Monthly Archives: January 2012
“Don’t Be A Pussy”;book by Chris Miller.
A nice kick-ass paperback book from Hollywood,California’s own dating coach Chris Miller.
My order of the book is currently in process so I’m anxious as hell to get my copy.
Chris and I have been Facebook friends for a while now,so it’s a must that I plug his renown book for my readers.
Overview

The book is basically a “Player’s Guide” to relationship management, instilling in guys the mindset that “you shouldn’t be afraid to approach hot women”:hence the title,“Don’t be a pussy”.
Also 69 of the Most basic questions and answers about the process of meeting women, dating women, serious relationships and becoming an Alpha Male. If there’s one thing all men have in common; it’s the desire to meet, date, and start relationships with women.
You can purchase the paperback book from one of the following links:Amazon.com,Powell’s Books ,Angus Robertson.com,and Barnes & Noble.
Text Game:Dos & Donts of texting her.
Text- Game rules do “NOT” apply to texting your wife,partner,girlfriend,nor a girl you’d already slept with[for those girls-any type of text message goes].
But they apply to texting girls you just met,hadn’t hooked up with as yet,haven’t went on a date with.You practically just got this girl’s digits.
1.Keep your messages brief!Your txt should rarely be longer and more detailed than hers.So if she texts,”
I like vanilla ice cream a lot but hate strawberry.It makes me nauseous.
*Your text should be shorter:
I hate vanilla!You have poor taste missy.
*Few years ago,my reply text would read something long like this:
Damn I hate vanilla ice cream so much it’s not even funny!I cant begin to explain how much I hate it for real!But you have poor taste though missy.
*So you never want to be sending her a book if she sent you a leaflet.
2.Don’t over text!If she texts you 4 times daily(4 texts):send her 4 text or less.But do not make the mistake to send her 7 messages when she only sent you 4.
*You never want her believing that you’re more into her than she’s into you.You want her showing more interest by texting you more.
3.Always appear to be doing something(interesting) or busy.
*If she texts,
So what are you doing right now?
*The worst replies would be[and this is unfortunately what most guys would say]
Nothing at all.
Or
Just sitting here bored to death.
Or
Playing Wii with friends.
*Those were the worst generic-type messages you can ever reply with[which communicates to the girl that you have shit going for you].
*You wanna say something like this[even if you have to lie your balls off].Always convey to her that you’re doing interesting things and that you have an active lifestyle:
Oh,just getting ready to hit the gym then appointment at the spa.
Or
Take my son to the zoo,see some exotic creatures…
Or
Morning jog,skiing then cooking a meal like the Iron Chef lol.
*Always convey that you have a life and you’re not a fucking loafer,laying around in your boxers eating cheetos and watching re-runs of Family Matters all day.
4.Humor humor humor!Avoid sending boring messages.Spruce up your texts also with emoticons, smileys and popular acronyms like Lol,ROTFL,LMAO(which lightens the mood and display humor).For example:
My grandma’s cat pissed on my new shoes LMAO.I’m gonna kill his ass lol!
*Or let’s say she says
What are U up to later Kenny?
*I’d reply with something like this
Nothing.Just cuddling with my stuffed animals & teddies lol.
Or
Going to the gym to try lose this beer belly that’s holding me back SMH.
*So you never want to come off as boring and out-dated.
5.This is probably ‘the’ oldest text-game advice ever written by the seduction community:Mirroring.
*You always wanna compose your messages similar to hers in the sense of using words and lingo that she uses.It builds familiarity,comfort/rapport.It makes her subconsciously think that she knows you or have a connection with you.
*Let’s say she ALWAYS uses the following words in her texts:Pompous,chilled….For example,she says:
That POMPOUS guy at my job gets on my nervous!
Or
Everything was CHILLED yesterday at work.
*You messages down the line should include the words Pompous,Chilled or whatever word she generally uses.This is essentially a form of mirroring & Neuro-Linguistic Programming(NLP).
*If she usually uses profanity:Shit,Fuck,Asshole,dick,MOFO,etc.,you wanna mirror her by using those same words also.
*On the contrary:if she doesn’t curse,you don’t wanna be using much curses(which would turn her off).
*So compose your texts the way she does(with her lingo and her favorite words).
*If you don’t know her favorite catch phrases and words:just look back at her previous messages and check out which words she uses often.
6.The most important rule of them all[they all are important]:get to the fucking point.You don’t wanna be exchanging txts all day which are leading to nada.
