Darren Brown:Using NLP to pick up women(Video).

For those unfamiliar with the acronym/term NLP,it stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming.It’s a concept & technique we use in the pick-up community, where we seduce the target(woman) via tapping into her subconscious(opposed to trying to seduce her on a conscious and physically level).

The video has great captions to break down what’s actually taking place in set step by step.

I’ve only heard of Darren Brown about a year and a half ago,but I been familiar with the NLP gaming some years now[Ross Jefferie's Speed Seduction].

So check it out.Good stuff for the fellaz to a fresh start to 2012.

Pop,Rock & R’n'B turn men into pussies!!!

I don’t believe that this revelation is anything grand and novel.It’s no secret that the above music genres cater to women’s whims,fantasies and desires:thus excluding the men and what we want and expect from women.

I love R&B by the way:the 90′s stuff from R.Kelly,Joe,Ginuwine,Jodeci,etc.However,such music has managed to turn men into tricks,losers,BETAS,doormats,supplicators and bitches.How?By giving men the WRONG idea of how to show interest in women.

Classic theme of R&B:

*Tells men to reward women for anything.
*Tells men to reward women eventhough she’s been a complete bitch.
*Tells men that women are always right.
*Women must be pampered and spoiled to death.
*Buy her jewelry and nice things to show her that you care or love her(eventhough she’s not your GF). *Spend on her royally in order to show her that you want her.
*Take it slow as possible.

All the above beta suggestions will not get you anywhere with women!I fucking learned that the hard way!But men still are convinced that that’s the way to go in order to get the girl.You must go Pop-Culture.

Top 4 most beta/pussy lyrics excepts from 4 of my favorite R&B songs(these lyrics make me cringe as I reflect with an Alpha’s mindset):

Artist:Joe

Song:All the things

Lyrics…“treat you like something precious as gold.I’m ready to do all the things your man won’t do.I’ll give the world to make you mines”.

Translation:You should pedestal the fuck out of this chic who you’re trying to court[obviously hadn't banged her yet].Her man won’t pedestal her so you’re to come in a promise to anything for her.You should do anything for her to make her yours[including spending,shopping sprees,dropping all other prospects].

Artist:Jagged Edge

Song:He can’t love you

Lyrics…“can’t believe I let you leave.I’m half way going crazy.He can’t do for you like I can”.

Translation:Despite she being wrong,you should beg her not to leave or break up since she’s so precious.You should compete for her to prove to her that you really want her.

Artist:Dru Hill

Song:In my bed

Lyrics:…”Somebody’s sleeping in my bed and it’s messing up my head[his girl is cheating].I gave you money,and every little thing that you need.I gave you the world cause you were my girl…”

Translation:You should do anything and everything for you girlfriend.Then when she does cheat out of ingratitude and feeling privileged,spoiled and bored,you should throw it in her face that you spent money on her like crazy[in hopes she would feel sorry and take you back,despite she being the cheater].

Artist:Sammie

Song:Crazy things I do for love

Lyrics:…”I’ll put you in the flyest gear making sure you tight.Money ain’t a thing:only if you promise not to game.Kiss me girl and I’ll spend every dollar in my name…”

Translation:Buy buy buy and fucking buy!Buy this strange girl you’d just picked up fine things(high-priced dinners,shoes,etc).Money is no object so she can use you like an ATM.

Synopsis

*The common theme of all the above lyrics was this:Treat women like spoiled fucking kids,entitled to the world in order to get her.

*If she cheats…Fuck it-beg her to stay anyway(since it’s never her fault)!

*The key to a woman’s heart,pussy and a relationship with her is via ‘SPENDING’($$$).Show that you can spend more than the other guy who might be trying to get her by outspending you LMAO.

*Buy her gifts and shit although you don’t know her from Adam.Just put her on a grand pedestal bro’!

Now,for the readers who might be saying,”but men don’t take advice from what they listen on TV,radio and the media”.Bullshit!Of course we do!The #1 dating advisor to men and women is music.Hands fucking down!

