“How to steal a girl from competition(Girl-Stealing 101)”

You done got robbed!!

I was browsing RooshV’s controversial site as usual, and came across an interesting article on “How to pull a robbery”.He made many great points(as usual),but few key insights were missing.Here’s where I come in[with a Doctor Evil's voice].

Why pull robberies on other guys?

Simply because the OYD(object of your desire)/the girl you want, is most likely already talking to some dude in the venue.So you can either bitch out,go home alone to jerk off as usual:or man up and take the girl!

My last robbery

On my last post[Get laid tonight by pulling robberies],Cadence,a female commentor,made this great point,“From a lady’s perspective,you may be pulling a rescue”.

Anyway,A month ago at a karaoke joint,I was standing next to a guy and a hot girl.The venue was surprisingly sausaged-out that night(1 chic to 5 guys).So options were limited.

I waited for a lull in conversation,the guy stalled out(as usual),a giant pregnant pause ensued,the guy turned his head away(scanning the room in the awkward moment),so I seized the opportune moment to swoop in like a fucking hawk upon a barn mouse[ok bad reference but]…

The guy stood there like a deer caught in the headlights of 10 Mack trucks.Within 2 minutes,he bounced while leaving me to mind fuck the girl he had warmed up for me.

4 good signs to look out for when attempting a robbery:

*A lull in conversation
*Awkward silence/pregnant pause
*The guy going to the bar to buy drinks(leaving the girl alone)
*The guy turning his head or back(perhaps his buddy said something to him)

Frankly,a master PUA needs none of the above signs/AI(approach invitations):he approaches regardless(if he desires the girl).

The general reactions of the guy whom just got robbed

1.)Stands there silently(waiting for the perfect moment to leave without making it obvious he got robbed).

2.)He’d attempt to pull the re-robbery on you by doing something low-valued:like buying her a drink(hoping she’d ditch you for him).

3.)More commonly,he’ll say to the girl,“Hey I’m gonna leave,so we’ll catch up later,or “we’ll talk later”.

What he WON’T do at all(contrary to popular belief),is to start an altercation(which will DLV him),which would make him appear needy(fighting for a girl who’s not his GF).

Guys,this is NOT a fucking gangster-film,where a guy shoots you for talking to his girl!

Humans are generally afraid of altercations with strangers,so the guy will almost NEVER punch the shit out of you for pulling the robbery(he has no right to).

The time I inadvertently pulled the robbery on his girlfriend:

Now,I don’t go out intentionally trying to game girls whom are taken.But when you’re In-Field;shit happens.It’s difficult to discern who’s taken or not.

Few years ago at The Coast Nightclub(on the island of Antigua),I spotted an HB8 at the bar counter with some guy(they stood next to me while ordering drinks),so I opened her immediately.Can’t remember what I said verbatim(word for word),but it hooked her.At that point,I still didn’t know dude was her BF.

We flirted somewhat(while her BF was right there),3 minutes later,he rolls off leaving her alone with me[I felt the tension].

I said to her,”Is that weird dude with you?Seems like he likes you lol“[that's a classic PUA technique to lower the other guy's value].

She chuckles and said,“He’s my boyfriend,and he’s mad at me right now”.

I was like WTF!!!I turned around and noticed her BF off in the distance holding 2 drinks in his hands.

After a while(5 minutes),he gathered the proverbial balls to come back over,whispered in her ears then walked off again.She then tells me that he’s pissed that she’s disrespecting him by talking to a random guy(me).

Being a guy who was afraid to pull robberies,I excused myself and allowed her to go back to her BF.But I could’ve pulled a Mehow,and make out with the chic right there(the vibe was there).

The point of that narration was to show that men(boyfriends) in general are non-confrontational.They will NOT approach the guy(me) and say,“Hey that’s my fucking GF so keep it moving”.They will allow the interaction to proceed,then take it out on the TRUE- guilty party (the GF) when they get home.After all,it isn’t the guy’s fault for being social.The GF is the one in the wrong.

The reactions of the girl who’s being stolen away:

She is NOT gonna say to you “fuck off,leave us alone,don’t you see we’re in a conversation”!!?

Following social norms:she’s gonna be obliged to chat with you,right there,infront of her BF,her date or the guy who’s chatting her up.

And if your game is semi-decent,the other guy will be blown out the fucking water!

She will not tell you to leave.The guy you’re currently robbing will have to leave instead.It’s like a battle out there in the field:Strongest survive,Bravest guy gets the girl,Weaklings go home alone.The guy who has the heart to pull robberies will always get laid more than the guy who preys on lone-wolves(women by themselves in a venue).

The Seduction/Pick-Up Community[with Video Demo]?

Mystery aka Erik VM:the Godfather of the PUA community.

