Category Archives: Cheating(Infidelity)
2 “Green Lights” to look for:when trying to bang girls who have boyfriends.
2 Crucial Green Lights
Now,I know I’ve managed to piss off quite a few guys and gals in the bloggersphere via controversial declarations and articles…and this article damn sure won’t win me any more fans than what I already have.Maybe I ‘AM’ the perennial asshole of blogging…
Ok,this is my rule when it comes to seducing girls with BF’s:Fair-Fucking Game!Regardless- girls are gonna be hit on:whether single,married or homeless.So morality and ethics don’t even count here.As the great PUA Mehow said;”It’s her fucking decision.She chooses without a gun to her head”!
This sign more or less transcends across the board with single chics also.And it’s quite instinctive that we DO preach this in the seduction community:
*When chatting up a girl who’s taken[she told you she has a BF at some point during the initial chat],most guys(because guys are dumb),would take that statement as an IOD(indication of disinterest):that she’s trying to shut you down PRONTO!Thus,he’d lap his tail,apologize like a pussy,then abort the mission and leave[SMH].
But as we teach in the Pick-Up community:”As long as the girl is still talking,still there,and she doesn’t leave nor move away- it’s fucking “ON”!!
Guys,if a girl HONESTLY doesn’t want to talk,doesn’t care to hear what you have to say: she’ll simply leave!Simply move away!SIMPLE!!If chatting her up and she says she has a BF,yet she’s still there:then that’s your cue to continue to plow as if she was single.
As long as she remains in set,it’s a great indication that she’s seducable and bangable.Always assume it’s “ON”!
Just as important(and even more so than the 1st.sign) is how she talks about her BF.
*If she DLV’s him;it’s fucking “ON” like Donkey Kong on steroids!This should be common sense I’d think.
What I mean by that is:if somewhere during the chat,the question of BF arises,and she says something like,“I have a so-called boyfriend”:it’s a subtle indication["So-Called"] that she does NOT value him,or doesn’t value him enough that she won’t cheat on him with a guy who’s in the “KNOW”,i.e.a Pick-Up Artist.
A statement/reply like the 1 above would also indicate “Problems and Dissatisfaction” in her LTR(relationship) that you can now exploit like the devilish-son of a bitch you are LOL.
So she’s indirectly giving you the OK to fuck her.She’s literally telling you that this is the opportunity to sample her pink-juicy flesh…for free…no strings attached.
Other examples of she devaluing(DLV-ing) her boyfriend or husband,thus virtually laying herself on your proverbial platter:
“I believe he’s cheated on me before[this is her opportunity for vengeance]”
“It’s hard to trust men(her BF)nowadays”
“He doesn’t like going out as a couple”
If a girl values her BF,she will lie her fucking ass off to other men about him and her relationship.So if the BF is abusive,she’s not gonna admit that to some random guy chatting her up.She will lie her ass off to paint her LTR as the best ever!
But if she DOESN’T value him,and she’s open to cheating:she won’t care less to sugar coat shit.She’d tell you straight up that her BF is abusive,cheating,a scumbag,etc.
In retrospect,all the girls I’d laid who had boyfriends(as all girls do),the above 2 signs always presented themselves.
It was almost automatic that if I didn’t get the 2nd.sign(she DLV-ing and devaluing her man),I wasn’t gonna sleep with her[or at least have a major shit-test fest from her].
BTW,there are more “Green Lights“,but I only elaborated on the most prominent 2.
Now go fuck you another man’s girl.Remember:morality & ethics have no place in bagging chics.Another guy will quickly fuck your girlfriend without a 2nd.thought while you’re focused on morality[I learned my lesson].
Letter to a girl[from the heart]
I was just rummaging through some junk I had thrown under my bed[old cassettes,sneakers,documents...].Through the midst of cobwebs and dirty socks which probably have been there for years now lmao,lo and friggin’ behold:a letter to a girl.
Disclaimer:This letter is bound to make every guy in the ‘Manosphere’ cring!The most cheesiest of men/Beta Males will undoubtedly feel a rush of anger towards me.I might be deposed and banned from the pick-up community(despite this letter being some years old,before I fully learned ‘Game’).I was still pretty much a newbie to seducing women.So please forgive me dear Gods of Pick-Up,for I have sinned gravely by way of the following scribe.
