Category Archives: Attitudes
Why Are Ugly Men Sooooo Confident With Hot Women..!!!?
My boy “Pimp” resembles the guy on the right,except his ears aren’t so protrusive,and he’s black
Personality trumps looks!!
Self-perception trumps looks!!
In the grand scheme of things,looks are only about 5% of a guy’s overall attractiveness.So in essence:looks doesn’t fucking matter!
It’s no secret that un-attractive men ‘Generally’ have hot girl(friends).
While society’s so-called “hot guys” AREN’T friggin’ getting laid[talk about a contradiction]!
They spend 12 hours weekly @ the gym buffing up,tryna build an “Adonis-like physique” ontop of an already ripped body;all in hopes of becoming more attractive to women.
Yet,they don’t get laid [SMDH]!
But the scrawny guy,or the one struggling to carry his protruding beer-belly,who neglects going to the gym ‘Period’:he’s getting laid like a Rockstar!!
Ignorance is bliss!!!
Ultimately:an ugly guy knows he’s fucking ugly[unless he refuses to look in the mirror ever so often].
But these guys have an EXTREME tolerance,and a rejection proof-like attitude when it comes to what people say and think about them[physical appearance]!
Just observe an un-attractive guy whenever he’s chatting up a hottie!
He comes off as though he’s Brad Pitt incarnate!!
He does ‘NOT’ see himself as ugly,hideous nor un-attractive!!
One of my sarging buddies goes by the pseudonym “PIMP”.
Now,what separates “PIMP” from your house-hold attractive pimp?His face is virtually disfigured from an accident as a toddler.
He literally has a pizza-face,semi-burnt with crooked,rotted front teeth[enough to give a mummy a run for his money].
Throughout his pre-pubescence and teens,He was brutally teased and ostracized as if he were an extraterrestrial on Earth[sad when I retrospect].
However,if you see “PIMP” in action chatting up an HB10,you’d think this fucking dude doesn’t know how hideous he looks[I hope he doesn't read this LOL]!!
This dude gets laid!!!
As much as we dodge him out to the clubs & bars[not wanting him with us:thinking he'd be a DLV,fuck up our Game/image and repulse hot girls],whenever he begs to tag along,apart from me:he’s the ONLY friggin’ guy in our social group who has little to no fear of rejection!!
I was never able to ascertain the method to PIMP’s madness -until now;He doesn’t see himself as ugly!!
In spite of 28 years of being outcasted,bullied,excluded,ridiculed,laughed at…daily reminders of his extreme Unsightliness…
It never phases PIMP.
It’s like an internally automated- filtering process,where he filters out intolerance and prejudices.
In essence:bullshit bypasses his auditory system,where he ignores what critics say.
He’s inherently aware that looks mean shit to women on an attraction level.
He innately knows that his self- confidence,non-reactiveness and self-perception will ALWAYS trump his facial deformities.
He may not be able to put this in words.However,on a subconscious level;he knows this.
Ignorance is bliss!!
Hence the answer to the elusive question that all men have pondered for decades:“What the hell does she see in that ugly guy”!!!?
Ultimately:it’s attitude/personality.
Hot men[according to societal standards]are generally bland and lacking in the personality department.
They’re very insecure,gullible and fearful of rejection:thus they approach less women,which means less chances of getting laid,and less chances of landing that hot girlfriend.
Attractive men do NOT have that built-in emotional filter which un-attractive men do.
When an attractive guy gets rejected- he becomes hurt and defensive.
When an un-attractive guy gets shot down- he laughs it off(non-reactively),then plows forward via charm(which hot men lack on a grand scale).
With that said,it should be no surprise that the guys who get laid the most are ugly,or physically/facially un-attractive(to society’s standards).
Meet “My Representative”
When you meet someone,youre not only meeting 1 person-but an alter-ego.
Ever heard the saying,”When you first meet someone,you’re actually meeting a representative of their true self“?Of course you have!We’ve all heard that before.
And that’s why when meeting someone for the first time(at a bar,club,online,wherever),we should NOT take what they say at face-value.Frankly put:don’t fucking believe shit they say!!
And this realization is key for guys who are super susceptible to believe what women say at the inception of the chat[95% of men are suckers who believe what women say].
The only time a woman will show you her true self- is after you’d fucked her!Until then,you’ll be hablando with 1 of her quasi representative.
And it’s kinda common-sensical guys.Meeting people for the first time,it’s only instinctive that one would want to put their best foot forward to make a good impression of themselves.Only difference with women is that the stakes/social pressure is even higher for her to put on a greater impression.
“I’ve only slept with 3 guys”
“I don’t have sex on the 1st.date”
“I’m celibate”
“I’m great at sex”
“My biggest turnoffs are guys who always walk around in the Summer with their shirts off, acting like they’re God’s gift to women because they have a 6-pack.Such a turnoff”!
If all the above were said AFTER you had laid her:then cool-believe her!!!She’s most likely being truthful.
