Watch or download this video clip before you go clubbing or to the bar

Every guy who’s planning on going to the club tonight should listen to this quick prep-talk on “Club Game”.

Chics should check it out also just to know where I stand as a pick-up artist.

You should be able to watch the clip from your mobile device.

If not,just download the clip below.

Download the small clip here.

“How to steal a girl from competition(Girl-Stealing 101)”

You done got robbed!!

I was browsing RooshV’s controversial site as usual, and came across an interesting article on “How to pull a robbery”.He made many great points(as usual),but few key insights were missing.Here’s where I come in[with a Doctor Evil's voice].

Why pull robberies on other guys?

Simply because the OYD(object of your desire)/the girl you want, is most likely already talking to some dude in the venue.So you can either bitch out,go home alone to jerk off as usual:or man up and take the girl!

My last robbery

On my last post[Get laid tonight by pulling robberies],Cadence,a female commentor,made this great point,“From a lady’s perspective,you may be pulling a rescue”.

Anyway,A month ago at a karaoke joint,I was standing next to a guy and a hot girl.The venue was surprisingly sausaged-out that night(1 chic to 5 guys).So options were limited.

I waited for a lull in conversation,the guy stalled out(as usual),a giant pregnant pause ensued,the guy turned his head away(scanning the room in the awkward moment),so I seized the opportune moment to swoop in like a fucking hawk upon a barn mouse[ok bad reference but]…

The guy stood there like a deer caught in the headlights of 10 Mack trucks.Within 2 minutes,he bounced while leaving me to mind fuck the girl he had warmed up for me.

4 good signs to look out for when attempting a robbery:

*A lull in conversation
*Awkward silence/pregnant pause
*The guy going to the bar to buy drinks(leaving the girl alone)
*The guy turning his head or back(perhaps his buddy said something to him)

Frankly,a master PUA needs none of the above signs/AI(approach invitations):he approaches regardless(if he desires the girl).

The general reactions of the guy whom just got robbed

1.)Stands there silently(waiting for the perfect moment to leave without making it obvious he got robbed).

2.)He’d attempt to pull the re-robbery on you by doing something low-valued:like buying her a drink(hoping she’d ditch you for him).

3.)More commonly,he’ll say to the girl,“Hey I’m gonna leave,so we’ll catch up later,or “we’ll talk later”.

What he WON’T do at all(contrary to popular belief),is to start an altercation(which will DLV him),which would make him appear needy(fighting for a girl who’s not his GF).

Guys,this is NOT a fucking gangster-film,where a guy shoots you for talking to his girl!

Humans are generally afraid of altercations with strangers,so the guy will almost NEVER punch the shit out of you for pulling the robbery(he has no right to).

The time I inadvertently pulled the robbery on his girlfriend:

Now,I don’t go out intentionally trying to game girls whom are taken.But when you’re In-Field;shit happens.It’s difficult to discern who’s taken or not.

Few years ago at The Coast Nightclub(on the island of Antigua),I spotted an HB8 at the bar counter with some guy(they stood next to me while ordering drinks),so I opened her immediately.Can’t remember what I said verbatim(word for word),but it hooked her.At that point,I still didn’t know dude was her BF.

We flirted somewhat(while her BF was right there),3 minutes later,he rolls off leaving her alone with me[I felt the tension].

I said to her,”Is that weird dude with you?Seems like he likes you lol“[that's a classic PUA technique to lower the other guy's value].

She chuckles and said,“He’s my boyfriend,and he’s mad at me right now”.

I was like WTF!!!I turned around and noticed her BF off in the distance holding 2 drinks in his hands.

After a while(5 minutes),he gathered the proverbial balls to come back over,whispered in her ears then walked off again.She then tells me that he’s pissed that she’s disrespecting him by talking to a random guy(me).

Being a guy who was afraid to pull robberies,I excused myself and allowed her to go back to her BF.But I could’ve pulled a Mehow,and make out with the chic right there(the vibe was there).

The point of that narration was to show that men(boyfriends) in general are non-confrontational.They will NOT approach the guy(me) and say,“Hey that’s my fucking GF so keep it moving”.They will allow the interaction to proceed,then take it out on the TRUE- guilty party (the GF) when they get home.After all,it isn’t the guy’s fault for being social.The GF is the one in the wrong.

The reactions of the girl who’s being stolen away:

She is NOT gonna say to you “fuck off,leave us alone,don’t you see we’re in a conversation”!!?

Following social norms:she’s gonna be obliged to chat with you,right there,infront of her BF,her date or the guy who’s chatting her up.

And if your game is semi-decent,the other guy will be blown out the fucking water!

