Field report:”KINO lesson-the Arab way”.

It’s been 3 straight nights of hard-bar game at the same bar I gamed at 2 nights ago[Christmas Eve Field Report(at the bar)].I’m going and going like a damn energizer-bunny!!!

Last night,I entered the bar and spotted a 2 set chubby girls sitting alone at a table waiting on drinks.I wasn’t gonna wait around like an anti-social dude,so I said WTH,I might as well entertain the fatties until some hotter girls rolled in[social proof].So I rolled over to their table[an empty seat was there],time constraint,sat down by saying,”I’m not asking anyone’s permission to sit here.It’s a free world so let’s enjoy the freedom while it lasts”.Cheeky/cocky-funny lines like those are my favorite.They never fail me.I threw it with a sly smile and the girls giggled away at how ballsy I was.

A while later,some Arab dude rolled up to the table,introduced himself,started chatting up the other fatty,grabbed a seat and started gaming lol.Talk about balls.This MOFO had game and exuded an alpha confidence that made me look like a fucking looser!The thing that was surprising about his verbal game(which I over heard via his poor English)was that he used negs and he never held back on saying shit that the average guy would see as ‘forward,disrespectful and inappropriate’.This MOFO natural had game lol!

Most of all:he KINO’d the fuck out of that girl LMAO!!!Right off the bat!!!

It wasn’t loud at all in the venue,but the Syrian-Rico Suave understood KINO and getting close,so he was all up in her ear and on her shoulders.

The girl was totally into him after a while:getting all up into his space.

Doesn’t he look like Fatush from the movie Zohan with the bandana on his head LMAO?

I wasn’t doing much of anything besides waiting for some HB’s to come through.I mean-I was definitely active(verbally)and keeping the vibe up,but I wasn’t engaging my fatty despite talking to me.One more beer and those chubbies probably would be looking like models I would lay,but I just drank a Coors and relaxed.

Funny thing about it though,these girls were fucking buying out their asses!!I never had to spend a dime.Neither did the Syrian dude lol.This guy was awesome in that he didn’t go AFC and buy drinks.These girls were literally slinging drinks at us as if to get us drunk or something!!!They ordered some tacos and pizza for all of us[go figure-they really should not have been eating that shit lol].

About 2 hours in,some HB9′s rolled in so I approached and open at the counter,“Hey,you’re that girl who stood me up the other night[with a smile of course].That was messed up.The 2 set smiled and giggled and denied it was her.The fatter one gravitated to me as if she planned on picking me up.What the fuck is with me and big girls!?They seem to always try re-open me and select me as their targets.

Hot chic in white was my target who I’d hit with the ‘stood me up’ line.

My target was the trim one but the bigger one basically brushed her aside and started engaging me!Fuck!!!So the slimmer one was being chatted up by some AFC dude.I was literally in set for like 45 minutes with this hefty girl(who was mighty cute in the face BTW lol) but she kept pushing comfort/rapport stuff looking for a deep connection by talking to me about having a miscarriage years ago…So I snuck back off to the original fatty-set.The Arab dude was hugged up with his,2 other black dudes were at the table tag teaming the other one.The girls was busting on me for bouncing on them…

The key lesson for all of us(from the Syrian-Rico Suave)is this:

KINO,KINO,KINO!!!And you don’t have to buy girls drinks in order to get some play.Have the girls buy you drinks instead.That’s a more powerful tactic to make her invest.

This dude pecked her on the cheeks,hugged her,touched her waist(after talking about some body tattoos),massaged her arms,tugged on her chubby cheeks like a mom would do to her chubby baby lol.This fucking dude was the quintessential example of an Alpha.His calibration and timing was so ‘ON’ that whenever he’d KINO’d,the girl never recoiled since it wasn’t awkward.

I learned a lot last night from the Arab stallion lol.Who knows what the hell happened.They all left together(while I was engaging some other girls).Maybe they had a fatty 3-some.

I wanna believe KINO is huge in the Middle-East,or at least customary.because the way this guy came off from the gate seems as if it’s something he was born with.

And check out Christmas Eve Field Report.