So guys,next time your chatting up that hot girl on POF and she says to you,“Oh really lol!!!I hate ppl who call me 20 times a day too”!!Beware,there’s a 90% chance she’s a 1st.class stalker who will actually ring your phone 100 times a day.
Listen to what she has to say for listening sake. But plow forward as though it went out the other ear.
The moment you start believing what a new girl says,you might as well take a front-row seat in masturbation-ville.
Men Are Dumb When It Comes To Dating,Sex & Seduction
Men are dumb!!
Yea I said it.Want me to repeat it- in bold for that matter?
We men suck at everything women:be it the ability to discern whether she likes us or hates the very ground we walk on…we just don’t have a clue if our lives depended on it.
And honestly,this shit isn’t news-flash.The average guy knows that he sucks rediculously at seduction,reading women and getting his dick wet.
As much as it pains me to say[let me take a swig of this truth-juice]…Women are WAY more smarter than men,and more savvy when it comes to the sexes and courtship.They make us look like a go-cart in a formula 1 race SMH.This is widely accepted in the seduction community.
[Pay great attention to the contrasts]
*Little Jimmy hit puberty between 10-15.
*Little Jill hit puberty between ages 8 to 13[girls generally hit puberty before boys of the same age].
*Thus Jill has a head start of being aware of the biological changes taking place with her body[breasts,pubic hair,sexual awareness & sexual maturity].
*Jill,even before puberty,has experienced what it is to be hit on by fellow-male pupils in class.
*Jimmy on the other hand,as a boy,he’s never experienced being hit on by fellow-female pupils in class[since girls are NOT programmed to court boys,but to be the courted].
*Thus Jill knows how it feels and looks like to be the center of attraction and liking from boys at an early age.While Jimmy is left in the dark as to the process of “LIKING”(puppy-love).
*Also,Jill has naturally developed and adopted techniques in order to combat the onslaught of attention from little boys her age.She essentially learned how to screen,accept and reject boys.
*Jimmy on the other hand,never had to deal with such circumstances,thus his ability & skills to screen,reject and accept girls is NON-EXISTANT.
*Jill,most likely has come in contact with either a perverted-old man with a pedophilia urge:be it her weird-drunk uncle,perverted grandpa who might’ve felt her up at some point,a dad who touched her inappropriately,an elementary-school teacher(male)who gets a hard on from flirting with little girls,etc…
*The key point: Jill knows what guys are all about(even at the yound-innocent age of 11 or 13).She knows what flirting looks like.She knows what it looks like when a boy likes her.She knows boys want girls[although she doesn't know how to voice this nor make sense of it].
*Jimmy on the other hand,most likely never came in contact with a drunk aunt who felt him up,nor a grandmother who groped him inappropriately,nor a mother who had a weird-sexual fetish for her son,neither did he have a hot teacher in the 2nd.grade who flirted with him…[Little boys are attracted to their female teachers,while male teachers are known for seducing female pupils].
*So Jimmy’s pre-teen years were totally different to Jill’s.
*Little Jimmy hasn’t gotten the chance to develope his social savviness,nor his awareness of the sexes.
*Little Jill has been through it all.She’s seen it all.She knows how to read the body language of boys,equipping her with the know-how to discern if he likes or dislikes her.Opposed to Jimmy who’s essentially a lost soul,unaware of how to attract a girl,how to go about liking a girl,and how to read a girl’s body language.
*Jimmy & Jill are essentially prototypes of what every little boy and girl on the face of the Earth goes through.
Let’s for a second observe what we see everyday with little boys and little girls.
Little boys are into:
*Mp3 players(music)
*Playing tag for tag sake
*Playing sports with other boys
*play fighting
*Watching Superman cartoons
Little girls are into:
*Boys,boy and more boys
*Makeup
*Fashion(dressing up)
*kiddie Pageants
*Watching Cinderella(cartoons based on courtship)
Those activities are stalk contrasts between what little boys do,and what little girls do.
*A girl can spot from a mile away when a guy is into her,virtually drooling over her,when he wants to fuck her,befriend her,marry her,hates her…
*An AFC(average guy) CANNOT spot when a girl likes him,even if he had infared vision which were able to penetrate her thoughts from blocs away.He doesn’t know the difference between a flirting-girl and a girl who’s just being social.
Unless he gets exposed to the PUA community,the manosphere or hangs out with a natural player who has ‘Game’,he will forever be a dummy when it comes to understanding women,love,sex and relationship.
What the “Average Guy” would do,and what a “Pick-Up Artist” would do.
Difference between Average & PUA
With the influx of AFC’s(average guys) to my blog over the past weeks,I figured it’d be a great idea to compose this post,where I illustrate the contrasts between the Average Joe – and the Pick-Up Artist,in any given situation regarding women,love,dating,sex & LTR(relationship).This article serves as a guideline,for men to step their shit up by paying keen attention to what a Pick-Up Artist does.
*Scenario 1:Girlfriend dumps the guy:
Average Guy would:Throw a fit,plead with her to take him back and work it out,promising that he would change,and that he’s sorry(although he wasn’t at fault for anything).
