Drinks For Alphas[attracting girls by the drink in my cup]!!

Chelios @ the pub

Amazing Alcohol to an Alpha tag and super-social experience:

Back again guys and girls.In this entry,I’m going to talk about drinks[alcoholic and non-alcoholic].

How they can positively affect you (surprising to some) and the negatives.Along with my personal favourites and how they came about.

PUA Drinks:

As a PUA,Im learning how to become closer to that Alpha-male tag,which would naturally help draw attention.

I started to consume alcohol that usually taste different and looked different from what most people would buy at a bar.

It definitely works!

I’d often be greeted and asked questions regarding what I’m drinking and how the taste was: usually resulting in “Can I have a taste(Mostly by women)”?

For PUA’s or generally shy people (MALES and FEMALES),starting out it’s a great thing to do.It definitely eases “Approach Anxiety” and often brings a target in for the first move.

So you can then progress from there.

It’s just a small method of slowly building your inner-self.And over time,will help you feel more confident socialising(especially with the other sex).

It’s funny when you’re near a group,and you ask for a drink they’ve never heard of or experienced LOL.

It opens doors without even trying.Give it a go!

Personal Favourites:

 Vodka + Sugar free Red Bull – For some reason I can drink huge amounts and not get drunk or even tipsy.

 Jack Daniel’s and Sugar free Red Bull : JD always hits the spot for me, it gets me tipsy (not drunk) but the caffeine and Taurine from the Red Bull keep me SO alert-I’m on top of my game. It’s like an adrenaline rush for short period after the drink.

Always works when I’m not 100%.

Baileys

 Barnamint Bailey’s: A mix of Bailey’s, mint liqeur, vanilla flavoured ice cream, crushed ice and Oreo cookies.

This is my favourite at the moment.The design and rare purchase from what I’ve seen makes me stand out with it.

Often being asked questions by women about what it is,and can they have a taste?

As a PUA it’s fuel for the fire LOL!

CJ aka Cranberry Juice

 Cranberry Juice is also one of my favourites.Sometimes with Vodka,but mostly alone.

Cranberries are full of antioxidants which protects cells from damage by unstable molecules called free radicals.

They also help keep the brain alert.

I usually drink this if I’m feeling under the weather at home or out having a good time.

They also help prevent urinary infections which are very common in people nowadays.

So a bit of Cranberry juice can stop any possible hinders on your sex life!

 B52 [cocktail shot, that was introduced to me by a Lithuanian girl working in my Favourite bar in London].

We became good friends (after which improved my rep to many regulars and her friends).

It’s my favourite shot because of the way it’s so beautifully crafted and presented.Most people know nothing about it..

The B-52 (also B52 or Bifi) is a layered shot composed of a coffee liqueur (Kahlúa), an Irish Cream (Baileys Irish Cream), and a triple sec (Grand Marnier).

When prepared properly, the ingredients separate into three distinctly visible layers.

The layering is due to the relative densities of the ingredients. (Explanation from wiki)

Benefits of Alcohol:

Alcohol consumed in moderation is thought to help reduce the risk of heart disease.

Indeed, alcohol consumption in conjunction with high intakes of fruit and vegetables may well explain the so-called ‘French paradox’.

The French diet is considered to be very high in fat, especially saturated fat, yet the death rate from coronary heart disease (CHD) remains relatively low.

Research studies from 1992 have proved these facts.

I have heard and spoken to many experts regarding Red Wine.Red Wine contains flavonoids that act as antioxidants, which help to reduce the build up of atherosclerosis (when fat builds up on the inner walls of arteries).

Red wine seems to help maintain the flexibility of the blood vessel walls.

Alcohol Risks:

I won’t go into too much detail because 99% of people who have consumed Alcohol have been warned usually from a young age.

But remember;alcohol abuse can cause severe damage to organs that help maintain healthy life and general survival- most notably the Liver.

Go out, have a good time on the weekends, but do not BINGE DRINK!

Enjoy guys.

Chelios

Tequila Sunrise =’s Attraction

Jan 1

Dammit I’m hooked just looking at it!

Go figure-my first post of the year is about getting twisted and hammered off some exotic-looking cocktails lmao…well not actually hammered but tipsy at least.

What good is a seduction-artist if he doesn’t have good taste in mixed drinks[goes hand in hand right]?

