“From flirt to up her skirt[Alpha-Male Style]”

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The hot- Kim Kardash’ letting it all hang out covertly for the Alpha-male to take flirt- advantage

Hey guys this time round,I’m going to get into the subject of Flirting and transferring that to actual intercourse.

So from talking the talk, to actually walking the walk!

It’s not as hard as some may think, but not as easy as some brag.

Just takes mastering, and most situations are the same and require similar techniques.

Women love a flirt!!

It makes them feel great but we want to take it that step further; getting down and dirty!

First you’ve got to be in the right situation.

If the woman you want to shag is in a good mood,your chances are already high especially if she’s into you.

Women also get very jealous; very easily,and often try to win us men over(especially if she thinks there is competition for you).

Many times we don’t see things like that.

Another piece of key information I found out was:

If a girl’s stressed, it can significantly increase libido levels: resulting in her wanting to open those legs for you.

There is no stress relief better than sex[one of the perfect actions of life that makes one forget everything in that moment].

Also,many guys favourite scenario:

They’re gaming at night,having a few drinks…getting tipsy can create that extra confidence and creativeness from inside.

Women love a guy that oozes confidence.

Someone who shows that they have a strong pair of balls without intercourse.

Again, alcohol can do this for some who may be shy or non confident.

Get the girl her favourite drinks or a special cocktail, have a little grind and watch the sexual tension sky rocket!

A general route to a woman’s heart is to humour her.

We all know this!But sometimes let it slip.

Humouring her with knowing how to approach different scenarios will get you where you want to be.

In every given situation,you want to use KINO(touching):

Touch her hair,

Play a few tricks,

Neg her(make her qualify).

Just show her you’re an Alpha Male- not another AFC (Average Frustrated Chump).

Get her thinking along the lines of, “Am I good enough?Can I get him?”

This is all a form of reverse psychology.They do it to men.

I’ve seen it minute by minute when out and about; play them at their own game.

I’m going to list some rules that most guys will know but never hurt reading up on time after time:

 Learn the secret language of manhood!(Become independent, strong and on your own path, don’t try and imitate others).

 Become a ‘certain’ person (people like certainty, if you can communicate it and provide it, you’ll be more attractive. If you can’t,it’s game over. If women think secretly you’re a wuss ,that you’re only acting cool but underneath you’re a clingy, in-secure guy waiting to smother them- they will bail:and bail fast!)

 The more personal you are, the more universal you’re seen (Don’t be hung up on your hang ups).

 Stop reliving your emotional past (Becoming Alpha is about living for now and breaking old connections. Live for the moment and future whilst taking each situation for what it’s worth).

 An Alpha man has plans ahead ( An Alpha male has the ability to think for the future and the ability to work through various situations with discipline, instead of guessing or wishing for luck).

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Those are some of my personal rules,and were what I strove to achieve on a personal level.

Most important thing you can do right now to attract women fast is to commit to doing whatever it takes to become the kind of guy who naturally attracts women.

Take the time to learn from guys who are great with women.

Iron out the “quirks” in your personality, and continue moving forward until you reach that goal.

Success breeds more success!!

When we achieve something;we want more.The best thing about wanting to become an Alpha male is that you don’t have to wait until you’ve perfected yourself to get rewarded.

Until next time, enjoy!

Chelios…

Drinks For Alphas[attracting girls by the drink in my cup]!!

Chelios @ the pub

Amazing Alcohol to an Alpha tag and super-social experience:

Back again guys and girls.In this entry,I’m going to talk about drinks[alcoholic and non-alcoholic].

How they can positively affect you (surprising to some) and the negatives.Along with my personal favourites and how they came about.

PUA Drinks:

As a PUA,Im learning how to become closer to that Alpha-male tag,which would naturally help draw attention.

I started to consume alcohol that usually taste different and looked different from what most people would buy at a bar.

It definitely works!

I’d often be greeted and asked questions regarding what I’m drinking and how the taste was: usually resulting in “Can I have a taste(Mostly by women)”?

For PUA’s or generally shy people (MALES and FEMALES),starting out it’s a great thing to do.It definitely eases “Approach Anxiety” and often brings a target in for the first move.

So you can then progress from there.

It’s just a small method of slowly building your inner-self.And over time,will help you feel more confident socialising(especially with the other sex).

It’s funny when you’re near a group,and you ask for a drink they’ve never heard of or experienced LOL.

It opens doors without even trying.Give it a go!

Personal Favourites:

 Vodka + Sugar free Red Bull – For some reason I can drink huge amounts and not get drunk or even tipsy.