*The more time you spend texting,more comfortable she’ll become with the idea of “just texting”.Then she won’t see a need nor urgency to meet with you or go out with you.
*I used to make this mistake every-single time:whether it’s via text messaging or Facebook chat.We would text back and forth for an entire week after getting her #.Then when I did try to transition to the ‘meet-up’,she’d flake.
*So don’t make her feel that you’re too comfortable with the idea of texting.So that’s why it’s also a good idea to NOT reply to all of her texts.
For a solid blog post on text-game ,check out NYC’s hottest pick-up artist,my man Rob Judge.He wrote a classic post on how to text girls[10 of the best texts to send girls].Also my boy Reema out of NY.He wrote a kick-ass article a while back.I don’t believe it was specifically on “Text Game.But a section of it addresses texting.
Bar-Girl Field Report PT.2(continuation)
If you hadn’t read part 1 yet from the previous night(Friday);check it out here:Bar girl field report broken down. I’m just gonna get straight into tonight’s details.
*This morning,the HB7 I met last night at a bar called me(woke me up actually)around 10 AM.We chatted for about 15 min.
Now Saturday Night:
*8:30 PM:I Texted her.”Hey Sh***n,I’m gonna be at the same bar in a bit.Feel free to meet me there”.
*9:30 PM:Stood outside bar,she passed and went in.
*I went in 5 minutes after,seen a guy friend of mine,chatted with him for about 30 minutes.
*Guy offers to buy HB7 drink,she declines politely,I approached her table,sat,chatted…
*Found out she does have a BF.Told her I sought of have an on-off GF(currently off),so we’re even.
*Flirted,chatted about many things[building comfort]from kids to her ideal type of guy[which resembles me].
*10:00 PM:Told her I had a favorite hang out at the pier nearby.Very chilled atmosphere,and that I was gonna be heading there in about an hour,and I want her to come along.
*Hesitantly said it sounds good but don’t know about tonight since her allergies are acting up.
*11:00 PM:Told her that the bar was kinda dead tonight(obviously),so it’s best we bounce.I’m definitely bouncing to the pier.
*11:15 PM:Lied to her that I over heard the staff saying they were closing early(soon)since it was a pretty-slow night.So we should go chill just outside.
*She hesitated to get up,so I got up first[leading],then she followed[submissive role].Both of us went outside,chatted for 10 minutes in front the bar.
*Told her let’s take a walk,she complained about her new shoes being too tight so she doesn’t wanna walk much[token resistance],so I slightly walked off[leading] so she followed[submissive role].
*11:36 PM:We walked to the pier,chatted about the nastiest stuff we ever ate(turtle),held her hand for 3 seconds,released.
*11:50 PM:Got to the romantic-darkened pier aka lover’s lane[this spot is typically where lovers and cheaters go to do them],guy in a van(most likely a cheater)got startled as we came so he revved his engine and bounced.
*We sat lover looking water,15 minutes later,took her hand and led her to a huge boat that’s docked up there.Playfully said if I plan on her drowning by going on the boat ’cause she doesn’t swim.I kept leading her,we went on the boat,sat down on the railing.
*Chatted about how much fun her BF is[lmao go figure],I killed the BF subject by asking if she has music on her phone.She cranked up some disco track.
*Took both of her hands,lifted her off the railing,she cracked up saying she’s not gonna dance,I start grinding on her thighs playfully,she said “OK,I’m gonna dance just this once”.
*We danced and grind on each other on and off for about 10 minutes,took her hands,led her to the other side of the boat over looking the sea,grind on her booty while I massaged her shoulders.
*Her fucking phone rings,she looks at it,sucked her teeth then put the phone back in her pocket.
*A minutes later,phone rings again,she sighs disgustedly,tells me to be quiet for a second,she moves away a bit and answers,“I’m at the pier.With a friend.No,it’s a guy friend.Nothing.Just catching up.Where are you?We’re not doing anything we’re not supposed to.Hello,hello,hello…”
*Apparently he hung up on her,she comes back over,I held her,caressed her,said he seems pissed now and that she might be in trouble.I ignored her,she kept bitching about him hanging up.
*He calls back,tells me to be quiet.As she talked,I was caressing her shoulders and playfully trying to over hear the convo.
*Hangs up and said she has to go home(in an “I can’t believe he’s upset laughing manner).
*I’m subtly tryna convince her to stay,she slowly walks off saying she’s ready to leave.I’m cursing in my mind saying I should’ve fucking escalated faster to bang her right there!