Oh yea,I have to plug my girl Tia for inspiring this post.I’ve been neglecting blogging about alcohol,so when I came across Tia’s article on a pomegranate-based Martini[check it out here],I was instantly struck with a rush of inspiration.

Ok,let’s get it cracking like a dozen eggs!

When I’m rolling in the club or bar,alpha-swag on high,getting ready to swoop down on my harmless-feminine prey like a hawk on a barn rat[ok bad metaphor]:if I’m not toting a glass of Malibu Coconut Rum with PJ and a splash of Grenadine,I’d most likely have a Tequila Sunrise.

Now,I can hear the guys in the manosphere saying,”Hey Kenny,you’re fucking soft bro’!That’s a girl drink LMAO!Agreed!But a cocktail with an exquisite look to it is just ‘oh-so attractive’.Kind of like a well-dressed chic compared to a not-so well-dressed girl[y'all get the picture].

Anyway,I’m too fucking lazy right now to post the recipe,so I’m gonna leave it up to y’all to google the ingredients if interested.

The added benefits to a great-tasting cocktail is the ability to open a set(of girls)and instantly hook them via what’s in your glass.I cannot begin to count the amount of times I’m gaming a girl at the bar and she INSTANTLY becomes intrigued by my Tequila Sunrise!That shit is like chic-crack!!Sure separates you from the guy who’s holding a bottle Heineken LMAO.

So guys,if you wanna attract some hot girls at whichever venue you’re at:just tell the camarero(bartender-I love the Spanish word for bartender)to mix you a glass of Tequila Sunrise.And if they don’t know the simple ingredients:request to see the manager to get their ass fired lmao[just kidding]!

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

Dec 20

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

How does a girl earn drinks from me

Nov 12

Ok guys,if y’all haven’t read part 1 to this topic:click the link Here to check it out

When is it OK to buy her a drink?

As the title suggests;the girl whom you’re chatting up at the bar or club HAS to EARN it.

This is a classic concept in the pick-up community dubbed Rewarding her.

Listen clearly!The only time you should buy her a drink is if she’s worked for it,and you’re essentially REWARDING her.

Do not reward bad behavior!

How many times have we seen a guy chatting up a girl,and she’s clearly not interested(via body language),nor engaged in the chat[i.e.Bad Behavior],yet the he still initiates buying her a drink!

That is essentially rewarding her for bad behavior.Or for anti-social behavior.

Why would you reward someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve it!!?

Women are so used to being rewarded by Beta males when they don’t deserve it,that they virtually expect every guy to do the same.

We can all thank the Betas/nice guys for setting this awful trend(smfh).

Grounds for rewarding her

Ok,the reason guys chat up girls is to get laid(eventually).No secret in that.

Accordingly,whatever the girl does to facilitate the possible lay,or if she’s just enjoying the time y’all are spending.Feel free to reward her with a drink.

The fact that she’s been so receptive and reciprocative to you and the chat(opposed to being a first-class bitch),somewhere during the chat(15 minutes after),I may say to her:

“Hey Marcy,I’m gonna get ‘MYSELF’ a drink.Since you’ve been such a fucking rockstar,I’m gonna get you one too.Let’s go to the bar”!

The subtle beauty in what I said is this:

*I made it clear that ‘I’ was gonna buy ‘MYSELF’ a drink.And I’m in such a good mood that I’m considering getting you on.But I come first.

That is very fucking powerful guys!

It subcommunicates to the girl that “you’re more important than she is”[who's just a stranger].

As we already know,that mindset and frame is a crucial part of the alpha lifestyle.

And women LOVE alphas and men who are dominant and confident with a touch of asshole mixed in there lol.

What I stated to her is what separates real men from boys.

An alpha always puts himself before any random woman.

While betas/wussies put the woman first:aka pedestalling[which is a grave sin in the seduction community].

Women are attracted to dominance and high-valued men!Their panties get super friggin’ drenched by guys who display such behavior!

A guy CANNOT be high value, if he’s going around the club rewarding girls who haven’t invested anything into an interaction.

Women see such actions as weak,supplicative and sly!

So once the girl has invested in the conversation by actually talking for more than 15 minutes,she has essentially earned any good acts you’re willing to perform.

On the contrary,if you’re trying to social and converse with her,but she’s not responding,not talking much,being a bitch,being indifferent,not smiling,obviously not enjoying the time…Why the fuck would you even contemplate rewarding such bitchy behavior!?

