The Seduction/Pick-Up Community[with Video Demo]?

Mystery aka Erik VM:the Godfather of the PUA community.

A lot of my readers via e-mail, have been asking me about the PUA community, wondering,”WTF is pick-up or the seduction community that Socialkenny always refer to”!!?”WTF is a “Field-Report,Lay-Report,Alpha,Neg,Beta,Targets,etc.“?I’ll shed some light on it now.

The Seduction Community/Pick-Up Community is a wold-wide underground community based on picking up women,laying women and getting that hot girlfriend you’ve always wanted(as a guy).We have no racial nor ethnic barriers(we have Asian members,Phillipinos,Brits,Blacks,Mexicans,Canadians,etc).Just as every organization,we have guidelines,rules,structure and in-fighting.

The community received a huge boost of exposure in 2008 with VH1′s The Pickup Artist,a reality show,where Mystery,Matador & J-Dog,taught contestants how to pick up women in bars,club and streets.Sought of like a contest.

Some of our core beliefs are:

*Women hate nice-guys
*Become a badboy(which women are attracted to)
*Be very social
*Have balls to approach any girl(s)

As with every organization,there are rankings and positions.A guy who is new to the community is called a Newbie or RAFC.Newbies are students who have limited to no skills in getting women.95% of us in the PUA community started out as Newbies/Students(quite naturally).As a newbie,we learn fundamentals of picking up women.Some guys study seduction materials(e-books,DVD’s,etc.) for years before they actually go In-Field. Dating coach/PUA Speer of Speermethod.com in field footage.

As a Newbie progresses with the knowledge he learned from a Guru/MPUA(master pick-up artist/dating coach,he’s then expected to apply that knowledge and skill In-Field.So a coach/guru would take him to a club,bar or on the streets to do Cold Approaches/Street Pick Up(just randomly going up to hot girls and chatting them up).PUA doing cold approach.What boyfriend lol?

Most newbies are expected to get Blown Out(rejected,dissed)hundreds of times by women while starting out In-Field.we have a philosophy in the PUA community that the more a guy gets “blown out”,he naturally becomes immune to it,thus making him almost bulletproof after a while.So when a girl does diss him,he doesn’t get discouraged nor ego-hurt.

After a while of trail and error,the newbie then becomes a PUA(pick-up artist).If he becomes good at seducing women(over the course of few years),he then graduates to become a coach/teacher/MPUA(master PUA),where he can then teach newbies how to pick up women.

We use many acronyms and terms:

*Target:A hot girl you intend to seduce.
*HB(hot babe):That’s any hot girl.We refer to girls as targets or HB’s.
*AMOG:That’s a guy who may try to cock block you or mess up your game.
*AFC:Any guy who doesn’t know how to attract women.Your average guy.
*Night Game:Seducing women during the night.
*Day Game:Seducing women during the day time.
*Chick-crack:Something said that intrigues the girl thus making her hook.

Now,my readers may ask,”But what is the difference between PUA’s and your average players”?Many differences.

We follow a structure/model/formula.When a PUA sees an HB/Target,he ensures that:

1.)He approaches her within 3 seconds top!![3-second rule].3-Second Rule

2.)His body language is Alpha(dominant).

3.)He smiles in a sly/badass way.

4.)He then choses an Opener/Routine as his opening line to break the ice.BravoPUA opens girls at a bar.

The PUA community has tons of Openers that Newbies can chose from(although advanced PUA’s tend to construct their own openers).A classic openers is:

‘Who lies more’?

So the PUA would approach the HB/target(girl),and say:

PUA:“Hey,I need your quick opinion on something.It’s kinda controversial nevertheless:who lie more-women or men”?

The above would be considered an Opinion Opener,where the PUA is asking the target for her opinion.

Openers like these,women LOVE!!It gets them engaged in the chat.

Then the PUA would chat a bit about who lies more(women or men),then he has to Routine Stack(move on to another topic) before he stalls out and bores the girl.So he would then dish out another routine/opener:

‘Jealous-Girlfriend Routine’

PUA:“You know what’s so funny,a buddy of mines,I’m not gonna call his name,but his GF fount a bunch of love letters under his bed from an ex-GF from a few years ago.His GF then gives him a fucking ultimatum:Get rid of all the letters,or she’s gonna consider breaking it off!!I mean,is that normal,or is his GF over reacting”?

That’s another great topic that women love to discuss.After chatting on this,the PUA has to again routine stack(change subject).

The objective of such routines is to attract and intrigue the girl by chatting about interesting things,opposed to boring her like 95% of guys who’re approaching her with,”So,do you like the music,do you come here often,what’s your name,can I buy you a drink,you’re cute”.?

Such openers are boring and turn women off.So the PUA has a major upper-hand on the competition by opening with something interesting.BTW,we are TOTALLY against pick-up lines!!Despite the name pick-up,we do NOT use pick-up lines at all!!!We would NEVER approach a girl with,”Heaven must be missing an angel ’cause I’m looking at one“.That’s cheesy and doesn’t work in getting the girl.

