girls, regardless of socioeconomic background. I only have met one girl that was super serious about using condoms, but I eventually fucked her without a condom too, so actually I change that to 100%. I could bang every white girl who lives in the United States without a condom if I desired, within three dates. I’m not kidding. I could do most of them raw dog on the same night.

At one point in time-actually throughout my lifetime,I was a dirty muthafucka.I banged anything raw dog(without a rubber).

Prior to meeting my current on & off girlfriend(end of 2009),armed with massive amounts of pick-up knowledge I’d accumulated over the years,95% of the girls I laid was done without protection,i.e.no condom.In fact,between 2004-2009,I only banged 1 girl with a condom.Every other girl I’d laid(which is enumerable),was raw-fucking dog.

Her background didn’t matter,her upbringing didn’t matter,her race didn’t matter.Among the women with whom I had un-protected sex,they were:Latinas,Black,Islanders,Americans,British,Canadians,etc.Fat,borderline obese to slimmies.All were bangable without a condom.

And that is why the last article I wrote(about women being irrational-check it out Here) makes major sense.Condoms/protection is a Rational/Material thing.Women do NOT process Rationality,Logics & Safety as men do.Women process and understand Emotions.

Using a condom is a Rational decision that the man(aka the rational being out of the sexes),would have to often make.So if the male decides to wear a rubber,the girl he’s about to fuck,will likely agree with it.But if that male decides to NOT wear a rubber,the girl will most likely put up some token/fake resistance,but she would move right along to banging raw dog.

It’s easy as taking a dump to convince a girl to let you bang her RAW.It doesn’t take much convincing at all LMAO.Most times,all the guy has to do is simply STOP,and become SILENT.I know because I’ve done it with almost every girl I laid prior to 2009.

The Reptilian Brain:

When a woman is in heat/at ‘buying temperature’(as we in the PUA community would say),she is essentially in an Emotional State.Sex =’s Emotions for women.Her reptilian brain is now activated.That portion of the brain is responsible for sex,desires,emotions,etc.Therefore,the girl has a hard time processing Safety,Security & Protection,which are Rational/Physical components.So while she is horny and turned on,the reptilian brain dominates the rational brain.

She knows sex without a condom could mean AIDS,STD’s,etc.,but the reptilian brain(emotions and desires)is powerful,so she proceeds with unprotected sex.This is the classic cause & effect case for women getting impregnated without intent,having one-night stands,sex in public places,etc.When the reptilian brain is activated and the woman is horny,protection/condom has little to no value to her.She will process that later and regret it later on after sex when she’s now in a rational state of mind.

And please,women need to refrain from bashing other women as crazies and sluts.All women are susceptible to banging Raw Dog.It has shit to do with her socio-economics,her upbringing,neither what her mother has taught her.

I had banged nurses raw dog,suburban chics,ghetto sluts,high-society ones,prostitutes(go figure),teachers,students,social workers(go figure),counselors(go figure),church-goers,religious ones,etc.So background has nothing-NADA to do with which chics bang raw or not.It all comes down to the guy and what he wants to do sexually.If he wants to bang her with a condom:it will happen.If he wants to bang her without one:it will happen.

I’m not advocating un-protected sex.In fact,It’s not my business what anyone does.Who wanna bang raw,it’s their prorogative(as Bobby Brown said).This post was basically mean to shed some light on how irrational and careless women can be and are on a whole.

Since 2009,I’ve take maybe 3 AIDS tests(which is a whole lot,considering that no one generally takes AIDS tests).I’ve been negative all 3 times(still have the receipts mothafukas LOL).And I haven’t been banging anyone raw besides my on & off GF of almost 3 years.So I’ve improved my sexual standards.

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Women Are Illogical And Non-Rational

chic logics

Women are Emotional:not Logical!!Grasp that pronto guys.

Women being illogical has been a common lesson in the pick-up community from the inception.Guys need to realize this,or we’re forever gonna be sucked into the maze of BS,wrecking our brains trying to figure out Chic Logics.Or getting pissed off when she does something that seems illogical.