Before I got into the pick-up community,R&B music was what advised me on how to get women.Irony was:I never got women from following the advice lmao! I used to spend on women like fucking crazy:shoes,flowers,Teddy bears and chocolate for Valentines…The women would take the gifts but end up fucking Joe Blow who never bought her shit lmao. Was I the only male victim of this massive-social scammery via love music which caters to women?Hell no!Most of my friends(who are AFC’s and Beta’s),their impression of getting women is via ‘Spending,Expensive Dates,Love Poems and Sending her texts messages saying:”you’re the light of my soul.I would go through hell for your love”. No wonder they don’t get laid thus reverting to banging hookers at brothels on weekends lol.

Love songs from every genre:Pop,Rock and R&B need to be eradicated in order for men to start being Alphas and real men. Hopefully that would be a new New Years resolution for us men:to stop catering to women while putting our own needs and wants on the back burner.

Nothing is essentially wrong with listening to beta-male music.Just as long as you don’t take their advice as literal and a guideline to getting and keeping the girl.

Field report:”KINO lesson-the Arab way”.

It’s been 3 straight nights of hard-bar game at the same bar I gamed at 2 nights ago[Christmas Eve Field Report(at the bar)].I’m going and going like a damn energizer-bunny!!!

Last night,I entered the bar and spotted a 2 set chubby girls sitting alone at a table waiting on drinks.I wasn’t gonna wait around like an anti-social dude,so I said WTH,I might as well entertain the fatties until some hotter girls rolled in[social proof].So I rolled over to their table[an empty seat was there],time constraint,sat down by saying,”I’m not asking anyone’s permission to sit here.It’s a free world so let’s enjoy the freedom while it lasts”.Cheeky/cocky-funny lines like those are my favorite.They never fail me.I threw it with a sly smile and the girls giggled away at how ballsy I was.

A while later,some Arab dude rolled up to the table,introduced himself,started chatting up the other fatty,grabbed a seat and started gaming lol.Talk about balls.This MOFO had game and exuded an alpha confidence that made me look like a fucking looser!The thing that was surprising about his verbal game(which I over heard via his poor English)was that he used negs and he never held back on saying shit that the average guy would see as ‘forward,disrespectful and inappropriate’.This MOFO natural had game lol!

Most of all:he KINO’d the fuck out of that girl LMAO!!!Right off the bat!!!

It wasn’t loud at all in the venue,but the Syrian-Rico Suave understood KINO and getting close,so he was all up in her ear and on her shoulders.

The girl was totally into him after a while:getting all up into his space.

Doesn’t he look like Fatush from the movie Zohan with the bandana on his head LMAO?

I wasn’t doing much of anything besides waiting for some HB’s to come through.I mean-I was definitely active(verbally)and keeping the vibe up,but I wasn’t engaging my fatty despite talking to me.One more beer and those chubbies probably would be looking like models I would lay,but I just drank a Coors and relaxed.

Funny thing about it though,these girls were fucking buying out their asses!!I never had to spend a dime.Neither did the Syrian dude lol.This guy was awesome in that he didn’t go AFC and buy drinks.These girls were literally slinging drinks at us as if to get us drunk or something!!!They ordered some tacos and pizza for all of us[go figure-they really should not have been eating that shit lol].

About 2 hours in,some HB9′s rolled in so I approached and open at the counter,“Hey,you’re that girl who stood me up the other night[with a smile of course].That was messed up.The 2 set smiled and giggled and denied it was her.The fatter one gravitated to me as if she planned on picking me up.What the fuck is with me and big girls!?They seem to always try re-open me and select me as their targets.

Hot chic in white was my target who I’d hit with the ‘stood me up’ line.

