What is it with Big-Black Women and these names?

This Diva cursed me out on Twitter

Ok,I’m not gonna win any fans with this post:especially not any female fans.And definitely not any black-female fans lol.

I can already foresee the hate mail rolling in by the bunches!And exes who’ve put on some extra pounds deleting me as Facebook friends over this shit.

But…it’s whateva man!

Oh- before I start my mini-tirade,I just wanna give acknowledgements to my man Reemachronicles for inspiring this short post[sorry if I sold you out bro'-lol].

Funny thing too happened last night.A Facebook friend of mine from Vancouver[who happens to be a BIG girl],she blew the fuck up on me about a post I wrote the other day!She claimed I was disrespectful,insensitive,rude,and that she will never talk to me again!

Typically,I would take preemptive measures and delete such headache.But since I’ve been on a rampage as of late[deleting fat girls and being deleted by them],I kept a cool head.

Anyway,What is it with fat sister/black girls coming up with all these pseudonyms to describe themselves!?

One minute,they are DIVAS and princesses…Give me a fucking break!!!

Haven’t we all heard the following names & terms that fat girls use for themselves[ego,insecurities and compensations]?

Plump
Thick
BBW(big beautiful woman)
Fluffy
Heavy-set
Plus-Size
More to Love
Healthy[lol what a contradiction]
Hefty Girl
Juicy
Full

Ok, those were the physical attributes.Now let’s get to the personality aspects that they chose to refer to themselves[which is all based on compensating and vanity].

Diva
Goddess
Black Queen
Bitchy
Strong
Secure(lol)
Assertive
No-nonsense
Beautiful
Take no shit
Queen Bitch

And the list could go on and on…Y’all get the damn picture!

I’ve also noticed that the 3 names they try to avoid like the plague,are actually the most accurate:BIG,FAT and CHUBBY.

A while ago on Facebook,I posted a status asking,”Why are heavy girls so opposed to being called BIG”?

4 quote on quote ‘heavy’ girl commented.But nome of them had a rational reason why they’re offended being described as big.They just said that it isn’t nice,it’s disrespectful and a No-No,bla,bla,bla…

Actually,1 of the big girls I had a recent fall out with on twitter & FB,she the actual girl in the pic above on this post.

She won’t be pleased with me using her pic’-but fuck it!Her face is disguised anyway lol[and I doubt she reads my so-called misogynistic blog anymore-according to her].

So she basically cursed me out on twitter saying that she’s classy,assertive,highsidity,bitchy,secure with her weight…

I never dissed her prior,but she’d checced out my blog(after seeing a link),then unloaded on me,trying to convince me that she’s the BOMB and queen bitch lol.

CONCLUSION

The main theme I express to these BIG girls[to be politically correct],is that they should be accepting of themselves.Not every girl can have a Zumba-fit body.So accept it and move the F on,opposed to compensating and whining.

Kill that false persona!And remove that proverbial mask shielding your insecurities behind an attitude of,”I’m a Diva,I’m a bitch,I’m a queen”.

Most of all,fat girls should know when to be humble.And this goes for black girls mainly,who seem to be the most insecure when it comes to being fat.

A white fatty would more say,”I’m big,I’m plus-sized”.

But a sister LMAO!!!

She has to get all elaborate with it and extra with it:”I’m a queen,I’m fluffy…

Shut the F*** up and face reality!

The Diva on the right got offended by my writings also.

Ever got caught blogging about a girl?

Did a little brainstorming
And came up with this interesting topic.

I know my boy Reema got busted few times(I believe), for blogging about a girl he had gamed or banged.

In fact,I think he said it actually ruined the situation,where the girl felt a bit leery then started back peddling.

Sorry if I read it wrong Reema lol.

Anyway,so far I’ve blogged indirectly about 3 girls[if my mind serves me right]:using pseudonyms/nicknames to avoid any backlash lol.

I frankly don’t have shit against posting any chic’s name in my blog.As far as I see it,I would’ve been giving her some publicity,so she shouldn’t harbor any malice with that ultimately.

Getting ready to write an interesting post on an OYD(object of my desire)who’s been playing some serious cat & mouse with me.

Curious to know if any other guy in the bloggersphere has had any negative backlash.Or some chic threatening to sue them or something lmao.

I don’t reveal my salary!!

Gone are the days of confidentiality & respect for other’s privacy.

Now,I dont have an issue with this currently.Meaning,there isnt some nosey-muthaf****r trying to pry how much I work for.

In fact-Im unemployed(thanks recession)!!

But that’s besides the point.

Working or not,I have buddies who unabashfully ask me,”how much you got paid”?

If we’re out clubbing,”how much cash you brought”.

Surprisingly,I dont have this prob’ with women I’d lain.So the gold-diggers somehow avoid me[thankful for that].

But it gets friggin’ annoying when friends & relatives ask me how much do I make?

That should be strictly confidential.

I actually had a falling out with my lawyer friend who wanted to know how much I make[this was few years ago].

Somehow,when someone asks me that,it’s tantamount to fucking treason to our relationship.

I feel like Im being robbed of privacy.

IDK,maybe it’s just me.

My PC still not friggin’ fixed!!

It’s been like a damn year now since my pc been down.

I can hear everbody now,”Why dont you just buy a fucking laptop you cheap bastard”!

Ok cool-I hear that.

But my music collection is fucking irreplacable!

I’d take me like 6 years worth of downlodng to get all my tunes back;that’s time I dont have.

Nevertheless,I sent it to get repaired about a week ago(to no avail),but the technician told me it’s impossible to salvage it(smh).

My friggin’ heart stopped when he told me that.

Remind yall,I’d blown my pc(bad circuitry)on 3 prior occasions and get it fixed by the same technician-so he’s pretty reliable.

But the elements werent working with me this time(lol).

Well,what am I to do?

I’ll figure that shit out.