Now,females reading this might be saying to themselves,”WTF-we women are totally logical and rational“!!

To prove this point(that women are irrational),I’m gonna point out some cases that every chic in the world can relate to(reluctantly).

Example excerpts from the PUA guru Maniac High’s “Pick-Up Guide“,about “Chick Logics”(which are irrational).Fucked up logics that only make sense to chics(which isn’t logical at all):

1.)I invite a chic over for dinner-she refuses and say she has an appointment with her friends that evening:but lunch would be ok.She comes over,we had lunch,I lay her.She ends up spending the night.I asked her the next morning,what happened to her friends and the appointment?She replied that she didn’t really have an appointment,but just that if she came over for dinner,she would probably sleep with me.I told her,”but you came over for lunch instead and you still slept with me anyways…Chic replies,”that was different”.

2.)I lay Ms.Kinky(see the lay report on the site),and later,I asked her for her home-phone #,she gives me her mobile # instead,and tells me she doesn’t have a home-phone.I banged her a few more times,spent a night at her place then fount out that she DOES have a home phone.I asked her why she didn’t tell me the truth.She replied that there are many ppl you can’t trust,and her friends told her not to give out her home # to ppl she doesn’t know well,’cause you never know what might happen.

I replied jokingly,”Oh,I see,So then it’s ok to let strange guys you don’t know(me)fuck you,spends nights in your place on the first night,but you don’t trust him enough to give your home-phone #”?She replies with a joking grin and gave me her home #.

3.)A chic I know who lives in another city(we’re just friends),I was to visit her city,and asked her if I can stay at her place.She tells me she has to ask her BF who’s out of town,’cause she’d feel guilty if she doesn’t ask if I can stay and some shit about trust in a relationship.She ask her BF,he says ok.I then come to find out that she’s fucking some guy she just met,behind her BF’s back(while he’s out of town),and he stays at her place(obviously without permission).But she needed permission for me?

4.)I invite a chic over,we got into heavy making out but she was on her period.Days later,invited her over to my place to finish the job(sex).She comes over,I lay her,she decides she wants to spends the night but feet all evening that she doesn’t have her curlers and accessories,’cause she was never intending to have sex and stay the night(according to her).Yea right,So I guess she was really just intending on coming over for milk and cookies.Go figure.

5.)I met a chic the first time,we drank and had dinner,made out then headed back to her place via train.At the train station,she tells me she lives with her parents so I probably can’t come in.I tell her,we’ll go to a motel.She says no,she’s not that kinda girl who goes to hotels on the first night of meeting a guy.So I fucked her right there in the train station behind some lockers instead.That was ok with her.

So there you go:Chic Logic.

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Women process things and information via Chic Logic.Opposed to men who process things with a rational mind(as anyone should).

For instance,a guy would say,”I like that girl”,then do his thing in order to get her.A pretty logical move on his part.

A girl would say to herself,”I like that dude”,but she would never do anything to make that liking obvious or clear to the guy whom she likes.Then,she’d hope and pray that he notices her out of 300 girls at the club.Pretty illogical move in going about liking a guy LMAO.

Thanks to the seduction community,I understand ‘Chic Logic’.And I also understand that women are NOT logical beings:but emotional.So whatever she says out of her mouth should NOT be taken at face value.

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What is it with Big-Black Women and these names?

This Diva cursed me out on Twitter

Ok,I’m not gonna win any fans with this post:especially not any female fans.And definitely not any black-female fans lol.

I can already foresee the hate mail rolling in by the bunches!And exes who’ve put on some extra pounds deleting me as Facebook friends over this shit.

But…it’s whateva man!

Oh- before I start my mini-tirade,I just wanna give acknowledgements to my man Reemachronicles for inspiring this short post[sorry if I sold you out bro'-lol].

Funny thing too happened last night.A Facebook friend of mine from Vancouver[who happens to be a BIG girl],she blew the fuck up on me about a post I wrote the other day!She claimed I was disrespectful,insensitive,rude,and that she will never talk to me again!