She will not tell you to leave.The guy you’re currently robbing will have to leave instead.It’s like a battle out there in the field:Strongest survive,Bravest guy gets the girl,Weaklings go home alone.The guy who has the heart to pull robberies will always get laid more than the guy who preys on lone-wolves(women by themselves in a venue).

Cellphone Technique For Picking Up Girls In Loud Venues

A poster over at The Pick-Up Artist Forum[Storm3x]had asked me a question this morning about picking up girls in loud venues(since where he’s from in Sweden,the clubs are usually extra loud to the point of not hearing a word).So I came up with a routine/technique to eliminate this common obstacle.

First off,guys need to realize that when in loud venues,where it’s hard to verbalize,non-verbal cues are key.So most of what you say out of your mouth-goes out the window(since it’s difficult to hear).My cellphone routine bridges that gap,and make the attraction process more efficient and smoother.

Ok,let’s say you spot the OYD(object of your desire/girl)from afar.Make eye contact first(if possible).As soon as she gives you the universal non-verbal invitation to come over(via eye contact),you then approach her with your cellphone out.

Why cellphone?Remember-it’s too loud for her to hear you.This routine is for loud-ass venues and clubs(like in Sweden).Although you can still use it in semi-loud venues.

As you get up to her(or her friends),type into your cellphone what you would say normally.I would,in this circumstance,say and use an opener like this,”Your parents never told you it was impolite and rude to eye-flirt with random strangers at the club”?So I would write that into my phone(a note app or default-text app)with smiley faces of course.

Then give her your phone to continue the dialogue.Or have her pull out her cellphone(since it’d be easier for her)to continue and reply.

It’s fun,playful,flirty and unique.And it cannot fail.Most women in loud-ass clubs will participate and play along.The only ones who wouldn’t,obviously cannot read LMAO.There isn’t far you can get with those types anyway.

And the point of this pick-up routine/technique is NOT to be doing this back and forth for the entire night while the girl is 4 drinks deep.As with any routine,you must transition!So after she gets invested and open,lead her off to a quiet part of the venue to chat.So write that in your cellphone,show it to her["let's go to the quiet part to chat"],then take her hand(like a confident bastard) and lead her to somewhere which enables y’all to chat.

If she resists,recalibrate by continuing the cellphone dialogue to further warm her up to the idea of going to a quiet location.

The hidden beauty of this routine is this:when you do decide to go for the # exchange(to get her #),the process would be so easy and smooth, that it makes walking on water looks like child’s play LMAO.She won’t refuse to give you her #,since psychologically y’all have already been engaged in phone-game(via my cellphone technique).

Guys remember,this isn’t only applicable in extra-loud venues.If you’re just not in a chatty mood that night at the club,feel free to whip out the smart phone and get playful(whether she can hear you or not).Tell her you have a severe case of strep-throat or hoarse beyond recognition,so the only means of communication is via text…until you decide to tell her the truth LMAO!

Feel free to check out 1 of my first blog post,where I’d picked up the hottest girl in a club and took her back to my expensive-island hotel but…LMAO!Just check it the fuck out.it’d make you learn and laugh a bit at the end[How I picked up the hottest girl at the club(who's usually bitchy)].

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

Get your energy up!Don’t be a Downer!

Hey fellaz,another kick-ass blog post coming at y’all!

Hidden beauty is that it coincides with the weekend(since it’s Saturday):which means clubbing,bar-hopping and partying(Yay-lol)!!

Ok,earlier I was having a Facebook dialogue withHundred Plus,who’s a cool-ass PUA/ instructor out of Australia(Evil Pickup 101).

I love this quote he made concerning “State & Energy”,while at the club or basically in any party venue:

“So if you’re at a club,and you want to talk to some girls,and the party is kicking…you have to kinda go over there and come-in “at a vibe that just as,if not slightly more,excited/fun/viby than the group you come in to??

Like think about this:seriously how fucking stupid are you guys?

You wouldn’t want to be a downer,would you.No wonder none of you fuckers were getting laid.Evil Pickup will not tolerate inferior genes.

Mystery:hate to weed you outta existence,dude,kinda hard now,but evolution was telling you something bro:it’s too hard to keep your bloody genes going…”

Wow!!That was in your face lol!

So let me explain this concept further:

Average Joe enters the club,he sees a girl or girls enjoying themselves-full of energy,life,and all giggly bubbly.

The wrong approach would be to come in set with an energy level “LOWER” than the girl(s).

You’d essentially be ‘downing’ the set,or raining on the girl’s fucking parade!

Thus,they’re gonna blow your ass out by either:

1.Ignoring you
2.Rolling off(leaving)
3.Answer you in a not-so nice manner

I see this shit play out in the club every weekend.

Girls are super hyper and bubbly,yet some weird-friggin guy comes in with a monotone vibe,in-animate to say the least.Boring the set and bringing down the girl’s high.