My target was the trim one but the bigger one basically brushed her aside and started engaging me!Fuck!!!So the slimmer one was being chatted up by some AFC dude.I was literally in set for like 45 minutes with this hefty girl(who was mighty cute in the face BTW lol) but she kept pushing comfort/rapport stuff looking for a deep connection by talking to me about having a miscarriage years ago…So I snuck back off to the original fatty-set.The Arab dude was hugged up with his,2 other black dudes were at the table tag teaming the other one.The girls was busting on me for bouncing on them…

The key lesson for all of us(from the Syrian-Rico Suave)is this:

KINO,KINO,KINO!!!And you don’t have to buy girls drinks in order to get some play.Have the girls buy you drinks instead.That’s a more powerful tactic to make her invest.

This dude pecked her on the cheeks,hugged her,touched her waist(after talking about some body tattoos),massaged her arms,tugged on her chubby cheeks like a mom would do to her chubby baby lol.This fucking dude was the quintessential example of an Alpha.His calibration and timing was so ‘ON’ that whenever he’d KINO’d,the girl never recoiled since it wasn’t awkward.

I learned a lot last night from the Arab stallion lol.Who knows what the hell happened.They all left together(while I was engaging some other girls).Maybe they had a fatty 3-some.

I wanna believe KINO is huge in the Middle-East,or at least customary.because the way this guy came off from the gate seems as if it’s something he was born with.

And check out Christmas Eve Field Report.

Christmas-Eve Field Report & Sarge

It’s 2 AM,I’m just strolling in,tipsy as a MOFO,barely made it up my flight of stairs.Hoping I’m sober enough to write this field report without slurring on paper in other words.So forgive me if I get sloppy.

Ok guys,for those who follow me on Twitter,you would’ve known that I was out all night at a new bar.I was supposed to meet up with a Canadian girl(HB9)but she never showed[I showed up too late I believe].But I quickly settled into a rhythm.There were lots of chics strolling the streets outside the bar,so I decided to put my iPhone to whatever good use it has to snap some pics while my buddies game.

*[I fell asleep,just woke up Sunday morning feeling sober].

So before I went in the bar,I was chillin with few friends in a rental car tryna get at some HB’s at the Square[a popular-hussle & bussle area on the island].

A crew of fatties congregating.I guess they all roll in packs or herds[that was a low-blow I know].

My boy Box calls over the slimmest one out the crew to start gaming her.She has a pouch on the tummy.Apart from that:she’s a solid 9.3 in the face and figure.She’s tall as hell though!This chic is like 6’1!!!

HB-Tall’s chubby friend tries pulling the external interrupt by calling her over.Like a good friend-she obliges lol.As I was analyzing,there were major girl coding going on here.But my boy Box stays persistent and bust on her for having her friend control her lol.So he games on.

10 minutes later,my boy Box is still in set-not giving up easily as most guys would.Persistence is key here guys.The girl slowly walks off but Box stays at it LMAO.He was getting good vibes BTW.Just that her 1 fucking fat friend kept sabotaging the set.Most likely cause she wasn’t getting any play.I could’ve occupied the obstacle[to use heavy PUA term] but I was more concerned with breaking down the in-field dynamics.

Ok,Box continued gaming the tall HB all the way down the bloc so we pulled up on 2 chics standing in the fucking street[they do that a lot here-congregate in mid road].1 was super-slim,the other OK.Nothing much happened.

The fellaz stayed outside doing street pick up while I went solo to the bar straight ahead.

My first time in this new bar that just opened last week.No grenades here.The 2 bartenders were hot as furnaces.1 white,the other black.Wow,these girls were drinking on the job.That’s progressive LMAO.

I don’t usually game hired guns(waiters,bartenders,strippers,etc)but I chatted them up a bit.The black one(on the left)is from NY and the snowbunny is from Toronto[Soloist got me using that word hard].

My boys shortly came in,we grabbed a table,few bottles(red wine and Smirnoff) …IDK what the hell I was thinking but I went to the counter and said to the black bartender,”Do you still model”?Lmao must’ve been the alcohol talking to re-open with such a lame/AFC’ish question.She gave me a WTF grimace so I said,”When we chatted earlier,you told me you modeled”.The shit stalled,I C&B(crash and burn)…

Right next to our table was a 4 set.1 fat,other 3 model-figure[no footage though].I opened the set by saying to the chubby one(since she was the leader of the group/alpha female),”Hey,why dont you be a nice girl and take my pic”.You’re taking everyone else’s pic in the damn bar.What happened to me lol”!!?That was good banter line to break the ice[banter is the biggest part to my game].