*I take her hand while she walks off to slightly stop her by pulling her back but she insisted on going[not in an upset manner.More like a combo of shocked and playful].
*Figured at that point,her BF was probably speeding on his way to the pier,so it’s safer we just bounce.
*As we walked from the pier,threw my hands over her shoulders,stopped her,embraced her from behind,sniffed her hair[Mystery's classic move],caressed her neck a bit while I tugged on her bra strap,she pulls away playfully.
*Kept saying she can’t believe he’s upset or hung up on her just cause she’s talking to someone.
*Sensing ain’t shit else going down tonight since the BF fucked up the vibe,so as we approached an intersection,I told her I’m gonna make a right(while she goes straight).
*Said good night,walks off,I grabbed her hand,pull her back to me playfully,she chuckles.My intention was to kiss close her but some fucking car came screeching down the street.I’m thinking it’s her BF enraged with the intentions of running us the fuck over LMAO.
*So I released her hands and let her continue walk as the car came shooting down the road.
*Got home about 20 minutes later,texted her saying that I had fun and want to run my fingers across her body.
It’s now 1:37 AM and my ass is retiring to bed.Ready to leave off where we finished hopefully tomorrow.Just hope she doesn’t get all sorry for almost betraying her BF thus try to flake on me next time.Fingers crossed.
Lesbians:the greatest threat to Men
If you haven’t heard by now,or the urgent memo I sent just happened to slip by your desk while you were sipping that cup of $3 café latté:There’s a new threat to men around the globe(especially in America).And no I’m not talking about Al-Qaeda,radicals nor some new post-2012 STD.Then what is it Socialkenny?I’m talking about Lesbianism aka Lesbi-nazism.
It’s shocking that throughout the ‘Manosphere’ and the countless Game/male blogs,I’ve never encountered an article addressing the greatest threat to mankind since Feminism :Lesbians.Perhaps I’ve been reading the wrong seduction blogs,or men just aren’t ready to join this fight[figuratively and physically].Whatever the reason for the absence of anti-Lesbian blogs,it doesn’t matter.We need to get the fucking ball rolling PRONTO!
Join The Fight(Physically)
Ok guys,I’m not advocating to grab your machetes and sabers,nor to ball your fists and sock out the next man-hating BUTCH you come across[I have a no-violence policy].
When I say to physically join the fight against Lesbians,I mean to fight those bitches and butches via GAME and skills to retain our heterosexual women.
1.Any Lesbian you see chatting up a girl in whom you’re attracted to,don’t fucking run nor back down!Spit game!Your best shit in order to combat the butch attack!
2.Any Lesbian you see trying to act more dominant than you,or any other guy in a venue,put that bitch in check verbally.Don’t curse her out,but employ some AMOG tactics,or even falsely befriend her in order to reduce her quasi-dominance(which is nothing but a front for her true feminine self).
A lot of men[stupid men I would say],have this false notion that Lesbians are somehow beneficial to mankind.That’s a result of men thinking with their dicks opposed to their minds in hopes of preserving our future as a specie.
The average guy[even some pick-up artists are guilty of this]seem to believe that a Lesbian is his meal ticket or free ride to having an elusive ménage-tois(3-some)SMDH.So he foolishly cheers on the Lesbi-nazi’s cause,which in essence a call for the eradication of men on a whole.
Fuck a 3-some!It’s only encouraging the extinction of men.The only 3-somes I’d ever had was my Wingman and I tag teaming some hot-ass chic at a guest-house[or back in the day in the project staircase].It isn’t dominant to be fucking a chic while another girl slaps you on your ass.Nah that’s fucking pussy!But it is dominant to fuck a hot chick while your wingman straddles her neck to go deeper on the sausage.So there’s no benefit in a M-F-F 3-some(1 dude,2 girls).
What do Lesbians want?
*Plain and simple:to see the extinction of the male sex!
*To proverbially castrate men like fucking animals.
*To corrupt the minds of every innocent-gullible female by convincing them that all men are dogs.
That is their agenda.So it pisses me off royally that men would side with those bitches/butches,who are covertly wishing that men never existed LMAO!If you thought the CIA was diabolical and crafty:you wanna see the LESBO-NAZIS behind the scene SMH.They are NOT working with us but against us!
And for the record:I’m not homophobic.I’m a liberal.However,if there’s a movement and cause pushing for men to not exist,or for us to die out by not having the chance to procreate(since they’re stealing away women),then I’m gonna defend the fucking right for men to exist!