Female readers, on the other hand ,may feel their warm hearts flutter as they read the letter.
Background:
In 2006,I was pretty much still under the poisonous- false notion that the only way to a woman’s heart or vagina is via:sweet words,flattery,romance and heart-felt letters.
I was always great with words and diction(since I loved poetry as a kid coming up).I’d make Shakespeare’s ass look like a fucking amateur-hour poet at the Apollo LMAO!
Anywho,my buddy Unit had hooked me up with a mutual friend of his:her name is Kim.We met up,got acquainted,hung out for a day,she went back to her town…So I decided it was time to let it all hang out the only way I knew how:through a heart-felt letter.
This was about a week after meeting[One-tis is a MOFO lmao].I mailed her the letter and kept a rough draft for myself.Ok-here it goes verbatim,word for word(no edits,no cuts).
“What’s up Kim?I’m writing this letter from the heart,and I want you to study it and think about what I was saying on the phone.Words alone can’t express how I feel about you,but for starters,I want to let you know that I love you,and I’ve fallen in love with you from the first time I laid eyes on you Kim.I fell in love with your beauty,and I was surprised that ****** actually hooked me up with a young girl as pretty as you.I felt below your standards.I couldn’t see us together because your beauty and good looks were too much for me to handle at the time.Baby,I love you everything about you;especially that bright smile you had that seems to melt my heart.Most of all is your inner beauty that attracts me to death.You are sweet and have the charms of a little baby(total innocence),and when I’m with you,you make me feel special to know that I have a special girl in you Kim.I love you and mean it.Don’t let hating-ass niggaz ruin what we had,should have and will have”.
Wow!That was fucking painful!I can’t believe I wrote that as I retrospect SMDH.I barely knew the girl but for a week and change and only met her once.But that was my MO.That was vintage Kenny with every girl I met prior to 2006 lmao!I thought that was the way to go in order to build a relationship with a girl-or frankly just to get some coochie.I felt that I had to go R&B and Poetry.
95% of women reading this may say to themselves:”That was lovely!I wish I fount a man like that who was so expressive and genuine”.But let’s see how it plays out with Kim and I.
Story Continues:
She got the letter,exclaimed how much she loved it and showed her friends…
A month later(following more mushy/Beta stuff from me),we officially went ‘Exclusive’.We were dating.She became my GF.We were in a relationship[talk about rush].
My friend Unit and I rented a house for the 4 of us to stay as roomies[my GF and I,and Unit and his GF].So we were 2 best-friends couples.Unit and I were besfriends.Kim and Unit’s GF were besties.Couldn’t get any better than that lol.
Within a week of lodging together:guess what happened?She ran out on me lmao.Nah just kidding.Read on!
I walked in from work one day(at 5 pm) and caught her fucking another guy in OUR bed!Yep-she cheated in the worst way!Red fucking handed before sunset.This chic was brazen and bare-faced since she knew that I usually come home at 5 SMH!So she showed that she didn’t care nor value our relationship in the worst way.
But Ultimately-I’m the one to be blamed.I rushed things.I fell for a stranger.I was playing the romance card when she was just out for a fuck and good time.
Irony is:Kim and I are cool as hell to this day lmao.She hated the old me(in 2006)who was romancing her and simping(as Reema would say).Ever since learning pick up and becoming a real man/badass who frowns upon seducing women via romance,Kim has been chasing me down for the past few years lmao.Trying to seduce me,buy me,lure me…I mean-we’re mad cool though lol!I had hung out with her 3 times since,but I wasn’t into her at all.
Do I blame Kim?Then-yes.Now?Hell NO!!Any girl would have cheated eventually after being with a doormat,a wuss/nice guy!
For all I know,she’s probably reading this since we’re Facebook friends and she sees all my blog posts.We talk on the phone every other week so there’s no ill feelings on my part.
So,for every guy checking out this post,learn this lesson at least:Women do NOT like nice guys!Women do NOT appreciate nice guys nor nice gestures when done PREMATURELY!
Chelios PUA