In other words:party-pooping!

“So…what should I do”?

Calibrate you prick!

Gauge the vibe of the girls.If they are apparently having fun,which isn’t hard to discern:they’re laughing,seems high off something,dancing,etc.

In that case,you will have to come in with an equally high energy,or just a bit higher and a bit more animated than the girls.

The girls are dancing?Approach dancing also.

The girls are laughing?Approach laughing also as if you’re in on the joke they’re laughing at.

Do not approach with a serious fucking body language and tone.

Seriousness kills!!!

Likewise:if the girl(s) seems a bit bored,down,not yet enjoying herself,her glass of Margarita hasn’t hit her system yet,you(the guy)should then approach matching her tone.

Or be a tad bit more excited than she is.

You don’t wanna approach girls who arent warmed up yet as if you’re high on coke or some shit,like a dancing monkey.

So ,as a rule of thumb,match the girl’s vibe and her tone.

This is essentially called ‘mirroring’:which is a powerful concept in pick-up.

So the next time you’re thinking about approaching that hot girl at the bar,or those girls at the club:Remember to never down the vibe!!

And feel free to check out Hundred Plus’ Facebook page,where he gives awesome dating,relationship and pick-up advice:Evil Pickup 101

How does a girl earn drinks from me

Ok guys,if y’all haven’t read part 1 to this topic:click the link Here to check it out

When is it OK to buy her a drink?

As the title suggests;the girl whom you’re chatting up at the bar or club HAS to EARN it.

This is a classic concept in the pick-up community dubbed Rewarding her.

Listen clearly!The only time you should buy her a drink is if she’s worked for it,and you’re essentially REWARDING her.

Do not reward bad behavior!

How many times have we seen a guy chatting up a girl,and she’s clearly not interested(via body language),nor engaged in the chat[i.e.Bad Behavior],yet the he still initiates buying her a drink!

That is essentially rewarding her for bad behavior.Or for anti-social behavior.

Why would you reward someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve it!!?

Women are so used to being rewarded by Beta males when they don’t deserve it,that they virtually expect every guy to do the same.

We can all thank the Betas/nice guys for setting this awful trend(smfh).

Grounds for rewarding her

Ok,the reason guys chat up girls is to get laid(eventually).No secret in that.

Accordingly,whatever the girl does to facilitate the possible lay,or if she’s just enjoying the time y’all are spending.Feel free to reward her with a drink.

The fact that she’s been so receptive and reciprocative to you and the chat(opposed to being a first-class bitch),somewhere during the chat(15 minutes after),I may say to her:

“Hey Marcy,I’m gonna get ‘MYSELF’ a drink.Since you’ve been such a fucking rockstar,I’m gonna get you one too.Let’s go to the bar”!

The subtle beauty in what I said is this:

*I made it clear that ‘I’ was gonna buy ‘MYSELF’ a drink.And I’m in such a good mood that I’m considering getting you on.But I come first.

That is very fucking powerful guys!

It subcommunicates to the girl that “you’re more important than she is”[who's just a stranger].

As we already know,that mindset and frame is a crucial part of the alpha lifestyle.

And women LOVE alphas and men who are dominant and confident with a touch of asshole mixed in there lol.

What I stated to her is what separates real men from boys.

An alpha always puts himself before any random woman.

While betas/wussies put the woman first:aka pedestalling[which is a grave sin in the seduction community].

Women are attracted to dominance and high-valued men!Their panties get super friggin’ drenched by guys who display such behavior!

A guy CANNOT be high value, if he’s going around the club rewarding girls who haven’t invested anything into an interaction.

Women see such actions as weak,supplicative and sly!

So once the girl has invested in the conversation by actually talking for more than 15 minutes,she has essentially earned any good acts you’re willing to perform.

On the contrary,if you’re trying to social and converse with her,but she’s not responding,not talking much,being a bitch,being indifferent,not smiling,obviously not enjoying the time…Why the fuck would you even contemplate rewarding such bitchy behavior!?

And the sickening thing is:Most men would STILL reward her(or attempt to)by buying her a drink[LMFAO]!!!

It’s as if the guy say to himself,”you know what,she’s acting a bit frosty right now,so I’m gonna buy her a drink”.

Hoping that will activate her conversational motors.

Once a woman sees you’re rewarding her shitty behavior,she will take advantage(if she’s that kinda girl).

She will drink your ass out while pretending to be enjoying the chat,just to have your ass running back and forth to the bar like a damn waiter!

Then she’s gonna introduce you to her social group,and you’re gonna find yourself feeling compelled to buy drinks for her girlfriends too LMFAO!!!

Guys,we’ve all seen this shit play out every weekend at venues.

We’ve all probably been there and been that looser guy.