And the sickening thing is:Most men would STILL reward her(or attempt to)by buying her a drink[LMFAO]!!!

It’s as if the guy say to himself,”you know what,she’s acting a bit frosty right now,so I’m gonna buy her a drink”.

Hoping that will activate her conversational motors.

Once a woman sees you’re rewarding her shitty behavior,she will take advantage(if she’s that kinda girl).

She will drink your ass out while pretending to be enjoying the chat,just to have your ass running back and forth to the bar like a damn waiter!

Then she’s gonna introduce you to her social group,and you’re gonna find yourself feeling compelled to buy drinks for her girlfriends too LMFAO!!!

Guys,we’ve all seen this shit play out every weekend at venues.

We’ve all probably been there and been that looser guy.

That guy rushing to the bar then returning to the set with 4 cocktails in hands:praying not to spill them.

That sought of behavior is WEAK and a turnoff to women.

And how ironic that 95% of men in clubs and bars act this way:committing such ridiculous social faux-pas.

So you never want to put yourself in a situation where the girl has you buying drinks for her girlfriends:which is quite common nowadays(smh).

That is why I appreciate the pick-up community and our insights so much.

The guru/head coach for RSD (Real Social Dynamics),Tyler Durden,once wrote an article years ago entitled “Secret Society”.

He went on as to say that,”Only 5% of men in the world get laid regularly.And in the club:only 5% of the men in the venue will actually get laid”.

The reality that guys are in the bars and clubs doing dumb shit ,like buying girls drinks when they haven’t earned it.I can picture now what TD meant by that.

Hard Truth In Closing:

Women are 100 times more socially savvy that us.

Women are 100 times more socially aware than us.

Women are 100 times more perceptive than us.

So if you’re scheming, plotting and contemplating buying drinks:Know that the girl knows the only reason you’re doing it is to buy your way into her pants.

Thus,she will either reject you now by turning down your drink proposal.

Or she will accept your drinks, use you all night as her drink-provider,then reject you later.

So we cannot blame women for being gold-diggers.We can only blame the men who readily offer them gold.

Once again,checc out this interesting article about buying drinks from a female’s perspective:imma buy you a drank

Why you shouldn’t buy girls drinks!

Nov 12

Hey fellas,another really interesting post which correlates with bar/club game.

Very informative for guys who enjoy going out and having fun in the nightlife.

First off,let’s address the EXCEPTIONS to buying her drinks:

Exceptional Cases

*You already know her,i.e.she’s a relative,former fuck buddy(ex-girlfriend),acquaintant,etc.

*She’s a girl in whom you’re not gaming nor trying to seduce.

*She’s a part of your social circle:which entails the above 2 exceptions.You’re not gaming her(for whatever reason)but she might’ve gone to the club with y’all.

Why is it OK to buy drink(s) for such girls in the above 3 exceptional cases?

SIMPLE!

You’re not expecting anything from them(sexual nor physical).So feel free to get your P.Diddy on and buy the whole damn bar out LMAO!!

Those girls won’t be psycho analyzing you and your intentions,saying to themselves,”Why is he buying me drinks?Is he tryna buy me?Does he think I’m that easy?He might have bad intentions.I gotta be cautious with this muthafucka”!

So it’s all good buying drinks for girls with whom you’re already acquainted,since you’re not trying to pick them up.Therefore,they won’t question your actions of ulterior motives.

The girls you should NOT buy drinks for

This is polar opposite to the girls you MAY buy drinks for.

Simply put…Do not buy drinks for girls you’re trying to pick up!

SIMPLE!

Unless she’s earned it!

So that fine-ass lass, looking all bored and lonely hovering at the bar, whom you’ve been eyeing all night – “Do not open her up by offering to buy her a drink!

Do not approach her trying to break the ice with,”May I get you a drink”?

1 of 3 things will happen:

A.)She will say, “yea-sure“!Then drink you out for the whole fucking night while pretending to be into you.

Note:She isn’t to be blamed for accepting the drink(s).Your dumb ass should be blamed for buying the drink(s)!

B.)She will say,”Yea-sure”!Get the drink,come up with some clever/bullshit excuse for coming back,”I’m gonna use the restroom for a sec.”.Then she never returns:leaving you like an asshole frozen in time in the middle of the club,while she dodges you all night and tell her friends how much of an looser you are,who thought he could buy buy his way into her ripped jeans!!!