As expected,she LOLs grabs her cam out her bag and took few photos of me and the boys.Before I got to chat up her friends via introduction[I didn't have a target in mind yet],some orbiter tries AMOG’ing me to lower my value and get me out of the set.But I did the best AMOG destroyer- ignored him[Nice lmao].

Fount out that they were from the NY Tri-State area(Waterbury,Connecticut),down here for the holiday.Before they bounced,they told us to meet up with them at some party or club.The details were vague(probably since they weren’t familiar with the island),so I didn’t even know where the hell to meet them with the boys.

*Key note here:It’s a must that you first open the leader of any set.You cannot open a set by going straight for the target and ignoring the leader of the group.You’ll get blown the fuck out via girl-code.So that’s why I’d opened the fat one since she was the loudest one:in other words leader of the set.So once you win her over,the other girls in her social circle MUST conform.

Conclusion
My boys bounced to the club,I was too tired and had a bit too much red wine so I took my ass home instead.No telling what would’ve transpired with the CT girls(had I went to the club)but fuck it.

5 Reasons Why You Should ‘NOT’ Get An IPhone!!!

Hey guys,let me begin by saying ‘The IPhone Sucks…big time!!!

Now,I know that was very heavy-handed to say,especially after the great Steve Jobs had recently passed.I applaud the man for his ‘out of the box’ concepts.But he definitely dropped the proverbial ball with the iPhone.

I was fortunate[now unfortunate as I retrospect LOL]that a cousin of mines from Canada virtually threw a brand-spanking new iPhone in my lap-fresh out the box[yippie]!!That sure beats having to purchase one LOL.

Over time[2 months of Internet use],I discovered the following 5 handicaps about the iPhone(which you would not have known prior to purchase,nor from browsing the booklet):

1.You CANNOT-I repeat CANNOT upload files to any website,social network,forum,etc.from the default built-in Safari web-browser[SMDH].What!!!?This has to be a joke!

Thanks to google,I’d googled,”is it possible to upload images and files to the net from an iPhone”?A hundred percent of the search result articles said NO!.The only way to upload files or images(photos)to the net from an iPhone is via app:which is time consuming,being that you’d have to sign up for iTunes(which is a hassle to say the least).

Worst of all,if the site to which you’re trying to upload doesn’t have an iPhone app-you’re fucking screwed!General sites as forums,in which you’d like to have a photo accompany your profile,they do NOT have iPhone apps!So I fount myself having to borrow a buddy’s laptop every second just to do this[my desktop had blown].And when my friend wasn’t available(or tired of me bugging the shit out of him),I had to phone someone(overseas) in order to upload stuff for me to forums,blogs,etc.What a joke!

2.When you thought it couldn’t get shittier,I stumbled across another annoying handicap[SMH when does it end?].You cannot save web pages for offline use.What!!!

So you know what that means?If you’re reading a good article and you’d like to save it for use later:you will NOT be able to do it LMAO!So whatever you’re reading at the moment,you betta finish it Pronto!Or better yet:take out a pen and pad to copy whatever info you wanted LOL.How the hell would that translate being on the go,and having to have a pen and pad handy at all times?

3.The 3rd.nightmare is related to the above:web pages AUTOMATICALLY refresh themselves at will!This has to be a friggin joke man!

Let’s say you’re entering some info into a field(whichever website you’re on).Someone knocks at the door,your teapot is boiling over,the kids spilled juice all over the place,whateva…assuming you’d have to put down the iPhone to tend to something,do NOT make this grave mistake-please!The web browser WILL automatically refresh itself once the screen hasn’t been touched after a few seconds.So that means your info will be lost,images will have to reload,you’d have to scroll the page to look for where you left off[WTF]!