That guy rushing to the bar then returning to the set with 4 cocktails in hands:praying not to spill them.

That sought of behavior is WEAK and a turnoff to women.

And how ironic that 95% of men in clubs and bars act this way:committing such ridiculous social faux-pas.

So you never want to put yourself in a situation where the girl has you buying drinks for her girlfriends:which is quite common nowadays(smh).

That is why I appreciate the pick-up community and our insights so much.

The guru/head coach for RSD (Real Social Dynamics),Tyler Durden,once wrote an article years ago entitled “Secret Society”.

He went on as to say that,”Only 5% of men in the world get laid regularly.And in the club:only 5% of the men in the venue will actually get laid”.

The reality that guys are in the bars and clubs doing dumb shit ,like buying girls drinks when they haven’t earned it.I can picture now what TD meant by that.

Hard Truth In Closing:

Women are 100 times more socially savvy that us.

Women are 100 times more socially aware than us.

Women are 100 times more perceptive than us.

So if you’re scheming, plotting and contemplating buying drinks:Know that the girl knows the only reason you’re doing it is to buy your way into her pants.

Thus,she will either reject you now by turning down your drink proposal.

Or she will accept your drinks, use you all night as her drink-provider,then reject you later.

So we cannot blame women for being gold-diggers.We can only blame the men who readily offer them gold.

Once again,checc out this interesting article about buying drinks from a female’s perspective:imma buy you a drank

Why you shouldn’t buy girls drinks!

Hey fellas,another really interesting post which correlates with bar/club game.

Very informative for guys who enjoy going out and having fun in the nightlife.

First off,let’s address the EXCEPTIONS to buying her drinks:

Exceptional Cases

*You already know her,i.e.she’s a relative,former fuck buddy(ex-girlfriend),acquaintant,etc.

*She’s a girl in whom you’re not gaming nor trying to seduce.

*She’s a part of your social circle:which entails the above 2 exceptions.You’re not gaming her(for whatever reason)but she might’ve gone to the club with y’all.

Why is it OK to buy drink(s) for such girls in the above 3 exceptional cases?

SIMPLE!

You’re not expecting anything from them(sexual nor physical).So feel free to get your P.Diddy on and buy the whole damn bar out LMAO!!

Those girls won’t be psycho analyzing you and your intentions,saying to themselves,”Why is he buying me drinks?Is he tryna buy me?Does he think I’m that easy?He might have bad intentions.I gotta be cautious with this muthafucka”!

So it’s all good buying drinks for girls with whom you’re already acquainted,since you’re not trying to pick them up.Therefore,they won’t question your actions of ulterior motives.

The girls you should NOT buy drinks for

This is polar opposite to the girls you MAY buy drinks for.

Simply put…Do not buy drinks for girls you’re trying to pick up!

SIMPLE!

Unless she’s earned it!

So that fine-ass lass, looking all bored and lonely hovering at the bar, whom you’ve been eyeing all night – “Do not open her up by offering to buy her a drink!

Do not approach her trying to break the ice with,”May I get you a drink”?

1 of 3 things will happen:

A.)She will say, “yea-sure“!Then drink you out for the whole fucking night while pretending to be into you.

Note:She isn’t to be blamed for accepting the drink(s).Your dumb ass should be blamed for buying the drink(s)!

B.)She will say,”Yea-sure”!Get the drink,come up with some clever/bullshit excuse for coming back,”I’m gonna use the restroom for a sec.”.Then she never returns:leaving you like an asshole frozen in time in the middle of the club,while she dodges you all night and tell her friends how much of an looser you are,who thought he could buy buy his way into her ripped jeans!!!

C.)She will just say,”No thanks“.

Note:She would be wise to say no since she doesn’t know you.For all she knows,you’re some creepy fucking stalker looking to date rape her by slipping one in her Mimosa.

So it’s a much safer bet to NOT approach her at all with “buying her a drink line”.

Save you time,cash and esteem.

Sooooooo,what should I do instead?

Do what you’d normally do as an opener.But exclude the ‘drink proposition’.

If she’s earned it(down the line)-feel free to splurge a bit.

It’s that simple!!!

There’s not a worst feeling in the world to a girl,than when a guy subcommunicates his intentions through a drink.

And let’s keep it real guys!How many times had you bought her a drink and saying to yourself,”I hope this bitch gets hammered and pissy drunk and ends up coming home with me”!

If not that exact line,some variation of it.

So to avoid the social stigmas of being a Date-Rapist,Creepy Guy,Charming Guy who makes her weirded out by doing kind acts,just don’t buy her a drink at all(or as yet)!

The insane irony is-“95% of girls WON’T even ask the guy to buy her a drink lol!