C.)She will just say,”No thanks“.

Note:She would be wise to say no since she doesn’t know you.For all she knows,you’re some creepy fucking stalker looking to date rape her by slipping one in her Mimosa.

So it’s a much safer bet to NOT approach her at all with “buying her a drink line”.

Save you time,cash and esteem.

Sooooooo,what should I do instead?

Do what you’d normally do as an opener.But exclude the ‘drink proposition’.

If she’s earned it(down the line)-feel free to splurge a bit.

It’s that simple!!!

There’s not a worst feeling in the world to a girl,than when a guy subcommunicates his intentions through a drink.

And let’s keep it real guys!How many times had you bought her a drink and saying to yourself,”I hope this bitch gets hammered and pissy drunk and ends up coming home with me”!

If not that exact line,some variation of it.

So to avoid the social stigmas of being a Date-Rapist,Creepy Guy,Charming Guy who makes her weirded out by doing kind acts,just don’t buy her a drink at all(or as yet)!

The insane irony is-“95% of girls WON’T even ask the guy to buy her a drink lol!

So it kills the shit out of me that guys would even suggest buying drinks,as if it’s a prerequisite to convo!!!

Girls with at LEAST an ounce of class or a tinge of dignity ,would feel low and cheap asking a random guy to buy her a drink.

Even the lowest of girls on the social totem pole,would have enough social value to refrain from begging drinks from strange guys at a bar,whom she’s only known for 5 minutes (via chat).

So if the girl herself won’t ask;then guys…WTF are you doing buying!!?

What I’ve witnesses:

I’ve been clubbing hard-non stop for the past 9 years,as if I were a coked-up version of some fist-pumping Guido from the Jersey Shore!

The MOST common theme I see play out[a painful theme at that],is guys buying fucking drinks for random girls(when they haven’t earned it)!!!

Then at the end of the night,they’re going home with whom they came:their buddies or by themselves.

So ultimately,trying to get the girl drunk by feeding her drinks after drinks didn’t pay off.

In Closing:

There are exceptions to every rule in life and between the sexes.

Sure,it does happen where buying drinks may pay off and result in a lay.

But how often?

1 in 10 cases?

For reference sake,let’s say there’s a nightclub:we’ll call it Club X.

Perfect ratio of dicks to vaginas:300 dudes,300 chicks.

Knowing how scared and socially inept men are(compared to women),let’s assume 100 of those men have enough cravats to approach women in Club X.

It’d be rational(from trend)to surmise that 80 of those men would offer to buy drink(s) for the girls they’d approached and chat up.

60 of those girls are crazy,thirsty or broke enough to accept drinks from the random guys.

Now,the 60 out of 300 girls at Club X who’d accepted drinks,how many of them do you think actually go home with the guys who bought them drinks?

Don’t fucking lie guys!I know we’ve all been there so it’s painful to admit.

Any rational guy would assume that not even 5 of those 60 girls,who accepted drinks,actually got laid afterwards by the dreaded Drink-Buyers.

So that’s a WHOPPING 5 out of 300 girls who may actually go home with the drink buyers!

Im no Einstein,but that’s fucking 6%!!!

Only 6% of girls at the club ‘MAY’ go home with a random guy who’d bought her drinks!

And remember,I’m not talking about girls you might’ve known prior nor a girl you’re on a date with.I’m talking about RANDOM strangers who you’d cold approach in the club.

So the lesson here guys is:Don’t buy her drinks unless she’s earned it.

I keep parenthesizing “unless she’s earned it”.

Click the following link to read part 2/continuation to this article,of the 1 TRUE exception to buying a random girl a drink:How does a girl earn drinks from me

And check out this interesting article on drink buying from a female’s perspective.You’ll be surprised guys.Nice article Jamie imma buy you a drank .

My favorite rum ever

Oct 14

Let me say this from the get-go:if Malibu doesn’t give me a year’s worth supply of free bottles for endorsing their rum,I may have to make a switch to Coco Caribe[no hard feelings Mali']!

Typically,everyone I know mixes it with OJ but I prefer pineapple juice instead.

How many of y’all actually drink Malibu or any other coconut rum?

Feedback appreciated.