Typically,I would take preemptive measures and delete such headache.But since I’ve been on a rampage as of late[deleting fat girls and being deleted by them],I kept a cool head.

Anyway,What is it with fat sister/black girls coming up with all these pseudonyms to describe themselves!?

One minute,they are DIVAS and princesses…Give me a fucking break!!!

Haven’t we all heard the following names & terms that fat girls use for themselves[ego,insecurities and compensations]?

Plump
Thick
BBW(big beautiful woman)
Fluffy
Heavy-set
Plus-Size
More to Love
Healthy[lol what a contradiction]
Hefty Girl
Juicy
Full

Ok, those were the physical attributes.Now let’s get to the personality aspects that they chose to refer to themselves[which is all based on compensating and vanity].

Diva
Goddess
Black Queen
Bitchy
Strong
Secure(lol)
Assertive
No-nonsense
Beautiful
Take no shit
Queen Bitch

And the list could go on and on…Y’all get the damn picture!

I’ve also noticed that the 3 names they try to avoid like the plague,are actually the most accurate:BIG,FAT and CHUBBY.

A while ago on Facebook,I posted a status asking,”Why are heavy girls so opposed to being called BIG”?

4 quote on quote ‘heavy’ girl commented.But nome of them had a rational reason why they’re offended being described as big.They just said that it isn’t nice,it’s disrespectful and a No-No,bla,bla,bla…

Actually,1 of the big girls I had a recent fall out with on twitter & FB,she the actual girl in the pic above on this post.

She won’t be pleased with me using her pic’-but fuck it!Her face is disguised anyway lol[and I doubt she reads my so-called misogynistic blog anymore-according to her].

So she basically cursed me out on twitter saying that she’s classy,assertive,highsidity,bitchy,secure with her weight…

I never dissed her prior,but she’d checced out my blog(after seeing a link),then unloaded on me,trying to convince me that she’s the BOMB and queen bitch lol.

CONCLUSION

The main theme I express to these BIG girls[to be politically correct],is that they should be accepting of themselves.Not every girl can have a Zumba-fit body.So accept it and move the F on,opposed to compensating and whining.

Kill that false persona!And remove that proverbial mask shielding your insecurities behind an attitude of,”I’m a Diva,I’m a bitch,I’m a queen”.

Most of all,fat girls should know when to be humble.And this goes for black girls mainly,who seem to be the most insecure when it comes to being fat.

A white fatty would more say,”I’m big,I’m plus-sized”.

But a sister LMAO!!!

She has to get all elaborate with it and extra with it:”I’m a queen,I’m fluffy…

Shut the F*** up and face reality!

The Diva on the right got offended by my writings also.

Gaming my sister’s friends[social proof]

This was the HB’s wardrobe for Halloween I stole from her Facebook page(with her consent if course lol.

Taking advantage of social proof with my sisters’ friends:

I’ve noticed a trend as of late with my sisters’ girlfriends:it’s way easy to game them(lol)!!!

I never game my sisters’ friends through out the years.I just seen them as off limits and having a great potential to backfire and screw up her social circle.

But lately[past month],it’s as if a friggin’ lightbulb suddenly came on in my head with the following message in bold:

“It’s a gold mine and easy ass in seducing my sisters’ friends”

Say no more(lol)!!

Many nights of struggling in field trying to game girls who are just not interested,I find gaming her friends to be a godsend.

Last night:

To further explore this theory,I pre-planned a meet up with my paternal sister at a Soca concert last night at a club.

Knowing she always rolls with HB’s(8 and better),I was super hype about the prospects(yes)!!

We met,chatted a bit in the venue(making sure that all the HB’s in our immediate circumference see us),then somewhere during the dialogue,we made it known that we were siblings[chi ching-lol].

So I wasn’t just some random- fucking Joe Blow trying to hit on her and her social circle:I was her brother,thus forcing the group to automatically respect social norms to accept me[thanks toLove System's violation theory article for this trick and tip]

With this dynamic,the guy can virtually get away with murder!