Christmas-Eve Field Report & Sarge

It’s 2 AM,I’m just strolling in,tipsy as a MOFO,barely made it up my flight of stairs.Hoping I’m sober enough to write this field report without slurring on paper in other words.So forgive me if I get sloppy.

Ok guys,for those who follow me on Twitter,you would’ve known that I was out all night at a new bar.I was supposed to meet up with a Canadian girl(HB9)but she never showed[I showed up too late I believe].But I quickly settled into a rhythm.There were lots of chics strolling the streets outside the bar,so I decided to put my iPhone to whatever good use it has to snap some pics while my buddies game.

*[I fell asleep,just woke up Sunday morning feeling sober].

So before I went in the bar,I was chillin with few friends in a rental car tryna get at some HB’s at the Square[a popular-hussle & bussle area on the island].

A crew of fatties congregating.I guess they all roll in packs or herds[that was a low-blow I know].

My boy Box calls over the slimmest one out the crew to start gaming her.She has a pouch on the tummy.Apart from that:she’s a solid 9.3 in the face and figure.She’s tall as hell though!This chic is like 6’1!!!

HB-Tall’s chubby friend tries pulling the external interrupt by calling her over.Like a good friend-she obliges lol.As I was analyzing,there were major girl coding going on here.But my boy Box stays persistent and bust on her for having her friend control her lol.So he games on.

10 minutes later,my boy Box is still in set-not giving up easily as most guys would.Persistence is key here guys.The girl slowly walks off but Box stays at it LMAO.He was getting good vibes BTW.Just that her 1 fucking fat friend kept sabotaging the set.Most likely cause she wasn’t getting any play.I could’ve occupied the obstacle[to use heavy PUA term] but I was more concerned with breaking down the in-field dynamics.

Ok,Box continued gaming the tall HB all the way down the bloc so we pulled up on 2 chics standing in the fucking street[they do that a lot here-congregate in mid road].1 was super-slim,the other OK.Nothing much happened.

The fellaz stayed outside doing street pick up while I went solo to the bar straight ahead.

My first time in this new bar that just opened last week.No grenades here.The 2 bartenders were hot as furnaces.1 white,the other black.Wow,these girls were drinking on the job.That’s progressive LMAO.

I don’t usually game hired guns(waiters,bartenders,strippers,etc)but I chatted them up a bit.The black one(on the left)is from NY and the snowbunny is from Toronto[Soloist got me using that word hard].

My boys shortly came in,we grabbed a table,few bottles(red wine and Smirnoff) …IDK what the hell I was thinking but I went to the counter and said to the black bartender,”Do you still model”?Lmao must’ve been the alcohol talking to re-open with such a lame/AFC’ish question.She gave me a WTF grimace so I said,”When we chatted earlier,you told me you modeled”.The shit stalled,I C&B(crash and burn)…

Right next to our table was a 4 set.1 fat,other 3 model-figure[no footage though].I opened the set by saying to the chubby one(since she was the leader of the group/alpha female),”Hey,why dont you be a nice girl and take my pic”.You’re taking everyone else’s pic in the damn bar.What happened to me lol”!!?That was good banter line to break the ice[banter is the biggest part to my game].

As expected,she LOLs grabs her cam out her bag and took few photos of me and the boys.Before I got to chat up her friends via introduction[I didn't have a target in mind yet],some orbiter tries AMOG’ing me to lower my value and get me out of the set.But I did the best AMOG destroyer- ignored him[Nice lmao].

Fount out that they were from the NY Tri-State area(Waterbury,Connecticut),down here for the holiday.Before they bounced,they told us to meet up with them at some party or club.The details were vague(probably since they weren’t familiar with the island),so I didn’t even know where the hell to meet them with the boys.

*Key note here:It’s a must that you first open the leader of any set.You cannot open a set by going straight for the target and ignoring the leader of the group.You’ll get blown the fuck out via girl-code.So that’s why I’d opened the fat one since she was the loudest one:in other words leader of the set.So once you win her over,the other girls in her social circle MUST conform.

