Cellphone Technique For Picking Up Girls In Loud Venues

A poster over at The Pick-Up Artist Forum[Storm3x]had asked me a question this morning about picking up girls in loud venues(since where he’s from in Sweden,the clubs are usually extra loud to the point of not hearing a word).So I came up with a routine/technique to eliminate this common obstacle.

First off,guys need to realize that when in loud venues,where it’s hard to verbalize,non-verbal cues are key.So most of what you say out of your mouth-goes out the window(since it’s difficult to hear).My cellphone routine bridges that gap,and make the attraction process more efficient and smoother.

Ok,let’s say you spot the OYD(object of your desire/girl)from afar.Make eye contact first(if possible).As soon as she gives you the universal non-verbal invitation to come over(via eye contact),you then approach her with your cellphone out.

Why cellphone?Remember-it’s too loud for her to hear you.This routine is for loud-ass venues and clubs(like in Sweden).Although you can still use it in semi-loud venues.

As you get up to her(or her friends),type into your cellphone what you would say normally.I would,in this circumstance,say and use an opener like this,”Your parents never told you it was impolite and rude to eye-flirt with random strangers at the club”?So I would write that into my phone(a note app or default-text app)with smiley faces of course.

Then give her your phone to continue the dialogue.Or have her pull out her cellphone(since it’d be easier for her)to continue and reply.

It’s fun,playful,flirty and unique.And it cannot fail.Most women in loud-ass clubs will participate and play along.The only ones who wouldn’t,obviously cannot read LMAO.There isn’t far you can get with those types anyway.

And the point of this pick-up routine/technique is NOT to be doing this back and forth for the entire night while the girl is 4 drinks deep.As with any routine,you must transition!So after she gets invested and open,lead her off to a quiet part of the venue to chat.So write that in your cellphone,show it to her["let's go to the quiet part to chat"],then take her hand(like a confident bastard) and lead her to somewhere which enables y’all to chat.

If she resists,recalibrate by continuing the cellphone dialogue to further warm her up to the idea of going to a quiet location.

The hidden beauty of this routine is this:when you do decide to go for the # exchange(to get her #),the process would be so easy and smooth, that it makes walking on water looks like child’s play LMAO.She won’t refuse to give you her #,since psychologically y’all have already been engaged in phone-game(via my cellphone technique).

Guys remember,this isn’t only applicable in extra-loud venues.If you’re just not in a chatty mood that night at the club,feel free to whip out the smart phone and get playful(whether she can hear you or not).Tell her you have a severe case of strep-throat or hoarse beyond recognition,so the only means of communication is via text…until you decide to tell her the truth LMAO!

Feel free to check out 1 of my first blog post,where I’d picked up the hottest girl in a club and took her back to my expensive-island hotel but…LMAO!Just check it the fuck out.it’d make you learn and laugh a bit at the end[How I picked up the hottest girl at the club(who's usually bitchy)].

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

Q & A of the week:”When should he call”?

Ok guys,I promised a Q & A segment to my blog,where I would be asking some of my female Facebook friends questions on dating.With their consent of course[Kenny does have etiquette at times LOL],I’d be posting a pic’ with a fake name[Fuck off stalkers!!].The questions were asked in real time via Facebook chat BTW(interesting),so these are women I generally chat the shit with.

Every guy who dates or picks up chics, has heard about the ’3-Day Rule’,where the guy shouldn’t call nor contact the girl before 3 days of getting the digits.For obvious reason of not looking desperate.Being a curious bastard as I am,I wanted to get a general feedback from every-day women on this subject.Here we go.

T.T.

Cool-sexy chic I met days ago via mutual friends on Facebook,so I threw her in the fray.

Q.If a guy was to get your # and he calls the same night,would you see that as desperate?

A.

“Nope.Not really.Says that he’s interested”

Q.Ok cool.Should he wait to call?

A.

“Well to me:it doesn’t really matter but it shows that he’s interested.But others have their own opinion”.

Me:Some women say that the guy would look desperate calling the same night.

T.T.

“Unless he reaches the point where he’s just calling str8 then that’s another story”.

KW

KW’s a hot MILF I’ve been Facebook friends with for a while now.We probably have like 40 mutual friends,so she’s essentially in my social circle(online at least).

Q.Ok,if you gave a guy your # and he calls the same night,would you think he’s desperate?

A.

“No”.

Q.So how long should he wait to call?Few days or what?

A.

“No just call her”.

Me:”Some women say that it looks desperate to call the same day.What do you say”?

A.

“No it’s not desperate…what’s the difference if he calls the same night or 2 weeks lata”?