You would literally have to do something extremely over the top for these girls to shut you down(in a bitchy way).

Having your sister(even brother)as part of this social group ensures inclusion, and basically grants you immunity from( blatant) rejection.

Even if her friends are disgusted by you, and even if you looked like an ultra-jacked-up version of Shrek,her friends are obliged via social norms(which is unwritten but intelligible and understood)to not reject you.

I used to see guys do this all the time and get away with murder.But I never understood what was taking place-nor the psychology behind it.

I would say to myself,”Why the fuck isn’t she slapping the shit out of that asshole”?

Then to later find out that the leader of the group(alpha female) was his sister.

I have a guy-friend who resembles Shrek:literally!

And he has a brother who’s super popular(a ball player)who gets laid.

So whenever we go out clubbing,my friend(the Shrek-look alike),would be gaming girls off his broher’s popularity:eating his brothers’ proverbial crumbs lol!

So while 3 girls would be chatting with his brother,my friend would be grinding on one of their asses an doin overboard shit!

And none of these chiccs would recoil and pull away.

So last night with my sister’s group,I tested this model.

I shot a text message to my sister telling her to meet me near the exit on the dancefloor:and bring her friends.

They all came over after spotting me in the crowd and they all were dancing infront of me(a 4 set).So I shouted to the group,”Hey sis”!Re affirming that I’m ‘safe’.

Then I grabbed the hands of the hottest girl in her group(an HB10)and grind the shit out of her for 10 seconds lol!

Twirling around like a Whirling Dervish,I grabbed another one of her gf’s from behind and grinded her for few minutes while my sister laughed lmao!

Feeling a burst of empowerment and the liquor in my system,the sleazy side of me came out:which I never knew I had BTW lol.

If The dynamics were different where as my sister wasn’t part of this circle,I probably would’ve caught a groping charge or got stomped out by a bunch of girls lol.

Later on,I isolated the hottest one from the set,chatted with her about Facebook while we playfully tug at each other[well-me doing most of the tugging].

Such flirting went back and forth few minutes and I slapped her on her perky ass and proceeded to grim on her thighs for a bit more.

Push comes to shove,I could’ve had my sister bring her back to my crib or something but I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead to lay anything.

Conclusion:

I now realize that having a sister who’s into the social scene and nightlife is like sitting on a gold mine,as far as picking up chiccs is concerned.

This is social-circle game at its pinnacle.

Curious to know if other guys out there are privy to this concept.

Greatest obstacle to getting laid is not her beliefs:it’s bad logistics.

This post is specifically geared towards shedding some light on female psychology when it comes to dating.

Looking back at my past lays and almost lays,and analyzing other guys’ situations,I realize that the greatest obstacle to getting laid is logistics-not what the girl believes(her beliefs).

A lot of newbies on seduction forums get it twisted also by being swindled into ‘taking it slow’,respecting her views and values.

Cool-we should respect everyone’s views,but when it comes to dating and sex,a woman’s views and values mean Nothing…Nada!

Prime example:

Girl tells guy,”I don’t sleep with guys on the 1st.date.Not even the 3rd.date”.

An AFC or newbie would buy this shit,thus taking such declarations literal.

He being misinformed would then wait,or not go KINO out of fear of rejection,or fear of offending her values on not banging on the 1st.date.

Up and coming dating coaches like myself,we know better than to fall for this BS,so we plow anyway accordingly.

And the spin-off insight here is that chiccs’ frames and beliefs are friggin’ pliable and weak!

Humans in general go against what they believe.But with women,going against their values are much more common.

I don’t have figure for this so Im only basing it on personal experiences(which is the best teacher).

My point?A woman’s frame is weak!

Every woman wants to come off as assertive,strong and firm,but when faced with someone who gets it,she won’t mine betraying her previously-held beliefs just for that moment.

So when a chicc tells me she doesn’t have sex out if wedlock(anymore),that shit flies out the other ear in a heart beat!

Same as when a girl tells me she has a BF and she thinks cheating is a grave sin,I game on just as if she was single.

