Taking it slow with women:’A DEADLY mistake’!!

I’m back muthafuckas!!!Well I been back.Never left actually,but haven’t been posting any seduction/pick-up tips and advice lately.A lot of my fellow pick-up artists have been beating me the hell up on Twitter & Facebook:saying that I’ve sold out and succumbed to the lure of “PUSSY”-aka female bloggers.And that most of my recent contents has been random babbling to please female bloggers LMAO!With that in mind,I have something for the fellaz[yay!!].

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Ok,those familiar with the pick-up community,would’ve already known that :1 of the BIGGEST mistake a guy can ever make when trying to get with a girl, is to take it slow.

The guys who believe that what I said is Bullshit:do me a favor and Castrate yourself!Nah-better yet:Kill yourself,since you’ve fallen for the fucking proverbial okydoke[or however it's spelt lol].

It’s 2012 and Beta-males(average guys who know nothing about getting laid)still have this flawed idea that you should take it slow SMDH!Well, if y’all are reading this[I know you fuckers are]:consider this post a life-saver and a means to getting your dry penises wett.And not from whacking off but via vaginal fluids.

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Why do men take it slow?

Three reasons:
1.)Social pressure
2.)Fear of rejection
3.)Being flat-out PUSSIES!

Let’s address “Fear of being rejected by the girl”.

*When an average guy meets a 7 to 10[on the looks scale],or any girl who’s normally out of his league,his first instinct is to ‘not lose her,not offend her,not to turn her off’.so he’s essentially afraid to be rejected by this girl who’s out of his league.With that fear in mind:he commits the stupid mistake of taking it slow.

Why should I not take it slow?

1.The girl WON’T respect you as a real man if you move slow.
2.You obviously WON’T be getting any any time soon if you drag it out.
3.You WON’T be able to compete with other guys who are faster.Thus the fastest guy gets the girl.

And let me leave y’all fellaz with this key-parting note that’d get you banging more girls from now on(by moving fast);She will NEVER tell you that you’re moving too slow and to pick up the pace and fuck her.

So,your rule of thumb should always be to move FAST as possible!If she rejects your advances(which every girl would initially) as too fast:then re-calibrate,ease the fuck back and try again.

But if you’re playing this ‘Mr.Respectable’,and moving like a snail,she will Friend Zone your ass!!That is where taking it slow leads to:the dreaded friend zone,where you’re walking her home every night for the past 3 months,while a fast-moving badboy like me is laying her(although I just met her 3 days ago).

So you want her to say,”Stop-you’re moving too fast”.Opposed to saying,”You’re moving too slow”.And like I told you:no woman on the face of this Earth will EVER tell a guy he’s moving too slow.She will gather with her girlfriends over some cocktails and shame the fuck out of you for moving too slow.So don’t become the laughing-stock of her social circle as “the guy who just doesn’t get it”.She won’t respect you for taking it slow!

Dammit!!I can’t crack this chic!!!

I think that’s her sister on the right.

Fuck fuck fuck!!!

Sorry for the vulgarity but that’s how critical this is.

Every met that one chic whom you just can’t escalate on, take advantage and seal the deal?The type of chic who could be lying butt-ass naked in your bed but you just cannot act!?

Typically,I would’ve already NEXT’d this heffa for indirectly fucking up my game.But it’s not her fault LOL.She’s not the problem.She’s playing her part as far as being available and receptive to being seduced.

Background

She’s a pre-school teacher in her early 20′s.Sexy-ass Island girl.

I don’t usually rate girls as 10′s but she’s a solid HB10 on her worst days!

Anyway,I chatted her up few times,got her # on a separate occasion.

All this was about 9 months ago[let's say a year to be fair].

Sticking Point

I just can’t tap into my reservoir of game and charms to fucking seduce this chic!

Whenever I call her on the phone(mainly to set up a meet),I always flub it up by coming off as weird I guess LMAO.

It’s sought of a nervous energy around us whenever we chat or I happen to run into her(since she lives nearby).

As much as I want to and try to be seductive,charming and sexual-It just doesnt translate!It won’t come out!IDK WTF it is.

It’s rare that I run into a chic who does this to me:essentially throwing off my skills.

Make no mistake about it guys:it isn’t fear,AA(approach anxiety),nor any other inner game flaw.This dilemma is some puzzling Jedi-mind shit!

I think every guy has met a chic like this before or few times over the past years.

She just fucking saps the Alpha/bravery out of you,thus bringing out the AFC’ish side of you.

So far,I’ve charged her to the game by deleting her contact info from my phone(after realizing this won’t be going anywhere:due to my self-blocking).

Then out of the blue,I’d get a text from her 2 weeks down the line asking why haven’t she heard from me?What!!!

Of course I can’t say something cheesy and Beta as,”Well I deleted you since you have me feeling like a pussy”.Nah!That would be a virtual nail in the coffin.

So,I would end up reconnecting with her via phone and text.Whenever she’s in my area(coming from work-school),she’d give me a shout or text.I’d meet her but then get all pussy and wussy by not escalating and trying to lay this girl!