Approaching a target or Set(let’s say a girl and her friends at a bar),is easy for a seasoned PUA.But for the average guy,approaching a sexy girl is Hard,Nerve-Wrecking and Scary!So to counter this anxiety(which we call AA(approach anxiety),the community has a 3-Second Rule.That means,once you spot an HB(girl),you MUST approach her before 3 seconds expire!!Approaching her instantly diminishes the possibility of the guy becoming nervous and having doubts.

So while AFC’s(average guys) are in clubs watching,gazing and staring weirdly at the OHD(object of his desire) the whole night without saying a word,the PUA has to open her within 3 seconds of seeing her.So we force ourselves to become Social & Pro-Active.

K-Close aka Kiss Close:Another major part of the seduction community is Kiss Closing the HB.We don’t just chat all night:we Escalate on the target!!Once a girl hits BT(buying temperature)/she’s horny and into you,the PUA goes for the kiss-close/makeout.At a certain point during a chat,a PUA can sense when a woman wants to be kissed.Dating coach Adonis amog’d(cockblocked)but still managed to K-Close the target.

Most of what I mentioned above is categorized as Outter-Game.Inner-Game stuff involves dealing with guys’ fears(lack of confidence,anxiety around hot women,low-self esteem issues,etc).We also have a female/human psychology wing,where we teach about the inner workings of attracting women.

So armed with the above skills(just for starters),the PUA is a deadly seducer with Game,who intimidates Betas(men who suck up to women).The PUA doesn’t compliment women(directly),he doesn’t buy drinks for women,he Negs women(say negative things disguised in a slick way to fly under the radar),he punishes and rewards women,he’s the guy in the club making out with hot chics(although most PUA’s aren’t attractive-looking).The PUA knows that looks is only 1% on the scale of attraction.

So ladies:watch out for the guy who’s approaching you on the streets or at the grocery store or club:he might just be a pick-up artist ready to seduce and take you on an adventurous ride.

Cellphone Technique For Picking Up Girls In Loud Venues

A poster over at The Pick-Up Artist Forum[Storm3x]had asked me a question this morning about picking up girls in loud venues(since where he’s from in Sweden,the clubs are usually extra loud to the point of not hearing a word).So I came up with a routine/technique to eliminate this common obstacle.

First off,guys need to realize that when in loud venues,where it’s hard to verbalize,non-verbal cues are key.So most of what you say out of your mouth-goes out the window(since it’s difficult to hear).My cellphone routine bridges that gap,and make the attraction process more efficient and smoother.

Ok,let’s say you spot the OYD(object of your desire/girl)from afar.Make eye contact first(if possible).As soon as she gives you the universal non-verbal invitation to come over(via eye contact),you then approach her with your cellphone out.

Why cellphone?Remember-it’s too loud for her to hear you.This routine is for loud-ass venues and clubs(like in Sweden).Although you can still use it in semi-loud venues.

As you get up to her(or her friends),type into your cellphone what you would say normally.I would,in this circumstance,say and use an opener like this,”Your parents never told you it was impolite and rude to eye-flirt with random strangers at the club”?So I would write that into my phone(a note app or default-text app)with smiley faces of course.

Then give her your phone to continue the dialogue.Or have her pull out her cellphone(since it’d be easier for her)to continue and reply.

It’s fun,playful,flirty and unique.And it cannot fail.Most women in loud-ass clubs will participate and play along.The only ones who wouldn’t,obviously cannot read LMAO.There isn’t far you can get with those types anyway.

And the point of this pick-up routine/technique is NOT to be doing this back and forth for the entire night while the girl is 4 drinks deep.As with any routine,you must transition!So after she gets invested and open,lead her off to a quiet part of the venue to chat.So write that in your cellphone,show it to her["let's go to the quiet part to chat"],then take her hand(like a confident bastard) and lead her to somewhere which enables y’all to chat.

If she resists,recalibrate by continuing the cellphone dialogue to further warm her up to the idea of going to a quiet location.

The hidden beauty of this routine is this:when you do decide to go for the # exchange(to get her #),the process would be so easy and smooth, that it makes walking on water looks like child’s play LMAO.She won’t refuse to give you her #,since psychologically y’all have already been engaged in phone-game(via my cellphone technique).

Guys remember,this isn’t only applicable in extra-loud venues.If you’re just not in a chatty mood that night at the club,feel free to whip out the smart phone and get playful(whether she can hear you or not).Tell her you have a severe case of strep-throat or hoarse beyond recognition,so the only means of communication is via text…until you decide to tell her the truth LMAO!

Feel free to check out 1 of my first blog post,where I’d picked up the hottest girl in a club and took her back to my expensive-island hotel but…LMAO!Just check it the fuck out.it’d make you learn and laugh a bit at the end[How I picked up the hottest girl at the club(who's usually bitchy)].