Having the knowledge that her frame can be beaten and her beliefs and views are bullshit in the moment,I pay no mind to her views.

Logistics:

So the greatest obstacle to getting ass is logistics(bad ones).

I’ve never had a pick up fucked up because of the girl’s belief or that she’s celebate or some shit.

But I’ve had sets fuck up many times because of poor logistics.

Examples of bad logistics fucking up potential lays:

1.After the club,tried taking the girl home but wasn’t thinking and forgot to park the car nearby(to kill any backward rationalizing by her)

2.My crib was too friggin dirty

3.Living with my grandma once so couldn’t lay the chicc in peace.

4.No where to lay her,took her to my uncle’s spot but he wasn’t home(lol).

I can go on and on and on bro!

Push comes to shove,I’d lay a girl anywhere possible,so logistics have to really be flubbed up if I didn’t lay her on a street corner or behind a dumpster lol.

The lesson here is guys,don’t let her views,religion,beliefs deter you from seducing her.

Girls are willing to put their beliefs aside for a good time or for one night.

Dick sizes and guys’ insecurities

Hey what’s up guys?

I got the concept for this post after reading an article on TSBmag by Natasha Abrams:What she thinks of your penis size.

However,my article delves a bit deeper into the male psyche when it comes to size.

Now,Im not gonna get into the whole argument of ‘what women prefer’.

Frankly,I believe it varies.

Some chiccs may prefer Mandingo:while others are content with a weiner.

Im looking at it from the guy’s viewpoint.Im a guy,so I know better when it comes to how we feel on a personal level.

Irony is,most guys probably never even pondered this concept as I have[Im such an analytical bastard].

Ok,what am I getting at?

*Every guy is insecure of his dick size!!!

Im gonna explain in a second,but let me give y’all a little back-story supporting my theory.

Ok,it’s no secret that guys can be real juvenile whenever we congregate to talk shit.

Few years ago,I was working for a sand-mining company here on the island[Barbuda]:an all-male firm BTW(talk about a sausage-fest environment).

On our lunch break,we gathered to chit chat about women,getting laid…so the subject of DICKS would naturally popped up occasionally.

At that time,I was a first-class homophobe,so guys talking about dicks was not a topic I wanted to entertain.

Anywho,I played moderator from the sidelines while listening to my co-workers trash it out about who has the bigger phallus and shit.

The argument led no where.None of us knew which one had the bigger dick.

The only way for us,or any guy for that matter,to know who’s bigger,is to have a dick-off;literally show each dick!

That wasn’t gonna go down among 6 heterosexual guys.Plus,that’d be fucking gay!

So the only means to determine who’s bigger(a dick-showing contest)-none of the guys would be willing to go that route(they never even proposed it).

So the argument went nowhere.Nothing resolved.

Fast forward to this moment as Im blogging this,I realized something about men:a deep deep insecurity about our members.

What makes us insecure is this:

*We do NOT know what the other guy’s packing.

If that phrase seemed like a paradox,let me break it down some more.

I don’t know what Jim’s packing,and I frankly wouldn’t care!

Jim doesn’t know what Im packing neither,so it’s a futile argument to argue who’s bigger.

We just won’t know.

Since both of us don’t know.Nor do any other guy knows,you would think as braggadocious men we are,we would instinctively assume that the other guy is smaller.

Wrong!!

Men are so insecure about their sizes,we would assume the other guy is bigger.

I don’t give a shit if you have a King Kong dick.Since you don’t know what the guy next to you has,out of insecurity,You’d assume he has a bigger King Kong dick than yours.

Case in point,1 of the same former co-worker of mines was known for having a Mandingo[among our social circle,we happened to lay the same girls,and most of them concluded that M***a had a baseball bat lol].

And he knew this because we were all part of the same social circle!

But even the fact that chiccs in our social circle told us he was much bigger,the fact that he didn’t know what every guy had,made him feel inadequate still(lol).

But I can see why.

If Im standing in a room with 20 guys and I happened to have a 15 incher(which would be huge).For all I know,those other 20 guys have 20 inchers!