PUA would:Remain non-reactive,calm and cool,tell here it’s ok,he understands,then walk away,and go fuck some other girl in order to forget about being dumped.
*Scenario 2:Girl doesn’t answer her phone after 2 days of attempts:
Average Guy would:Keep calling constantly,20 times in a row if he has to.He would send few texts and leave voice mails[which would creep her out].
PUA would 
elete her # immediately from his phone and go pick up 5 other chics(which equals 5 more #’s).
*Scenario 3:Hot girl at a bar/club is looking at him:
Average Guy would:Avoid eye contact with her,or he’d just watch her all night then go home alone.
PUA would:Look right at her(direct eye contact)until she looks away first,then he would approach her right away like a real Alpha male should[women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men with balls].
*Scenario 4:While on a first date,girl says to him,”I don’t have sex on the first date-neither the 4th”.
Average Guy would:Believe her totally,then feels bad that he doesn’t have a shot until 5th.date.
PUA would:Recognize it’s bullshit,and that every girl says that she doesn’t fuck on the first date(even if she does),then he would end up fucking her after the date[a PUA knows what a girl says holds no weight 80% of times].
*Scenario 5:Attempting to get her phone # after chatting:
Average Guy would say:”Soooo,do you have a #?I’d like to call you sometime.Can I have it please so I could call you”?[He turns the girl off by asking,so he'd then get a fake # or some lie].
PUA would say:”I’m so tempted to take your #,but I’m such a busy guy,I doubt I’d have time to call you.We’ll see what happens:give me your #”.[A PUA doesn't ask-he commands because he knows that women are NOT attracted to men who ask permission].
*Scenario 6:Group of hot girls in the club standing next to a guy:
Average Guy would:Walk off,keep it moving,stands there silently,mind his business[typical weak,pussy anti-social behavior].
PUA would:Chat up the whole group of girls instantly[social-circle game]as any social guy should.He’d even go so far as to try organizing an orgy later on.
*Scenario 7:Chic with bitchy attitude tells guy to “get lost:leave me alone,I don’t wanna talk to you”!
Average Guy would:Lap his tail and run(dejectedly),or throws a fit and curse the b***h out(eventhough some girls deserve a cursing-out,this isn’t the case for it).
PUA would:Laugh,look her straight in the face,remain un-phased,and say something like this,”How does your boyfriend manage you?You’re like a chihuahua off the leash”.
*Scenario 8:Girlfriend chats and flirts with other guy:
Average Guy would:Throw a fit,chastise her,stand there awkwardly,leave and go home very upset.
PUA would 
ut a stop to the interaction by butting in,chat with the guy friendly,then say,”Hey,nice to meet you dude,me and Sharon are gonna browse the venue”[compliments to Savoy,the master PUA for this routine].
OR
He would more often than not,go flirt with another girl his damn self.
*Scenario 9:Girl at the bar wants guy to buy her a drink:
Average Guy would ull out a wad of cash,buy her the most expensive cocktail(in hopes of impressing her),then buy a round of drinks for her friends also SMDH(hoping to impress them also as a big-spender).
PUA would say:”I don’t buy girls drinks on the fist night:it’s against my policy”.
Or
“I don’t buy drinks for strangers.I’d have to get to know you first to ensure that you’re not a gold-digger”.
*Scenario 10:Girl asks guy(while on date or out),”So,what do you do”?
Average Guy would say:”I’m a lawyer,doctor,accountant,student,food-vendor,clerk,bus-driver”[something typically boring and lack luster].
PUA would say:”I’m a bit ashamed to tell you.Usually,when I tell girls what I do,they either go crazy and shit or run for the hills.I’ll tell you,but I guarantee you’ll be offended.I’m a male prostitute”.
Or
“I’m a zoo-keeper[indicates risky guy and adventurous].My job entails guarding vicious animals and keeping male tigers apart from the tigresses,so they don’t try banging them.Next thing you know,they’d be a lot of cubs going wild,which makes my job harder”.
*Scenario 11:Girl says she likes romantic walks on the beach:
Average Guy would:Although he hates walks of the beach,in hopes of wanting the girl to like her,i.e.to please her,he would then lie and say,”yea,I LOVE romantic walks on the beach”!!
PUA would isagree with her and say,”What!!!I hate romantic walks on the beach!That is so boring!You have no sense of excitement girl[he isn't afraid to offend nor disagree,'cause he knows that girls are attracted to me who stand firm]!
*Scenario 12:Girl says she likes Italian food and wants to eat at Luigi’s.
Average Guy would:Agree and say,”Ok,Luigi’s it is”[essentially handing over all powers and choices to the girl because she's so precious LOL].
PUA would say:”Nah,we’re going to the Mexican joint.We’ll do Italian another time”[essentially taking the lead role and the decision-making role as a dominant guy should in this case.He understands that it's the woman's biological role to follow-not lead].