A lot of my readers via e-mail, have been asking me about the PUA community, wondering,”WTF is pick-up or the seduction community that Socialkenny always refer to”!!?”WTF is a “Field-Report,Lay-Report,Alpha,Neg,Beta,Targets,etc.“?I’ll shed some light on it now.

The Seduction Community/Pick-Up Community is a wold-wide underground community based on picking up women,laying women and getting that hot girlfriend you’ve always wanted(as a guy).We have no racial nor ethnic barriers(we have Asian members,Phillipinos,Brits,Blacks,Mexicans,Canadians,etc).Just as every organization,we have guidelines,rules,structure and in-fighting.

The community received a huge boost of exposure in 2008 with VH1′s The Pickup Artist,a reality show,where Mystery,Matador & J-Dog,taught contestants how to pick up women in bars,club and streets.Sought of like a contest.

Some of our core beliefs are:

*Women hate nice-guys
*Become a badboy(which women are attracted to)
*Be very social
*Have balls to approach any girl(s)

As with every organization,there are rankings and positions.A guy who is new to the community is called a Newbie or RAFC.Newbies are students who have limited to no skills in getting women.95% of us in the PUA community started out as Newbies/Students(quite naturally).As a newbie,we learn fundamentals of picking up women.Some guys study seduction materials(e-books,DVD’s,etc.) for years before they actually go In-Field. Dating coach/PUA Speer of Speermethod.com in field footage.

As a Newbie progresses with the knowledge he learned from a Guru/MPUA(master pick-up artist/dating coach,he’s then expected to apply that knowledge and skill In-Field.So a coach/guru would take him to a club,bar or on the streets to do Cold Approaches/Street Pick Up(just randomly going up to hot girls and chatting them up).PUA doing cold approach.What boyfriend lol?

Most newbies are expected to get Blown Out(rejected,dissed)hundreds of times by women while starting out In-Field.we have a philosophy in the PUA community that the more a guy gets “blown out”,he naturally becomes immune to it,thus making him almost bulletproof after a while.So when a girl does diss him,he doesn’t get discouraged nor ego-hurt.

After a while of trail and error,the newbie then becomes a PUA(pick-up artist).If he becomes good at seducing women(over the course of few years),he then graduates to become a coach/teacher/MPUA(master PUA),where he can then teach newbies how to pick up women.

We use many acronyms and terms:

*Target:A hot girl you intend to seduce.
*HB(hot babe):That’s any hot girl.We refer to girls as targets or HB’s.
*AMOG:That’s a guy who may try to cock block you or mess up your game.
*AFC:Any guy who doesn’t know how to attract women.Your average guy.
*Night Game:Seducing women during the night.
*Day Game:Seducing women during the day time.
*Chick-crack:Something said that intrigues the girl thus making her hook.

Now,my readers may ask,”But what is the difference between PUA’s and your average players”?Many differences.

We follow a structure/model/formula.When a PUA sees an HB/Target,he ensures that:

1.)He approaches her within 3 seconds top!![3-second rule].3-Second Rule

2.)His body language is Alpha(dominant).

3.)He smiles in a sly/badass way.

4.)He then choses an Opener/Routine as his opening line to break the ice.BravoPUA opens girls at a bar.

The PUA community has tons of Openers that Newbies can chose from(although advanced PUA’s tend to construct their own openers).A classic openers is:

‘Who lies more’?

So the PUA would approach the HB/target(girl),and say:

PUA:“Hey,I need your quick opinion on something.It’s kinda controversial nevertheless:who lie more-women or men”?

The above would be considered an Opinion Opener,where the PUA is asking the target for her opinion.

Openers like these,women LOVE!!It gets them engaged in the chat.

Then the PUA would chat a bit about who lies more(women or men),then he has to Routine Stack(move on to another topic) before he stalls out and bores the girl.So he would then dish out another routine/opener:

‘Jealous-Girlfriend Routine’

PUA:“You know what’s so funny,a buddy of mines,I’m not gonna call his name,but his GF fount a bunch of love letters under his bed from an ex-GF from a few years ago.His GF then gives him a fucking ultimatum:Get rid of all the letters,or she’s gonna consider breaking it off!!I mean,is that normal,or is his GF over reacting”?

That’s another great topic that women love to discuss.After chatting on this,the PUA has to again routine stack(change subject).

The objective of such routines is to attract and intrigue the girl by chatting about interesting things,opposed to boring her like 95% of guys who’re approaching her with,”So,do you like the music,do you come here often,what’s your name,can I buy you a drink,you’re cute”.?

Such openers are boring and turn women off.So the PUA has a major upper-hand on the competition by opening with something interesting.BTW,we are TOTALLY against pick-up lines!!Despite the name pick-up,we do NOT use pick-up lines at all!!!We would NEVER approach a girl with,”Heaven must be missing an angel ’cause I’m looking at one“.That’s cheesy and doesn’t work in getting the girl.