The reality of not being in “the know”,would make any guy humble himself.

Just like a pro-boxer:

No matter how confident he is,if he’s presented with an un-known challenger, who he’s never seen(nor had any tapes to study of him),doubt,fear and questions will arise.Simply because he doesn’t know what the other guy has.

So the question of,”Does dick size matter”,is irrelevant to this post.

I just wanted to point out “dick size” from a guy’s point of view.And how insecurity plays a dominant role when you think about it.

Enlightenment:girl confirms seduction insights over phone chat

Interesting thing went down tonight during a phone call with an HB9:let’s call her Risky.

Ok,brief info about how we met:

In fact,she’s a recent- Facebook friend of mine and we actually FB chatted for a good damn portion of the evening.

Number exchanged quite smoothly[sly smile].

Called her up about an hour ago(half hour after the # close) and we had an enlightening/revealing chat about seduction and pick-up.

Generally,I have no friggin’ qualms of telling girls what I do and about the community[don't crucify me guys-lol].

So,after dropping the proverbial A-bomb that I’m a PUA,she actually took it as expected-intrigued and hooked like fucking chicc crack!

It always kills me why guys hide the fact that they do pick up as if it’s a friggin’ turn off to women!

Anyway,these were the main points that Risky(the HB9)confirmed:

1.PRE-SELECTION

She confirms to me that pre-selection does exist!

I hear many gurus nowadays trying to shoot down the concept of pre-selection,actually saying that it doesn’t exist or it isn’t necessary nor helpful to the pick-up.

Well Risky actually shared a snippet with me about her current BF and how she got with him.

According to her,it came down to pre-selection[eventhough it was done subconsciously by her].

Pre-selection had trumped any other quality that this guy might or might not have had.

Not using PS would be would be like a cripple refusing to use a wheelchair.

2.DRINKS

No she didn’t give the OK to buy drinks all night like a chode(lol).

But the funny thing though,she actually tried defending the “buying-drink syndrome” as expected.

Risky:”What’s wrong with buying us drinks?So if you’d met me at the club,wouldn’t you buy me a drink”?

After saying “hell no” like a true fucking alpha,she came clean and admitted, in other words, that drink-buying would be beta and supplicative.

Thanks to having a stronger frame,she fessed the hell up(lmao)!!

She went as far as to insinuate that drink-buying would be tantamount to trying to buy the ass or buy her attention.

Classic beta male shit for trying to get laid at bars.

The last revelation was:

3.BAD BOYS

Yep-it was confirmed:hotter girls ARE attracted to the rebels(yes)!

Side note:Risky(the HB9 on the phone)isn’t admitting these things directly.

More so subconsciously and subcommunicatively.

Afterall,it’s a like a push-pull dance;the guy(me)seeks insight.The girl gets irrational,try side step from agreeing directly then opts for the indirect route lol.

Truely,I didn’t need her to confirm these things to me(in whichever way she did).

I see these concepts at play all day in field.

But it’s refreshening when you can have an HB9 corroborate deeply-held dating- psychology concepts.

So guys,pre-selection is relevant as the sun to existence.

Buying drinks like losers is still a friggin’ no-no!!

As I told her,there are few exceptions to buying strangers drinks:

*A girl you’ve been acquainted with prior,who you’re not even gaming for whatever reason.

*A relative,sister,etc.

*Or a girl you’ve already banged.

Those are my 3 exceptions to buying a girl a drink off the bat.

And I wanna believe that it’s the community’s exceptional cases also.

As expected,she said I was cheap for not buying drinks(lol),but with a stronger meta-frame,she admitted that it would’ve DLV’d me.

Overall,it was a good chat and she confirmed a lot of things many of us in the seduction community seen as antiquated,outdated and irrelevant.

No friggin’ shortcuts!

Wow-literally my 1st.entry in a while.

It’s really hard keeping up with content while trying to stay busy in other areas.

I’ve noticed something about me that I’ve struggled with for years;inner game shit.

I had it under control for the past 3 years but over the last 6 months-it’s resurfaced.