4.As much as I love saving web pages,uploading to the net and all,it gets worst [shit!]!Are you ready for this?It’s impossible to download ringtones/mp3′s and set them as your ringtone!!!Hold on!You may be saying to yourself,”But this is a basic feature of any other platform/phone ever invented since 2005.Enabling a song(mp3)as my ringtone is possible on any other mobile”.Yes-but not capable with the iPhone.

To set a song or ringtone as your ringtone(or message tone),you’d have to do this via the dreaded iTunes.Which means you’d have to log onto a computer,have to have iTunes already installed…A supposed simple procedure made complex by the iPhone developers huh?

5.Last but not least,this handicap relates to the above(#4):You CANNOT download songs(mp3),e-books nor video files via Safari default browser LMAO!

So,if you happen to be checking out some videos online and decide to click on the download link:think again dude-that won’t be happening!Same goes for music.You’d have to download an alternate downloader app.And the right one is almost impossible to find.The layman would NOT be able to do this.

And guys,that’s just the tip of the iceberg.The list of bullshit that you inevitably purchase once you get an iPhone is endless!

There are few hidden tweaks which enable you to work around ‘saving web pages’.I stumbled upon a few tips and tricks for this(after 2 days of intense googling).For computer junkies like I am-that’s no prob.But the average Joe/Jane would’ve already smashed the device to pieces via sheer frustration.I wouldn’t blame them.

Why is the iPhone so popular then?I have no fucking idea.Must be the Apple brand(which is bullshit).

If you just intend to use it to make and receive calls-then cool(almost).However,for web browsing and using the net period-you’re better off getting any other handset on the market.

The only good thing about the iPhone is that it makes for a good wingman.I’m a pick-up artist,and somehow:chics are fascinated by iPhones.Just having one helps me pick up chics LOL.

There’s a lot more I couldn’t mention here(trying to stay brief:
*App crashing
*Slowest web browsing ever(despite best net speed)
*Inadvertently hanging up
*No photo albums(so every photo is saved in same file).

I guess I’d have to blog about a part 2 to this issue since there are so many.

‘Want To Know If He’s Cheating’?

I was just lying here in my apartment,gazing around,brainstorming some interesting topics I can blog about.

Now-I’m a man[DUH!],which means I’m NOT too inclined in keeping my bachelor pad in tip-top shape;pants thrown here,boxer-briefs tossed there,dirty Converse all-stars propped up on the old CPU,oily-pizza box from last week staring at me from under the bed[LMAO]…you know-typical male-mess.We tend do get slobby at times.Men who live alone can relate-right?

So I was dialoging with myself,”It’s the Holiday season,eventhough I’m anti-climactic about it,I’m expecting to pull some hot girls back to the pad.My GF and I are sought-of on a break[what's fucking new?],so I betta get this shit in order!

Like a city roach scrambling to take refuge when the lights come on-I did the same shit and scurried to get the pad in order, and some-what clean LOL.

As I’m cleaning,I said to myself,”Look at how easily I could’ve been busted if my girlfriend and I were still exclusive SMH”.

For the guys who aren’t in relationships,nor haven’t been in one recently,this may seem vague to you.I’ll explain a bit later.

It’s generally accepted,or at least in the seduction community,that women are 100 times more perceptive than us men.Women are fucking clairvoyant,which means they can pick up on shit lightning fast,while we men are slow as snails to pick up on things.Thus the social stigma that women are best at cheating(since they rarely get caught compared to men).Women can pick up on: when a guy likes her,when he’s trying to buy his way into her panties,when he’s nervous,etc.Women got that!!They are good at picking up on patterns.

Pertaining to patterns:men tend to get lazy after few months in a relationship, thus falling into a routine(which his GF notices):
*He no longer gets a haircut
*Farts around her
*Lets his guards down
*Lives like a slob
*Isn’t worried about cleaning his pad every single minute just because his girlfriend is coming over.