*Scenario 13:Girl asks guy,”Do you like me?I really wanna know”.
Average Guy would say:”Hell yea I do!I like you a lot!It’s obvious I do.You’re very beautiful.Most beautiful girl I seen in a long time.And I like you”[virtually kissing her ass and putting her on a pedestal as all weak men do].
PUA would say:”I like EVERYBODY.You’re very likeable too.I seen no reason to dislike you at this point.Keep it up![PUA understands that the best answer in such case is to be VAGUE about his feelings].Make the girl unsure and in doubt,which would in turn intrigue her more.This is what girls do to men all the time(being vague).
*Scenario 14:Girl asks,”Do you have a girlfriend”?
Average Guy would say:Nah!!I’m single!!Totally single!!I don’t have anyone.It’s hard to find a good girlfriend nowadays”.
PUA would say:”Yes,of course I have a girlfriend.I dread being single!Any guy that doesn’t have a GF is either an outcast or has AIDS”[PUA knows that women are NOT attracted to single men and that single men do NOT get laid.It's equivalent to the saying that,"The easiest way to get a job is to already have a job".Unemployed ppl have an EXTREMELY hard time finding a job.Same as a man who's truly single would have an EXTREMELY hard time getting laid].
*Scenario 15:Girl is visibly turned on and excited(during the chat):
Average Guy would:Continue chatting away about his boring job,his BMW or how hot she is.
PUA would:Seize the opportunity to take advantage of her arousal by making out with her.He would tell her to “Shut Up,and kiss me already”[essentially increasing the sexual tension]!
*Scenario 16:Girl says to guy she’s chatting with,”Why’s your pants all hanging down off your butt”?
Average guy would ull them all the way up immediately and apologize or come up with some plausible excuse for sagging his pants[essentially kissing the girl's ass in order to be liked and accepted by her SMDH].
PUA would:Laugh,and pull his pants down some more(in defiance),then say something like,”Do you check out random guys’ asses all the time?Your eyes have no business down there.You are such a little pervert”.
The grand take-away lesson for guys reading this is article,is to realize that women are NOT attracted to men who kiss ass,supplicate(ask and beg),apologizes and put them on pedestals.
Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who are firm,dominant,non-conformatist and asshole-like.
So adopt the above qualities of the Alpha Male/Pick-Up Artist,and you’d beging to see drastic changes and get laid like a Rockstar.Trust me!
“Girls Are Strange Creatutres Pt.2[engaged and ready to mingle]“
Hey peoples,I’m still alive.No,I wasn’t killed by a pro-Valentine’s day mob LOL.More like my shitty-ass internet provider fucking up my service via some mix up.So I was deprived of net connection for almost a damn week SMDH.
Ok,my last post was about a hot girl with the best ass I’ve seen in years[footage coming soon]!She lives in my area(few blocs down),so I virtually see her twice daily as I’m out and about running errands.
This HB9 has shut me down,rejected me and dissed me viciously over the course of the past few months.But as a PUA,I remain Alpha & un-affected(which ultimately attracted her).
Ever since writing my first/last post about this situation(and getting booted off the net),we’ve seen each other literally 10 times since(over the last 4 days).I’m gonna note the note-worthy encounters below:
Note:This chic went from frosty-ice cold to warm as a tropical sun.I was wondering if her new-found openness towards me was a fluke and passing occurrence,and she’d become cold again.But check what’s been occurring].
Spotted her coming from grocery store:
Me:“Hey,it’s the Blackberry girl”.
Round-Ass Girl:“[with huge smile],yep it’s me”.
Me:“BB’ing is pretty addicted you know that”?
Round-Ass Girl:“[shy chuckle]I know.I feel like I’m already hooked]”.
Me:“Let’s stop here and chat a bit”.
Round-Ass Girl:“I can’t.My boyfriend[finace]is right around the corner waiting on me”.Oh damn,he’s right there LOL”!
[She skips away from me in a hurry as I noticed a guy at the next corner a few yards away as if waiting on her.We went separate ways].
Bumped into each other at intersection:
Me:[I gave her a huge smile,she returned it]“Yo,we keep bumping into each other”.Why is that?
Round-Ass Girl:“IDK.Maybe you can tell me”.
[I kept it moving.But at this point,I knew her attraction to me would be deeper since our chance encounters seem like fate,and it was meant to be].
Spotted her on my way down the bloc:
[We gave each other huge smiles as we spotted each other].
Me:“Something have to give!We keep running into each other!Hold on,let’s talk[she hesitates to stop]“!!
Round-Ass Girl:“You’re gonna get me in trouble with my boyfriend[fiancé].
[she said that without an attitude.It was more of a challenging/adventurous tone.So I playfully chased after her with a badboy vibe].
Me:“I wouldn’t get you in trouble”.
[She slows down with an exciting smile/nervous look].
Round-Ass Girl:“My boyfriend is very jealous.I don’t wanna get in trouble.