Conclusion
My boys bounced to the club,I was too tired and had a bit too much red wine so I took my ass home instead.No telling what would’ve transpired with the CT girls(had I went to the club)but fuck it.

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

Why you shouldn’t buy girls drinks!

Hey fellas,another really interesting post which correlates with bar/club game.

Very informative for guys who enjoy going out and having fun in the nightlife.

First off,let’s address the EXCEPTIONS to buying her drinks:

Exceptional Cases

*You already know her,i.e.she’s a relative,former fuck buddy(ex-girlfriend),acquaintant,etc.

*She’s a girl in whom you’re not gaming nor trying to seduce.

*She’s a part of your social circle:which entails the above 2 exceptions.You’re not gaming her(for whatever reason)but she might’ve gone to the club with y’all.

Why is it OK to buy drink(s) for such girls in the above 3 exceptional cases?

SIMPLE!

You’re not expecting anything from them(sexual nor physical).So feel free to get your P.Diddy on and buy the whole damn bar out LMAO!!

Those girls won’t be psycho analyzing you and your intentions,saying to themselves,”Why is he buying me drinks?Is he tryna buy me?Does he think I’m that easy?He might have bad intentions.I gotta be cautious with this muthafucka”!

So it’s all good buying drinks for girls with whom you’re already acquainted,since you’re not trying to pick them up.Therefore,they won’t question your actions of ulterior motives.

The girls you should NOT buy drinks for

This is polar opposite to the girls you MAY buy drinks for.

Simply put…Do not buy drinks for girls you’re trying to pick up!

SIMPLE!

Unless she’s earned it!

So that fine-ass lass, looking all bored and lonely hovering at the bar, whom you’ve been eyeing all night – “Do not open her up by offering to buy her a drink!

Do not approach her trying to break the ice with,”May I get you a drink”?

1 of 3 things will happen:

A.)She will say, “yea-sure“!Then drink you out for the whole fucking night while pretending to be into you.

Note:She isn’t to be blamed for accepting the drink(s).Your dumb ass should be blamed for buying the drink(s)!

B.)She will say,”Yea-sure”!Get the drink,come up with some clever/bullshit excuse for coming back,”I’m gonna use the restroom for a sec.”.Then she never returns:leaving you like an asshole frozen in time in the middle of the club,while she dodges you all night and tell her friends how much of an looser you are,who thought he could buy buy his way into her ripped jeans!!!

C.)She will just say,”No thanks“.

Note:She would be wise to say no since she doesn’t know you.For all she knows,you’re some creepy fucking stalker looking to date rape her by slipping one in her Mimosa.

So it’s a much safer bet to NOT approach her at all with “buying her a drink line”.

Save you time,cash and esteem.

Sooooooo,what should I do instead?

Do what you’d normally do as an opener.But exclude the ‘drink proposition’.

If she’s earned it(down the line)-feel free to splurge a bit.

It’s that simple!!!

There’s not a worst feeling in the world to a girl,than when a guy subcommunicates his intentions through a drink.

And let’s keep it real guys!How many times had you bought her a drink and saying to yourself,”I hope this bitch gets hammered and pissy drunk and ends up coming home with me”!

If not that exact line,some variation of it.

So to avoid the social stigmas of being a Date-Rapist,Creepy Guy,Charming Guy who makes her weirded out by doing kind acts,just don’t buy her a drink at all(or as yet)!

The insane irony is-“95% of girls WON’T even ask the guy to buy her a drink lol!

So it kills the shit out of me that guys would even suggest buying drinks,as if it’s a prerequisite to convo!!!

Girls with at LEAST an ounce of class or a tinge of dignity ,would feel low and cheap asking a random guy to buy her a drink.

Even the lowest of girls on the social totem pole,would have enough social value to refrain from begging drinks from strange guys at a bar,whom she’s only known for 5 minutes (via chat).

So if the girl herself won’t ask;then guys…WTF are you doing buying!!?

What I’ve witnesses:

I’ve been clubbing hard-non stop for the past 9 years,as if I were a coked-up version of some fist-pumping Guido from the Jersey Shore!

The MOST common theme I see play out[a painful theme at that],is guys buying fucking drinks for random girls(when they haven’t earned it)!!!