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

How I picked up the hottest girl at the club-who’s usually bitchy.

Hot girls are usually bitchy!Whether that stems from their insecurities or from the many guys they’ve rejected over the years:bitchiness & beauty usually goes hand in hand.

Ok,with that out the way,lets get to the action!!

Few years ago,after reading an online-seduction article on gaming hotter girls[cant remember by which dating coach],I was pumped as hell to try out some new stuff!I was flying solo that night(no wingman to fuck up my game).

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Ordered a cocktail,then headed to the dancefloor to survey some ass while tryna look as normal as possible(and not like an AFC/weird guy).

I usually dont go for the hottest chic in a venue[too much competition].But this time-instead of settling for an 8 or 9,a hot ass HB10 caught my eyes from the get-go!!!Not only my eyes;this chick had every guy’s attention at the Coast night club!

I mean it was mesmerizing the way she twirled and whined like an Indian- belly dancer.

All the average guys,naturals & players were hovering around this chick like fucking helicopters.Some tryna talk to her,others tryna dance with her,others asking her to let them buy her drinks(lmao).

Of course she shut them down like a true b***h would.

I’d typically be one of those rejectees[thanks to the underground-seduction community].

So I threw on my James Bond cool demeanor while I gave her “the eye”.

Not a gawking,deer in the headlights stare.But a dominant look with a sly stare & smile which exude,”Im not like those other chumps”.

I mean,we spoke to each other via body language & eye contact.Not a word said,but our bodies were in tuned.It’s divine;cant put it in words but I just felt it.

At this point,I body rock out(turn my back towards her).We were about 15 yards apart;a technique I’d learned from reading materials by Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik[the God of pick-up].

While all the guys were facing her,I was the only one slightly turned away.That shit must’ve made her insecurity alarms go off(questioning her beauty),”why isnt he paying me any attention,am I not pretty enough,is he not attracted-why not”?

That’s what usually runs through the minds of high-maintenance types, when they’re not given the attention they think they deserved,they then question themselves.

Sure,she had all the attention a girl could ask for(from about 20 men in her circumfrence),but those men weren’t challenging.They indicated their interests way too soon,thus disqualifying themselves before the game began.

I was “the only” challenge she had.

She eventually got jaded and tired of all the attention,so she exited the dancefloor and went to look over the railings into the bay[the club overlooks a bay since it was on the island's coast line].

So I made my way over to her(from the side,so I didn’t startle her by coming up directly behind her like a creep)…

And I said these magical words to her “I can dance way better than you“,then walked off right away[slowly,confidently and cocky].

Now you may ask,”what was so magical about that line”?But the magic wasnt in the line(words),but the audacity to go up to the hottest girl in the club and say something bold with a cool-sly smile.

She expected me to throw some cheesy-ass pick up line,compliment or offer to buy her a drink like 95% of guys would.But I flipped the script with a C&F line[pick up slang for something ballsy and challenging],which totally fucked up her mental circuitry.

And to top it off-I walked off instead of staying there like a needy-guy(subcommunicating that I was lonely and wanted to chat).So I walked away slowly to the nearest bar in the venue where she would be able to see where I went.

Now remember,Im following a script here:according to the pick-up article I’d read a week prior to this,if done right(the take aways,body language,etc.),she would track me down to continue the chat.

All I had to do from then on was to not get lost in the crowd where she couldn’t see me.

Still skeptical of this working(she following me and tracking me down),I ordered another Malibu & pj and got sidetracked by 1 of the TV’s in a lounge area.Then I felt a tap on my shoulder-which scared the shit out of me(lol)!Turned around,and it was the HB10-Hot Girl.

At this point,Im paralyzed with anxiety not knowing what to say since I didnt expect she’d actually come over to me lol!

So she leaned in animatedly and yelled,”why do you think you can dance better than me”?

I cant remember what I said aftrewards but 10 minutes later,we were making out heavy in a secluded area of the club.I end up taking her back to my expensive hotel,but had no fuckin condom so didnt get to lay her[fuck]!!!

All that heavy making out for shit!

Had to settle for some oral play(lol).This girl was actually my first squirter BTW.That shit was crazy lmao.

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BREAKDOWN:

Ok guys,that approach may not work for everyone nor on any girl,but it’s a very powerful technique for seducing in clubs or bars or any night venues.

Frankly,it’d work better in bars where the music isnt that loud and it isnt over crowded.

And it’s not the words,it’s the balls to not supplicate and suck up to a 10 just because she’s hot.

Having the balls to walk away,knowing and believing that she’ll pursue you(eventhough I didnt believe it at first).

And she didnt have to re-open me;I had the solid option to go back up to her later on,knowing she was already attracted and open since our dancefloor flirting.

For a great article on ‘Club Game’,check out my man Fade PUA’s ,”How to get a girl from the club”.It breaks down 3 crucial elements to a better time at gaming and pulling girls in night clubs.

Yours truely:socialKenny signing off till later.