[I extended my hand to her as if to give her something.This is a "compliance test" of the PUA community.She put her hand out towards my hand as if to take what I was giving her.Of course I didn't hand her anything,but the fact that she extended her hand towards mines is very powerful in pick-up.It signifies that she's willing to take risk,and she's willing to follow my lead.It also signifies that she's Gullible and Naive(as almost all women are).In the PUA community's psychology field,this is called Compliance Testing.
It gets more interesting!!
Next day(3 days ago),we ran into each other:
Me:"Fiddling with your phone as usual huh"?
Round-Ass Girl:"Yea.I just got the Blackberry messenger activated at the place my BF bought the phone".
Me:"Ok that's cool.I need to set mines up but it seems hard".
Round-Ass Girl:"Lol nah!I set up my mom's BB thing before.I'm good at tampering with phones lol".
Me:"So do you have a BB messenger pin yet[Duh LOL]“?
Round-Ass Girl:“Yep.It’s *********”.
[Wow,I never even asked her for her BB pin in order for us to message each other.But she gave it anyway.I was caught off guard though].
Me:“Wait hold on!What is it again[I punched it into my iPhone]?I’m surprised you remember it by heart”.
Round-Ass Girl:“My mind is pretty good lol.
Well guys,that was the last encounter(3 days ago).
Key Notes & Realizations:
*She’s newly engaged
*She never refers to her fiancé as fiancé,but boyfriend(she lacks respect for him).
*Her BF obviously spends on her royally(a turn off)
*Her BF is obviously a Beta/nice guy(a turn off)
*Her BF is very jealous(a turn off)
*She’s the risky/adventurous-type(that’s where I’m a plus,since I’m the cause of her risky behavior)
*She obviously wants to connect and communicate with me,so she willingly offered up her BB pin so we can message each other.
*she now realizes that I’m an Alpha-Male,thus she’s subconsciously attracted and drawn to my alphaness opposed to when she used to reject me and suck her teeth at me when I tried chatting her up.
My ultimate point here is this:A woman will almost always be willing to jeopardize a great thing for a moment of pleasure and head-rush.
This girl has it made:she doesn’t work,her BF/fiancé supports her financially,he gives her everything(including that expensive phone for Valentine’s that she’s now using to text a scumbag like me),she live with him(meaning he pays the bills)…This chic has it made!!!!Yet she’s willing to ruin everything,get dumped,kicked out,etc.all for an adventurous time with me,who cannot do anything for me besides take her on a journey of fun and sex.
So guys,please take heed! know the girl before you invest everything into her and a relationship with her.
If I’m to bang this girl and her BF finds out,he should b relieved that it happened now(her cheating),opposed to down the line when you would’ve spent thousands,brought her a car,marry her,impregnate her,etc.
So those who believe that banging girls who are taken is immoral:it just might be a good thing afterall in saving the BF future headaches and worries.
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“Girls Are Strange Creatures”
There’s this hot girl in my area whom I usually see damn-near twice a day while out making errands and stuff.
I tried chatting her up and seducing her on 5- prior occasions(over the past few months).The last 5 times(as late as last week,the short interaction went like this:
Me:“Hey what’s up stranger”?
Round-Ass Chic:“I don’t wanna talk to you.I have a BF”.
Me:“What does you having a BF has to do with being friendly”?
Note:She sucks her teeth and walks off with a snobby attitude.
*Another occasion.I run into her at a local pizzeria:
Me:“Hey,it’s you again LOL.I keep bumping into you”.
Note:She sucks her teeth and ignores the shit out of me and what I said.
*Another occasion,I ran into her at another pizzeria in our area/neighborhood.
Me:[I had 2 beers in my hand]“I’m willing to go against my rules and actually give you a beer”.
Round-Ass Chic:“I don’t want any of your beer[with a snotty attitude].I don’t want anything from you”.
Note:I kept cool,Alpha and play it off like nothing.
*Seen her last week while going down the bloc:
Me:“You’re pretty rude you know that?We pass each other every daily,yet I don’t even get a hello”.
Note:She sucks her teeth with the usual screw-face and kept it moving.
[On my way to do some job hunting,I spotted her walking up the bloc]:
Me:“[Seen her fiddling with her cellphone]Wow you got a Blackberry!!?You know what they say about girls with BB,right?Let’s just forget about that.
Note:As usual,I didn’t expect a reply.And if she did reply,I expected something snotty,rude with a funny look.
Round-Ass Chic:“[With a warm smile]My BF bought me the BB last week”.
Note:I was fucking shocked that she even replied LMAO!
Me:“Oh ok that’s cool!What’s the special occasion,birthday or anniversary?
Round-Ass Chic:” LOL Birthday!We’re not
married yet”.
Me:“Oh!But you plan on marrying”?
Round-Ass Chic:“Not really but he proposed to me few weeks ago”.
Me:“What LOL!!Why would you ever ruin your life by marrying so damn young”!!?
Round-Ass Chic:“Young!!I’m not that young.Just joking.I’m 20 LOL”.