So it kills the shit out of me that guys would even suggest buying drinks,as if it’s a prerequisite to convo!!!

Girls with at LEAST an ounce of class or a tinge of dignity ,would feel low and cheap asking a random guy to buy her a drink.

Even the lowest of girls on the social totem pole,would have enough social value to refrain from begging drinks from strange guys at a bar,whom she’s only known for 5 minutes (via chat).

So if the girl herself won’t ask;then guys…WTF are you doing buying!!?

What I’ve witnesses:

I’ve been clubbing hard-non stop for the past 9 years,as if I were a coked-up version of some fist-pumping Guido from the Jersey Shore!

The MOST common theme I see play out[a painful theme at that],is guys buying fucking drinks for random girls(when they haven’t earned it)!!!

Then at the end of the night,they’re going home with whom they came:their buddies or by themselves.

So ultimately,trying to get the girl drunk by feeding her drinks after drinks didn’t pay off.

In Closing:

There are exceptions to every rule in life and between the sexes.

Sure,it does happen where buying drinks may pay off and result in a lay.

But how often?

1 in 10 cases?

For reference sake,let’s say there’s a nightclub:we’ll call it Club X.

Perfect ratio of dicks to vaginas:300 dudes,300 chicks.

Knowing how scared and socially inept men are(compared to women),let’s assume 100 of those men have enough cravats to approach women in Club X.

It’d be rational(from trend)to surmise that 80 of those men would offer to buy drink(s) for the girls they’d approached and chat up.

60 of those girls are crazy,thirsty or broke enough to accept drinks from the random guys.

Now,the 60 out of 300 girls at Club X who’d accepted drinks,how many of them do you think actually go home with the guys who bought them drinks?

Don’t fucking lie guys!I know we’ve all been there so it’s painful to admit.

Any rational guy would assume that not even 5 of those 60 girls,who accepted drinks,actually got laid afterwards by the dreaded Drink-Buyers.

So that’s a WHOPPING 5 out of 300 girls who may actually go home with the drink buyers!

Im no Einstein,but that’s fucking 6%!!!

Only 6% of girls at the club ‘MAY’ go home with a random guy who’d bought her drinks!

And remember,I’m not talking about girls you might’ve known prior nor a girl you’re on a date with.I’m talking about RANDOM strangers who you’d cold approach in the club.

So the lesson here guys is:Don’t buy her drinks unless she’s earned it.

I keep parenthesizing “unless she’s earned it”.

Click the following link to read part 2/continuation to this article,of the 1 TRUE exception to buying a random girl a drink:How does a girl earn drinks from me

And check out this interesting article on drink buying from a female’s perspective.You’ll be surprised guys.Nice article Jamie imma buy you a drank .

Gaming my sister’s friends[social proof]

This was the HB’s wardrobe for Halloween I stole from her Facebook page(with her consent if course lol.

Taking advantage of social proof with my sisters’ friends:

I’ve noticed a trend as of late with my sisters’ girlfriends:it’s way easy to game them(lol)!!!

I never game my sisters’ friends through out the years.I just seen them as off limits and having a great potential to backfire and screw up her social circle.

But lately[past month],it’s as if a friggin’ lightbulb suddenly came on in my head with the following message in bold:

“It’s a gold mine and easy ass in seducing my sisters’ friends”

Say no more(lol)!!

Many nights of struggling in field trying to game girls who are just not interested,I find gaming her friends to be a godsend.

Last night:

To further explore this theory,I pre-planned a meet up with my paternal sister at a Soca concert last night at a club.

Knowing she always rolls with HB’s(8 and better),I was super hype about the prospects(yes)!!

We met,chatted a bit in the venue(making sure that all the HB’s in our immediate circumference see us),then somewhere during the dialogue,we made it known that we were siblings[chi ching-lol].

So I wasn’t just some random- fucking Joe Blow trying to hit on her and her social circle:I was her brother,thus forcing the group to automatically respect social norms to accept me[thanks toLove System's violation theory article for this trick and tip]

With this dynamic,the guy can virtually get away with murder!

You would literally have to do something extremely over the top for these girls to shut you down(in a bitchy way).

Having your sister(even brother)as part of this social group ensures inclusion, and basically grants you immunity from( blatant) rejection.

Even if her friends are disgusted by you, and even if you looked like an ultra-jacked-up version of Shrek,her friends are obliged via social norms(which is unwritten but intelligible and understood)to not reject you.

I used to see guys do this all the time and get away with murder.But I never understood what was taking place-nor the psychology behind it.

I would say to myself,”Why the fuck isn’t she slapping the shit out of that asshole”?

Then to later find out that the leader of the group(alpha female) was his sister.

I have a guy-friend who resembles Shrek:literally!

And he has a brother who’s super popular(a ball player)who gets laid.