Then at the end of the night,they’re going home with whom they came:their buddies or by themselves.

So ultimately,trying to get the girl drunk by feeding her drinks after drinks didn’t pay off.

In Closing:

There are exceptions to every rule in life and between the sexes.

Sure,it does happen where buying drinks may pay off and result in a lay.

But how often?

1 in 10 cases?

For reference sake,let’s say there’s a nightclub:we’ll call it Club X.

Perfect ratio of dicks to vaginas:300 dudes,300 chicks.

Knowing how scared and socially inept men are(compared to women),let’s assume 100 of those men have enough cravats to approach women in Club X.

It’d be rational(from trend)to surmise that 80 of those men would offer to buy drink(s) for the girls they’d approached and chat up.

60 of those girls are crazy,thirsty or broke enough to accept drinks from the random guys.

Now,the 60 out of 300 girls at Club X who’d accepted drinks,how many of them do you think actually go home with the guys who bought them drinks?

Don’t fucking lie guys!I know we’ve all been there so it’s painful to admit.

Any rational guy would assume that not even 5 of those 60 girls,who accepted drinks,actually got laid afterwards by the dreaded Drink-Buyers.

So that’s a WHOPPING 5 out of 300 girls who may actually go home with the drink buyers!

Im no Einstein,but that’s fucking 6%!!!

Only 6% of girls at the club ‘MAY’ go home with a random guy who’d bought her drinks!

And remember,I’m not talking about girls you might’ve known prior nor a girl you’re on a date with.I’m talking about RANDOM strangers who you’d cold approach in the club.

So the lesson here guys is:Don’t buy her drinks unless she’s earned it.

I keep parenthesizing “unless she’s earned it”.

Click the following link to read part 2/continuation to this article,of the 1 TRUE exception to buying a random girl a drink:How does a girl earn drinks from me

And check out this interesting article on drink buying from a female’s perspective.You’ll be surprised guys.Nice article Jamie imma buy you a drank .

My favorite rum ever

Let me say this from the get-go:if Malibu doesn’t give me a year’s worth supply of free bottles for endorsing their rum,I may have to make a switch to Coco Caribe[no hard feelings Mali']!

Typically,everyone I know mixes it with OJ but I prefer pineapple juice instead.

How many of y’all actually drink Malibu or any other coconut rum?

Feedback appreciated.

My field report from the club

She couldn’t dance really…but whateva!

Hey guys,this post has been revised with some more details and added tags and stuff which I didn’t include prior.

I’m gonna be rambling a lot in this post about my observations at the club the other night.

Everything from how cut-throat club gaming can be for some guys.And successful for others.

It was a wicked night for me(in a good sense)as far as fun goes.

Ok lets’ get started:

Arrived early as usual to get comfortable in the venue while there’s less people.

Holy shit!!!The joint was already packed at 12 a.m.!!!

Out the damn window goes my plan of trying to beat the crowd to gain a foot-hold of comfort.

Good thing my state was already pumped since I’d gamed 3 girls 10 minutes earlier.

All bars were over crowded from every friggin’ angle.

I literally waited 45 minutes trying to get drinks shouting at the bartenders(lol).

Got fed up of standing around like an AFC so I yelled to a guy infront of me,”Hey order me a water and Redbull and I’ll buy you a drink too”.

He was way ahead of me dealing with the bartender so I saved another 45 minutes by doing that.

Met up with the boys/wingmen;we hi-fived.

The water & Redbull in hand made me stand out frrom 99% of the guys getting wasted.

Oh,but this’ a major part of my club game;girls would open me with slick comments,”why are you drinking soda in a club”?

As usual,it happened last night but I ignored the 2-set of undesirables by walking off.

Spotted my biological sister Pepper[her pseudonym].

She asked me to buy her a juice(OJ).

Damn!!!

Definitely dont want HB’s in the peripherary seeing me buying drinks like an AFC.

But I said to myself,”my sister’s super hot(a 10).Why not borrow her for some social proof”?

I know that sounds devilish but(lol)…

Anyway,we paraded to the bar hugged up looking like a couple.