Me:“Lol yea right!Damn you actually have 2 phones!!?I bet you’re a rich girl.I need to get with you then LOL”.
Note:She had pulled out another phone from her pocket.
Round-Ass Chic:“Lol your funny.But I love phones a lot though”.
Note:She had a bag of groceries in hand,so I said:
Me:“So you’re gonna go cook me some lunch today”?
Round-Ass Chic:“Lol Lunch!!?I’m gonna make breakfast.I’m hungry as hell”.
After a bit more of chatting,I walked off and she sought of stood there,surprised that the chat has ended and I was leaving.But I said “later”,and kept it moving.
WTF is happening here LOL!!!?
Does this girl NOT remember that I was the same guy whom she’d rejected,sucked teeth at and dissed on 5 prior occasions?
I mean,is this the result of female-hormonal fluctuation,where 1 minute she can’t stand a guy,then the next,she’s opened as a can of paint,and wanting to chat?
I mean,this chic acted towards me as if I was a vagrant bugging her for change lol.And now today,she had a huge smile,jolly and giggly,open and very social and friendly while we chatted.
We’ll see if this burst of jolliness maintains when I see her again the in area.
In the PUA community,we call this “Plowing”.It’s basically not giving up easily.Drive forth and plow forward until you break down her token/fake defenses.
I could’ve given up on attempting to chat to her from the first time she rejected me and dissed me.But instead,I stayed cool as a cucumber and kept chatting to her each time I bump into her.Eventually,he thin walls of resistance will crumble.
So don’t give up too easily guys!
Aquarians Rule!!!
All the blogging I’ve been doing this new year, had me virtually forgetting about my subsequent birthday.BTW,I’m not the birthday-type to gather with people,family,cut cake and blow out candles.That’s never been my estilo.
What I do do for my birthdays is clubbing like the Rockstar that I am.
February,9th.,1982.
Few things about the Aqua-nature which is intriguing:
*We’re very awkward.
*We’re either extra social or extra shy & reserved.
*The smartest people on Earth(although we don’t show it often).
*We often make dumb,on-the fly,irrational decisions.
*Bad and unfortunate things often happen to us[we're highly likely to get shot,suffer a stroke at age 21,get run over by a school bus or go 5 years without finding a job lol.
*Usually the black-sheeps and outcasts of our families.
*We dread waking up to the same face every morning[we love novelty & newness].
*Our passion is the abnormal.Meaning-we love what others hate.
*We defy social norms.We go against the grain,the law,and rationality.
*An Aquarian would eat frogs,raw leaves and drink alcohol beverages for breakfast.
*What people consider abnormal and weird,we consider cool and acceptable.
*We have an intense belief in the paranormal and we believe in ghosts,aliens,UFO’s and conspiracy theories.We also believe that George Bush was behind 9/11 LMAO.
*we’re either ULTRA religious or ANTI-religion.I happen to proudly fall into the ANTI-religion bracket.
*On the last-related note:We’re very spiritual people.Not religion spiritual but spiritual in the sense of meditating,love of Astrology and the Zodiac.We’re the type to lock ourselves away for a year and abstain from worldly things(like sex),or become a nun or Buddhist monk.
*I can guarantee that 85% of people who claim to be celibate are Aquas.
*We’re very prone to trying new things,new religions,new foods,new experiences(although life-harming).
*We are prone to saying shocking things that would make a crazy man sound like Einstein.Like that guy in the bank who yells out,”fuck preachers:they all are scammers”!He’s undoubtedly an Aquarian.And that guy who goes to the bar and order a soda or juice while everyone else have alcohol:he’s most likely an Aqua.
So,my birthday is on the 9th.,and I’m looking forward to do some strange Aqua things.BTW,I’m gonna be 30 years old.I feel old as fuck.I’m gonna miss my 20′s SMH.
Taking it slow with women:’A DEADLY mistake’!!
I’m back muthafuckas!!!Well I been back.Never left actually,but haven’t been posting any seduction/pick-up tips and advice lately.A lot of my fellow pick-up artists have been beating me the hell up on Twitter & Facebook:saying that I’ve sold out and succumbed to the lure of “PUSSY”-aka female bloggers.And that most of my recent contents has been random babbling to please female bloggers LMAO!With that in mind,I have something for the fellaz[yay!!].
Ok,those familiar with the pick-up community,would’ve already known that :1 of the BIGGEST mistake a guy can ever make when trying to get with a girl, is to take it slow.
The guys who believe that what I said is Bullshit:do me a favor and Castrate yourself!Nah-better yet:Kill yourself,since you’ve fallen for the fucking proverbial okydoke[or however it's spelt lol].
It’s 2012 and Beta-males(average guys who know nothing about getting laid)still have this flawed idea that you should take it slow SMDH!Well, if y’all are reading this[I know you fuckers are]:consider this post a life-saver and a means to getting your dry penises wett.And not from whacking off but via vaginal fluids.
Why do men take it slow?
Three reasons:
1.)Social pressure
2.)Fear of rejection
3.)Being flat-out PUSSIES!