My point is,it’s common that people(mainly men)fall back into a lazy routine after ‘winning the so-called prize’(the girl).

During the course of my LTR,I settled into the pattern too LOL,”What the hell-that’s my girl!I’m not gonna hire a fucking maid nor become one, just ’cause she’s coming over!So what if the fridge is empty or the cat pissed on the floor:I’ll have her grab some snacks on the way over then clean up the cat mess when she gets here[shrug]“!

It’s normal to operate that way when dealing with your partner.You can relax,be lazy and not worry about impressions.

But do we operate that way when hoping to pull some new ass?Of course not LMAO!!!With the possibility of a new prospect coming over,if the guy has to search Craig’s list for a cat-sitter or bum some money off a buddy to stack his fridge,then he will do it by any friggin’ means!!!Can’t have your date come over and your dirty underwears are sprawling all over the couch,exposing her to your slobbery.

But this is where a lot of cheating guys go wrong.They break their patterns without reasons.This isn’t just related to domestic things as cleaning.This could be a guy who never goes to the gym.Then suddenly,he starts going to the gym often.Yes,he CAN truly want to lose 10 lbs.to gratify himself.But when sudden change of patterns and lifestyles occur,9-10 times,it signals infidelity or the thought of it.

If a guy only tidies his crib once a month,then starts doing it every week(without reason),then it’s crystal clear that he’s doing it for the purpose of picking up women[a new woman].Or appearing presentable to that woman.

People just don’t break patterns and routines for their spouses,partners nor someone they’re already familiar with(relatives,etc.).We generally break patterns to make an impression on people we are NOT familiar with.

Classic Example:My girlfriend used to hound me to fucking death about getting a haircut,cutting my Mohawk…did I do it?Hell no LOL!!!

*She harassed me about a jeans I wore which had a mini-hole in the crotch area.Did I stop wearing it?Lol of course I still wore that shit!

Now that it’s the Holiday season and I’m expecting to see a lot of girls in town from NYC[escaping the Winter to the islands],my GF and I are on a break(as usual-can’t get along),so picking up random hotties is a ‘MUST’.

You can bet a million bucks that I went to the barbershop yesterday!I can guarantee that I won’t be seen wearing those jeans with the hole in the crotch around possible prospects LOL!!!Essentially,my pattern and routine were broken due to possible prospects.

So if you really wanna know if your GF/BF is cheating or looking to cheat:pay attention to their patterns and lifestyle changes.Subtle things as NOT wearing a shirt that they always wore,tidying their apartment outside of their usual allotted time could be red flags.

Men tend to NOT be readily able to pick up on these subtleties(coming from their girlfriends).However women can spot these changes and break in patterns like friggin’ witchdoctors.Women truly have an innate ability to see through the bullshit.That’s why it’s harder for a man to cheat and get away with it.In the same token,that’s why it’s easier for a girl to cheat and get away with it.Men naturally don’t pick up on patterns.That’s why it’s hard for us to gauge whether a girl likes us or not.While a girl can tell within a blink of an eye that that guy wants to ravishing her.

So guys,if y’all plan on being cheating dogs,remember to not break patterns and routines unless you have plausible reasons.’Cause if you do:she will know it.

The Only Time You Should Buy The Girl A Drink…

What’s up guys?

After writing two previous articles a while back on ‘drinks’[you can check it out here:How does she earn a drink from me],it’s only right to share some examples of the dos and don’ts on this matter.Plus it’s the holiday season and a lot of guys are usually drink-happy:willing to empty their wallets just for mediocre conversation.

This is my first- actual strategic post,or routines in other words.So I’m pretty psyched to offer some stuff that guys can actually apply at the clubs and bars.

Key Note:
# 1 rule in game:It’s not what you say:it’s how you say it.

With that in mind,routines,openers and lines,will NOT work if your vibe,tone & energy arent congruent.

So one can literally approach a girl at the bar and say,”I hate you sooooo much…”.And still manage to attract her and pique her interest if his tonality is alpha and he has a sly-cocky smile to accompany his words.