Little do they know this’ my big sister.

Noticed an HB10 & 9.5 two set eyeing me subtly as I rolled off from my sis’.

Approached the 2 set with an opener on the fly,”which 1 of yall is the best dancer”?

Music so damn loud,I had to break a community rule by leaning in(pecking).

Stepped on the target’s foot inadvertently(lol).

Dance with both of them.

They’re sisters actually from Jersey vacationing here since the Summer.

Some guy had enough balls or alcohol to approach the set.He managed to get the other sister’s attention.

Could’ve been a guy they knew.

I rolled out after dancing for 3 minutes in order to not look too needy.Plus I wanted to work the room.

Im at a in my life where Im more focused on social-circle gaming opposed to snagging a lone wolf for the lay.

Plus I’ve been in an LTR of 2 years so f-closing isnt my primary goal.

strolling pass the bar,Im well peacocked as usual with beeded necklace and a colorful-type feathered necklace.

HB 9 with huge tits taps me on the arm from about 5 yards away and smiled.

I figured she was probably a gold-digger fishing for drinks so I just shrugged her off with a forced smile.

Hi-fived some random guys passing.

1 of them engaged me,telling me about how wasted he is.

Back to the center of the dance floor.

2 chubby girls dancing erratically as if at a parade high off something.

My policy is,”chat up everyone”.

So I grabbed their hands and said something neggish(can’t remember what).

1 of them felt offended and pulled away with a sour face.

The hotter one was all into me.She had an English/UK accent which I find annoying and sexy at the same time.

Rolled off!

Bumped into the 2 set of HB10′s again from Jersey.

Me:”Hey let’s dance[I never ask nor verbalize it,but I did this time].

HB10(the target):”What!?Cant hear you”!!

Ok cool,so I just started grinding her thighs from the side.

So fucking semi-drunk guy approaches us and fucks up the set & the vibe.

Chicc chats to the drunk guy while I grind her.

I could’ve pulled her away to isolation but…

Drunk guy tries AMOG me and saying that the chicc doesnt want to dance with me.

She gets annoyed by him and starts a mini-argument so I rolled off.

Spots a chubby girl from New York who I knew from back-in-the day.

Chatted and danced.She couldn’t dance so I rolled off.

HB10 almost knocks the drink out my hand trying to get away from some player-type guy.

She aplogized,we chatted and danced.fount out she’s from St.Thomas U.S.Virgin Islands.

Some guy external interrupts.She Told me it’s her brother(lol).

I roll off.

For the guys saying,”why the fuck are you rolling off from all those sets”!?

Remember guys,I was not looking to f-close nor # close anyone.So no point in building a connection,etc.

My game over he past 2 years has been foused on being “more social”.

If the lay comes-I’d take it!

Chat up a 2 set:1 chubby,the other slim.

Me:”You look pretty shy.Im tempted to loosen you up”.

Made mistake of ignoring the friend so the HB8 gave me a subtle fuck-off via body language and facial expression.

HB8:”Im always shy.Cant be loosen”.

I stalled so rolled off.

Bumped into HB again I knew from New York:

Me:”Whats up”?

HB NYC:”Tryna buy a drink but I must be invisible;cant get through”.

I went AFC’ish and tried getting bartender’s attention by damn near crawling over the counter(lmao).

Why did I do this?Dont know but it was very fucking try-hard and DLV’d me.

Random guy from across the bar motions to her with his hand as if to say to her,”do you want a drink”?

She nods head in affirmative.

He buys her drink then bring it over.

HB NYC @ me:”I got my drink so thanks for trying to get the bartender’s attention”.

I tried play it off,”Nah I was getting a drink for myself mainly”.

Bullshit!!!!

A buddy comes to me:

Wingman:”Hey Yata(my local nickname),Im looking for this bad-ass chicc wearing…….but I cant find her”.

He was actually gaming the same HB10 from New Jersey I danced with earlier.But she got pulled by some Don Juan-type natural.

Damn,my wingman getting schooled by the natural;eventhough my wing’s a natural gamer also like the Don Juan guy.

5 minutes later,spotted Jersey 2 set with the smooth natural.