Let’s address “Fear of being rejected by the girl”.
*When an average guy meets a 7 to 10[on the looks scale],or any girl who’s normally out of his league,his first instinct is to ‘not lose her,not offend her,not to turn her off’.so he’s essentially afraid to be rejected by this girl who’s out of his league.With that fear in mind:he commits the stupid mistake of taking it slow.
Why should I not take it slow?
1.The girl WON’T respect you as a real man if you move slow.
2.You obviously WON’T be getting any any time soon if you drag it out.
3.You WON’T be able to compete with other guys who are faster.Thus the fastest guy gets the girl.
And let me leave y’all fellaz with this key-parting note that’d get you banging more girls from now on(by moving fast);She will NEVER tell you that you’re moving too slow and to pick up the pace and fuck her.
So,your rule of thumb should always be to move FAST as possible!If she rejects your advances(which every girl would initially) as too fast:then re-calibrate,ease the fuck back and try again.
But if you’re playing this ‘Mr.Respectable’,and moving like a snail,she will Friend Zone your ass!!That is where taking it slow leads to:the dreaded friend zone,where you’re walking her home every night for the past 3 months,while a fast-moving badboy like me is laying her(although I just met her 3 days ago).
So you want her to say,”Stop-you’re moving too fast”.Opposed to saying,”You’re moving too slow”.And like I told you:no woman on the face of this Earth will EVER tell a guy he’s moving too slow.She will gather with her girlfriends over some cocktails and shame the fuck out of you for moving too slow.So don’t become the laughing-stock of her social circle as “the guy who just doesn’t get it”.She won’t respect you for taking it slow!
Letter to a girl[from the heart]
I was just rummaging through some junk I had thrown under my bed[old cassettes,sneakers,documents...].Through the midst of cobwebs and dirty socks which probably have been there for years now lmao,lo and friggin’ behold:a letter to a girl.
Disclaimer:This letter is bound to make every guy in the ‘Manosphere’ cring!The most cheesiest of men/Beta Males will undoubtedly feel a rush of anger towards me.I might be deposed and banned from the pick-up community(despite this letter being some years old,before I fully learned ‘Game’).I was still pretty much a newbie to seducing women.So please forgive me dear Gods of Pick-Up,for I have sinned gravely by way of the following scribe.
Female readers, on the other hand ,may feel their warm hearts flutter as they read the letter.
Background:
In 2006,I was pretty much still under the poisonous- false notion that the only way to a woman’s heart or vagina is via:sweet words,flattery,romance and heart-felt letters.
I was always great with words and diction(since I loved poetry as a kid coming up).I’d make Shakespeare’s ass look like a fucking amateur-hour poet at the Apollo LMAO!
Anywho,my buddy Unit had hooked me up with a mutual friend of his:her name is Kim.We met up,got acquainted,hung out for a day,she went back to her town…So I decided it was time to let it all hang out the only way I knew how:through a heart-felt letter.
This was about a week after meeting[One-tis is a MOFO lmao].I mailed her the letter and kept a rough draft for myself.Ok-here it goes verbatim,word for word(no edits,no cuts).
“What’s up Kim?I’m writing this letter from the heart,and I want you to study it and think about what I was saying on the phone.Words alone can’t express how I feel about you,but for starters,I want to let you know that I love you,and I’ve fallen in love with you from the first time I laid eyes on you Kim.I fell in love with your beauty,and I was surprised that ****** actually hooked me up with a young girl as pretty as you.I felt below your standards.I couldn’t see us together because your beauty and good looks were too much for me to handle at the time.Baby,I love you everything about you;especially that bright smile you had that seems to melt my heart.Most of all is your inner beauty that attracts me to death.You are sweet and have the charms of a little baby(total innocence),and when I’m with you,you make me feel special to know that I have a special girl in you Kim.I love you and mean it.Don’t let hating-ass niggaz ruin what we had,should have and will have”.
Wow!That was fucking painful!I can’t believe I wrote that as I retrospect SMDH.I barely knew the girl but for a week and change and only met her once.But that was my MO.That was vintage Kenny with every girl I met prior to 2006 lmao!I thought that was the way to go in order to build a relationship with a girl-or frankly just to get some coochie.I felt that I had to go R&B and Poetry.
95% of women reading this may say to themselves:”That was lovely!I wish I fount a man like that who was so expressive and genuine”.But let’s see how it plays out with Kim and I.
Story Continues:
She got the letter,exclaimed how much she loved it and showed her friends…
A month later(following more mushy/Beta stuff from me),we officially went ‘Exclusive’.We were dating.She became my GF.We were in a relationship[talk about rush].
My friend Unit and I rented a house for the 4 of us to stay as roomies[my GF and I,and Unit and his GF].So we were 2 best-friends couples.Unit and I were besfriends.Kim and Unit’s GF were besties.Couldn’t get any better than that lol.
Within a week of lodging together:guess what happened?She ran out on me lmao.Nah just kidding.Read on!