That’s taking shortcuts-literally!

Im not talking about metaphorically. Im talking about literally taking shortcuts to reach a destination(via walking).

I doubt Im the only guy who has suffered from this shortcut-syndrome.

Now really,why do we take shrtcuts?

Is it really to arrive sooner to where the hell you wanna reach?

Perhaps[logically].

Or is it to avoid having to have to interract with people(strangers)and be social?

I think the latter speaks fucking volume.

People are afraid of having to interract.

So we opt for the back door to get to where we wanna be.

Let me break it down and clarify the concept.

Let’s say an average guy is at a bar or any other semi-crowded venue.

He wants to go go to the restroom to take a piss or whatever.Not urgently,but he just wants to go.

But there’s a crowd of girls or mixed sets(males & females)directly infront of him.

To his left,there’s another set of people.

But to his right,he has a clear path;which just happens to be the shortest route to the restroom.

So he obviously takes route right(clear path);primarily to avoid having to have to interract with the people in his way.

Logics may say;”take the shortcut”.

But is it logics saying this or is it fear & anxiety of having to face people?

Recently at a club,I fount myself circling the venue for the faster route to 1 of the bars;subconsciously seeking out a shortcut.

Why was I doing this?

Sure I wanted a fucking cocctail pronto!

But I could have went right through the crowds of people to get to the nearest bar.

Insead,I moped around like a weird AFC looking for a shortcut with less chances of having to communicate with anyone.

It’s a form of social anxiety basically!

The other night(morning)while leaving the club,I had 2 routes to chose in order to get to my friend’s parked car.

Route 1 was empty.

But route 2 was flooded with HB8-10′s,drunk,semi-sober,etc.

If I were to take route 2,I undoubtedly would’ve be noticed by the girls,thus may have been socially obliged to face them/interract/communicate.

So like a big pussy I felt like that night,I chosed route 1,which was empty,just to avoid people in route 2.

Eveytime I do this,I beat myself up later on about it.

Like I said,I had this under total control over the past 3 years;I would walk right through a crowd of HB’s with balls of steel,and felt fine to open the whole set.

But my inner game in this aspect has failed me over the past 6 moths.

Im now avoiding would-be interractions by taking shortcuts no matter where Im at:club,bar,street,store,etc.

Im wondering if Im the only one who’s noticed this in their game.

Another mind-fucking tactical game women play.Plus sex & religion.

Ok guys,let me not beat around the bush with this one.

I got the idea of writing this blog post after reading a tweet by WillyWonka,which basically touches upon mind-games women may play regarded to sex.

Ever met a girl today,eventually start banging her days/weeks later,become fuck-buddies,fling,LTR(relationship),etc?

Then some where down the line,this same girl now indirectly professes to be a saint when it comes to sex.

Classic example:

I meet girl C.We hit it off,have great sex,etc.

Girl C gives a mean blowjob that would send any fortunate guy to cloud 9!

All is good with Girl C.

Girl C and I have a falling out,or we just decide to move on quite amicably from being fuck-buddies.

Now months later,Girl C contacts me(or vice versa)to chat,hang out and catch up.

Cool so far.

Girl C and I are now on the couch making out heavily like wild rabbits.

I can recall the spectacular blowjob she gives,so Im now anticipating that to go down as it did when we first met months prior.

No big friggin’ deal right?

Wrong!!!

Girl C now decides to drop the Atom bomb on me when I motioned for her to go down(as she’d done normally):

Girl C:”Nah,I dont do that anymore.I’ve changed my life(style)”.

WHAT!!!!!

Not now!!!!!

Pull this shit with the next guy,the next time,but not this time with me!

That’s what I was saying to myself with a desperate groan.

Long story short-mission aborted.

Now,Girl C is fictional.That whole story was made up to reach a point.

I have had similar things occur with women;more so via phone convo.

I usually wanna figure out where she’s at(sexually)before I waste time trying to re-connect with the fuck-buddy.

Ok,true story now:

I had a fuck-buddy few years back.