Informed my wingman so he rolls over but the other natural guy seemed to have her hooked already.So he isolated her.

Damn he got isolation game for not being a community guy.

Wing is pissed off.

Ran into HB9 St.Thomas again who told me the guy who interrupted was her brother.

We danced,I complimented her(direct game which I never do).

Took a sip of her cocctail.

Some random-fucking guy again interrupts.

They hugged so they obviously knew each other.

I rolled out instead of standing there like a clown while she chats with the acquaintant.

Approached a lone wolf HB10 in the face but 8 in the body.

Danced for a minute without saying a word to her.

HB10:”Who said I wanted to dance”?

Ignored her comment and kept grinding her while holding her around the waiste.

Her comment was flirty opposed to bitchy so it was all good.

Fount out she was from Dominica.Not Dominican Republic,but another Caribbean island with the same name but English speaking.

Rolled off.

Entered a dancing-mixed set.

Grabbed onto a model-figure chicc who was about 6’3.

She looked back as if to see who the hell was grinding her:ugly or cute.

I guess she thought I was ugly so she moved away.

How embarrassing but I kept cool as a cucumber.

It’s near 5 a.m.Heading for the exit.

My cousin Tawana from NYC grabs me and introduced me to her friend;and HB10.

We took group pics’.

I said to the HB10,”Make sure you post them on Facebook”.

I had the perfect logistics to seduce her since my cousin introd’ us but I was mentally drained at that moment to game anyone.

Headed for the exit.

Opened an HB7 with huge tits in a 2 set with a silly opener on the fly.

Me:”Hey I spotted your boyfriend dancing with some girl.You should get revenge by us dancing”.

I never expected this could-be fallacious opener to hook.

I just did it to be an asshole while leaving the venue.

But the HB7 grabs me and starts grinding me.

Wow-openers really dont matter in clubs.All about body language projection.

My cousin took some pics of me grinding the 7.

She shies away from the cam so I bounced.

HB Dominica outside the club being chat up by some smooth-looking guy.

Me:”Hey partner,she’s a good girl.Take care of her”.

Taps him on the shoulder then bounced.

The HB10 from Jersey I was dancing with earlier whom my wingman was gaming,was standing arm in arm kissing with the alpha-natural dude who out gamed my wing.

Wow,this is really battle of the fittest.

Strongest survives.Strongest gets laid.

I learned a lot from the other night at the Lyme nightclub.

1)Other guys are waiting in the cut for you to open a girl(s)to seize the opportunity to capitalize off you gaming her.

2)Girls are fucking friendly and social.

Every girl I chatted up communicated with me.

3)Girls like audacity & balls.Just dance with her-dont ask!

4)Longer you chat or dance with her on the spot,greater chance of some random guy interrupting.

So it’s advantageous to venue change,or isolate instantly!!!

My wing,who usually does great,got fucked over by opting to chat up the girl at the bar instead of pulling her to isolation at the lounge or outside.

All in all,I had massive fun eventhough it didn’t result in a lay;mainly ’cause I didnt push for it.

Check out this related post which deals with dance-floor gaming,etc.bySoloist 2.0 http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/a-simple-tip-that-will-help-your-game-by-9000/

Peace out!

How I picked up the hottest girl at the club-who’s usually bitchy.

Hot girls are usually bitchy!Whether that stems from their insecurities or from the many guys they’ve rejected over the years:bitchiness & beauty usually goes hand in hand.

Ok,with that out the way,lets get to the action!!

Few years ago,after reading an online-seduction article on gaming hotter girls[cant remember by which dating coach],I was pumped as hell to try out some new stuff!I was flying solo that night(no wingman to fuck up my game).

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Ordered a cocktail,then headed to the dancefloor to survey some ass while tryna look as normal as possible(and not like an AFC/weird guy).

I usually dont go for the hottest chic in a venue[too much competition].But this time-instead of settling for an 8 or 9,a hot ass HB10 caught my eyes from the get-go!!!Not only my eyes;this chick had every guy’s attention at the Coast night club!

I mean it was mesmerizing the way she twirled and whined like an Indian- belly dancer.