Approaching a target or Set(let’s say a girl and her friends at a bar),is easy for a seasoned PUA.But for the average guy,approaching a sexy girl is Hard,Nerve-Wrecking and Scary!So to counter this anxiety(which we call AA(approach anxiety),the community has a 3-Second Rule.That means,once you spot an HB(girl),you MUST approach her before 3 seconds expire!!Approaching her instantly diminishes the possibility of the guy becoming nervous and having doubts.

So while AFC’s(average guys) are in clubs watching,gazing and staring weirdly at the OHD(object of his desire) the whole night without saying a word,the PUA has to open her within 3 seconds of seeing her.So we force ourselves to become Social & Pro-Active.

K-Close aka Kiss Close:Another major part of the seduction community is Kiss Closing the HB.We don’t just chat all night:we Escalate on the target!!Once a girl hits BT(buying temperature)/she’s horny and into you,the PUA goes for the kiss-close/makeout.At a certain point during a chat,a PUA can sense when a woman wants to be kissed.Dating coach Adonis amog’d(cockblocked)but still managed to K-Close the target.

Most of what I mentioned above is categorized as Outter-Game.Inner-Game stuff involves dealing with guys’ fears(lack of confidence,anxiety around hot women,low-self esteem issues,etc).We also have a female/human psychology wing,where we teach about the inner workings of attracting women.

So armed with the above skills(just for starters),the PUA is a deadly seducer with Game,who intimidates Betas(men who suck up to women).The PUA doesn’t compliment women(directly),he doesn’t buy drinks for women,he Negs women(say negative things disguised in a slick way to fly under the radar),he punishes and rewards women,he’s the guy in the club making out with hot chics(although most PUA’s aren’t attractive-looking).The PUA knows that looks is only 1% on the scale of attraction.

So ladies:watch out for the guy who’s approaching you on the streets or at the grocery store or club:he might just be a pick-up artist ready to seduce and take you on an adventurous ride.

50% Rule by Mark Manson aka Entropy Pick-Up Artist

I was browsing Coldman’s PUA Journey blog the other day and I came across an interesting post from Entropy,one of my favorite dating coaches/pick-up artist out of Boston.I learned a lot of game from this guy over the years.

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The 50% Rule is simple, yet the ramifications for improvement are huge. The rule states this:

At least 50% of your advances towards women should be rejected. If less than 50% are rejected, then you are not being aggressive enough.

Take a moment and think about that. The implications run pretty deep. This means that 50% of your approaches should be rejected, 50% of your attempts to kiss should be rejected, 50% of your phone numbers should flake, 50% of your attempts to get her into bed should be stopped.

Now you probably think I’m crazy. You WANT us to get rejected? Either that, or you’re saying something like, “Oh, way more than 50% of my advances are rejected, and it sucks.”

Here’s why the 50% rule is important: too many guys play it safe, too many guys aren’t aggressive enough. Too many guys wait for the “right” moment and end up passing up plenty of opportunities. If rejection didn’t matter, then you’d take every opportunity, right? That’s what we should be striving for. Let me provide just a few examples where the 50% Rule can come into play and seriously help a guy out.
A guy who always waits for the “perfect” moment to kiss a girl. He passes up tons of opportunities, but he never gets rejected either.
A guy who passes up approaching tons of attractive women because they have an iPod on, they’re in an elevator, they’re walking the other way, or they’re with other guys. He waits for women who he knows are easy to approach instead and avoids the rejection.
The guy who only calls phone numbers of girls he knows really liked him, not bothering with the women who seemed to give him their number out of politeness.
Not trying to bring a woman home because he doesn’t want to seem rude. Instead he waits for next time, when often there isn’t a next time (and often there isn’t because he didn’t take her to the bedroom!)

But going a level deeper, the 50% Rule doesn’t just condition a guy to become more aggressive, it’s a tool that guarantees constant improvement, because it applies to any guy, no matter what his experience level. Some guys get decent with women, and get to the point where they rarely approach but rarely get rejected, they rarely get turned down on kisses or sex, but they rarely try. This rule applies to me just as much as it applies to the next guy. If I’m able to pick up every woman I approach, then I’m doing something WRONG, not right. I’m not being aggressive enough. I’m playing it too safe, and I’m leaving a lot of opportunity on the table.

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And his main point was this:if a guy approaches 10 girls,he should expect to get rejected by 5 of them.If he gets rejected less,it obviously means he’s not approaching enough girls nor being aggressive enough.

It’s a #’s game.The more women you approach,the greater the chances of being rejected.But also the greater the chances of getting laid more.