I walked in from work one day(at 5 pm) and caught her fucking another guy in OUR bed!Yep-she cheated in the worst way!Red fucking handed before sunset.This chic was brazen and bare-faced since she knew that I usually come home at 5 SMH!So she showed that she didn’t care nor value our relationship in the worst way.
But Ultimately-I’m the one to be blamed.I rushed things.I fell for a stranger.I was playing the romance card when she was just out for a fuck and good time.
Irony is:Kim and I are cool as hell to this day lmao.She hated the old me(in 2006)who was romancing her and simping(as Reema would say).Ever since learning pick up and becoming a real man/badass who frowns upon seducing women via romance,Kim has been chasing me down for the past few years lmao.Trying to seduce me,buy me,lure me…I mean-we’re mad cool though lol!I had hung out with her 3 times since,but I wasn’t into her at all.
Do I blame Kim?Then-yes.Now?Hell NO!!Any girl would have cheated eventually after being with a doormat,a wuss/nice guy!
For all I know,she’s probably reading this since we’re Facebook friends and she sees all my blog posts.We talk on the phone every other week so there’s no ill feelings on my part.
So,for every guy checking out this post,learn this lesson at least:Women do NOT like nice guys!Women do NOT appreciate nice guys nor nice gestures when done PREMATURELY!
How I learned that being a ‘Nice Guy’ doesn’t get you anywhere in life nor with ‘women’.
Yep!I learned that being nice doesn’t pay:be it with women,your boss or relatives.
Growing up,and even into my adulthood,I was your stereotypical ‘Nice Guy’.I made hearts flutter from my genuine generosity and niceness.Did it get me far?Oh course not!And I was doing nice things in order to reap benefits like a shady character.Nah!I was genuinely nice.
I’m gonna share 2 personal stories about my trials with ‘NICENESS’.
1st.My grandma showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.
For the past 8 years,I’ve been around my grandma:keeping company,doing stuff around the house,chores,cleaning,etc.I live alone,but I stop by to help out damn near everyday.Cool!
However, 1 nagging theme has been playing out during those 8 years:no matter what I did(good),it didn’t prevent her wrath from coming my way.Everything wrong that occurred around the home,I was getting full blame.I was catching the verbal hell,nasty stares and BS arguments.Bear in mind-I didn’t friggin’ live there lmao!The house had 2 other able-bodied occupants who didn’t do shit!But they NEVER caught the wrath LMAO!!!They ate,slept,shitted,slobbed out,untidied,violated,disrespected….But they never got chastised.
So I took care of everything in the home:
*Dishes
*Cleaning
*Errands
*Company
But the moment a button goes missing:I was the only one catching the blame SMH.The genuine ‘Nice Guy’ getting screwed over while the not-so nice guys(who lived there)were NEVER blamed.
2nd.My boss showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.
A previous job I held years ago,I was employed for 6 years[prior to the global-economic recession which caused mass layoff].
Once again,I was the stalwart employee.Nice to the core,got along great with the boss.I did every chore possible although outside of my work description.I never handed the boss any shit about not doing something which was out of my jurisdiction.
How was the other employees?Rude,pricks,whiners,always late,snuck off the job,took more sick days than legally allowed lol,called in sick every week…Totally unreliable basically.I was the polar opposite.And I was being a good employee to gain praise nor raise.I was genuinely that nice of a dude.
Out of the 6 years there,I only got 1 pay raise.The boss totally went contrary to the labor laws of the land!My co-workers?They got raises lol.Some came after me and got raises!!WTF!!!Recession happened,guess whom was sent home first LOL?Yep-your boy Kenny.I was severed,and the scumbag employees who didn’t give a rat’s ass were kept!
Now,what does this have to do with picking up chics?Eveything.
The same reason my boss treated me like shit and I caught the wrath from my grandmother,is the same reason you should never play this Nice-Guy Shit with women.They won’t respect it!They won’t appreciate it!They won’t respond favorably to it!
*That is the #1 rule of the pick-up community:Nice guys finish last!
And the 2 examples I gave above only shows how this concept spills over into life in general:be it at your job,school,with relatives,etc.The nicer you are with people and women,the less they will appreciate it.Point this out to people and they won’t agree.But observe how they treat genuine nice people on a day to day basis,and you’d see that actions speak louder than words.
So are you saying not to be nice anymore?
What I am saying is:don’t believe for a minute that you’re doing yourself a favor by being stand-up and nice.9-10 times,it’d come back to bite your fucking ass off.So,be that nice guy at your own risk.I learned my lessons over the years that being an asshole gets you further in life in every area you can imagine.
Ever since I’d adopted the “don’t give a shit” persona years ago,my success with women skyrocketed!!!My lays went up by 80%!I had a pay raise early as fuck at another job I’d acquired.My grandma since loosen the proverbial nose from my neck where she now blames the real culprits for BS that happens in the home.
My new- fount badboy persona changed my whole life and how people treated me.
Chelios PUA