Make no mistakes about it:she is NOT rejecting my advances.Nor is she hard to bang.I can sense it that she’s ripe for the picking.But all I have to do is step it the fuck up.Hit the gas peddle!Easier said than done with this girl.

It beats the shit out of me trying to analyze whats’ really going on that’s freezing my game and preventing me from escalating.

It’s no secret that this chic likes me.She digging me hard!And it’s mutual!!

We chatted about 2 hours ago on a street corner.Flirted,giggly-bubbly vibe as usual.She gives off every IOI in the book which signifies that a girl is attracted to a guy.

With about 100 green lights in my favor to just ravishing this chic like a caveman;I just CANNOT escalate!Fuck!!!

This chic just fucks my game up:by no fault of hers LMAO!

Curious to know if any other guy in the manosphere has had this happen to them before.Where the chic is just totally into you but you cannot pull the trigger.

Be a risk taker you pussies!!

I know the title is like BAM!All in your face!!That was my intention:to spark some life into the pussies and nice guys out there who keep failing with women because of 1 crucial handicap:the fear of taking risks.

Every guy wants the girl[at least he convinces himself that he does].But not every guy is willing to take action into getting the girl.

Classic example of a non-risk taker:

*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.

*Joe Blow aka Mr.Non-Risk Taker hasn’t even approached a single girl the entire night.

*He sees an HB and decides to approach her[with the assistance of some alcohol courage of course].

*The vibes and chat go reasonably well.

*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.

Note:This is the moment which separates men from boys,wussies from alphas…

*However,Joe Blow aka non-risk taker,doesn’t seize the moment and opportunity to get the girl,so he lets her leave without trying to further the interaction or venue changing.

Classic example of the Risk-Taker

Let’s take a look at the same situation and how a risk-taker handles it:

*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.

*Mr.Risk-Taker hasn’t approached a single girl the entire night.

*He sees an HB and decides to approach her.

*The vibes an chat go reasonably well.

*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.

The key difference:

The risk-taker knows she’s up for something more,so he continues chatting,not giving a shit about social norms,he pushes forth,essentially taking risks by employing KINO(appropriate touches).

He takes more risks and chances by suggesting that he and the girl go to a more intimate niche in the venue.So he takes her by the hand and lead her to a more secluded spot in club X.

He takes more risks by going for the make out.

The girl pushes back as if she isn’t ready.But it doesn’t matter that she’s pushing and pulling.He’s shown willingness and balls to plow forward and take chances.

If all goes accordingly,they would’ve wrapped up the night(or morning) in each others’ arms at his spot.

Note:

The above 2 Scenarios were common examples which highlight the abstract differences between a guy who’s unwilling to take chances,And the guy who DOES take chances.

It’s common sense and sheer numbers that the guy who takes more chances gets more girls,thus more lays.

Sometimes you have to trod the road of seeming insane:

Let me further explain what I mean by the above.

When trying to pick up girls,guys get the false notion that it MUST and SHOULD be a smooth process which makes you look safe,cool and unphased.

Couldn’t be further from the truth!

There come situations where you have to almost sell out in order to get the girl.

Waiting for the perfect moment,perfect line,perfect opener and perfect time would be a regressive move on the guy’s part.

Perfect logistics are rare!

I’ll give an example of this below:

Guy sees girl in a coffee shop sitting next to some guy who could be her boyfriend(although it doesn’t look that way).

Instead of approaching the girl’s table and striking up a convo,he waits for better logistics by saying to himself,”My table is too far from hers.If I make my move now,it’d look crazy or needy.Plus that big guy could be her BF who may beat the shit out of me”.

With that mindset,he convinces himself to wait for the perfect moment(which won’t come):perhaps when the guy leaves.

The big guy sitting next to the girl,although not her BF,nor is he even talking to her,he never leaves.

Thus the perfect safest moment never came for this guy,so he looses the girl by not taking chances and risks.

If he had taken the risk of possible confrontation by approaching,he would have been surprised to find out that she doesn’t even know the Hulk guy next to her table.

Ok,I’ll give a personal example where I had to virtually sell out and look a bit crazy.

Archaeologists from CUNY Brooklyn:

Back in the Summer of this year,there was a group of archaeologists here on the island from The City University of New York/Brooklyn College in NYC doing research work.

I chatted up the mixed 4 set at a local restaurant and fount out about their work and stuff.

We hit it off pretty friggin’ well but since they weren’t here for an extended period,they never bothered to activate a local mobile phone plan.So basically,they were phone-less,except for the # at the hotel they were staying.

So we never got to # exchange in the fray of it all(bustling-noisy restaurant).

Me being a loony risk-taker at times,I’d contacted every fucking hotel on the island to find out if they had the archaeologists at their hotel.

With a little luck,I fount out where they were staying and the room numbers lol.

Knowing that these girls were bored to death from just research work,I knew I would’ve been a breath of fresh air for them.

So I showed up at the hotel and swindled my way around the hostess and security by convincing them that I was a friend of the group,and we all knew each other from NYC lol.