Oh,BTW you can check out the original article Here at Mark’s Practical Pick Up Blog.I learned a lot of game,skills and insights from him over the years.And check out his latest site PostMasculine,which gives practical lifestyle tips and dating insights for the average person.Cool blog.

Cellphone Technique For Picking Up Girls In Loud Venues

A poster over at The Pick-Up Artist Forum[Storm3x]had asked me a question this morning about picking up girls in loud venues(since where he’s from in Sweden,the clubs are usually extra loud to the point of not hearing a word).So I came up with a routine/technique to eliminate this common obstacle.

First off,guys need to realize that when in loud venues,where it’s hard to verbalize,non-verbal cues are key.So most of what you say out of your mouth-goes out the window(since it’s difficult to hear).My cellphone routine bridges that gap,and make the attraction process more efficient and smoother.

Ok,let’s say you spot the OYD(object of your desire/girl)from afar.Make eye contact first(if possible).As soon as she gives you the universal non-verbal invitation to come over(via eye contact),you then approach her with your cellphone out.

Why cellphone?Remember-it’s too loud for her to hear you.This routine is for loud-ass venues and clubs(like in Sweden).Although you can still use it in semi-loud venues.

As you get up to her(or her friends),type into your cellphone what you would say normally.I would,in this circumstance,say and use an opener like this,”Your parents never told you it was impolite and rude to eye-flirt with random strangers at the club”?So I would write that into my phone(a note app or default-text app)with smiley faces of course.

Then give her your phone to continue the dialogue.Or have her pull out her cellphone(since it’d be easier for her)to continue and reply.

It’s fun,playful,flirty and unique.And it cannot fail.Most women in loud-ass clubs will participate and play along.The only ones who wouldn’t,obviously cannot read LMAO.There isn’t far you can get with those types anyway.

And the point of this pick-up routine/technique is NOT to be doing this back and forth for the entire night while the girl is 4 drinks deep.As with any routine,you must transition!So after she gets invested and open,lead her off to a quiet part of the venue to chat.So write that in your cellphone,show it to her["let's go to the quiet part to chat"],then take her hand(like a confident bastard) and lead her to somewhere which enables y’all to chat.

If she resists,recalibrate by continuing the cellphone dialogue to further warm her up to the idea of going to a quiet location.

The hidden beauty of this routine is this:when you do decide to go for the # exchange(to get her #),the process would be so easy and smooth, that it makes walking on water looks like child’s play LMAO.She won’t refuse to give you her #,since psychologically y’all have already been engaged in phone-game(via my cellphone technique).

Guys remember,this isn’t only applicable in extra-loud venues.If you’re just not in a chatty mood that night at the club,feel free to whip out the smart phone and get playful(whether she can hear you or not).Tell her you have a severe case of strep-throat or hoarse beyond recognition,so the only means of communication is via text…until you decide to tell her the truth LMAO!

Feel free to check out 1 of my first blog post,where I’d picked up the hottest girl in a club and took her back to my expensive-island hotel but…LMAO!Just check it the fuck out.it’d make you learn and laugh a bit at the end[How I picked up the hottest girl at the club(who's usually bitchy)].

Guys-stop rushing for her phone #!

2 minutes tops.Hope it’s worth it!

All through the bloggersphere,I’ve been reading tons of articles on #-closing,how to get her #,etc.Fairly decent techniques by the way.

But the one thing I never really see addressed is When to.When to go for the # exchange or # close.

Greatest mistake we men make while going for her # is….[let me et a drum roll]…Going for it prematurely!

Guys make it seems like a fucking sprint opposed to a marathon.The faster you get her #,the less attraction she would’ve had for you.So instead of turning this into an ‘in & out’ feat.You should be patient and casual about the # exchange.

This is the classic cause and effect for the throw-away number phenomenon.

For those who arent too privy with the term:a throw-away # is a phone # that the target usually gives the guy without any intention of ever speaking to him.

So to avoid throw-away numbers,stop being in a hurry to get her #.Slow your role Superman LMAO!

EXCEPTION

The only few instances where a guy should try wrap it up soon as possible,is in the follow cases:

1)The girl is visibly in a rush.

2)She’s trying to catch a bus/train and doesn’t have 15 minutes[although a seasoned PUA would get her to forget about catching the next inbound transport].

3)You-the guy,is extremely busy and need to go.

Those should be the only exceptional cases where you go for a quick # close.Instances where you’re not guaranteed to see this girl again.

When NOT to # close hastily:

Ok,this is another grave mistake I see guys make regularly.How do I know?’Cause I used to do that shit LOL!

…”Going for the # when you’re bound to see the chic again”.

Let me elaborate!