So any man on the face of this Earth who is pro-Lesbianism,is essentially for the extinction of men.And he should be hung from a fucking tree,charge in the court of public-male opinion for treason against mankind.
Every heterosexual man(even gay ones) should be out picketing and protesting against ‘Lesbi-Nazism’.
Feminists & Lesbians are one in the same.Their cause is the same,their message is the same,their goal is the same,and they even physically look the same[not too sexy]!!!
Conclusion to Men:
*Stop thinking that if you hook up with a lesbian or bi-chick,that it’s your ‘in’ to orgy-gang bangs with her friends.It won’t happen!
Need more proof that Lesbians are anti-men,view us as animals and wish we didn’t exist?Just take a peek at The Brooklyn Lesbian Blog.She usually writes good stuff,but her stance seems to be anti-men[from a comment she made that all men are dogs].
U.S. bill which would essentially ‘KILL THE INTERNET’
Those who haven’t heard by now:perhaps you’ve been dwelling in a cave in Afghanistan or something[which isn't a bad idea in 2012],the US Congress[The House & Senate]…oh my bad-let me rephrase that:the bullshit US Congress,has drafted a bill named SOPA & PIPA,to so-called combat online piracy by censorship.Sounds good but it’s diabolical.
It’s essentially an Internet-censorship bill.SOPA & PIPA[the Senate equivalent to SOPA] would grant the government the power to completely shut down any website it deems guilty of copyright infringement.BTW,without due process.Hello Afghanistan LMAO!
Thousands of popular websites[Google,Wikipedia,Mozilla]are having a quasi lock-out/black-out today,in order to protest the draconian bill[thanks for that].Even my man,NY Democrat Senator Chuck Schumer,was protested for his part in the Senate bill[PIPA].
And who’s lobbying for and backing this fucking net-killing bill?Hollywood,major record labels and News corporations like fucking FOX and NBC[I'm ashamed to say NBC is on board].
SOPA & PIPA essentially means “Death to the Internet”.
Another chapter in what makes America a beautiful fucking nation LMAO & SMDH!At this juncture,you’re better off in Iran or China.
America needs to stop the fucking hypocrisy,boasting about freedoms which doesn’t exist,an American dream which is bullshit and doesn’t exist,rights which aren’t granted…the American Dream is overrated is a good article by Serpentus,so check it out.
So,with these few words:SOPA can suck a black dick,and the U.S.Senate can suck a black dick also!
Thanks to my man Rob Judge,aka NYC’s best pick-up artist/dating coach,he tweeted a SOPA link to me this morning[thanks bro'].
50% Rule by Mark Manson aka Entropy Pick-Up Artist
I was browsing Coldman’s PUA Journey blog the other day and I came across an interesting post from Entropy,one of my favorite dating coaches/pick-up artist out of Boston.I learned a lot of game from this guy over the years.

The 50% Rule is simple, yet the ramifications for improvement are huge. The rule states this:
At least 50% of your advances towards women should be rejected. If less than 50% are rejected, then you are not being aggressive enough.
Take a moment and think about that. The implications run pretty deep. This means that 50% of your approaches should be rejected, 50% of your attempts to kiss should be rejected, 50% of your phone numbers should flake, 50% of your attempts to get her into bed should be stopped.
Now you probably think I’m crazy. You WANT us to get rejected? Either that, or you’re saying something like, “Oh, way more than 50% of my advances are rejected, and it sucks.”
Here’s why the 50% rule is important: too many guys play it safe, too many guys aren’t aggressive enough. Too many guys wait for the “right” moment and end up passing up plenty of opportunities. If rejection didn’t matter, then you’d take every opportunity, right? That’s what we should be striving for. Let me provide just a few examples where the 50% Rule can come into play and seriously help a guy out.
A guy who always waits for the “perfect” moment to kiss a girl. He passes up tons of opportunities, but he never gets rejected either.
A guy who passes up approaching tons of attractive women because they have an iPod on, they’re in an elevator, they’re walking the other way, or they’re with other guys. He waits for women who he knows are easy to approach instead and avoids the rejection.
The guy who only calls phone numbers of girls he knows really liked him, not bothering with the women who seemed to give him their number out of politeness.
Not trying to bring a woman home because he doesn’t want to seem rude. Instead he waits for next time, when often there isn’t a next time (and often there isn’t because he didn’t take her to the bedroom!)