 Jack Daniel’s and Sugar free Red Bull : JD always hits the spot for me, it gets me tipsy (not drunk) but the caffeine and Taurine from the Red Bull keep me SO alert-I’m on top of my game. It’s like an adrenaline rush for short period after the drink.

Always works when I’m not 100%.

Baileys

 Barnamint Bailey’s: A mix of Bailey’s, mint liqeur, vanilla flavoured ice cream, crushed ice and Oreo cookies.

This is my favourite at the moment.The design and rare purchase from what I’ve seen makes me stand out with it.

Often being asked questions by women about what it is,and can they have a taste?

As a PUA it’s fuel for the fire LOL!

CJ aka Cranberry Juice

 Cranberry Juice is also one of my favourites.Sometimes with Vodka,but mostly alone.

Cranberries are full of antioxidants which protects cells from damage by unstable molecules called free radicals.

They also help keep the brain alert.

I usually drink this if I’m feeling under the weather at home or out having a good time.

They also help prevent urinary infections which are very common in people nowadays.

So a bit of Cranberry juice can stop any possible hinders on your sex life!

 B52 [cocktail shot, that was introduced to me by a Lithuanian girl working in my Favourite bar in London].

We became good friends (after which improved my rep to many regulars and her friends).

It’s my favourite shot because of the way it’s so beautifully crafted and presented.Most people know nothing about it..

The B-52 (also B52 or Bifi) is a layered shot composed of a coffee liqueur (Kahlúa), an Irish Cream (Baileys Irish Cream), and a triple sec (Grand Marnier).

When prepared properly, the ingredients separate into three distinctly visible layers.

The layering is due to the relative densities of the ingredients. (Explanation from wiki)

Benefits of Alcohol:

Alcohol consumed in moderation is thought to help reduce the risk of heart disease.

Indeed, alcohol consumption in conjunction with high intakes of fruit and vegetables may well explain the so-called ‘French paradox’.

The French diet is considered to be very high in fat, especially saturated fat, yet the death rate from coronary heart disease (CHD) remains relatively low.

Research studies from 1992 have proved these facts.

I have heard and spoken to many experts regarding Red Wine.Red Wine contains flavonoids that act as antioxidants, which help to reduce the build up of atherosclerosis (when fat builds up on the inner walls of arteries).

Red wine seems to help maintain the flexibility of the blood vessel walls.

Alcohol Risks:

I won’t go into too much detail because 99% of people who have consumed Alcohol have been warned usually from a young age.

But remember;alcohol abuse can cause severe damage to organs that help maintain healthy life and general survival- most notably the Liver.

Go out, have a good time on the weekends, but do not BINGE DRINK!

Enjoy guys.

Chelios

Why Are Ugly Men Sooooo Confident With Hot Women..!!!?

May 3

My boy “Pimp” resembles the guy on the right,except his ears aren’t so protrusive,and he’s black

Personality trumps looks!!

Self-perception trumps looks!!

In the grand scheme of things,looks are only about 5% of a guy’s overall attractiveness.So in essence:looks doesn’t fucking matter!

It’s no secret that un-attractive men ‘Generally’ have hot girl(friends).

While society’s so-called “hot guys” AREN’T friggin’ getting laid[talk about a contradiction]!

They spend 12 hours weekly @ the gym buffing up,tryna build an “Adonis-like physique” ontop of an already ripped body;all in hopes of becoming more attractive to women.

Yet,they don’t get laid [SMDH]!

But the scrawny guy,or the one struggling to carry his protruding beer-belly,who neglects going to the gym ‘Period’:he’s getting laid like a Rockstar!!

Un-attractive guy’s secret to getting hot chics

Ignorance is bliss!!!

Ultimately:an ugly guy knows he’s fucking ugly[unless he refuses to look in the mirror ever so often].

But these guys have an EXTREME tolerance,and a rejection proof-like attitude when it comes to what people say and think about them[physical appearance]!

Just observe an un-attractive guy whenever he’s chatting up a hottie!

He comes off as though he’s Brad Pitt incarnate!!

He does ‘NOT’ see himself as ugly,hideous nor un-attractive!!

One of my sarging buddies goes by the pseudonym “PIMP”.

Now,what separates “PIMP” from your house-hold attractive pimp?His face is virtually disfigured from an accident as a toddler.

He literally has a pizza-face,semi-burnt with crooked,rotted front teeth[enough to give a mummy a run for his money].

Throughout his pre-pubescence and teens,He was brutally teased and ostracized as if he were an extraterrestrial on Earth[sad when I retrospect].