Guys-if you’re almost sure,or at least 50% guaranteed to see the target again in the near future[tomorrow for instance]:Do not pine away for her damn number!!!

Perfect Examples:

*I chat up the smoking-hot bartender at X-Tra’s bar(the bar I generally frequent).I will not go for her # after our first initial chat.That’s too fucking soon!Too soon for a girl I’m most likely to see the following week at this same bar.So let the tension build!Let the attraction grow by NOT asking for her # like the previous 20 guys did-and got shut down.

*HB8 at the neighborhood bodega or supermarket.Why go for her # at first sight when you’re most likely to see her again the following day you go pick up some rubbers or beer?

*Cashier at the bakery,teller at your bank,your professor,teacher,female pastor(lol),sister’s hot friend…Those girls who you’re most likely to see again,do NOT go for the # on the first chat.

Let the tension build

When you don’t ask a girl for her #(a girl you’re bound to see again in days),this is what goes through her mind:

*He’s different than 99% of the losers who beg for the digits like there’s no tomorrow.

*He must be high value/gets a lot of girls/#’s[so the pre-selection switch is automatically flipped].

*Why isn’t he asking for my #!!?

That’s the state and frame you want her to be in.You want her to wonder why?

You want her to assume that she isn’t your type or out of your league(below it).Once she’s psychologically engaged and invested,the game is half way over!You’re essentially “WINNING”,as Sheen would say lmao.

“WWKD[What would Kenny do]“?

[This is what I would do,pertaining to gaming a girl I'm sure to see again.]

*New girl behind the counter at the Internet cafe,or cashier at my bakery.

*I’d chat her up for the first time[attraction material as usual].Keep it brief and go.

*Next day or two,same routine.Building attraction.

*Next time-same routine.

*I’m building the tension and attraction over each encounter.Depending on how good your game is,you should’ve been building sexual tension also via flirting,banter and playfulness.

*At this point in the game,she would be open for me like a can of tuna.Ripe for the picking.

*Then I go for the GUARANTEED # close.

There’s no way in hell that this chic would reject my #-close attempt at this point!It’s as sure as the sun friggin’ rising at dawn!She’s wanting it an expecting it.And don’t be surprised if she initiates it by offering the # instead.

There’s no way in hell she would flake neither on the meet up.

Flaking happens 90% of the times, because of the lack of attraction from the guy # closing too fast.

Why would she answer your call or meet up with you when she doesn’t even remember who the hell you were!!?

So fellaz-take it slow!You’re only gonna mess up your chance and make it an awkward situation for both of y’all by rushing for her #.

There’s no worst feeling like having to enter the store, where the girl works who flaked on you twice or never took your calls.It’s an awkward situation,and there’s no way to recover from it to salvage it.

So,if there’s no chance in seeing her again:by all means,go for the number as fast as logistics & time allow.

But if you WILL see her again:take it slow and build attraction.It cannot hurt your chances at all!It can only increase it!

9 out if 10 times,the bartender is gonna be there next week.The girl in class will be there tomorrow.The bank-teller will be there next week.

I’m out!Stay Alpha!!!

No need being this guy.

Breaking up through SMS(text) opener

Hey guys,this’ one of my favorite openers(originated by me of course),dubbed “Breaking up by text”.

Origin & Idea:

I got the idea for this interesting opener after seeing a news segment on MSNBC,which said that in Saudi Arabia,husbands can legally divorce their wives through text messages or e-mail[talk about informal lol].

Key Note:as with every opener(canned/pre-planned or not),what makes it successful or resonate is if it’s interesting or not.Topics of such controversies are ALWAYS interesting and intriguing to women.

When and where to use it?

Preferably in casual,slower- paced locals:eatery,supermarket,store(at the counter),bus stop…

But It can be used in more highly-charged/sexual environments like a bar,club or lounge.

Opening Routine(after spotting the target(s)/girl(s) whom you’re feeling):

[However you approach and open is another story for later.But let's just assume you approached correctly].

You:”Hey guys(girl-girls),I need your opinion on something that’s mad controversial”.

Girl(s):”Sure,what is it”?

You:”Is it ok to break up with your girlfriend through text message”?

[99% of the times,the girl(s) will say no:it's not OK].

Forward stack with the back story(after the girls weigh in).

You:”Cause I was watching the news the other day,and they had a story about some guy in Saudi Arabia who got fed up with his wife…so he decided to friggin divorce her with a text message!!!Didn’t even have the balls to face her and let her know what’s up!!!That’s messed up right!!!?

Quite naturally,any girl would agree and weigh in further with her opinion.

Conclusion:

This opinion opener/routine is maddddd simple and highly interesting.

1.”Guys,I need your opinion on something controversial”.
2.”Is it ok to break up with your….”.
3.”Cause I was watching the news the other day,some guy in Arabia divorced his…”.