All the average guys,naturals & players were hovering around this chick like fucking helicopters.Some tryna talk to her,others tryna dance with her,others asking her to let them buy her drinks(lmao).

Of course she shut them down like a true b***h would.

I’d typically be one of those rejectees[thanks to the underground-seduction community].

So I threw on my James Bond cool demeanor while I gave her “the eye”.

Not a gawking,deer in the headlights stare.But a dominant look with a sly stare & smile which exude,”Im not like those other chumps”.

I mean,we spoke to each other via body language & eye contact.Not a word said,but our bodies were in tuned.It’s divine;cant put it in words but I just felt it.

At this point,I body rock out(turn my back towards her).We were about 15 yards apart;a technique I’d learned from reading materials by Mystery aka Erik Von Markovik[the God of pick-up].

While all the guys were facing her,I was the only one slightly turned away.That shit must’ve made her insecurity alarms go off(questioning her beauty),”why isnt he paying me any attention,am I not pretty enough,is he not attracted-why not”?

That’s what usually runs through the minds of high-maintenance types, when they’re not given the attention they think they deserved,they then question themselves.

Sure,she had all the attention a girl could ask for(from about 20 men in her circumfrence),but those men weren’t challenging.They indicated their interests way too soon,thus disqualifying themselves before the game began.

I was “the only” challenge she had.

She eventually got jaded and tired of all the attention,so she exited the dancefloor and went to look over the railings into the bay[the club overlooks a bay since it was on the island's coast line].

So I made my way over to her(from the side,so I didn’t startle her by coming up directly behind her like a creep)…

And I said these magical words to her “I can dance way better than you“,then walked off right away[slowly,confidently and cocky].

Now you may ask,”what was so magical about that line”?But the magic wasnt in the line(words),but the audacity to go up to the hottest girl in the club and say something bold with a cool-sly smile.

She expected me to throw some cheesy-ass pick up line,compliment or offer to buy her a drink like 95% of guys would.But I flipped the script with a C&F line[pick up slang for something ballsy and challenging],which totally fucked up her mental circuitry.

And to top it off-I walked off instead of staying there like a needy-guy(subcommunicating that I was lonely and wanted to chat).So I walked away slowly to the nearest bar in the venue where she would be able to see where I went.

Now remember,Im following a script here:according to the pick-up article I’d read a week prior to this,if done right(the take aways,body language,etc.),she would track me down to continue the chat.

All I had to do from then on was to not get lost in the crowd where she couldn’t see me.

Still skeptical of this working(she following me and tracking me down),I ordered another Malibu & pj and got sidetracked by 1 of the TV’s in a lounge area.Then I felt a tap on my shoulder-which scared the shit out of me(lol)!Turned around,and it was the HB10-Hot Girl.

At this point,Im paralyzed with anxiety not knowing what to say since I didnt expect she’d actually come over to me lol!

So she leaned in animatedly and yelled,”why do you think you can dance better than me”?

I cant remember what I said aftrewards but 10 minutes later,we were making out heavy in a secluded area of the club.I end up taking her back to my expensive hotel,but had no fuckin condom so didnt get to lay her[fuck]!!!

All that heavy making out for shit!

Had to settle for some oral play(lol).This girl was actually my first squirter BTW.That shit was crazy lmao.

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BREAKDOWN:

Ok guys,that approach may not work for everyone nor on any girl,but it’s a very powerful technique for seducing in clubs or bars or any night venues.

Frankly,it’d work better in bars where the music isnt that loud and it isnt over crowded.

And it’s not the words,it’s the balls to not supplicate and suck up to a 10 just because she’s hot.

Having the balls to walk away,knowing and believing that she’ll pursue you(eventhough I didnt believe it at first).

And she didnt have to re-open me;I had the solid option to go back up to her later on,knowing she was already attracted and open since our dancefloor flirting.

For a great article on ‘Club Game’,check out my man Fade PUA’s ,”How to get a girl from the club”.It breaks down 3 crucial elements to a better time at gaming and pulling girls in night clubs.

Yours truely:socialKenny signing off till later.