So whenever we go out clubbing,my friend(the Shrek-look alike),would be gaming girls off his broher’s popularity:eating his brothers’ proverbial crumbs lol!

So while 3 girls would be chatting with his brother,my friend would be grinding on one of their asses an doin overboard shit!

And none of these chiccs would recoil and pull away.

So last night with my sister’s group,I tested this model.

I shot a text message to my sister telling her to meet me near the exit on the dancefloor:and bring her friends.

They all came over after spotting me in the crowd and they all were dancing infront of me(a 4 set).So I shouted to the group,”Hey sis”!Re affirming that I’m ‘safe’.

Then I grabbed the hands of the hottest girl in her group(an HB10)and grind the shit out of her for 10 seconds lol!

Twirling around like a Whirling Dervish,I grabbed another one of her gf’s from behind and grinded her for few minutes while my sister laughed lmao!

Feeling a burst of empowerment and the liquor in my system,the sleazy side of me came out:which I never knew I had BTW lol.

If The dynamics were different where as my sister wasn’t part of this circle,I probably would’ve caught a groping charge or got stomped out by a bunch of girls lol.

Later on,I isolated the hottest one from the set,chatted with her about Facebook while we playfully tug at each other[well-me doing most of the tugging].

Such flirting went back and forth few minutes and I slapped her on her perky ass and proceeded to grim on her thighs for a bit more.

Push comes to shove,I could’ve had my sister bring her back to my crib or something but I wasn’t even thinking that far ahead to lay anything.

Conclusion:

I now realize that having a sister who’s into the social scene and nightlife is like sitting on a gold mine,as far as picking up chiccs is concerned.

This is social-circle game at its pinnacle.

Curious to know if other guys out there are privy to this concept.

My reality check about Same-Night Club Lays:girls just wanna have fun.

Whoever wrote a book about how women are such emotionally attached creatures when it comes to post-sex…Kill yourself!!!

This article isn’t addressing all chicas[I love Spanish].I’m specifically talking about the club/bar girls.

Now,I’ve learnt a lot about women,being immersed in the seduction community.

But one piece of advise which really pays dividends is this:

“Always assume that a girl is a one-nighter or same-night lay”.

And that quote is specifically addressing club/bar chicas.

We guys tend to always prejudge women as being angels,re-incarnations of Mother Teresa,prudish,monogamous…when we should enter the interaction with the mindset,”she’s down for whateva”.

Ok,let me fast forward to the relevancy of my situation.

Few years ago,I’d picked up the hottest girl in the club[you can checc it out on my blog].

We made out,with some PU tactics,I managed to get her back to my guest house.

Not having a fucking condom,I chosed to not bang her.

Side note:it seems like whenever I forget to buy rubbers,those are the times I’m presented with most lay opportunities(LMBAO)!

When I do have a stack of condoms on me:I’m never getting lays[talk about a paradox].

Anyway,so we settled for some mutual- oral play since I didn’t wanna bang her raw dog(without a rubber).

Holy shit:this girl literally squirts!!!

She’s the first and only squirter I ever met!This HB fucking squirts like 10 yards:no fucking kidding!!

I gave her like 5 squirting orgasms within 15 minutes via finger fucking her.

I felt like a kid in a candy store or a guy who just discovered some crazy shit!

Anyway,we had fun!It’s in essence an SNL eventhough we never had intercourse.

Even the occasions I did bang girls the same night after the club-the same theme almost always plays out,which is:

‘The girl moves on’.

I was leaving that morning to go bacc to the neighboring island(Barbuda)so she walked me to the ferry just around the corner.

A day passed-she never called me.

I phoned her later,we chatted few minutes but I felt a coldness about the vibes,as if she didn’t wanna talk.

Not as if she felt hurt or dissed,but her vibe was as if she’s not fucking into me(lol).Like “why is he calling”?

Not getting the hint that” girls just wanna have fun”,I phoned her the next day but no answer.

Phoned her few days later,no answer!

Phoned her from someone else’s mobile about a week later,she answers,then her tone sunk as she realized it was Me.

Believe me guys:I wasn’t being needy here like some AFC pussy.

I was merely following post-sex protocol:which is to not totally cut her off if I’d liked to see her again.

But I never got the memo nor the hint that this chica was merely looking to get laid that night!

So wasn’t looking for strings attached nor the possibility of an LTR(relationship).She wanted to fuck!

But we men find it hard to believe that women can be so “like us”,or promiscuous.

So I treated this case and girl as status quo and end up looking like a needy dick in the end.

Moral of the story?

Never assume that the girl at the club/bar whom you’re gaming is looking for something long term.

Assume she’s a Same Night Lay,and treat it as such by pressing the issue to bang her that night.