*The point in any opener/routine is to build interest and attraction.You say something interesting-it builds intrigue which leads to attraction.

Feel free to check out a break down on openers at The Alpha Persona Blog.

Get your energy up!Don’t be a Downer!

Hey fellaz,another kick-ass blog post coming at y’all!

Hidden beauty is that it coincides with the weekend(since it’s Saturday):which means clubbing,bar-hopping and partying(Yay-lol)!!

Ok,earlier I was having a Facebook dialogue withHundred Plus,who’s a cool-ass PUA/ instructor out of Australia(Evil Pickup 101).

I love this quote he made concerning “State & Energy”,while at the club or basically in any party venue:

“So if you’re at a club,and you want to talk to some girls,and the party is kicking…you have to kinda go over there and come-in “at a vibe that just as,if not slightly more,excited/fun/viby than the group you come in to??

Like think about this:seriously how fucking stupid are you guys?

You wouldn’t want to be a downer,would you.No wonder none of you fuckers were getting laid.Evil Pickup will not tolerate inferior genes.

Mystery:hate to weed you outta existence,dude,kinda hard now,but evolution was telling you something bro:it’s too hard to keep your bloody genes going…”

Wow!!That was in your face lol!

So let me explain this concept further:

Average Joe enters the club,he sees a girl or girls enjoying themselves-full of energy,life,and all giggly bubbly.

The wrong approach would be to come in set with an energy level “LOWER” than the girl(s).

You’d essentially be ‘downing’ the set,or raining on the girl’s fucking parade!

Thus,they’re gonna blow your ass out by either:

1.Ignoring you
2.Rolling off(leaving)
3.Answer you in a not-so nice manner

I see this shit play out in the club every weekend.

Girls are super hyper and bubbly,yet some weird-friggin guy comes in with a monotone vibe,in-animate to say the least.Boring the set and bringing down the girl’s high.

In other words:party-pooping!

“So…what should I do”?

Calibrate you prick!

Gauge the vibe of the girls.If they are apparently having fun,which isn’t hard to discern:they’re laughing,seems high off something,dancing,etc.

In that case,you will have to come in with an equally high energy,or just a bit higher and a bit more animated than the girls.

The girls are dancing?Approach dancing also.

The girls are laughing?Approach laughing also as if you’re in on the joke they’re laughing at.

Do not approach with a serious fucking body language and tone.

Seriousness kills!!!

Likewise:if the girl(s) seems a bit bored,down,not yet enjoying herself,her glass of Margarita hasn’t hit her system yet,you(the guy)should then approach matching her tone.

Or be a tad bit more excited than she is.

You don’t wanna approach girls who arent warmed up yet as if you’re high on coke or some shit,like a dancing monkey.

So ,as a rule of thumb,match the girl’s vibe and her tone.

This is essentially called ‘mirroring’:which is a powerful concept in pick-up.

So the next time you’re thinking about approaching that hot girl at the bar,or those girls at the club:Remember to never down the vibe!!

And feel free to check out Hundred Plus’ Facebook page,where he gives awesome dating,relationship and pick-up advice:Evil Pickup 101

Grow some balls!!!

Guys,do y’all have the balls to approach a girl or OYD(Object Of Your Desire)with a sly-ass smile on your face,and say to her:

“I want you…but are you good enough for me to take home to my parents”?

Or how about:

“You are such- a little devil.You know that”?

What about this one?

“I never believed in love at first sight…until now.Would you marry me[extend your hand to her]“?

Let me take a wild guess-…probably not(smh).

Grow some testicles fellas.

Remember this essential rule of the pick-up community:”It’s not what you say;it’s how you say it”!

It’s not the words coming out of your mouth that count.But your overall tonality,body language and confidence.

So,the next time you spot that bad-ass Latin chica at the bar looking bored-to-death:approach with a light-hearted confidence and say something ballsy!

She’s just a girl.She won’t kill you(LOL)!

P.S.Special thanks to my man Mcmaax,the dating coach/pick-up artist for Maaximum Seduction out of Toronto,Canada,who’s a proponent of being ballsy.

Be a risk taker you pussies!!

I know the title is like BAM!All in your face!!That was my intention:to spark some life into the pussies and nice guys out there who keep failing with women because of 1 crucial handicap:the fear of taking risks.

Every guy wants the girl[at least he convinces himself that he does].But not every guy is willing to take action into getting the girl.

Classic example of a non-risk taker:

*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.

*Joe Blow aka Mr.Non-Risk Taker hasn’t even approached a single girl the entire night.

*He sees an HB and decides to approach her[with the assistance of some alcohol courage of course].

*The vibes and chat go reasonably well.

*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.