Alpha Routine

Ok,assuming I’d already approached and opened the girl,and we’ve been having a decent chat for the last 15 minutes,this is what I’d do if I were in a Santa Clause-type mood[pertaining to drinks]:

Me:”Lol,hey you’re such a friggin’ rockstar,I’m starting to think you’re too good to be true.But I can’t take a chic like you home to my parent though”

Girl:”What lol.Whats that supposed to mean?

Me:”Bla,bla,bla…Hey I’m thirsty as hell.I’m gonna get me a rum & coke.Since you’ve been such a Bad Girl,I’m gonna go against my rules and buy you a drink.What you want?

Note:At this point,a real Alpha and a confident/cool guy would take her by the hand,waist or shoulder and lead her to the bar.

For those who arent that confident and they lack the balls to pull it off:It’s ok to go alone to get the drinks.

Breaking it down:

Why are such moves and lines so critical in trying to seduce a girl?

As I said in my previous post:it subcommunicates to the girl that I’m:

*Dominant
*Alpha
*Have balls
*Challenging
*Cocky
*Funny
*Fun
*And most of all ‘Different’

Women are Super attracted to guys who display the above qualities.

Women are attracted to men who are challenging and ballsy[as we all know by now].

So when a guy goes up to a girl,and the first thing that comes out of his mouth is this,”What’s up girl?Ive been checking you out.You chilling?You want something to drink”?

He instantaneously kills all possibility of he being a challenge.

In other words,he turns off the girl,since she hadn’t done shit to deserve a drink.

Women want to know that they’ve earned and worked for your interest.

Another key point:

*telling the girl that ,”I’m going against my rules by buying a drink”.That says to the girl subconsciously,that she’s special.

She’s exceptional!

He doesn’t normally treat girls to anything.So for him to go against his rules for her:she must be deserving of it.

Now that’s how you compliment a girl!

You never want to compliment a girl verbally nor directly[unless you are a proponent of direct game].

Compliments should be indirect and under the radar.

Compliments should be vague and hard to read.

The more obvious you are when complimenting:the less the girl will appreciate it.

So guys,remember-be challenging,ballsy and different.Not boring as the last 10 guys who’ve approach her.

And the rule still stands:Do Not buy her a drink.But this is just an exception depending on how good the vibe goes.

And check out Why you shouldn’t be buying her drinks,which is part of my drink-series articles.

How I learned that being a ‘Nice Guy’ doesn’t get you anywhere in life nor with ‘women’.

Yep!I learned that being nice doesn’t pay:be it with women,your boss or relatives.

Growing up,and even into my adulthood,I was your stereotypical ‘Nice Guy’.I made hearts flutter from my genuine generosity and niceness.Did it get me far?Oh course not!And I was doing nice things in order to reap benefits like a shady character.Nah!I was genuinely nice.

I’m gonna share 2 personal stories about my trials with ‘NICENESS’.

1st.My grandma showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.

For the past 8 years,I’ve been around my grandma:keeping company,doing stuff around the house,chores,cleaning,etc.I live alone,but I stop by to help out damn near everyday.Cool!

However, 1 nagging theme has been playing out during those 8 years:no matter what I did(good),it didn’t prevent her wrath from coming my way.Everything wrong that occurred around the home,I was getting full blame.I was catching the verbal hell,nasty stares and BS arguments.Bear in mind-I didn’t friggin’ live there lmao!The house had 2 other able-bodied occupants who didn’t do shit!But they NEVER caught the wrath LMAO!!!They ate,slept,shitted,slobbed out,untidied,violated,disrespected….But they never got chastised.

So I took care of everything in the home:
*Dishes
*Cleaning
*Errands
*Company

But the moment a button goes missing:I was the only one catching the blame SMH.The genuine ‘Nice Guy’ getting screwed over while the not-so nice guys(who lived there)were NEVER blamed.

2nd.My boss showed me that being nice doesn’t pay.

A previous job I held years ago,I was employed for 6 years[prior to the global-economic recession which caused mass layoff].