If you do manage to pull it off:don’t get excited like I did!

Be nonchalant and let the vibe flow.

Don’t call her after sex.

If she’s interested in seeing you again:she will call!

If she’s really just a one-nighter,then she won’t call.Or she would call just to allay the perception that you’d see her as a slut[woman's #1 fear].

But I’d totally played that the wrong way.

Peace out fellas!

My field report from the club

She couldn’t dance really…but whateva!

Hey guys,this post has been revised with some more details and added tags and stuff which I didn’t include prior.

I’m gonna be rambling a lot in this post about my observations at the club the other night.

Everything from how cut-throat club gaming can be for some guys.And successful for others.

It was a wicked night for me(in a good sense)as far as fun goes.

Ok lets’ get started:

Arrived early as usual to get comfortable in the venue while there’s less people.

Holy shit!!!The joint was already packed at 12 a.m.!!!

Out the damn window goes my plan of trying to beat the crowd to gain a foot-hold of comfort.

Good thing my state was already pumped since I’d gamed 3 girls 10 minutes earlier.

All bars were over crowded from every friggin’ angle.

I literally waited 45 minutes trying to get drinks shouting at the bartenders(lol).

Got fed up of standing around like an AFC so I yelled to a guy infront of me,”Hey order me a water and Redbull and I’ll buy you a drink too”.

He was way ahead of me dealing with the bartender so I saved another 45 minutes by doing that.

Met up with the boys/wingmen;we hi-fived.

The water & Redbull in hand made me stand out frrom 99% of the guys getting wasted.

Oh,but this’ a major part of my club game;girls would open me with slick comments,”why are you drinking soda in a club”?

As usual,it happened last night but I ignored the 2-set of undesirables by walking off.

Spotted my biological sister Pepper[her pseudonym].

She asked me to buy her a juice(OJ).

Damn!!!

Definitely dont want HB’s in the peripherary seeing me buying drinks like an AFC.

But I said to myself,”my sister’s super hot(a 10).Why not borrow her for some social proof”?

I know that sounds devilish but(lol)…

Anyway,we paraded to the bar hugged up looking like a couple.

Little do they know this’ my big sister.

Noticed an HB10 & 9.5 two set eyeing me subtly as I rolled off from my sis’.

Approached the 2 set with an opener on the fly,”which 1 of yall is the best dancer”?

Music so damn loud,I had to break a community rule by leaning in(pecking).

Stepped on the target’s foot inadvertently(lol).

Dance with both of them.

They’re sisters actually from Jersey vacationing here since the Summer.

Some guy had enough balls or alcohol to approach the set.He managed to get the other sister’s attention.

Could’ve been a guy they knew.

I rolled out after dancing for 3 minutes in order to not look too needy.Plus I wanted to work the room.

Im at a in my life where Im more focused on social-circle gaming opposed to snagging a lone wolf for the lay.

Plus I’ve been in an LTR of 2 years so f-closing isnt my primary goal.

strolling pass the bar,Im well peacocked as usual with beeded necklace and a colorful-type feathered necklace.

HB 9 with huge tits taps me on the arm from about 5 yards away and smiled.

I figured she was probably a gold-digger fishing for drinks so I just shrugged her off with a forced smile.

Hi-fived some random guys passing.

1 of them engaged me,telling me about how wasted he is.

Back to the center of the dance floor.

2 chubby girls dancing erratically as if at a parade high off something.

My policy is,”chat up everyone”.

So I grabbed their hands and said something neggish(can’t remember what).

1 of them felt offended and pulled away with a sour face.

The hotter one was all into me.She had an English/UK accent which I find annoying and sexy at the same time.

Rolled off!

Bumped into the 2 set of HB10′s again from Jersey.

Me:”Hey let’s dance[I never ask nor verbalize it,but I did this time].

HB10(the target):”What!?Cant hear you”!!

Ok cool,so I just started grinding her thighs from the side.

So fucking semi-drunk guy approaches us and fucks up the set & the vibe.

Chicc chats to the drunk guy while I grind her.

I could’ve pulled her away to isolation but…

Drunk guy tries AMOG me and saying that the chicc doesnt want to dance with me.

She gets annoyed by him and starts a mini-argument so I rolled off.

Spots a chubby girl from New York who I knew from back-in-the day.

Chatted and danced.She couldn’t dance so I rolled off.

HB10 almost knocks the drink out my hand trying to get away from some player-type guy.

She aplogized,we chatted and danced.fount out she’s from St.Thomas U.S.Virgin Islands.

Some guy external interrupts.She Told me it’s her brother(lol).

I roll off.

For the guys saying,”why the fuck are you rolling off from all those sets”!?

Remember guys,I was not looking to f-close nor # close anyone.So no point in building a connection,etc.