Note:This is the moment which separates men from boys,wussies from alphas…

*However,Joe Blow aka non-risk taker,doesn’t seize the moment and opportunity to get the girl,so he lets her leave without trying to further the interaction or venue changing.

Classic example of the Risk-Taker

Let’s take a look at the same situation and how a risk-taker handles it:

*It’s 2 A.M.at club X.

*Mr.Risk-Taker hasn’t approached a single girl the entire night.

*He sees an HB and decides to approach her.

*The vibes an chat go reasonably well.

*Everything is winding down in the venue so the girl tells him she has to get back to her friends,i.e.she’s leaving.

The key difference:

The risk-taker knows she’s up for something more,so he continues chatting,not giving a shit about social norms,he pushes forth,essentially taking risks by employing KINO(appropriate touches).

He takes more risks and chances by suggesting that he and the girl go to a more intimate niche in the venue.So he takes her by the hand and lead her to a more secluded spot in club X.

He takes more risks by going for the make out.

The girl pushes back as if she isn’t ready.But it doesn’t matter that she’s pushing and pulling.He’s shown willingness and balls to plow forward and take chances.

If all goes accordingly,they would’ve wrapped up the night(or morning) in each others’ arms at his spot.

Note:

The above 2 Scenarios were common examples which highlight the abstract differences between a guy who’s unwilling to take chances,And the guy who DOES take chances.

It’s common sense and sheer numbers that the guy who takes more chances gets more girls,thus more lays.

Sometimes you have to trod the road of seeming insane:

Let me further explain what I mean by the above.

When trying to pick up girls,guys get the false notion that it MUST and SHOULD be a smooth process which makes you look safe,cool and unphased.

Couldn’t be further from the truth!

There come situations where you have to almost sell out in order to get the girl.

Waiting for the perfect moment,perfect line,perfect opener and perfect time would be a regressive move on the guy’s part.

Perfect logistics are rare!

I’ll give an example of this below:

Guy sees girl in a coffee shop sitting next to some guy who could be her boyfriend(although it doesn’t look that way).

Instead of approaching the girl’s table and striking up a convo,he waits for better logistics by saying to himself,”My table is too far from hers.If I make my move now,it’d look crazy or needy.Plus that big guy could be her BF who may beat the shit out of me”.

With that mindset,he convinces himself to wait for the perfect moment(which won’t come):perhaps when the guy leaves.

The big guy sitting next to the girl,although not her BF,nor is he even talking to her,he never leaves.

Thus the perfect safest moment never came for this guy,so he looses the girl by not taking chances and risks.

If he had taken the risk of possible confrontation by approaching,he would have been surprised to find out that she doesn’t even know the Hulk guy next to her table.

Ok,I’ll give a personal example where I had to virtually sell out and look a bit crazy.

Archaeologists from CUNY Brooklyn:

Back in the Summer of this year,there was a group of archaeologists here on the island from The City University of New York/Brooklyn College in NYC doing research work.

I chatted up the mixed 4 set at a local restaurant and fount out about their work and stuff.

We hit it off pretty friggin’ well but since they weren’t here for an extended period,they never bothered to activate a local mobile phone plan.So basically,they were phone-less,except for the # at the hotel they were staying.

So we never got to # exchange in the fray of it all(bustling-noisy restaurant).

Me being a loony risk-taker at times,I’d contacted every fucking hotel on the island to find out if they had the archaeologists at their hotel.

With a little luck,I fount out where they were staying and the room numbers lol.

Knowing that these girls were bored to death from just research work,I knew I would’ve been a breath of fresh air for them.

So I showed up at the hotel and swindled my way around the hostess and security by convincing them that I was a friend of the group,and we all knew each other from NYC lol.

Talk about security lapse lol!

Anyway,I showed up to everyone’s surprise.I left such a good impression on them days earlier at the restaurant that they immediately knew who I was.

I was invite in and we had major fun to the point that I was able to isolate the OYD(object of my desire).

During our flirtatiously-charged chat on the balcony,she was telling me how she never had a guy go to this extent just to get her.That I was a bit crazy and try-hard.

But obviously,the risks and chances I took were highly attractive to her.And it turned her on.

How many guys are willing to go there when it comes to getting ass?

Not many!

How many guys are too fucking worried about looking good?

Too many!

Guys who get girls aren’t looking and waiting for the perfect moment.They’re doing shit which would otherwise come off as “needy,crazy,insecure and try-hard”.

The guy who gets laid constantly is willing to approach the girl even when she’s apparently busy,she’s talking to some guy,or she just came from a funeral,lamenting the death of a relative…

Those guys aren’t waiting until she gets off her Blackberry.

He takes risks and chances by taking away her phone and say to her like an Alpha:”It’s pretty rude to be blackberrying while on a date”.