Once again,I was the stalwart employee.Nice to the core,got along great with the boss.I did every chore possible although outside of my work description.I never handed the boss any shit about not doing something which was out of my jurisdiction.

How was the other employees?Rude,pricks,whiners,always late,snuck off the job,took more sick days than legally allowed lol,called in sick every week…Totally unreliable basically.I was the polar opposite.And I was being a good employee to gain praise nor raise.I was genuinely that nice of a dude.

Out of the 6 years there,I only got 1 pay raise.The boss totally went contrary to the labor laws of the land!My co-workers?They got raises lol.Some came after me and got raises!!WTF!!!Recession happened,guess whom was sent home first LOL?Yep-your boy Kenny.I was severed,and the scumbag employees who didn’t give a rat’s ass were kept!

Now,what does this have to do with picking up chics?Eveything.

The same reason my boss treated me like shit and I caught the wrath from my grandmother,is the same reason you should never play this Nice-Guy Shit with women.They won’t respect it!They won’t appreciate it!They won’t respond favorably to it!

*That is the #1 rule of the pick-up community:Nice guys finish last!

And the 2 examples I gave above only shows how this concept spills over into life in general:be it at your job,school,with relatives,etc.The nicer you are with people and women,the less they will appreciate it.Point this out to people and they won’t agree.But observe how they treat genuine nice people on a day to day basis,and you’d see that actions speak louder than words.

So are you saying not to be nice anymore?

What I am saying is:don’t believe for a minute that you’re doing yourself a favor by being stand-up and nice.9-10 times,it’d come back to bite your fucking ass off.So,be that nice guy at your own risk.I learned my lessons over the years that being an asshole gets you further in life in every area you can imagine.

Ever since I’d adopted the “don’t give a shit” persona years ago,my success with women skyrocketed!!!My lays went up by 80%!I had a pay raise early as fuck at another job I’d acquired.My grandma since loosen the proverbial nose from my neck where she now blames the real culprits for BS that happens in the home.

My new- fount badboy persona changed my whole life and how people treated me.

I wouldn’t bang her with a 10 ft.pole!!!

It made me cringe just to look at the above photo of that MILF from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills[I do watch it when I'm bored now and then lol].

As much as I’m now against banging fatties and girls who blatantly neglects to take care of themselves(physically)…On the opposite side of the coin,I even as REPULSED to banging Stick-Figured Chics[eew,nasty].

As I browse my memory bank,I don’t believe I ever banged a scrawny girl in my 29 years of physical existence.

Seems counter-intuitive since the pick-up community usually lauds and drools over soon-to-be-anarexic chics SMDH.

But if you’re 1 pound shy of seeming bulimic ,or towing the line of anorexia:I wouldn’t touch you with another dude’s dick.

It’s fucking repulsing and nasty!!!

The key to the girls I’m attracted to are the ones who strike a nice balance in physique.Not scrawny-not obese.

And any guy that’d bang an Anna[my term for anorexic chics.I'm gonna get it copywritten to MOFOS,so don't steal it!]],would be a sick puppy.Might as well bang a crack-head from down the bloc.

So when I’m at a party or function,I screen out the too skinny and too fat,then proceed to seduce the ones who strike a decent accord and balance.

Lesson of the day:”Emotions Are Contagious”.

Ok kiddies:what is today’s lesson?”Emotions are contagious”.That’s right!

*If you approach the girl feeling nervous as hell:she will get nervous.

*If you approach her in a bad mood:she will be in a bad mood.

*If you approach her drenched in seriousness:she will become serious.

*If you approach her in a good mood:humorous,playful and bright-that same emotional state will transfer.

Credits to Matador,the PUA/coach of Venusian Arts(Mystery’s right hand) who was the first guy I heard of stressing this crucial point.

Too many guys make that critical blunder of being too serious(no smiles,no animation)while chatting up the OYD(object of your desire).

Remember:”Emotions are Contagious”.

Class dismissed kiddies!Now go get social!