But going a level deeper, the 50% Rule doesn’t just condition a guy to become more aggressive, it’s a tool that guarantees constant improvement, because it applies to any guy, no matter what his experience level. Some guys get decent with women, and get to the point where they rarely approach but rarely get rejected, they rarely get turned down on kisses or sex, but they rarely try. This rule applies to me just as much as it applies to the next guy. If I’m able to pick up every woman I approach, then I’m doing something WRONG, not right. I’m not being aggressive enough. I’m playing it too safe, and I’m leaving a lot of opportunity on the table.
And his main point was this:if a guy approaches 10 girls,he should expect to get rejected by 5 of them.If he gets rejected less,it obviously means he’s not approaching enough girls nor being aggressive enough.
It’s a #’s game.The more women you approach,the greater the chances of being rejected.But also the greater the chances of getting laid more.
Oh,BTW you can check out the original article Here at Mark’s Practical Pick Up Blog.I learned a lot of game,skills and insights from him over the years.And check out his latest site PostMasculine,which gives practical lifestyle tips and dating insights for the average person.Cool blog.
Every kid should LOVE living in America!!!
Aah…!Where else on the globe can a child curse,swear and use obscenities like:shit,fuck,damn,stupid,ass without getting the shit slapped out of them or a tree branch shoved up their little asses?Welcome to America kids lol-any thing goes!
If your ungrateful parents dare to put their slimey hands on you[beating]:Just report those MOFO’s to your kindergarten teacher or junior high counselor,and they’ll be sure to dispatch the gregarious child-protective services to whisk you away to the loving government of the USA or foster care.Wouldn’t that be nice kiddies?YEA!!!!
Children rule in America.Parents are walking on thin ice like 3-strike felons SMH.
This past Summer at a family picnic(at the park),my younger brother almost got into some serious trouble with the law,when he accompanied his OWN daughter to a bathroom to pee.An officer spotted him and ran to the rescue LMAO!Despite everyone at the family picnic vouching for my brother as being ‘the dad’:the cop was still pressing the issue that some wrong doing was going down!Oh-and you KNOW the cop was a black dude LMAO[it's always your own]!
So kiddies,whenever your dad tries to accompany you to a PUBLIC restroom to take a #1 or 2-what should you do?[Kids proclaiming]Call the cops!!!Hahaha that’s right.Remember this is America:kids are the parents.
I have a background story to share with y’all kids[kids proclaim: yay!!].
When I was a child coming up,despite living in America,I still had a strong-morally influenced background from the Caribbean upbringing.We were taught that cursing was bad,and not to be used by kids under any circumstance.If we did curse,it was without a doubt that the wrath of Satan was to visit our asses via a thick leather belt or tree branch.And we were to be grounded for days,all privileges stripped,and handed a severe beating by the principal at school the following day lmao.Corporal punishment in school is LEGAL in the Caribbean.That means,a teacher or principal could LEGALLY give your mischievous little fucking brat a grand spanking.
I can hear Americans cringe at the thought of a teacher whipping their childs’ asses lmao.
So kiddies,be thankful that you’re living in a moral-less nation where anything goes.Tell the teacher to Fuck off,and there’s nothing he/she could do about it.Don’t you love America kids?[kids proclaim:fuck yea Mr.SocialKenny]!
And if your ungrateful parents dare raise a finger at you:remember 911.Send their asses straight off to the big house for child endangerment,battery on a minor…Don’t worry,the lovely state prosecutor will ensure that your parents never get a chance to spank you again(as they’ll be rotting in jail where they belong).
Let me hear an amen for America kids!
[Kids proclaim]:Amen!!God bless America.The only place on Earth where a kid can be free!!!
BTW,in the Caribbean,and most likely 99% of the world’s countries, where kids have no freedom(since they don’t deserve it,being that they’re too young),parents are FREE to accompany their children to the bathroom(public or private).
*Parents are FREE to govern their own children(since they birthed them,which should give them that innate right).
*The state has no jurisdiction over any parent’s child(as it should be).
*No peace officer/cop could be stupid enough to intervene in any situation he sees going down between a parent and child(short of homicide or actual rape).
*When a child misbehaves,the parents beat them,and it doesn’t psychologically scar the kids for life(as some bullshit American child psychologist may want you to believe).
Children are children,which means subordinates,and should be treated that way.America needs to stop playing big-brother or big daddy,quick to intervene in domestic issues which families should be the SOLE party to rectify any issues.
