Miz

Cute Bronx chica I’d met on POF dating site.

Q.If you give a guy the digits and he hits you up the same day/same night,would you say thats’ needy and desperate?

A.

“Umm no not desperate but I need to keep my eyez open lol”.

Q.Lol,so when should he call?

A.

“Maybe that same week.But can definitely text show that he’s interested”.

Asian-Queens,NY

Cool Asian girl I met on POF too.She’s quite interesting with her insights.

Q.If you give a guy your # and he contacts you the same day or night,would that seem desperate?

A.

“Yea.Why”?

Q.Ok,but why would that be?

A.

“Maybe he just wants a booty call”.

Q.So generally,how long should the guy wait to contact you to not seem desperate for a booty call

A.

“Umm maybe a week not sure”.

Findings & Conclusion

Wow-that was interesting to find out where women stand(supposedly).

We in the seduction community, already know that what a girl wants and expects LOGICALLY, isn’t what she wants,expects or goes for EMOTIONALLY.

Anyway,the most interesting finding here(for me),is that most of the women I surveyed, do NOT think it’d be needy and desperate to call the same day/night of getting the digits.

Yet it’s still a catch 22 though with going for what a girl says and what she actually responds to.

But I like the point made by Miz(the Bronx chica) about the guy texting same day/night to show that he’s still interested.
That’s key!And I happen to do that shit most times.Rather running the risk of the girl forgetting who you are,it’s worth it sending a short text with built-in humor(based on the initial chat).

The hidden beauty of this Q & A post is that it could be used as an opinion opener in street approaches or wherever.Cool shit right?

BTW,I got the concept(indirectly) for doing this from my boys Solo and Drew,who’s doing an interview-type thing in NYC for his blog via Twitter.

Breaking up through SMS(text) opener

Hey guys,this’ one of my favorite openers(originated by me of course),dubbed “Breaking up by text”.

Origin & Idea:

I got the idea for this interesting opener after seeing a news segment on MSNBC,which said that in Saudi Arabia,husbands can legally divorce their wives through text messages or e-mail[talk about informal lol].

Key Note:as with every opener(canned/pre-planned or not),what makes it successful or resonate is if it’s interesting or not.Topics of such controversies are ALWAYS interesting and intriguing to women.

When and where to use it?

Preferably in casual,slower- paced locals:eatery,supermarket,store(at the counter),bus stop…

But It can be used in more highly-charged/sexual environments like a bar,club or lounge.

Opening Routine(after spotting the target(s)/girl(s) whom you’re feeling):

[However you approach and open is another story for later.But let's just assume you approached correctly].

You:”Hey guys(girl-girls),I need your opinion on something that’s mad controversial”.

Girl(s):”Sure,what is it”?

You:”Is it ok to break up with your girlfriend through text message”?

[99% of the times,the girl(s) will say no:it's not OK].

Forward stack with the back story(after the girls weigh in).

You:”Cause I was watching the news the other day,and they had a story about some guy in Saudi Arabia who got fed up with his wife…so he decided to friggin divorce her with a text message!!!Didn’t even have the balls to face her and let her know what’s up!!!That’s messed up right!!!?

Quite naturally,any girl would agree and weigh in further with her opinion.

Conclusion:

This opinion opener/routine is maddddd simple and highly interesting.

1.”Guys,I need your opinion on something controversial”.
2.”Is it ok to break up with your….”.
3.”Cause I was watching the news the other day,some guy in Arabia divorced his…”.

*The point in any opener/routine is to build interest and attraction.You say something interesting-it builds intrigue which leads to attraction.

Feel free to check out a break down on openers at The Alpha Persona Blog.

Grow some balls!!!

Guys,do y’all have the balls to approach a girl or OYD(Object Of Your Desire)with a sly-ass smile on your face,and say to her:

“I want you…but are you good enough for me to take home to my parents”?

Or how about:

“You are such- a little devil.You know that”?

What about this one?

“I never believed in love at first sight…until now.Would you marry me[extend your hand to her]“?

Let me take a wild guess-…probably not(smh).

Grow some testicles fellas.

Remember this essential rule of the pick-up community:”It’s not what you say;it’s how you say it”!

It’s not the words coming out of your mouth that count.But your overall tonality,body language and confidence.

So,the next time you spot that bad-ass Latin chica at the bar looking bored-to-death:approach with a light-hearted confidence and say something ballsy!

She’s just a girl.She won’t kill you(LOL)!

P.S.Special thanks to my man Mcmaax,the dating coach/pick-up artist for Maaximum Seduction out of Toronto,Canada,who’s a proponent of being ballsy.