We did all kinds of shit sexually;in line with heterosexual acts of course.

But I mostly enjoyed her bj’s & anal banging(lol);this chick was a pro!

We eventually discontinued our fling and hadn’t spoken in 5 months or so.But we’d parted on good terms.

We reconnected over the phone[I fount her # somehow].

Good timing on my part actually;she was dying to hear from me!

During the chat,sex was brought up almost mutually.But that’s where the vibe went south-dead!

And this isnt unique to this girl.

This happens with EVERY girl I used to bang:no fucking exceptions!

So I brought up the topic of anal sex(which she loved).

I didnt just bring it up untactfully like an AFC.I smoothly transitioned the convo into sex once I sensed she was warmed enough.

Nevertheless,the vibe and her tone went south.

She said,”I don’t do anal sex anymore”.

Me:”For real?Why the hell not”?!!

HB9:”I changed my life(style);those things are wrong”.

Me:”What!!!?So how about oral sex,What’s your new position on that”?

HB9:”I dont do that anymore neither.It’s nasty to be honest”.

Me:”Lol,you’re killing me”.

Now let’s fast forward and delve into her psyche:

Firstly:

I dont buy her shit!!

I believe she was lying to me and trying to persuade me to think that she was an angel:born-again angel.

Women do this a lot.

Guys,if you’ve never had this happen;you never been laid(lol).

I find that religion plays a huge part in swaying the minds of many girls(in regards to sex).

Somehow,Christians or Muslims aren’t to be having anal sex,oral sex,doggy style,nor any form of sex for that matter.

And this’ within the confines of being married.

It’s taboo for a religious-married couple to engage in oral,anal,etc.So Im not just speaking on sex out of wedlock being wrong if you’re a Christian,Muslim or Jew.

Example of religion swaying a woman’s belief:

A sexually-expressive girl aka a freak,would drop everything she knows and does sexually,after seeing a telecast of Joyce Meyer,T.D.Jakes or any other recognized-religious pastor.

And it’s not that they preach not to have oral/anal sex.But once a girl sees or hears anything religious,she comes to the conclusion that oral & anal is taboo and should be avoided.

And it’s not like these girls become celebate or abstain from sex all together.

Hell fucking no!!

They still get laid,despite knowing sex out of marriage isn’t allowed.

But these girls assume that anal,oral or swallowing would be abominable acts,while having sex exclusively would somehow be acceptable.

Since when is giving a blowjob taboo!?

Dont get me wrong,I’d understand if the girl never goes down.Or she went down once and hated it.

But dont tell me after being a blowjob queen and taking it up the butt like a pro for ages,that you no longer do those things.

Or that you all of a sudden see it as taboo,nasty or unhealthy.

Cool,Im for people making lifestyle changes.

But be genuine about it.

I can bet 100% of those girls who’d sold me that bullshit were actually lying to me.

And they probably went down on some guy the following day.

That same guy she will then say to months from now,”I dont do that anymore”.

While having raunchy sex with some other guy(s)perpetuating the cycle of bullshit and lies.

What’s behind all this mental fuckery?

Backwards rationalization of course.

Deploying her ASD(anti-slut defenses)to TRY preserve her sainthood.

Womens’ #1 fear is to be perceived as sluts[the seduction community teaches us this].

In spite both of us already know that she’s a freak,and she loves being on the sluttier side(which every man loves),she still cannot help but to play the saint role.Anything other than “the missionary position is taboo” role.

The causes get deep than religion.

Once had a girl who told me that she doesnt go down anymore,after reading a newspaper article of a girl contracting some oral STD via blowjob.

That totally made her anti-blowjobs.

Whether it’s true or not(getting an STD via bj)is besides the point.

This girl may tell me this,but she’s most likely still going down on some other asshole,until he finds himself in my shoes months later,ands she’s telling him she doesnt go down anymore.

But I do find mostly that religion is the #1 culprit in having women very unstable when it comes to sexual acts.

So,to the guys who’ve encountered this before but didnt know from where it came,this post should have shed some light on it.