My game over he past 2 years has been foused on being “more social”.

If the lay comes-I’d take it!

Chat up a 2 set:1 chubby,the other slim.

Me:”You look pretty shy.Im tempted to loosen you up”.

Made mistake of ignoring the friend so the HB8 gave me a subtle fuck-off via body language and facial expression.

HB8:”Im always shy.Cant be loosen”.

I stalled so rolled off.

Bumped into HB again I knew from New York:

Me:”Whats up”?

HB NYC:”Tryna buy a drink but I must be invisible;cant get through”.

I went AFC’ish and tried getting bartender’s attention by damn near crawling over the counter(lmao).

Why did I do this?Dont know but it was very fucking try-hard and DLV’d me.

Random guy from across the bar motions to her with his hand as if to say to her,”do you want a drink”?

She nods head in affirmative.

He buys her drink then bring it over.

HB NYC @ me:”I got my drink so thanks for trying to get the bartender’s attention”.

I tried play it off,”Nah I was getting a drink for myself mainly”.

Bullshit!!!!

A buddy comes to me:

Wingman:”Hey Yata(my local nickname),Im looking for this bad-ass chicc wearing…….but I cant find her”.

He was actually gaming the same HB10 from New Jersey I danced with earlier.But she got pulled by some Don Juan-type natural.

Damn,my wingman getting schooled by the natural;eventhough my wing’s a natural gamer also like the Don Juan guy.

5 minutes later,spotted Jersey 2 set with the smooth natural.

Informed my wingman so he rolls over but the other natural guy seemed to have her hooked already.So he isolated her.

Damn he got isolation game for not being a community guy.

Wing is pissed off.

Ran into HB9 St.Thomas again who told me the guy who interrupted was her brother.

We danced,I complimented her(direct game which I never do).

Took a sip of her cocctail.

Some random-fucking guy again interrupts.

They hugged so they obviously knew each other.

I rolled out instead of standing there like a clown while she chats with the acquaintant.

Approached a lone wolf HB10 in the face but 8 in the body.

Danced for a minute without saying a word to her.

HB10:”Who said I wanted to dance”?

Ignored her comment and kept grinding her while holding her around the waiste.

Her comment was flirty opposed to bitchy so it was all good.

Fount out she was from Dominica.Not Dominican Republic,but another Caribbean island with the same name but English speaking.

Rolled off.

Entered a dancing-mixed set.

Grabbed onto a model-figure chicc who was about 6’3.

She looked back as if to see who the hell was grinding her:ugly or cute.

I guess she thought I was ugly so she moved away.

How embarrassing but I kept cool as a cucumber.

It’s near 5 a.m.Heading for the exit.

My cousin Tawana from NYC grabs me and introduced me to her friend;and HB10.

We took group pics’.

I said to the HB10,”Make sure you post them on Facebook”.

I had the perfect logistics to seduce her since my cousin introd’ us but I was mentally drained at that moment to game anyone.

Headed for the exit.

Opened an HB7 with huge tits in a 2 set with a silly opener on the fly.

Me:”Hey I spotted your boyfriend dancing with some girl.You should get revenge by us dancing”.

I never expected this could-be fallacious opener to hook.

I just did it to be an asshole while leaving the venue.

But the HB7 grabs me and starts grinding me.

Wow-openers really dont matter in clubs.All about body language projection.

My cousin took some pics of me grinding the 7.

She shies away from the cam so I bounced.

HB Dominica outside the club being chat up by some smooth-looking guy.

Me:”Hey partner,she’s a good girl.Take care of her”.

Taps him on the shoulder then bounced.

The HB10 from Jersey I was dancing with earlier whom my wingman was gaming,was standing arm in arm kissing with the alpha-natural dude who out gamed my wing.

Wow,this is really battle of the fittest.

Strongest survives.Strongest gets laid.

I learned a lot from the other night at the Lyme nightclub.

1)Other guys are waiting in the cut for you to open a girl(s)to seize the opportunity to capitalize off you gaming her.

2)Girls are fucking friendly and social.

Every girl I chatted up communicated with me.

3)Girls like audacity & balls.Just dance with her-dont ask!

4)Longer you chat or dance with her on the spot,greater chance of some random guy interrupting.

So it’s advantageous to venue change,or isolate instantly!!!

My wing,who usually does great,got fucked over by opting to chat up the girl at the bar instead of pulling her to isolation at the lounge or outside.

All in all,I had massive fun eventhough it didn’t result in a lay;mainly ’cause I didnt push for it.

Check out this related post which deals with dance-floor gaming,etc.bySoloist 2.0 http://thesoloist1.wordpress.com/2011/11/11/a-simple-tip-that-will-help-your-game-by-9000/

Peace out!