However,if you see “PIMP” in action chatting up an HB10,you’d think this fucking dude doesn’t know how hideous he looks[I hope he doesn't read this LOL]!!

This dude gets laid!!!

As much as we dodge him out to the clubs & bars[not wanting him with us:thinking he'd be a DLV,fuck up our Game/image and repulse hot girls],whenever he begs to tag along,apart from me:he’s the ONLY friggin’ guy in our social group who has little to no fear of rejection!!

I was never able to ascertain the method to PIMP’s madness -until now;He doesn’t see himself as ugly!!

In spite of 28 years of being outcasted,bullied,excluded,ridiculed,laughed at…daily reminders of his extreme Unsightliness…

It never phases PIMP.

It’s like an internally automated- filtering process,where he filters out intolerance and prejudices.

In essence:bullshit bypasses his auditory system,where he ignores what critics say.

He’s inherently aware that looks mean shit to women on an attraction level.

He innately knows that his self- confidence,non-reactiveness and self-perception will ALWAYS trump his facial deformities.

He may not be able to put this in words.However,on a subconscious level;he knows this.

Ignorance is bliss!!

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Hence the answer to the elusive question that all men have pondered for decades:“What the hell does she see in that ugly guy”!!!?

Ultimately:it’s attitude/personality.

Hot men[according to societal standards]are generally bland and lacking in the personality department.

They’re very insecure,gullible and fearful of rejection:thus they approach less women,which means less chances of getting laid,and less chances of landing that hot girlfriend.

Attractive men do NOT have that built-in emotional filter which un-attractive men do.

When an attractive guy gets rejected- he becomes hurt and defensive.

When an un-attractive guy gets shot down- he laughs it off(non-reactively),then plows forward via charm(which hot men lack on a grand scale).

With that said,it should be no surprise that the guys who get laid the most are ugly,or physically/facially un-attractive(to society’s standards).

Guys who get laid have a certain swag

Mar 11

Sexual Swag

Ever fucked a hot girl?

Well if you haven’t,go do it,then tell me how you feel after.

What feelings did you exude afterwards?How was your mind state?How did it make you feel?

I bet that your subconscious “Swagger” was turned way up!!You smiled more,held your chest out more(subsconsiously).Felt better about yourself,right?

And this doesn’t count nor happen with a girlfriend or wife.You don’t lay your GF,then afterwards strut in confidence as you exit her crib.It just doesn’t happen. Subconsciously,there’s nothing special about banging your girlfriend/wife nor a girl whom you’ve been fucking regularly[i.e.fuck-buddy].

Classic case:the middle-age fat guy(husband)at the bar.He doesn’t radiate confidence.He isn’t oozing with sexual satisfacation(since he’s been banging the same girl-his wife,for the past 10 years).He’s brimming with boredom,dimness and non-confidence.The energy he gives off says “Unsatisfied”.

Same goes for the single-guy who doesn’t get laid at all.The energy and vibe that his body give off is the same as the disgruntled,unsatisfied husband.

Guys who don’t get laid(or can’t),they have such a tell about them.Their body language is weak(Beta),hunched over and tension-filled.

And women can sense this shit from a mile away.They have a gift for reading mens’ body language.A girl can sense when a guy doesn’t get laid.She might not be able to consciously pin point it.But her sub-conscience will pick that shit up fast as you can blink.

That’s why most guys are rejected before they even open their mouths.The girl has already screened them out as guys who don’t get laid[which is a turnoff for women].Because of such Beta energy his body radiates,the girl scanning the venue(bar,club) would’ve already disqualified him.

Am I really saying that guys who don’t get laid are turnoffs to women?You damn skippy!!It’s for the same reason that women are NOT attracted to virgins.

Likewise,the more ass a guy gets,he becomes inherently more attractive to women.

Jersey-Shore guys are sexually swagged out!

His body language oozes:Alpha,Sexual Swagger,Confidence,Player,Know-How,Desirable(Wanted),Pre-Selected(desired by other women).

Same as the woman can sense and smell a guy who doesn’t get laid:she can also spot one who does(which is the guy she’ll subconsciously be drawn to).

Can guys spot other guys who get laid often?

No!!!!!!!!

Men are dummieswhen it comes to reading signs,body language and other people.

Sure,we can read a guy who’s hostile towards us(balled fists,rage in his eyes,etc.).But those signs are always visible and apparent.