Talk about security lapse lol!

Anyway,I showed up to everyone’s surprise.I left such a good impression on them days earlier at the restaurant that they immediately knew who I was.

I was invite in and we had major fun to the point that I was able to isolate the OYD(object of my desire).

During our flirtatiously-charged chat on the balcony,she was telling me how she never had a guy go to this extent just to get her.That I was a bit crazy and try-hard.

But obviously,the risks and chances I took were highly attractive to her.And it turned her on.

How many guys are willing to go there when it comes to getting ass?

Not many!

How many guys are too fucking worried about looking good?

Too many!

Guys who get girls aren’t looking and waiting for the perfect moment.They’re doing shit which would otherwise come off as “needy,crazy,insecure and try-hard”.

The guy who gets laid constantly is willing to approach the girl even when she’s apparently busy,she’s talking to some guy,or she just came from a funeral,lamenting the death of a relative…

Those guys aren’t waiting until she gets off her Blackberry.

He takes risks and chances by taking away her phone and say to her like an Alpha:”It’s pretty rude to be blackberrying while on a date”.

He doesn’t give a shit about being slapped(which never happens),nor getting a drink thrown in his face(which is even rare).Nor does he worry about being perceived as crazy and out-there.

He does what he does,and does it without looking smooth and perfect.

He innately knows that the only thing that prohibits him from getting laid is Not taking risks.

If you thought only guys did weird shit:wait until you read this[escapade with a stalker]!

Interesting story guys:

Past Sunday night on my way to the club,I spotted a girl standing alone outside.

Well,nothing strange in that.

But something was odd about this picture:

1.She wasn’t dressed as if she was going clubbing.

2.Hair disheveled.

3.She stood afar as if to not be seen.

Anywho,me being the social-fanatic I am,I approached her[without any pick-up routines; just banter]:

Me:”Hey,if that’s how you going in the club tonight…much props to you girl[smiley face]“.

Lone Wolf:”Lol what’s that supposed to mean”.

Me:”Im just saying.Seems like your girl crew abandoned you.That’s messed up”.

Lone Wolf:”Lol nah,Im actually not going in.Im tryna find someone”.

Me:”Its’ 1 am,I doubt this the best time to be out looking for someone”.

Lone Wolf:”Its my boyfriend.If he thinks Im gonna be watching kids all night while he’s out clubbing-fuck that!!

Alarm bells rang off!

Baby-mama drama.This is not the type of shit for me!

So now Im looking for a quick exit out of this chat,to not get caught up in any drama before the night even kicked off.

But then again,my drama-loving intuition kicked in.Plus she wasn’t the ugliest girl I seen for the day.She was probably an HB7 with melon-sized tits:so WTH(lol)!

Me:”Well….I doubt you want him to spot you…so let’s go some where near to sit and chat”.

As any alpha should,I took her hand and started walking the opposite direction from the club.

Some token resistance as expected:

Lone Wolf:”Where are we going?There’s no where to sit around here”.

Playfully kept leading her to the nearest secluded spot,by the way,which happened to be next to some huge-ass dumpster[lol talk about shitty logistics].

I rapidly KINO escalated like a fucking machine on auto!

Some more token resistance reared it’s ugly head,so she said,”I think people can see us from here”.

Bull-friggin’ shit!!!

So I eased off the heavy KINO to start dancing with her to some music which was coming from the opened-air club.

Lone Wolf:”Oh shit,is that him”!!?

Me:”Him who”?

Lone Wolf:”That fucking bastard boyfriend of mines.He’s the one in front”!

A drunken crew of guys was strolling our way, making more noise than a lynch mob reading to hang somebody.

So now Im like,”WTF are you doing,spying on him”?

Lone Wolf:”I wouldn’t say spying.His ass just shouldn’t expect me to baby sit all day while he gets drunk and flirt with bitches”!

Wow!An actual female-staked in the flesh!

Now Im just praying that her drunk BF and his mob dont spot us beside this dumpster and fuck my ass up(lmfao).

But this lunatic chicc wanted to confront him so I had to try talking her ass out doing it right there and then.

Potential bomb defused(yes!),so as the mob passed,I felt relieved.

She wanted to follow them.I wanted to bang her outdoors.

My frame was stronger(or her hormones were raging),so The KINO re-commenced.

It went as far as tit-play ’cause she kept saying she had to leave,she left her kids home alone…bla,bla,bla.

Psycho alarms went off.But I knew better,that this was just standard-token resistance.

We fooled around some more.But her impulsive to run off to stalk her boyfriend/baby daddy was stronger than my frame,so I called it a night and headed to the club.

Lessons to take away:

*Frame control is key.Have a stronger frame than hers will get you far.

*Its’ better to escalate fast until she stops you,than to not escalate at all.

*Fuck the perfect logistics!If you can lay her in the middle of heavy traffic-do it!The logistics will never be 100% in your favor.

The key insight I learned from this escapade was that women can be just as needy as men.

I never thought in a million years that a chic would virtually stalk her boyfriend(when she can just easily phone 1 of her options).

Ciao!!!