He doesn’t give a shit about being slapped(which never happens),nor getting a drink thrown in his face(which is even rare).Nor does he worry about being perceived as crazy and out-there.

He does what he does,and does it without looking smooth and perfect.

He innately knows that the only thing that prohibits him from getting laid is Not taking risks.

Having too much (social)value can mess up your game

This post was inspired by CodeVeroby,who made an interetesting comment on one of my last posts.

I’m not quite sure if he advocated this insight or he was just quoting Brad.Nevertheless,I personally feel that being too-high valued actually kills your chances.

I first came across this insight years ago but I can’t remember which dating guru wrote the article on it.

The guru was basically saying that,”when trying to game certain girls(shy types specifically),it’s best to dial down the value”.

What give girls the impression that a guy has too much social value(according to me)?

*Peacocking too much(being dresses too flashy).

*seeming like a celeb or rockstar.

*being overly social and too high energies.

Having too much of the above 3 qualities to your style can actually ruin your chances.

With girls of equally-high value and social status-cool,feel free to pretend to be Brad Pitt’s sidekick in his next action flick!

Girls of high value only deal with guys of equal or higher value than themselves anyway.

But with your average Jane,who’s not a rockstarette,who’s your average everyday reserved girl,the guy trying to game her should in effect lower his perceived value.

It kills me when top-dating coaches say shit like social value is a myth or it doesn’t exist.

Bullshit!!

A while back,I listened a podcast by the dating coach Speer of Speer Method,who claimed that value in pick up is Bullshit and it doesn’t exist.

That’s BULLSHIT!

If social value wasn’t real,then why aren’t HB 10′s strolling down the blocc,arm in arm with vagrants and bums?

Why do hot girls reject guys who have poor body language if value wasn’t real?

So social value is real!

Contrary to popular belief,if Brad Pitt were to approach an average shy girl,everyday girl,she will NOT automatically rip her panties off for Brad to screw the shit out of her.

An A-list celeb would actually have a hard time laying chiccs!

Believe it brodie!!!

The NY dating coach Paul Janka,appeared on a pick-up artist podcast years ago where he said this(quoting Bruce Willis):”Bruce Willis said that he actually got more ass from being an average bartender in NYC than he got as a celebrity”.

So being a celebrity i.e.having high-social value,does NOT mean you’re gonna be getting laid like a Rockstar!

The elusive WHY?

When the average girl is being seduced or games by a guy of much- higher value or a celeb’,these are the things that play out in here mind:

*”Why would he be attracted to me”?

*”I’m so out of his league”.

*”We couldn’t possibly have anything in common”.

Typical shit women say to themselves when presented with a guy of much higher status.

Self doubt comes flying in:which would lead to her flaking later on.

So the guy(or celeb) must in effect lower his value to be on equal plane with the target,which lets her see that there ‘is’ a genuine reason why a guy like you would want to get with a girl like her.

So it takes calibration to make this happen.

Look at my sticking point for example:

I love to peacocking out my ass(lol).

Whenever I go out to any venue,I roll like a Rockstar via wardrobe and accessories.

That’s cool!No harm in that.

But whenever I approach girls of lesser perceived value(shy/reserved type),sets don’t fucking hook!

They give the obligatory “hi” and all that,but it never goes anywhere most times.

If I do manage to # close,she ends up flaking.

This sticking point of mines really bothered me and fucked up my game for almost the past 3 years!

I had to dig into my proverbial vault of pick-up notes to actually figure out this flaw in my game.

The paradox is,I would have decent success with girls of same or high value:girls who were “somebody”,the bitch types,the alpha females,the ones whose ass were kissed.

But I couldn’t fucking pull a shy girl to save my life!

She didn’t have to be shy,but just the average-laid back girl I couldn’t pull(lol)!

WTF!!

In retrospect,after reviewing my seduction notes the other day,I realize the problem was that I presented too much value to the average girl.

I gave off a Rockstar vibe ,which is cool for seducing Rockstarettes/alpha females.

But it’s bad for trying to seduce the girlfriend of the alpha female.

The solution for me or for the guy who’s facing this dilemna:

When trying to seduce a girl who isn’t a social-butterfly:don’t come into the set too high energied.

This should be common knowledge by now.

You should always calibrate your tone and vibe to match that of the girl whom you’re gaming.

If she’s high energied,which implies high status among her peer group,you the guy must come in high energied also to match her.

Likewise,if she’s shy,reserved,laid-back,etc.,tone down your energy.

This shit is key bro’!!

Simple mistakes and miscalibrations like I mentioned can mean the difference between getting laid and jerking off for the next year.

I’ve been there over the past 2 years and a half.

Once again,thanks to CodeVeroby for mentioning this in the commentary on my last post.