But the average guy(AFC)is unable to pick up on subtleties(ioi’s).Thus,a guy would be yapping his mouth off with a girl,while her body is saying,“Just fucking kiss me and ravage me already”!!!

A girl can always tell when a guy wants to bang her.But an average guy could NEVER tell when a girl wants to bang him.

So men are stupid when it comes to picking up on energy and vibes.

However,as I stated at the top,there are subtle signs that a guy who gets laid regularly gives off:

*He has a James Bond calm to him.A sought of easy-going flow[it's pretty damn hard to unexplainable].

*He moves deliberately and slowly[rarely rushes like nervous guys do].

*He either smiles a lot or gives a half-way,bad-ass smirk to women,as if he’s saying,”You know what’s up”.

*He’s maybe social,loud and assholish,but never in a try-hard way.

And the irony is,all those signs are done subconsciously.The guy who gets laid,and the one who doesn’t,neither of the 2 knows that he’s giving off those vibes and energy.

Same as if you just got an unexpected-pay raise or bonus,new haircut,new wardrobe,fine-ass model girlfriend,you will unconsciously and subconsciously glow as if there’s a fucking halo around your head!!!

This unseen,Zen-like energy, is what separates Betas from Alphas,chumps from players,disgruntled husbands from wanted bachelor,AFC’s from Pick-Up Artists…

Can this be faked and emulated?

Of course!!!!!

This is where the Seduction community comes to the rescue.We essentially trick ourselves into believing we’re the shit.And if one actually believes his own shit,it will materialize over time.

Same as confidence can be learned.Carrying oneself as though he sleeps with 20 exotic models per week,can be learned too.

Women will gradually pick up on this swaggerrific-sexual vibe,and then gravitate to you(subtly),while distancing themselves from guys who don’t get laid.

So if you desire to get laid,or get laid more…then firstly adopt the body language and vibe of a guy who gets laid.Emulate the energy and vibe of the player-guy who lives down the block,in whom you envy,but just don’t know how to express this.Befriend him also,and hope that his energy will be contagious to rub off on you.

Ciao!!!

Bad-ass alpha

Socialkenny breaks down “The Alpha Male”[video included].

Feb 22

Be an Alpha!!

The following video clip is part of my Alpha-Man Series(which is posted on Youtube).This is actually the first-preview installment of the 4 part series,which I recorded shortly after New Years 2012.

Ok,by now:followers of my blog would’ve already known what an Alpha Male is.He’s basically the shit,the man,the confident guy who gets the girl,the leader of men and his social group.He’s the envy of other men,and he’s also super attractive to women(via his body language and tonality).

So this video more so gives some quick tips into the traits of the Alpha Male,and how to spot him in social settings.Very instructive for guys who wanna get their confidence and swagger up a ton load(which inevitably attracts hot women).The polar opposit of the Alpha is the Beta-Male:he’s the guy who lacks confidence with women,doesn’t get laid,nervous around people,shy,etc.He’s the guy you don’t want to be.So check it out:

Bonus Video(in field):

On my way to a nearby bar(the other week ago),I spotted an HB9(PUA community jargon for Hot Babe who’s a 9 by PUA standards).She was walking same direction,so as an Alpha/Pick-Up Artist,it was my duty to fuck with her,chat shit,banter,be social,and demonstrate that I’m not intimidated by any chic!!

Key Thing:Treat random strangers(women) as though you know them for years(as I demo in the following clip).The video quality isn’t that great(a bit dark),nevertheless…I wasn’t able to record the opener/approach,but I did manage to record from mid-chat to end.

We eventually met up later that night at a popular- Karaoke joint,but I was too busy chatting up other girls to even pay her any mind.That’s the beauty of being a pick-up artist:women are abundantly available that you don’t have time to stress over a particular one.

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“Don’t Be A Pussy”;book by Chris Miller.

Jan 30

A nice kick-ass paperback book from Hollywood,California’s own dating coach Chris Miller.

My order of the book is currently in process so I’m anxious as hell to get my copy.

Chris and I have been Facebook friends for a while now,so it’s a must that I plug his renown book for my readers.

Overview

The book is basically a “Player’s Guide” to relationship management, instilling in guys the mindset that “you shouldn’t be afraid to approach hot women”:hence the title,“Don’t be a pussy”.

Also 69 of the Most basic questions and answers about the process of meeting women, dating women, serious relationships and becoming an Alpha Male. If there’s one thing all men have in common; it’s the desire to meet, date, and start relationships with women.

You can purchase the paperback book from one of the following links:Amazon.com,Powell’s Books ,Angus Robertson.com,and Barnes & Noble.